I am new here, I have been online and looking for some advice of what I am in now, and found this website and thought of joining the forum.
I am in a relationship, a long distance relationship with a guy for two years now. He is also working away from his home country, we met there when i was also working, been friends and later it goes beyond that. For some reason I had to come back home and will take time to get back and be with him, although i travel to see him twice a year. Through the help of social networks we talk endless everyday.
He has a micro business with partner, and had issues. I know it has been depressing him of the thoughts that he might close his business. I was sad when he told me one day that "it is better for us to end the relationship because of his difficulties in business. He said that he prefer to hurt himself than to hurt me. and his fear is, if we might not see each other in the future".
I know that we love each other and its hurting us both by his decision. I want to continue our relationship, i am ready to support him in every way, but at the moment, i feel helpless because i am away from him and can't do anything to help him. He wants to cut our communication which depresses so much.
I really don't what else I must do...
I would be very happy if you can give advice....