are you transferring just fr the final year? how long ill u be away from her?
its sweet that you can see yourself marrying her. but i totally get being afraid with the long distance thing and thinkng you need to end.
as this is bring you down and this is uni where you need to stay focus, i believe its healthy is you talk about how u see her buy also your fears and what that in turn brings out. who knows maybe she feel the same as you. frightened and wanting an answer. no ne lies waiting in limbo.
now no onw knows unless they give it a shot at long distance.
i;m form the generation of online chatting and my friends from school days who are highly active in my life are connected with me through online- messenger/skype/watsapp/viber.
in fact my hsuband and i met in uni, and for the summer break i went back home for 2 months and we kept in touch via calls and video chat. with watsapp, u can call, voice or video call etc.. and really u can do it anytime. if you are on final year u both will be busy, but it doesnt mean you cant have study dates - just speakphone on wifi so its like she's in the room or on video but u are doing your own thing but if you want to ask a question you can ask.. it just means u are not there.. and the same goes with if you guys want to go out, do it and come back home and chat or say good night or maybe if you have your own room u can leave the cam on for each othe and when you retrun, she see u if she's up and can say hi. so its like you both are connected. you can meet once a month or every 3 weeks, week goes by so fast in uni.and take turns vistiting. see it as nnuber of weeks away once u transfer- trust me its not that bad. especially final year when all that cramping and late nights start, u will just want to know someone else is up with you as well doing the same thing, and its really comforting to have that. highly doubt you will start dating a girl on the final year or doing much singleton partying.
however if what you want is to see other women by saying you want to be a single free man, then you are not really into her. by now after a year, u dont feel like u want to commit- exluding the fact of leaving the uni, then u need to be honest to her and break up with her now. sometimes a break up will let you know how you really feel about her. and if you feel made the wrong decision at least u can work things out while u are not away from each other. sometimes you need to loose something to know how you really feel. and noting is worse than not being able to get back together because distance and communication issue stands in your way than face to face.
good luck. only you know how u feel about her.