Does he truly love me for me
I turned in a little early one evening after work. I have been wanting to get some quality time with my boyfriend...I told him I was going to lay down and relax in bed. I was hoping he would come too as I always go in and lay beside him when he relaxes or turns in early because I love spending some time with him. We work at the same place and are together most of the time but there is always interrupting...etc as can be expected. So I make every effort to do and please him every day. I love him. Everything has been pretty good...except I'm getting tired of him not doing the same. He's Always got his head stuck in his phone. This particular night...I waited about an hour or more...he didn't come to bed. I know he was watching YouTube videos pertaining to work or a hobby. So I tested him...and asked if he would come hold me?.. Well first, I sent him a text telling him I love him and called him by nic name that's special to us... He said he loved me too with a smiley. But I never got a text back right away when I asked him to come hold me...something I don't often ask. But I felt I needed him to and we needed to talk about some things. Like spending quality time just two of us not talking about work or making money...us. I recede him back after several minutes and told him it's ok...and good night =( He then tested back and said he would be there in a bit he was researching something for work. I truly needed him. I've always been open and there for him anytime anyway when needed. It hurt. When he came to bed it was clear he wasn't paying much attention. So I told him...I just needed you to hold me and I wanted time with you. He hugged me for second and rolled over and looked at his phone more. I repeated it. He reached over and patted my arm while looking at his phone. I got upset and told him that's the problem...his phone is always in his face and hard to talk to him...it's hard for me anyways...real hard. Should I be mad? It was late...
Rather than text your man, you need to sit him down and explain to him what you need. His phone, in this case, is taking him away from you and you need to tell him that, rather than use your phone! If you both work together, then your downtime together will be more precious but everyone needs their own space as well. Rather than get mad, which solves nothing, you need to use face to face communication to tell him direct why you feel the way you do.
first of all try to know why taking interest in phone rather u enjoy