Don't know where to begin
LOLLYPOPPY - Nov 16 2016 at 17:14
It all started last August 2015 when I was on holiday, at the time I was married but since then we have depressed but still live in the same house. Whilst I was on holiday I met someone who I have fallen in love with and the feeling is mutual. We want to be together but there are problems because he lives overseas and I live in the uk. I have two children 18 and 13 who I would never abandon, my partner would come and live here but that has is complications at the moment as well. I have seen a solicitor who has advised me not to move out of our home, my husband has also I've the gears got me into debt that I wasn't aware of. I want to be with my new partner whether it's here or overseas but do t really know which way to turn, any advice would be greatly received. Thanks
I'd say that if your husband and you have grown apart and theres no hope for your marriage the first thing to do is divorce
For the debt side of it there are lots of places or organisations you can go to for free advice (CAB, Stepchange Debt Charity, Money Advice Service, Christians Against Poverty etc).
If you get that side of it sorted it can lift a weight off your shoulders, and then hopefully everything else will fall into place. Good luck!
Ummmmmm.... maybe I misunderstood something here.
At the time I was married but since then we have depressed.
I'm guessing that was supposed to be divorced in which case "ahem' disregard what I said above.