1 week ; 1 choice ; life changing - help !

Posted by
GENT01
on Apr 18 2016 at 23:46
Member since: 18 April 2016
Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I am 23, still at uni and currently considering if I should propose to my Girlfriend ( she is 27). Should I pursue her / propose ?

I am normally very logical. But after just 4 months with her I have fallen deeply in love. We have shared allot together.

So what's the problem ?

- I have only known her for 4 months

- she is Muslim and I am Christian. (so we clash on several issues)

- Our families would both hate it.

- My career chances might be affected (positively or negatively) by being with her.

- I kind of messed things up. So to win her heart back i will need to go out of my way. ( But I know she still loves me)

Despite all of that , I still want a future with her so much. We are definitely not perfect for each other. But the connection feels so real. (Or maybe I am just a naive young romantic).

(by the way this is my first real serious relationship)

So should I pursue her / propose ?

Thanks

Reply from
K-ARCH
on Apr 19 2016 at 15:46
Member since: 19 April 2016
If you messed things up a bit - maybe start fixing that first? If you both agree that you both want to share your lives together; the rest will follow and you can plan it all together.

Discussion closed - why not create your own thread?