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My finance is currently working overseas- we have been together for five years and are very happy together. Last night I went out and had too much to drink, and a guy kissed me. I kissed him back for less than 2 minutes. I have woken up this morning feeling absolutely sick with guilt, I cant eat anything and I just feel so awful. I cant stop crying. I cant tell my finance, I cant throw away our relationship on a brief kiss - but am I wrong not to tell him? I hate lying to him, it makes me feel physically sick. I love him so so much and dont want to lose him. I will never have another drink again, I feel so devastated that I was so foolish. Please offer your advise, I feel so wretched - i am not sure if i can live with the guilt : (

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If you are the only one who knows about this, or you can trust other witnesses not to tell, then keep your mouth shut - and learn from your mistake so you don't do it again! It really is that simple, and there are many other people who have done the same thing.

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I think i should add that we see each other every 5 months, it was my mistake to go out drinking when i was feeling lonely. Only me and the guy know. I told my best friend and she is of the same opinion - this is my first mistake I have made in the five years we have been together, and we have been having a long distance relationship for three years. I dont want to ruin what we have over what my friend terms a moment of madness. Thanks for your advice.

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hello how are you doing?i really understand what you are going through and i feel your pain..i was in almost thesame problem as yours also...it was so tough and i was emotionally disturbed and all that..i tried all means but nothing worked..until someone told me about a spiritualist who helped me out... i didnt believe my eyes..within 7 days, everything came back to normal... you can email the spiritualist on spellsforbetterlife at yahoo dot com...DONT GIVE UP...!!

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