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Relationship advice My best friends always hang out without me and I care about them so much that I don't want to lose them so I don't want to get mad at them or get In a fight or say anything because me favorite one (let's call her Laynie) will probably hate me for ever if I'm mean to her. At least twice a week they hang out without me even if I ask them if they want to go do a certain thing with me they will do it with each other instead. They are all super nice people who obviously don't want to cause any harm, but they are

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Hi there, I'm sorry but I don't think they are "super nice people" if they are deliberately leaving a friend out. If I was in your shoes, I would talk to one of them (perhaps the one you refer to as Laynie). Tell her how you feel and find out if there is a reason why they are behaving this way. You don't have to be "mad" at them, just be civil.

It may be a misunderstanding, or it may be a case of them just being plain mean. As a very insecure person myself, I know how hard these situations can be, especially when you care so much about people even when they mistreat you. But as you grow up, you need to learn to stand your ground a bit or else these people will try to walk all over you.

Try talking and see where it gets you - communication is the best way. If they continue with this petty behaviour then you have to hold your head up high and accept that you are better off without them, and they are not worthy of your time and friendship. If you feel like you are all alone without them, try join some classes, take up a new hobby and get involved wherever you can to try and make some new friends who you actually deserve.

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i agree with MOONMIN2016. They simply dont deserve your friendship.. If i were you, I will distance myself from them.. oneday they 'll realize they had lost a good friend in you.. Move on with yourself,.. join some healthy activities, in the process you will meet new REAL friends.. Feel good.. Do good.. and you will be happy. .

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