if you are both single and at the right age, maybe you better try your luck. Go on and get to know her.
do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
besides if you will not make the first move, then who will?
i know you dont want to be turned down once more but its ok
its like business you know, you will not succeed unless you venture again despite first lost
well, its really up to you
hope you could decide before she becomes somebody else's gf
You say you hadn't thought about her in a while. You say you KINDA still like her. At the same time you say now you can't stop thinking about her.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like things are in your favor. She doesn't sound interested in you, your friend doesn't seem to think she is interested in you, you didn't get a second date, and you barely know her.
What is it that you like about her, if you don't mind my asking?
Admittedly, I was in a similar situation for a while, I liked this girl who was friends with my male friend. I consistently made an effort to show my interest and to ask her to do stuff. We went out once, not on a date but as friends. I felt like there was something there, but she never reciprocated any of those feelings.
If you think this girl is really worth it, then okay, pursue her. Try and get to know her and try to make plans with her. But she might just not be interested in you in that way - no matter how much you feel something for her.
I went traveling pretty much all summer so I had other things to think about and take my mind off it. But now I'm back I want to give it another go.
I like pretty much everything about her, she's hot but she makes me laugh, haven't chatted for a while but like Facebook posts and stuff pop up.
I wanna get to know her properly definitely, and I wanna ask my friend if I should go for it again, but I don't wanna put her in the middle of it if the feelings aren't reciprocated, she seems a lot closer to her then she is with me. Apparently she doesn't like "nice guys" not sure what that really means, and I never knew I was one ha
i forgot there are some other ways to being close to her, like, yes, facebook...
i guess you and her are friends on it. try liking her posts most often, or giving nice comments, or even sending her pm eventually (you can use other strategies as well, (don't ask her out in here...)
after you get her attention, try to disappear a little while (and makes you mysterious)
then, come back...and you get her attention this time!
then, ask her out.
I did ring her at silly o'clock in the morning when i was traveling over summer, which she did back when she went drinking with my friend.
goodluck! you will be needing a lot of patience now in coping with a relationship. well, there is no perfect one since humans are not perfect. may she be the woman of honor, dignity and fear of God you are looking for
good luck and God bless!
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