Engagement falling apart
NEEDSERIOUSADVICE - Apr 8 2017 at 09:01
Me and my fiancée of a year and a half broke up Tuesday. She slept with another guy Thursday recently things have been rocky but I love her and I wanted to marry her. She wants to work on us now but I don't know if I can get past the fact she slept with someone else considering I was her first. Any thoughts
Hello, speaking from a person whose father cheated on my mother constantly, trust me, once a cheater always a cheater. if your partner can cheat on you, it means they don't care about your feelings, the only reason she is apologizing is because she's been caught out. i understand it hurts, but leave her. no matter how much she tries to manipulate you and no matter how much it seems like it's the end of the world/you wont be able to find someone better, you CAN. it's gonna hurt but you have to move on. you will find a women who looks at you like you're the sun. be brave!:)
Similar situation but i am the girl and he cheated due to his delusion that i was cheating. When i found out i flipped. I could not take him back. Others called me - hard to handle. But the wise told me - once a cheat, always a cheat. Its like a sinking boat. You may keep forgiving and may remain in denial but its an ugly cycle.
You have to choose whats best for your life. Because cheating can lead to other more serious problems. Think with a clear mind minus your heart.