He called me characterless
My bf was angry with me .We got along well after i sent him a birthday text. He called me late night and said loving things that he couldnt live without me he is crazy for me etc ... he loved my cake nd flowers and for a week we went well ....
But then ,again
When he came to meet me from other town he came and tried to take me to out of city without my consent he didn't listen to me at all , i got angry and didnt talk to him for a while i said that my parents will not allow me , he said if u r so much worried about ur parents dignity then u shouldn't have come! I got so hurt and i asked for an apology he instead didnt give apology but became rude i abused him he abused me back then he forcibly try to kiss me i slapped him he hit me back i got so hurt that how can he hit , later he called me characterless again and again to hurt me, my heart filled with sadness that my all loyality towards him is wasted, actually once many months ago he read my one text to a psychologist in which i was saying that i was feeling attracted towards my bfs best friend i m so confused whT should i do? Afterwards i apologized fo him many times that there is nothing like that it was just a crush but he has deeply hurt me again and again over this and now he said me characterless ... my heart broke , cant he forget my one mistake , nobody ever touched me except him .. but is hurting me again and again... i texted him later on that i was crying and if he is his dads son then he is not going to come in my life again u hurt me a lot how can u do this etc... i dint say from my heart that dont contact me but just becoz i was hurt....
Do u think he ll contact me again? Will he ever improve himself? Is he good for me? We both love each other a lot but after this i am in shock
You both seem to be young and when your young you obviously don't have expertise on how to handle a relationship, both of you.
But try to put yourself in his position he came from other town just to see you and all that afterwards.. Do you think that it will be good for both of you if you continued that relationship?~
Because what I think is every time something happens again you both will remember all this things that happened before.
Besides its ok to feel attracted to other persons, it will happen a lot during your life, its what you do with it or not that will matter. Your are a human being there are certain things you can't control.
If he doesn't contact you, you have to be strong.. he seems to me he is your first boyfriend. If he does contact you, you need to be calm when you are expressing yourself in a way that doesn't hurt him.
I also texted him that he made me weep..:
My that msg that "if u r ur dads son u wont come in my life again"...
will it affect him negatively. ? And he wont contact me ever?
No he is not my fst bf but surely he is the one who has done most for me, but i have felt he doesnt respect me enough.
My age is 24 he is 27
I’m sorry about your situation. From what you’ve shared, I feel that it’ll be good for both of you to take some time off and really consider if you truly want to be in each other’s lives. Love and respect is key for any relationship to thrive, and I believe this to be true especially in dating and marriage relationships. Take care!
Who has to contact first