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I feel like my girlfriend doesn't appreciate me or love me

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Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 10 months now and lately she has been well grumpy and annoyed and angry a lot and all I been trying to is help but she's doesn't seem to appreciate that I'm trying my hardest to make her smile and then when I get down because of when she's is feeling down, she just says that I should leave her or break up with her I've told her time and time again that I don't want to leave her and I want to be with her and the thing is all I get is a sorry from her and she's fine for a few hours then it's back to grumpy and angry and annoyed again and when I say I love her she's says no I don't and maybe and things like that and it upsets me being makes me feel worthless the fact that My girlfriend thinks that I don't makes me cry I've cryed in front of her and all she's says is you should break up with me when really all I want is a hug and sorry and I have said about not being appreciated and she's says that I should break up with her I don't know what to do I love her even though it's not even Been a year yet and I feel like she's the one but as well she will be all fine and laughing with others but when it comes to me she's all sad and grumpy, so at the end I just don't know if I should even be alive at this point I just think it would be easier on her if I died

I feel like my girlfriend doesn't appreciate me or love me

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It sounds like she's telling you to break up with her because she wants to break up but doesn't have the balls to tell you herself. She doesn't want to be the one to do the breaking up but she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore. So she's pissy and grumpy with you until you get fed up and dump her. Sorry man.

I feel like my girlfriend doesn't appreciate me or love me

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True with what PHERODACTYL said. I think you trying hard to be a hero to someone who doesn't deserve your love. At the end, who is going to save you from her? Maybe pull back a little bit and just be her friend.Cause if you stick around this relationship is going to damage you in a long term. I have been there myself trying to be a hero to a girl who was a mess. I then realised that i was sacrificing my own happiness for someone who don't know what it means to have someone who cares in their lives. You are a nice person, don't let her destroy your views of how a good relationship should be. If i was in your shoes i would give her the space cause you too good for her to see how much she needs a someone like you in her life

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