Is it good to marry someone whom I don't find attractive?
I met a man introduced by my family who is apparently a good guy and is financially strong. My parents like him very much. But I don't like him because I don't find him attractive. But I also could not find anyone whom I can marry . Is it good to marry him even if I don't like him. ?
But wait. What do you mean exactly, attractive?
A kind person is attractive. So is a well mannered, even tempered, reasonable person.
One with good sense of humor is attractive. Devotion is attractive....
You mean he is not good looking?
We will all grow old one day. It's only with grace we stay attractive when we have wrinkled skin and white hair.
We have no guarantee that we will stay "attractive" in the next hour, next day, next week or next month/year.
What if we get a certain disease or a nasty accident, and we get rejected because we're not "attractive "?
Look at his character.
Blessings of wisdom <3
If you're not into this guy then don't marry him.
In fact, don't get married at all! Why do you need to be married?
You should be happy on your own. And if you meet a guy and really click with him? Then you can get married. If you really want to...
I don't think so. I think you ought to be into the person you want to marry. You most likely will be miserable in a marriage.
Your parents mean well. They really do, but they do not know your feelings. You have a right to say how you feel about the person. Express to them your feelings. They may tell you their opinion, but if you do not agree with them, then that is okay because you know deep inside how you feel.
It takes a while to find the right person. Tell your parents that you know they mean well and you also want to find someone to marry, but that it isn't fair for you or for him to be in a loveless and unattractive relationship. Tell them to be nice to him and let him go. It's good for him to move on and for you too.