Making the decision is the hard part. I agonized for 5 months. Had been married 24 years, more years of my life with him than without. Two wonderful kids that are doing very well out on their own. He's a good man, a wonderful father, and a decent friend. But, that's not enough to make a marriage really work. Love isn't enough either. You have to have common interests, needs, and wants. You have to be best friends, and WANT to spend your time together. If that's not the case, then why stay?
Resentment kills everything it touches. So if it's already building, it's time to have that talk, and decide what's best for both of you, and the baby. Finances and other situations will get worked out. So don't stay because of anything like that. Figure out what you want. Today, tomorrow, and in the next years of your life. He needs to do the same. If those things don't align, it's best to let each other go. No need to make it nasty. Just let each other go and move on. Or, commit to making it work. Both parties have to really commit though, and because they want to. Hope this helps.
Can you give specific examples?
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