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Why is he shutting me out?

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Relationship advice I started seeing this guy 3 mnths ago, everything was going realley well then a few weeks ago he started having family problems, I tried to be there for him but he wouldnt open up 2 me, I kept asking him if he wanted to be with me and he kept saying yes and that he realley liked me. Then out the blue he told me we shud break up and said it's for the best but gave me no explanation. He totally cut me out of his life, didnt ring or text me. This was 2 weeks ago, this weekend I text him hello he text me back asked how I was and said hope ur alrite with us not being together I tex back saying I'm fine with it. but last nite I text him to ask why he ended it and that I still had feelings for him he didnt reply. Why is he shutting me out?

Why is he shutting me out?

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Well, it really depends what kind of family problems he has to deal with. Life is about priorities, and if you are being shut out, it may simply be because he is putting the family issues first.

This doesn't help your feelings though, so you'll either have to sit tight and see if he gets back to you, or try and contact him every so often over the next couple of weeks (but not every day).

I don't think it was a good idea to ask why he ended it, because you're putting him on the spot. Try to resolving any issues that might be around by speaking to him over the phone - rather than visiting him or by texting him.

Hope that you manage to get back in touch with him, and that you get back together soon!

Tango xxx

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I think you should just give him time.

You hadn't heard from in 2 weeks, until you sent him the text. At least he knows you care.

I think if you did get in touch with him, tell him that you're there if he needs anyone to talk to.

And try not to ask him about your relationship, as he may have enough to deal with.

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Im really sorry to say this but he just thinking up of an excuse to finish it with you. He proberly never had "family problems" iv heard that line so many times. its over. find i nicer fitter guy then who u was with.

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Hey there

In my experienced, blokes are really complicated.thhey always find a way to get rid of you, even though all we do is love and care for them.In the future do not get to attched to them just get to know them better and see how it goes, its better that way than them cutting us off theirs lives when they get bored

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thanks for all the advice every1, at the time I was quite upset because he left me no answers so after a few weeks I called him and demanded to know, he said it was because he culdnt wait for sex any longer. Now looking back I'm glad he broke up with me because he wasnt what i wanted and at that time I wudnt have broke it off. All things hapen for the best. xx

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