Ooops... poor advice
Offering reflections is like offering a reflection in a pond for someone to see themselves in.
A few ripples in the water can often be what helps the person see more clearly.
By having to decide what ISN'T and redefine what IS.
Emotional situations effect people in ways where they say things they don't mean. So redefining ones true view of the people they are in conflict with is very helpful, and positive outlooks open the mind to solutions as opposed to being caught up in the confusion and frustration or the details of the situation.
A platform like this makes it easier to sort things out, as opposed to managing the reflections offered by those in our life's.
It is entirely less personal.
It is here and it wont be reminded of next time you are seen because you wont be.
There is a lot of room for.... 'they dont know me, or understand my situation' Well of course we don't... we are all going off of a few paragraphs of thought!!
Props to Peoples Problems and its supporters.
I started this thread because I called someone out on being rude.. making inappropriate comments in someone else's thread.
I didn't want them to feel bad... in case their intentions were good. Who knows.
I can only hope that people find things that work for them.
We have to open our minds to find what works for us.
We are in troubles because we are caught in a reality...and we have to step out of that reality to see ourselves, to see opportunities, to see truth... better.