I just married my elementary school sweetheart without breaking up with my girlfriend
WEBMAN - Aug 30 2016 at 20:18
I have dated my girlfriend for four years. She is very good to me. About a year ago i met my elementary school sweetheart when I went on a vacation. Her and I rekindled and started a long distance relationship. I went back to where she lives and got married to her last week. I don't know what to tell my girlfriend. I expect my new bride to come and join me for us to live as married couple. Need advice. I know it will surely come up one of these days.
You shouldn't have stayed with your girlfriend this entire time, then. It's been a year. You were in a long-distance relationship with Ms. Elementary this whole time and not just keeping in touch? Yeah, that is kind of cheating, sorry to break it to you.
Does your childhood sweetheart even realize you already have a girlfriend? I would hope so! Otherwise, you are playing two girls. And that probably won't end too well.
Your girlfriend is good to you, and has been for four years. Surely you don't expect to keep your girlfriend in addition to your new wife?
Stop wasting your girlfriend's time and break up with her, and tell her how you have been talking to someone else and have now married them. But try not to play the victim too much if she becomes emotional, throws stuff at you, and feels hurt and betrayed. Because she has been.