Confused and mad, so lost
was with this guy , we planned everything together even planned to have a baby together. I already have two of my own. I told him we even about having a kid u have to promise when start to get tough u won't run. he said he wouldn't. then all of a sudden he went off the deep end. because of his mental disorder he was put in the hospital for a week. the whole week he was in there somehow his mom got to doctors convincing I abuse as a result if he was come back I could lose my kids. I lost my job cause he would watch the kids while I went to work. I was trying to help him get his dream job putting my dreams aside. I was getting of cheating over the crazy things, a hole in a sock, coffee filters by the crockpot and others things. I never cheated on him all I did was stick by his side through everything. but somehow I was to blame for the break up. now I have no job, about to lose the house we moved in together to and possibly be homeless. he said he wants to work it out I don't if I can trust him.
Ummm he ended up in a mental hospital? I am glad he is getting help that he needs, whether for depression or whatever it is. Your description of the situation is a little confusing. Did your break up cause him to go to the mental hospital?
If you will lose your kids if he comes back, don't risk it. Besides that it does not sound like he is capable and of sound mind to be caring for your children. Please put them first. If you are a single mom there are a lot of options available for child care that won't cost you much through a lot of programs. Go to your local d.h.s. Or social services and let them know your situation. My friend was able to get a lot of child care cost covered while she waited tables and went to school. They might even be able to provide you with temporary housing. Get on finding a job immediately! Even if you have to take your kids with you to drop off applications. Do you have any family that could watch the kids? Another option is getting work at a day care and bringing your kids with you.
Please however do not bring a mentally unstable person back around your children. Let him get the help he needs. Again your explanation of the situation was confusing to me, but please if you would lose your kids if you took him back? How is it even a hard decision ?