Abortion !!! Please help
Hi Friends, I have a GF, and before some time we did protected intercourse, but I don't know she got pregnant... Now we want to terminate that pregnancy. Is there any way to for it... We are avoiding surgery..
Are you two underage?
First of all, there is no shame in the fact that she got pregnant or the fact that she wants an abortion. If you two are very young you are definitely making a good descion. Do not let old fashioned superstitious minds keep you out of the enlightened age we live in. That being said, if you're in the US there's a good chance that there is a planned parenthood in your town. This is where you need to go, they will be able to help you.
It is true that there is no shame for her pregnancy. But still if you want to dis-continue her pregnancy then she can take MTP Kit. I was 6 weeks pregnant, but due to some reasons I need to terminate it on urgent basis. then my friend recommend me for MTP Kit to abort it. I took it from mypillshop at very reasonable price with fastest shipping. I got it same day. I took it as per description and got 100% successfull results. You can go for the same...
I think that children are a blessing.... so be blessed.
I think that you are caught up in the confusion that came with the surprise.
FOCUS fights FEAR.
Get organized... start planning.... and be SO prepared by having your life in order...
That your work is out of the way.... And you can concentrate on this being a blessing.
You probably have not been able to think about the blessing.. caught up in fear, questions, the HOW's.
You think that you wont be able to do all of these things... but.. that is only if you are not organized and focused.
You can have it ALL. An awesome life of your own. A child. A future.
You don't have to be married. If your not... it will allow you both to have part time school and work while the other takes care of the child.
I would live in the same apartment with 3 bedrooms for a few years at least. Be room mates... a team... that works together.
If you want more thoughts... let me know. You can do this. You will be so happy you did. This is your baby. Your family .. .that will grow up to take care of you... if you have taken care of it. Love YOU ... as you love it.
I would definatly have blood tests done when the baby is born to make sure the child is yours.
Having spent so much time prior to that result.. .imagining life with a baby... you will understand some of the pressures she is under. It is a lot to manage. Its manageable. But moreso with good people in your life.
I would offer my support to her anyway. As a friend only, not in a relationship. And be a good person in her life.
You will both grow.