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Long Distance Relationship advice 4 years ago I met this guy, we'll just call him Tom. He was 27 at the time and clearly not wanting to settle down. We would hang out from time to time, go to dinner, etc. He has always been a man of very few words. He works a lot and when hes not working he is usually outdoors hunting/fishing. We have always somehow made our way back to each other whether that just be talking or seeing each other. He moved a few hours away 2 years ago. I was in, what ended up being, an awful relationship with someone else. That relationship ended over 6 months ago. Tom and I started talking to each other a few months ago through texts and phone calls. We talk almost everyday. We've been trying to see each other and it finally happened this weekend. At first he invited me to meet him at his parents (which is a half way mark between us and is something he would have never done before)but then we decided i would just go down to his place and we would go offshore fishing (which is also something he would never ask). I took a friend and he had one with him as well. His friend kept making comments about me being Tom's gf and even said he doesn't just bring anyone fishing. Throughout the time that we have been talking he has been making subtle remarks about being ready to settle down, being married with kids. Even has mentioned me moving down there. We had the best time this weekend too. We've have exchanged a few texts but other than that we haven't talked much (and i know its only been 2 days). We did not sleep together. He did kiss me a few times on the fourhead but other than that nothing happened. My question i guess would be what is he thinking? and What should I do at this time? I have always had feelings for him.. and i feel like he must have feelings for me too if we keep coming back to each other. I would hate for us to lose touch again.

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ALSO let me add.. he does not just date anyone. As long as i've known him he's only had 1 girlfriend which lasted for a very short amount of time.

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