His first relationship / introversion
I'm 27 and currently live in Germany while he's 31 and lives in the UK.
We met each other during my regularly holidays at my nans place who lives in Sussex.
That's been last december and since then we chat via Skype each day after work and do video chats every sunday.
He's a bit of an introvert but after a few months we found a way to speak with each other without giving especially him a hard time and also we share lots of interests together.
I already fell in love with him and we're going to see each other next month again properly for the first time and a couple of days since I'll be in Wales for a 7 days holiday.
He's pretty intelligent, likes to read, studied biology, the way he sees things and thinks about them is impressive to me and I'll never get tired hearing about his new ideas. He said he thinks what we're doing now is sort of a prelude into a relationship but he doesn't like to do accommodations but at the same time he said he's very grateful that he met me because he feels less lonely now and I am one of the good things in his life. Also he never talked that much to another person which is what worries me as well.
He never was in a relationship before and I'm not sure if he ever even had sex before. He said he likes intelligence and beauty on women but when I asked him out. Also he described a curvy but fit muscle toned body as the most perfect one. I'm a size 12 and rather curvy than fit. Also I have some stretch marks and a bit of cellulite on my bum and thighs. I think since he never interacted with girls, he might be scared away when he'll see me and notices that not all women are perfect, especially since I might be his first experience.
That makes me so insecure which is bringing me down sometimes. We already discussed about the long distance issue as well, if we get on we'll just visit each other during holidays and see how it goes. I'm an orthodontic and could imagine to live and work over in the UK someday, since my parents are british and I'm used to pendeling, I wouldn't mind.
Sorry for the long text, at the moment I just don't know what to do and what to expect.
Do you think we could have a future?
I think this relationship could really work out well for the both of you, the distance doesn't seem to be a problem for you which shows that you both have good commitment, the fact that he has never had a girlfriend and maybe never even experienced sex could probably be a good thing for you, although he says he likes a curved muscular woman he will come to realise that's not the way it goes, if youse get on well he will love you for you and it won't matter what you look like, although a size 12 is really quite skinny for a woman of your age I hope this helps
Yes of course!