I am a lady who just broke up with the guy who I really loved
we dated for a year we had our up and downs in a relationship because I felt he is not acting like a man towards the challenges we face with,everytime we have problems we both decide to end things because of pride.Most difficult thing about him is not knowing when to say sorry,instead he will shift a blame on me.This relationship has left me empty and speechless because in a relationship we suppose to meet each other half way but he did not shhow any of that....Now am struggling to heal and move onbecause am hurting that the are people who are self centred ,who only think of themselve been struggling to sleep for the past two months now.Please help
"This relationship has left me empty and speechless" "he shifts the blame to me" "he is not acting like a man"
So - you should be RELIEVED that this kind of person is out of your life, right? Instead, you grieve and can't sleep.
A year is not much time, but time enough to see these faults!! Thank goodness you saw him for what he really is!
Can you think of why you miss all this?
What is it that holds him to you?
What are you doing to move on? (dating others? new friends, hobby or new make-over?)
You have to WANT to get over this.
*You fell in for a guy who you learned was a selfish person who rather than own his crap had no problem blaming you. He chose his ego over you.
Not sure how old you are or how much dating you've done-But yes there are many people just like him.
I agree with SUSIEDQQ you have to want to move on. Selfish people will never love you more than they love themselves..I doubt it if he's loosing sleep..You've grieve enough.
I am 28 years old...and thats true part of me is happy..I do not know why am soo concern that he does not even feel bad of what he is doing....But thank you guys soo much
You want him to feel the pain/disappointment you feel, selfish people don't think they are in the wrong "it's always you not him" There is a person out there that will love you the way you deserve to love...
Get UP Get back to "doing you"