I have a girlfriend i love from child hood and thank God we are
now in a relationship getting to four months now but she received a
prophecy from her pastor/prophet earlier in our relationship that someone
from outside the country will marry her. Few days ago she received
another prophecy that she will marry a pastor and that she is in
a current relationship with a guy(me) who have promised to marry her
but i am not the man for her and that she will cry and be sad if we get married.
Please help me because i love her so much and don't want to loose her.
No one can really know the future, other than obvious things. If she marries someone else, it will be her choice, don't ever be manipulated into making life-altering decisions such as this without having all the facts. Does she love this person? Isn't she happy with you? Is she cheating on you? Does she want to cheat on you? Why would she ever leave you? Ask her such things. Make her see this is pointless. If she will later meet someone that she can't give up, even if she is happy with you, this is life. It's normal. But right now, this is bogus. Tell her, you will never leave her even if she wants to leave you, you hope that this relationship is everything she needs for herself.
Her pastor could be in love with her??? That must be why he is derailing your relationship. Can a pastor marry someone?? This is weird.
Think what your life will be with her if she relies on prophecy readings to guide her actions. Your life will be run by other people!
I agree that the pastor is acting inappropriate.
Insist that she stop these "readings" and deal with you face to face, day to day in REAL life.
FEAR is confusion
and it weakens us
As a man, focus is particularly important. Its what a woman is attracted to.
If you have been together for 4 months, she might love you.
Watch the movie HITCH. With Will Smith.
You might relate the character that wants to win the heart of a beautiful executive.
Hitch, the man that teaches men how to date women focuses on the fact that we have to build an accurate representation of our IDENTITY.
Who we are.
You have to know who you are, and have strong vision in life to be strong.
Vision is knowing what is life, what is my purpose, what is love, what do i neeed ... etc.
If you spend your time focused on these two things, IDENTITY and VISION, you will be happy. With or without her.