I know that it will break her heart if she knew. She is extremely jealous and at the same time very faithful. I don't want to ruin what we have. I'm looking for advice on what to do with my feelings and urges. Is it at all normal to have these desires? Another thing to note is that, due to some work/study obligations, we will be living apart from each other for 6, 7 months, which makes the problem even worst.
Please please don't cheat you've got a good thing going don't lose it.
Please find a project, sport, or hobby that can help divert this "energy" you seem to have let build up until it's on the verge of an obsession.
Having these thoughts is not abnormal, but gee, if you act on them that could ruin your marriage. Is that what you want?
May I ask your ages and why you can't join each other often during these absent times coming ahead?
I have to confess that my life has recently only been revolved around my wife and my work. She has been my workout buddy, my playmate and etc. so now that I am alone, I do not have much other "hobbies" or "distractions". I'm 28 and she's 26. She's going to a university which is in another country which I'm working right now.
Sport (like wot Susie said). Type male team social. Once or more per week (with water ). Indeed does empty the libido as well.
What sports or other physical activities do you like?