SUNSHINESKYFALL - Dec 28 2016 at 14:09
Hi I got no.one really to talk to about this.me And my ex have been split for 6 months but recently started getting close again had a brilliant xmas etc.we got a Lil boy who is 2 I shrugged telling people especially my mum as my older son lives with my mum due to me not coping but iv got my 2 yr old and everything has worked out.iv now had a late period and sure I am pregnant as me and ex did get close one night. I now feel alone as my mum will make it ten times worse as she won't like it..I got no one to talk to about it iv told my ex he probed and said I'm sick of hearing about it I just can't talk to him what so ever.I feel so alone I cried this morn in bed as am so stressed normally I would call my mum but can't even do that. I'm not 100 percent about this pregnancy I got.no.one to have my son as I go to Dr's etc as ex can't have ti
time off he said or wont have time off.I'm just so alone depressed about this situation and got no one to turn to.he was quick enough to create this child but wont help me out the situation xx
You need to understand that you're responsible for your own actions. Your Mum has every right to have an opinion because she's doing some hard yards for you by taking in your older son. Going by your post, your ex doesn't seem to 'stack up' as a responsible father and it's your choice as to how you lead your life and who you allow in it. You need to discuss the situation with your Mum because you owe it to her...she is hands on involved in the welfare of your family regardless of how she takes the news that you COULD be pregnant.
If anything, you need to sort the issue of separation with your ex because you can't have the best of both worlds by having your Mum step up to help you while you get too close with your ex with consequences which make all that much harder for everyone involved.
Your hesitation about telling your Mum is your gut instinct talking to you but you need to step up to the plate yourself and take responsibility for your actions. You have two children already who need you to be happy and healthy.