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My boyfriend paid for a lap dance found out years after. is everthing a lie?

Found out my boycriend paid for a lap dance. Thing is he twists the truth about it. First he didnt have one it was a dance in front of him. But his freind dropped him in it. Then years after i find out it was a full lap dance . He told me firat they was chatting an she offered him one an dont know why he did because he didnt enjoy it . Fibd out his matea eent in booths . Dont they all anyway .whats he hiding? He didnt get in til 6.30 that morning he denies anything. An says hes sorry he just had a dance because his friends did. He had obe for his bday once an said never again. Was imbarrasing. So he must have liked this girl to pay for a dance. He then throws it back in my face saying i paid to see a stripper. But so did he he paid in. Difference is he paid for more. I didnt or wouldn't. Feels like cheating? Help its gonna deztroy us

My boyfriend paid for a lap dance found out years after. is everthing a lie?

WHEN did all this happen? Does he continue to have lap dances? Recently? These strippers don't go home with their customers. It's all business with them. They have seen hundreds of "customers" and your BF is forgotten as soon as he walks out the door. Those services cost a lot of money. Doesn't that make you mad that he spent $$ on that, instead of you?

My boyfriend paid for a lap dance found out years after. is everthing a lie?

No twice..appparantly . But he had one for his bday an said he hated it. Im angry more how he lied about it . An not told me up front .was 20 yeats ago an he let something slip last week. He says he didnt like it. But if he knew he didnt like it why do it again? I said he must have really fancied herto want to pay for her to do that for him. Remember that night well he didnt get home til 6.30 in the morning. So what else happened that night? Just so hurt feels like it was last night not years ago. He said it wasn't what im making out. But feels like hes cheated . Cant get it out my head

My boyfriend paid for a lap dance found out years after. is everthing a lie?

He let it "slip" about a lap dance 20 YEARS ago? Why do you think that? Maybe he wanted to make you jealous or to see if you still care about him.

My boyfriend paid for a lap dance found out years after. is everthing a lie?

No it was a twist of words when he was drunk . Then he started twisting saying same thing u paid to see a stripper . I said i paid for a ticket as he paid into club . But he paid for extras . Am i seeing this wrong . He said she came over an asked if he wanted a provate dance so he did. So he must of fancied her for her to do that for him?

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