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Hi, I have had a crush on this guy sinsce OCtober 2015. We don't really know each other or talk to each other... He star working on the same floor as me and from the beginning it felt like he was interested but later his team (and him) moved to another floor. I wanted to talk to him but was too shy so I never did it and he dind't do it either. Around a month and ago or more I sent him a frend request whihc he never accepted but 3 weeks ago I was coming out of the ladies and I saw him and out of the blue he said hello to me for the first time; 3 or 4 days later he accepted my friend request! The following day I decided to say hello but he read the message and never replied so a week later I message him again asking if he was going to answer my messages or ignore them. He apoligise and said he had been busy and asked if I was the girl from such company and floor and I replied yes. I then asked if he was actually interested in having a conversation and he said-sure, let's grab some lunch and I told me to let me know when he was availabble.It has been a week now and he hans't said anything. Do you think he is into me? I just want to know so if he's not I'm going to delete him from my facebook and forget about him, I've had a crush for too long for him and I don't want to be the one always showing interest. The quicker I know if he is or not the quicker I can move on.

Is he interested?

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Well it's nice to cyberly meet you so to speak,sorry that's my attempt of ice breaking humour. But on a serious note from what you explained in your post I thought to myself maybe he 1.Was really bizzy or 2.was in another relationship and didn't think it deemed appropriate to talk to you in that way cause he may have felt your interest. But as you explained more and you told of a possible meeting of the two of you over lunch and he has yet to respond it seems if he truly wanted to meet the real you and appreciate the effort thus far you have made on trying to get to know him he then would make an equal effort to try to do the same for you. I do not kno this man and you are trying to get to kno him but I feel from what you posted he knows clearly you want to get to kno him better and in my personal opinion there are plenty of fish in the sea and if he don't have the common decency to tell you he is in a relationship or hidden from his social media account or wtv,or have the nerve to tell you he's no interested in you,then I'd look for a companion who values your stright forwardness it takes a lot of guts to tell someone in any shape of form you have feelings for them,I'd move on that's just my opinion you seem like a strong person you deserve honesty and or courtesy enough to be told the truth to not be misled,people like that you'll always be proving urself to and they might not do the same for you..hope this helps,look at the bright side it's nice outside smile :) grab ur pole..go fishing hope this helps..Bob..

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Hi Bob920, Thank you for your reply and for the nice words, thanks for sharing your opinion. I think the best I can di is move on. You are right, if he was interested (even if he was busy) I think he would reach out, even if it had to be my message. I don't think even a shy person would act like that. Not ready to fish but I will definitely enjoy life :)

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