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Keep thinking about the same girl

Posted by
LMG4791
on Oct 10 2016 at 22:50
Member since: 18 December 2014
Relationship advice So here's my issue, last year i went out for a few drinks with one of my friends best friends. I didn't get a second date either. And since i've barely thought about her. Whilst traveling i met loads of other girls, but since i've been home i keep thinking about his same girl. Told my friend i still kinda like her and she said she
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Reply from
LENEN
on Oct 11 2016 at 07:24
Member since: 01 October 2016
when you are at the right age and you said you keep thinking about this girls, obviously you have a crush on her.

if you are both single and at the right age, maybe you better try your luck. Go on and get to know her.

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Reply from
LMG4791
on Oct 11 2016 at 08:51
Member since: 18 December 2014
We're both the same age, 25. I want to get to know her, but i dont think she feels the same about me ha given that i never got a second date way back when.
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Reply from
LENEN
on Oct 11 2016 at 09:00
Member since: 01 October 2016
Philippians 4:6-7

do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

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Reply from
LMG4791
on Oct 11 2016 at 10:03
Member since: 18 December 2014
I'm an atheist ha, i wanna go for it again but i dont think it'll go well from what my friends response have been when i've asked about her
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Reply from
LENEN
on Oct 11 2016 at 10:11
Member since: 01 October 2016
trust yourself. you know more than you think you do..benjamin spock.

besides if you will not make the first move, then who will?

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Reply from
LMG4791
on Oct 11 2016 at 12:55
Member since: 18 December 2014
I know ha i've just never gone after a girl that's turned me down before, specially as she's my friends best friend.
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Reply from
LENEN
on Oct 11 2016 at 13:50
Member since: 01 October 2016
if your intentions for her is good then ask her again

i know you dont want to be turned down once more but its ok

its like business you know, you will not succeed unless you venture again despite first lost

well, its really up to you

hope you could decide before she becomes somebody else's gf

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Reply from
LMG4791
on Oct 11 2016 at 15:58
Member since: 18 December 2014
I went out with her in January and she is still single, but it's only a matter of time I suppose, I don't know how to go about it as I barely know her but I'll try and figure it out ha.
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Reply from
ALTREAL
on Oct 12 2016 at 08:04
Member since: 20 August 2015
What bothers me a little here is that you seem conflicted about how much you care for this girl.

You say you hadn't thought about her in a while. You say you KINDA still like her. At the same time you say now you can't stop thinking about her.

Honestly, it doesn't sound like things are in your favor. She doesn't sound interested in you, your friend doesn't seem to think she is interested in you, you didn't get a second date, and you barely know her.

What is it that you like about her, if you don't mind my asking?

Admittedly, I was in a similar situation for a while, I liked this girl who was friends with my male friend. I consistently made an effort to show my interest and to ask her to do stuff. We went out once, not on a date but as friends. I felt like there was something there, but she never reciprocated any of those feelings.

If you think this girl is really worth it, then okay, pursue her. Try and get to know her and try to make plans with her. But she might just not be interested in you in that way - no matter how much you feel something for her.

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Reply from
LMG4791
on Oct 12 2016 at 13:38
Member since: 18 December 2014
Thing was I was pretty down about it when she didn't want to go out again, given that my friend had previously told me that she thought I was hot and the conversation had been pretty fun, she also invited me to run a tough madder thing with her, so the rejection was a pretty tough pill to swallow. So now that I've started liking her again I'm reminded of the rejection.

I went traveling pretty much all summer so I had other things to think about and take my mind off it. But now I'm back I want to give it another go.

I like pretty much everything about her, she's hot but she makes me laugh, haven't chatted for a while but like Facebook posts and stuff pop up.

I wanna get to know her properly definitely, and I wanna ask my friend if I should go for it again, but I don't wanna put her in the middle of it if the feelings aren't reciprocated, she seems a lot closer to her then she is with me. Apparently she doesn't like "nice guys" not sure what that really means, and I never knew I was one ha

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Reply from
LENEN
on Oct 12 2016 at 13:51
Member since: 01 October 2016
so, that's it! she made you puzzled and there you are, left more interested to her.

i forgot there are some other ways to being close to her, like, yes, facebook...

i guess you and her are friends on it. try liking her posts most often, or giving nice comments, or even sending her pm eventually (you can use other strategies as well, (don't ask her out in here...)

after you get her attention, try to disappear a little while (and makes you mysterious)

then, come back...and you get her attention this time!

then, ask her out.

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Reply from
LMG4791
on Oct 12 2016 at 19:40
Member since: 18 December 2014
Yeah we are friends facebook, she started following me on instagram the other week, which threw me a little. I already like a lot of her posts or pictures, she doesn't post much though ha.

I did ring her at silly o'clock in the morning when i was traveling over summer, which she did back when she went drinking with my friend.

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Reply from
LENEN
on Oct 12 2016 at 22:29
Member since: 01 October 2016
so, thats it! and you made your moves!

goodluck! you will be needing a lot of patience now in coping with a relationship. well, there is no perfect one since humans are not perfect. may she be the woman of honor, dignity and fear of God you are looking for

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Reply from
LMG4791
on Oct 13 2016 at 13:56
Member since: 18 December 2014
I'm not sure about the god fearing bit, but thank you. I'm gunna chat to my friend properly about it and see what she thinks, but regardless of what she says i might just go for it anyway ha
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Reply from
LENEN
on Oct 14 2016 at 02:05
Member since: 01 October 2016
good for you...

good luck and God bless!

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