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A guy from my class seems to like me - and I am not into that

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First of all, do not get me wrong. I am a supporter of homo sexual relationships.. As long as it doesn't include me. I've had some episodes which have rendered me somewhat of a homophobe when it comes to guys being interested in me. Some background story could be in order. I'm 18 and attend to something called a gymnasium in my country (3 years prior to university), which is a science and technology-oriented line of study, and therefore it has a lot of guys in it. Now I decided to go to the nerdiest of all of the different subjects you can have, and this specific class apparently often has a lot of homosexuals. I have no problem with that, as mentioned earlier, except that I am thin and good looking, and in a way a very small part of feminine looking. This has been a problem with my look on more occasions, but this time it's worse. I'm good at reading people's body language and emotions, so I can naturally and unfortunately very easily see when a person is interested in me. This guy from my class, who I only recently noticed kept sitting besides me and leaving at the exact same time as me. It makes me feel extremely uncomfortable, and I have a very strong tendency which have followed me throughout my entire life, which is to blush when I feel either uncomfortable or begin to be self conscious, which can even lead to random blushing with no real trigger. I don't know how to deal with this guy, and he's seriously just making my days very hard, which he of course doesn't intend to, so I have no real hate, but only the very uncomfortable feeling. Help on how to tackle this preferably without anything awkward would be much appreciated!

A guy from my class seems to like me - and I am not into that

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If he should tell you "I like you." You can then tell him "you are straight". But life is not a straight line :-) Things are not always straight-forward. Have the two of you started any conversation yet? If yes, indicate "you are straight" as and when the opportunity arises. If you have a girl friend, use her photo as your bookmark. When you have a chance, like if you see him glancing/looking at the photo, smile and tell him "She's my girlfriend." :-)

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