I think i'm falling for another girl
I have been dating one girl (lets call her girl A) for few years now. Recently, I transferred to the United Kingdom because of my work, due to the 7hour time difference with my country of origin, my time to chat with girl A via facebook seems to get shorter and shorter. Usually by the one of us has the time to get online, the other would usually be asleep already. Knowing girl A, she gets easily annoyed and would start blaming me for "not spending enough time" despite knowing our schedules plus the time difference, which has been really testing my patience for a long time now. Now here come girl B, i met her a few months before since we had the same agency that processed our papers. And here in the UK we live in the same area, and most of the time our schedules are roughly the same so there were a lot of times that we would go together to process some papers since we dont know the area that well. As i start to get to know her more, i realized that both of us have a lot of things in common and our way of thinking seems to be more in sync than Girl A. And due to our schedule, we also found out the we apend more time eating and going out more often together since people we know here live roughly in same areas as well. Plus sine we are both in the same time zone, communicating with her seems much more easier. Both A and B have most of what i like in a girl. I cant officially say that im falling for girl B but some part of me felt that way.
Not necessarily asking for advice, just wanted to know what other people might think. Whether this is just a form of infatuation, or subconciously substituting one thing for another, etc. big big thanks.
If you truly love girl A, no matter how far you are to each other you will always find a way. No body is perfect, sometimes that happen. You develop a new feeling to someone that you spend more time. It can be infatuation or real love. Maybe she's the one, maybe she is not. Girl A on the other hand, she probably just want to spend time with you. Because of the long distance communication, we have to sacrifice. LDR works if we truly love each other, sacrifice, patience. And above all Trust. Don't do something you will regret at the end. You are the only person who can answer your question. What do u feel for girl A and girl B? Relationship is not like a hot food, when you get burn you spit it out. There is always a trial. And you have to overcomes trial. Our creature never ever give us a trial if we can't overcome/handle it. Are you for sure in your heart love girl B than girl A? Because liking someone is different from loving someone. Hope I help a bit. Have a great weekends
Sometimes the heart gets really lonely when one is far away from their loved ones..u v to carefully wheigh ur options carefully without being rash or too judge mental.remember that not everyone is perfect and it take two imperfect people to come together.it really saddens my heart to see that. Two people who h invested so much in each other suddenly drift apart because of distance..do u really love girl A or is girl B just a passing phase of a libidic outbreak...plz discuss ur feelings with girl A ND knw where she stands and carefully watch girl B bcuz trust me it might all be an act and u will find urself in a big mess when u find out dat perfect girl B has been giving u false pretenses...i wish u d best of luck
To dhes87 and sarahbbj1. Thanks for the insight. I was thinking i probably should spend more time and not make any rash decisions. Anyway thanks again