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Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Crappy Friend Or Crappy Person (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 19 2017 at 06:58 by Kataya33 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Sep 21 2017 at 01:37

Recently, my friends and I got into a fight. Their names are T and H and this fight literally started because I couldn't attend a football game as my mother did not like the person who was giving me a ride and said no. When I told them I couldn't go, they freaked out and said I was bailing like I always do and that I was making excuses. Mainly I had a conversation with H, who told me I was being a crappy friend for lying, which I really wasn't and I don't know why she would assume that. T and I sometimes fight, but H and I are always laughing and have never fought despite being friends for a l...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Promises Promises (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 20 2017 at 22:08 by BeachLife RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Sep 21 2017 at 00:26

My BF is 44 years old (been dating 15 months) and still likes to go to clubs. I do not care for clubs and he knows I do no want him in one. I think once you reach 30+ you should be acting like an adult and not a college age kid. We had a discussion when he went the first time and he knew it hurt me. He went again and after I became more upset he promised he wouldn't do it again. The third time he went I was pretty upset and told him I would break up with him if he went again. He said that is not an option and he would never go again. Just two nights ago I found out he went and was so drunk he ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Friends And Life That Sucks (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 17 2017 at 00:57 by Paris RESPONDENTS: BeachLife LAST POST: Sep 20 2017 at 23:01

My friend always bails on our plans to hang out. I always ask her to hang out and she says yes but then she says she cant because her sister is visiting, or she says she has homework or something. My other friends, I understand why I dont hang out with them much they work and have a life, they're busy most of the time but her, she is almost always in her room, with her family or her other friends drinking. I wish I didnt have to rely on friends to make life exciting but I dont have any experience with a lot of things and I have an abusive past which affected how much things I was doing ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Loyalty Of Spouse (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 20 2017 at 19:31 by Arbree RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Sep 20 2017 at 22:59

I have a question about something that has been disturbing me for a long time : What does it mean if your husband tells a female who happens to be a colleague that he is loyal in every way? Leading up to this, he said that she treats him as though she just met him in the street and that he finds this demoralising and then,he said that he was a crazy human being who was loyal in every way. Please can someone shed light on this? Does it mean that he has loyal, committed feelings for her? ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Mental Stress (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 15 2017 at 03:32 by Aisha a RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 20 2017 at 19:07

Am happyly married and have a baby of 20 months. 3yrs of marriage. Me n my husband were in love during college days 5 yrs aftr so much of struggle we got married with our familys permission.we were veeeery happy. Now the issue is i am very possessive on my husband.i dont want him to talk with any other girl. I was not like this befor. Usually he dont get chance to talk with girls. He joined in a company where there was girls working in his team. He use to talk with them frndly in wats up n calls in front of me. I dont had any problem. I dont like 1 girls dressing and way of talkin...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Now She's Sorry And I'm Happy (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 19 2017 at 18:57 by Emmajm RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 20 2017 at 13:07

Hiya I'm Emma Im 15 years old. My mam and dad broke up a while ago they are now going to get a divorced this doesn't upset me, its got me what I've always wanted. My dad moved back in with my nan. I was dead jealous of him because I have always wanted to live with me nan, she's the nicest person ever and has been the only person who ever got me. My dream finally came true where I told my dad and nan that I wanted to move in with them too and they both finally said I could when I told them I didn't want to go back to my mams house because of how she is with me. They knew this was true and I w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Still Feels Like Its All Getting On Top Of Me (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 19 2017 at 17:25 by Morning sunshine RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 20 2017 at 13:00

Hello everyone, I wrote on here a couple of months ago about my ex boyfriend who had told he didn't want to move in with me anymore, he told me the spark had gone and then left me hanging until it all came to an end. Sorry I couldn't find that thread so I had to start a new one. Since breaking up with him, he tried to few times to get me to go back to him but I told him no each time. He then did a few stupid things like turn up to my daughters birthday party in the summer, uninvited and he's tried knocking on the front door a few times, drunk, begging me to talk to him. He soon got th...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Just Don't Know What To Do! (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 20 2017 at 12:03 by Sarahwil36 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 20 2017 at 12:42

I have returned to my home town after 15 years of being away. I have 2 daughters aged 12 and 16. My relationship broke down after a 5 years of being together. I divorced 6 years ago after my marriage broke down with my previous relationship. It's been hell for many years as the father of my children refused to see the girls some 3 years ago! I struggled without family support for many years hence why I have moved back home. I thought new start new life. Here's the problem. I am currently living with my mother who has a lot of mental health problems and quite frankly it's been a nightmare. She'...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category 5 Kids, 12 Years, Divorce? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 19 2017 at 20:56 by vb327 RESPONDENTS: London LAST POST: Sep 19 2017 at 22:48

I have been married for coming on 12 years this October. I have 5 kids. 4 Girls and a boy. We are having troubles, like many couples do. I am self employed. I never feel satisfied in life, I feel as if I should be else where, stressed about money...the usual. My wife and I argue a lot. When we get along, we are good. I come from a divorced family and so does she. When she got pregnant I proposed. I loved her and wanted to do the right thing. Fast forward and 5 kids total, we still are arguing and not getting along. I admit, I get stressed and I treat my kids bad when I am stressed. Our kids ha...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category No Emotional Connection (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 19 2017 at 12:20 by lazyjaney RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 19 2017 at 13:08

After being married for 30 years I am so frustrated because we both don't connect on a emotional level. We never really have but now as I am getting older(over 50) I am getting more and more upset by it. Our marriage feels so empty and I don't think either of us is really happy. I believe in commitment and am willing to hang around because I believe in marriage but am feeling rather stuck in our shallow relationship. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Afraid Of A Relapse In Depression (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 19 2017 at 02:34 by Capsized RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 19 2017 at 03:46

Years ago, I was on antidepressants and I almost killed myself. I have been thought a tremendous amount of therapy and came off of those medications since then. I have worked hard to get where I am. But I am in a situation that is threatening that stability and I am afraid going back on those types of medications are my only choice. That terrifies me. But breaking terrifies me more. I have a therapist and we have talked about this but sometimes I don't think I have a choice and I'm scared. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Family Troubles (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Sep 17 2017 at 20:57 by Sarahliz RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 19 2017 at 00:47

I've recently gotten closer to the age of 18 in less than three months I will be an adult. I know this is the usual problem of every angsty teen that just doesn't want to have to abide by rules anymore and be on their own. However in my case it seems especially stressful. My entire life I've never fit in with my family. Being the youngest I seem to be the most accepting. Both of my parents still carry racists and homophobic tendencies with them and it's beginning to upset me more and more as I go on. My current boyfriend is mixed he's a quarter white, a quarter Hispanic, and a quarter black. I...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category No Humanity In Human (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 18 2017 at 00:39 by Mubeen-Riaz RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 18 2017 at 23:03

After my birth when i got senses,my parents specially my father didn't treated me well because i didn't have fair complexion like my others brother and sisters.he always disgraced me infront of family and friends so others also started treated me badly but i thought that one day he will change when i will be good in my studies and my good behaviour will let him change one day i wasted my 20 years to keep him happy in everything.i never was treated like childerns ,i never made any wish to him ,i never slept any night without weeping but there was no love for me.i got admission in country's best...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Help! Boyfriend/relationship (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 18 2017 at 04:50 by Em2 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 18 2017 at 20:29

So me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for over 3 years, (only broke up once for 6 months and got back together.) He's my best friend, and I love him like no other. Recently we've been fighting a lot, about stupid things that we can never seem to remember. We went on a trip to a city 7 hours away and we had a great time on our way and in the beginning. In the end is was a disaster. We ended up yelling at each other in front of our friends. We had to ride in the car today for 7 hours. The fight was so bad it carried into that next day of the car ride home. He wouldn't talk, he kept ...

Missing People advice forum category advice forum category Missing Ex After A Year (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 18 2017 at 08:35 by mgrey RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 18 2017 at 18:35

Six months, we were together for six months, but I have loved him for five years. I was the typical high school story, the weird girl who finally caught the jock's attention and it was like this was the best thing that could ever happen, but it was the worst. Six months of a one sided relationship that only ended with arguments about how I didn't care about him because I wouldn't give him the one thing that actually mattered to me, my virginity. After every fight it was like we had moved passed it. I would tell my friends about the arguments and they would respond with "just leave him" and I w...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Advice Please On Horrible Relationship (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 17 2017 at 02:50 by tst454 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Sep 17 2017 at 23:50

I met a woman online about 2 yrs ago where she had posted she was divorced but was actually still married and her husband left her and was seeking a divorce. I told her she needed to finish her divorce before we could date because I don’t date married women. She then began coming around unexpectedly and showing up at my door which I told her she couldn’t do but she continued to do anyway. Another reason we could not date is because she was not a Christian. She fought me against being a Christian until one day I happened to look over and see her with her four daughters in my church. I later...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category He Can't Upset His Kids (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Sep 12 2017 at 05:54 by Angela1961 RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 16 2017 at 22:31

Engaged a year it was his 60th birthday. His daughter, in text to me when I contacted her, said she was holding a family gathering at her place. I said I would hold a friend's party at a restaurant so both bases were covered. She was to advise party date so I could confirm restaurant booking, however she failed to advise. In front of me she announced that party date and asked my fiancee for a list of friends names to invite. He knew I was holding a restaurant party yet he willingly gave her names without even a glance at me or saying anything about my plans. He says I should have spoken up...

Other advice forum category advice forum category You Guys Know What This Means? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 14 2017 at 22:26 by danny1998 RESPONDENTS: attilahelp / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 16 2017 at 14:16

so the other day in class i was staring into space and the girl i liked was looking at me while i was staring at the trash can. Then later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then the next day she said ” i don’t know why he looks at me."         ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What To Do Now? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 15 2017 at 22:58 by pibedeoro RESPONDENTS: manalone / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 16 2017 at 14:11

Hi guys, I writing on this forum to get some advices. Got some but from friends and family and sometimes the won't give you unbiased advices. So let't introduce myself. I am a 36 years old french chef living in Argentina. I had a relationship for 10 years from an argantinean women ans the result is two beautiful sons of 3 and 8 years old. We split 5 month ago but remain under the same roof. The idea was that I would go back to France in september and they would join me in december. There we would be separated but France is a better option than Argentina to raise kids. Why we split? She told...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Moaning (Posts: 8)
CREATED: Sep 13 2017 at 08:18 by FishingNet36 RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Soulmate / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 16 2017 at 14:01

Morning fellow people problems. I have a mate that moans a lot. Although they have many good qualities. The moaning is every time I see them. His do I discuss this with them without being rude or bossy please? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Dreams Vs Reality // My Ex (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 11 2017 at 03:57 by Lexxii RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / 8Twenty8 / harry888 LAST POST: Sep 16 2017 at 08:34

There's so much but I'm gonna try and make this short. So my very first love was a great...AMAZING one. Was with him as a teenager for 3 years but seemed like an eternity. In the beginning, it was the best thing I ever experienced. The passion, the love, excitement....well you guys probably know what I'm talking about. But towards the end things got...stagnant. I was young and stupid and I wanted the puppy love stage back and didn't realize that's not how loved worked. I ended up randomly breaking things off with him because of a stupid reason. Pretty much because all he did was work ( we ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Parents Split Up (Posts: 228)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme LAST POST: Sep 15 2017 at 23:12

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Struggle With My Girlfriends Past (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 14 2017 at 20:56 by Tim RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Sep 14 2017 at 22:53

Hey, I am in a relationship with this girl now for almost a year. And I struggle a lot with her past lets say. The two of us are very different, we are none alike. That is also something that can been seen in how we act and the kind of people we hang out with. I am 23 now, she is 26. She is my first girlfriend, I am her fourth boyfriend. I barely have any experience (I am talking about sex), she has a lot. I am gonna tell you somethings that I struggle with. First of all, she only hangs out with guy friends. She has a couple of female friends, but her real friends are all guys. Lets ta...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Love Problems (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 13 2017 at 17:01 by sdhfkjdkfh37249823 RESPONDENTS: TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 14 2017 at 17:10

I have a close friend who is a girl and she has a boyfriend i have strong feelings for her .Shall i distant myself from her .If not what shall i do.I am really confused and don't know what i need to do can someone please give me advice...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Overreacting Or Is He? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 14 2017 at 06:38 by Overreacting RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 14 2017 at 17:04

My fiance and I had a break a while back because we couldn't see eye to eye because he wasn't willing to listen to me and talk. He tried to date someone else while we were apart, which was fine. The problem is, when we got back together he told me he would stop hanging out with her and talking to her out of respect for my feelings, because I had done the same for him. I stopped being friends with all of my male friends because I knew it bothered my fiance. Fast forward to today. He was talking and let it slip that he talked to her last night after I went to bed. I found out that he h...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Looking For Group Therapy (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Aug 30 2017 at 16:35 by OldFashionLoverBoy RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / TRULUV / Sunshine2 LAST POST: Sep 14 2017 at 05:27

Im am look for a group therapy near Dalton Ga hoefully no further than Chattanooga Tn for my wife who has suffered form childhood trauma....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Just Feel Empty (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 13 2017 at 21:45 by shad RESPONDENTS: Sunshine2 LAST POST: Sep 14 2017 at 05:20

im unmotivated, unfulfilled, not sad, not happy just empty nothing interests me like it used to, i dont want to write, i dont want to draw i just worsen myself by wallowing but i dont know how to get out like some force inside me tears me away from things i want to do and instead makes me sit and make myself feel worse im not productive, my time is spent on nothing, i have nothing to show for my time alive few friends, no real relationships alone i dont know who to talk to about it i pledge myself to listen to everyone but i dont know who would listen to me i dont know what i...

Drug advice forum category advice forum category Trying To Find Life Outside Of Drugs. (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Sep 12 2017 at 17:20 by 80allaround RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq / Sunshine2 LAST POST: Sep 14 2017 at 05:06

I have been drinking and doing drugs since I was 14. Now I don't think I am a drug addict. I have yet to have a problem with any one drug but I am starting to think I have a problem with being high. I don't drink or do any drugs every day but a good majority of my off days. So far how it happens is I will get into a drug for awhile then stop doing it but then I will find a different one to do. Never had any money problems, never had to pick drugs over food or anything. I think I am a functioning drug addict maybe. My problem is I have recently had to quit drinking because of health issues...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category In A Really Difficult Situation (Posts: 17)
CREATED: Aug 25 2017 at 21:28 by Amister RESPONDENTS: Silvarion / manalone / 8Twenty8 / Susiedqq / Soulmate / harry888 / TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 14 2017 at 00:58

Hello, I need some advice please. I’m in a really difficult situation at the moment . I have the support of my intermediate family and boyfriend, which I know I’m lucky to have. I will start with my parents. They got divorced years ago when I was five, I’m now 22. They realised were not lovers, just very good friends and since, have always been very happy to be in each other’s company when they’ve needed to be. I had a very stable and happy up brining and always been very close to both my mum and dad. Since finishing university I’m now back home living with my mum, stepdad...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category When Is It Time To Settle Down (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 13 2017 at 22:02 by Notsure1233211 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Sep 13 2017 at 22:51

Just asking for some guidance, I'm 28 years old and I also struggle with extreme over thinking. I just wanted to hear some opinions of this forum, I enjoy my single life, I enjoy being able to do what I want. I spend a majority of my weekends at the bars or going on trips. I have a good job and no kids and am just really enjoying life right now. The only issue is my conscience makes me feel guilty and feeling like people look down on me because I'm doing these things instead of the whole marriage thing right now. Every time I meet a girl I never let it get too serious because frankly I'm...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I The Only One Fighting For This Anymore? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 13 2017 at 00:31 by KittyCat9009 RESPONDENTS: 80allaround / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 13 2017 at 20:30

Okay, fair warning this is going to be a VERY long post. I'm going to give you information about us as individuals first so you can kind of see both viewpoints. Me: I haven't had an easy life, grew up with an abusive step father, me and my mom had gotten evicted and lived in a car for months. She went off to live with a guy and I went to a homeless shelter. She had a lot of problems and the guy she was living with took her meds. Eventually she ended up in the hospital and then a nursing home. This was over a course of about 3 years, while I was still homeless. I lived with her in the ho...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Think I'm Being Gaslighted (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 13 2017 at 03:36 by lhgy RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 13 2017 at 20:14

Hi there. I am having a situation with my husband today. We've been together for five years, and in the past I believe I have been gaslighted by him. Things were going great for a long time, however I'm now feeling like I'm being gaslighted again. Last night he said we'd leave the house at 7:15 this morning. So, 7:00 rolls around and he says we're leaving in ten minutes. I reminded him that he said 7:15 last night, and he kept insisting that he never said that, although I know for a fact he said 7:15. I know this isn't a huge deal, but I got upset because it's not the first time that he says o...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Haunted By Thoughts Of Them Together (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 13 2017 at 17:04 by Esther RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 13 2017 at 19:45

My husband, let's call him Mark, and I started as a no strings attached, friends with benefits kind of agreement. We we're just fooling around but no sex, I felt/ feel like no sex before love. After a few months we fell for each other. The first thing Mark tells me when we decide to move forward as a real relationship is during the months we were fooling around he slept with my roommate twice. My roommate, let's call her Nicole, had been my friend for close to 10 years. I flew out to Toronto to visit her when she lived there, invited her to my families home for Christmas because her famil...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Unreasonable? (Posts: 14)
CREATED: Aug 9 2017 at 04:58 by Mae79 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / susiedqq / Soulmate / Silvarion / ANOTHER VIEW LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 23:30

I don't know what to do. I have been married 7 years, together for 8. Everything was good until about 2 weeks after we got married. He turned into a super jealous person and we fought constantly about my past and how he didn't like it.(I would go out with friends when my kids were with their father and he thought that that meant I was acting like a whore.) It's like he became a completely different person. He doesn't work because he has depression and says he can't so I am the bread winner. It wouldn't be so bad but I don't just bring in the money. I do the cooking and cleaning and going to th...

Education advice forum category advice forum category I've Been Lying To My Dad For Over A Year About Going To College And I Need To (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 7 2017 at 10:49 by CameraGuy96 RESPONDENTS: Silvarion / CROSSroads LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 21:38

I never really wanted to go to college, but I went to a local community college just so I wouldn't get kicked out. My dad wanted me done with community college in no more then two years so I could transfer. I did pretty well in all my classes, but when I chose my classes I wasn't very careful so I ended up taking a lot of classes I didn't need, so when I applied to a state school I found out that I didn't complete enough general ed classes to fulfill the transfer requirement. I knew my dad would not be happy that I would be stuck in community college for another semester, let alone the two sem...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Trying Not To Be A Bad Person. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 12 2017 at 15:51 by 80allaround RESPONDENTS: TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 20:33

I am currently in a relationship, wonderful guy. Been together 4 years. I really think I am going to marry the guy. The idea of spending the rest of my life with him doesn't scare me. I do not believe in "one true love" and "soul mates" I feel like those concepts were created to make people feel special. I feel like I love multiple people romantically. I have been given the frustrating lecture "well obviously you don't love the first one if you love the second one" That is so far from the truth. I love my ex, I love my best friend, and I love my boyfriend all in a romantic way and I feel like ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Lost And Confused Daughter Looking For Guidance. (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 11 2017 at 21:00 by 80allaround RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 16:51

I feel so lost and alone. I have been falling apart. My mother has gone to great lengths to be a better person. She has turned things around for herself and for the first time in my life she is really trying for me. I can see how hard she is working to make everything between us okay. I am so proud of the changes she has made to separate herself from who she used to be and the things she used to do. I love to see how proud and happy she is. I can see how much better she feels not weighted down by the guilt of her actions and I would never want to take that away from her. I forgave my mom a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Don't Know What To Do. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 12 2017 at 13:15 by somebody789 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / 80allaround LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 16:24

SO my Fiancé and I have been together 2 and half years, we have a long distance relationship as of now. lately he hasn't been dealing with it very well, and he found someone in person. now he doesn't per say want to be with them over me, but he wants to have a relationship with them (this including sex) for the rest of our time being apart. as more of a human experience, he's a very open person and we've talked before about having other people in the relationship. But i'm not sure i can handle this, we love each other very much and plan to get married in the future. but i don't know if i can ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Newly Wed Trouble (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Sep 5 2017 at 19:47 by HelplessBride RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 14:16

I've been married for 7 months to a guy I dated for a solid 2 years.. I thought I knew him well enough to know I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. We've yet to have 1 day in the past 7 months without butting heads... he never compliments me.. and pretty much we have sex maybe every 2 months if I initiate it... he says it's just not important to him and it's not me.. I feel lonely in this marriage, I feel unhappy, and I'm beginning to feel depression/ anxiety weekly.. I feel like if something is not important to him.. he just doesn't see that' it's important to me.. I've always know...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Do We Do? (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Sep 11 2017 at 16:55 by Lloydie RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / lily31 / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 14:09

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years! It has been great over the last three years and after one year I moved into his parents house with him, don't get me wrong we've had petty little arguments along the way but never anything serious. This weekend he has told be he doesn't think he has feelings for me any more, he says he loves me but isn't in love with me. This has broken my heart but he says that he wants to be with me, he says he wants to get the feelings back, he wants to feel in love with me. Ive moved back home now, but we just don't know what to do now. Does anyone hav...

Violence & Crime advice forum category advice forum category I Am Being Abused By My Mother And Brother. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 9 2017 at 12:05 by natasha06 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / OldFashionLoverBoy LAST POST: Sep 12 2017 at 01:03

I am from an orthodox family in India and i have spent my whole life being dictated about what to wear, what to eat, what to say, and what not! I would also like to say that i have been dating since some years now and i have had my own share of failed relationships and some of them even got way out of hands. But, now i have been together with this guy since last one year. It was my birthday some days before and my boyfriend had travelled a long long way to meet me. So, i had to lie about meeting him. We met and we git physical as well, for the very first time in one year. Because he live...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Making A Big Mistake Staying With Broke Boyfriend At Our Older Ages? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 11 2017 at 19:38 by soconfused12345 RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 22:17

I'm (60/f) and scared I'll make a wrong decision. Seeing someone (65/m) for almost 5 years. We both love each other. But the relationship has been somewhat tumultuous because primarily of poor financial judgment by him. He has no savings and lost job 5 months ago but he did just inherit some money but will need to use some of it to pay off credit card debt and if unemployment runs out he hasn't yet found a job. At 65 finding a job is difficult. He lost his business and assets after he and his brother committed check kiting. On the other hand I am a careful person with money earn a good living ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Hopeless (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 8 2017 at 05:31 by myra RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / luk LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 20:57

I just feel hopeless about life ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum category I Think I'm A Lesbian (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 10 2017 at 12:59 by EvaFleetwood RESPONDENTS: Lexxii / TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 20:37

Hi. I have been in straight long term relationships one after the other since I've been about 16. I have loved these men definitely, and genuinely thought they were beautiful, but I have never been really interested in sex with them, I have never had a passionate attraction to them. I have a different attraction to women. When I am having sex with my boyfriend I close my eyes and try to imagine it's a woman. I have a friend, when she talks all I can think about is how soft her lips would feel on my body. I have slept with women and have had a few flings. I know it looks very obvious by this m...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Advice (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 11 2017 at 16:45 by unknown.43 RESPONDENTS: TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 19:06

Hey, so i've known this guy for over a year now (we know each other through friends, but don't go to the same school). when i meet him at a party and kissed him. this was at the beginning of summer 2016. We didn't really talk that much that summer but nearer the end i got in contact and we were talking for a while but it fizzled out. We then came back into contact around christmas and new year time. By now i was really liking him, and thought i had the same feelings back as our messages were always flirtatious. Then around febuary 2017, around my birthday we got back in contact and were talkin...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Searching For Help So I Don't Ruin This Wonderful Thing. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 11 2017 at 12:52 by 80allaround RESPONDENTS: TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 18:07

I have never really reached out like this before but I am with this amazing guy who deserves so much more than me and the least I can do for him is to try. We have been together for some years and we recently hit a bump in the road and it is all my fault. I started gaining weight about two years ago. Wasn't really bad at first but in the last year I just really blew up. Things were happening over the last year that I just allowed to impact me in such a way that I just let myself go. I guess one day I just woke up and realized it and hated myself for it. I am disgusted with myself and avoid loo...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Should I Give Up On Him? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 9 2017 at 19:23 by Sophiaceleb RESPONDENTS: 80allaround LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 13:57

Hey, so recently I made a thread about a similar situation, but I wanted to make a seperate one. So I have a Crush on this Guy for like 6 Months, at first he didnt even notice me but I contacted him and we talked a little, we are kind of friends now but not best friends or anything. So at the Birthday Party of a Friend we talked more than ever and I fell for him even more. He drank a little and got really flirtious, I was so happy at first because I got the Attention I craved for Months, but it didnt went well. There was this other girl (really pretty and athletic like him) so they went alo...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Embarressed Infront Of My Crush? (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Sep 9 2017 at 16:00 by Sophiaceleb RESPONDENTS: Natasha06 / TRULUV / 80allaround LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 13:17

Hello, so lately this one thing that happend isn't leaving my mind ( im sorry for my english, its not my first language). It was a Birthday Party of a friend of mine, and my crush was there, we all drank a little bit but not enough to get really wasted, still we all were a little drunk, so there was a big trampolin in the garden and just for Fun we started to jump on it. And my crush sugessted to do it Topless ( I know that sound ridiculous). I'm really ashamed of my body because im really thin and got now breasts or pretty curves, I just jokingly said that I'm to thin or something like th...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Try Again With Him? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 10 2017 at 14:51 by SnowWhite RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq / harry888 LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 08:56

Hi so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and so at the start of our relationship it was nothing too serious and so I was talking to other guys, I didn't think anything of it as he was a new guy and we were just getting to know each other. However when he found out he called it cheating and was very upset, as would I if I was in his position. Although the months after then it was all fine we were both happy until a couple of months ago things changed. He started getting angrier even though I was completely loyal to him then and I am completely inlove with him. He likes to b...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Finally Engaged But Really Struggling.....need To Know I'm Not Alone (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 10 2017 at 13:42 by Fiancé30 RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 10 2017 at 22:42

So after 8 years together, 2 children and all the other normal stuff, my partner finally proposed, I am over the moon but feel strange. I am constantly questioning if it's what I want, feeling nervous and the biggest thing is.....he will be the last person I'm ever intimate with. We don't have a particularly exciting sex life, I've tried everything but he's just not that way. I am scared. I love him but we don't have much at all in common....

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Dating A Younger Guy (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Sep 9 2017 at 17:24 by Amatae RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Sep 10 2017 at 17:01

Hello, I need some advice.... I'm really in uncharted waters... I met my guy on an online art site and we were friends and I didn't know his age. Then, when I realized my attraction I did find out he was 18. A few months later we became an online couple and made it official when he was 19. I'm 32 right now and he's 21. While he is immature and I understand his age is a lot of figuring things out in life while you go.... I'm finding myself very confused. It's been nearly two years of official online dating and it wasn't until February Of this year that he even thought we should...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Let Go Or Not? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 9 2017 at 05:14 by Stuckinthemiddle RESPONDENTS: natasha06 LAST POST: Sep 9 2017 at 11:54

So I have this guy (I'm not so sure if we're still together), he is 18 and I'm 21. However, that doesn't bother. We had an argument about a girl that I feel uncomfortable with. She says I miss you and I love you. Yes, she has a boyfriend. But how she talks with my boyfriend is just really so uncomfortable. My boyfriend finds it wrong at some point. I am not a jealous type. I just really feel uncomfortable about it. And now he stopped talking to me. Saying he is tired. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Adult Stepdaughter And Grandson Living With Us.... (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 8 2017 at 15:37 by Squeek RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 9 2017 at 04:29

In may, my husband's 26 year old daughter and 6 year old grandson moved in with us. Her spouse got into some legal trouble and she would not stay with him. We live a few hours away from her hometown. She never had a job, had been a stay at home mom. My husband works in a physically demanding profession. I have a full time job, fortunately working from home. My parents have a family business and I am responsible for all the office duties, payroll, insurance, taxes, scheduling, etc. Two years ago, I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis, Fibromyalgia, and Sjogren's Syndrome. My eyesight ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Honest Advice Needed (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 8 2017 at 20:32 by Rosco RESPONDENTS: TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 8 2017 at 21:01

Do i stay in a relationship just for the sake of the kids and not hurting anyone or do i do what will make me happy...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Messed Up So Bad I Need Some Help!! (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 8 2017 at 03:29 by Flacco RESPONDENTS: TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 8 2017 at 20:47

I need some advice!!! OK here it goes I have been dating a woman for 8 months now she has 3 kids. I have 1 child. I treat her kids like they were my own i am like the father that they dont have. I play games with them i teach them how to eide their bikes the 3 year old anyway. We watch cartoons together . I cook for all of them i clean the house i wash all their clothes and when it comes to my girlfriend i treat her like a queen flowers just because it wednesday sweet text messages throughout the day so she knows im thinking about her and i love her. I stay next door to her. We really don't ge...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Help With Crush? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 7 2017 at 11:43 by pandora100 RESPONDENTS: Silvarion LAST POST: Sep 7 2017 at 23:38

Hi everyone...my first time posting. So here's my problem. Yesterday i met this girl(for like a minute btw), I've met her before but this tme something just triggred in me(i think you know what I'm talking about). I don't fall for girls like everyday sooo....yeah when i do it's a strong feeling. So the thing is i know we'll meet again in like 6 days or so, but i have no idea what to say to her to like build attraction or something...and that's becouse i dont have much experience with girls... heck almost none. tho im not shy to approach her and talk to her, ask her things. But i just dont kno...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Questioning My Wife And What She Wants. (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Aug 4 2017 at 06:14 by Not sure any more RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / lady_shamrok LAST POST: Sep 6 2017 at 21:59

I have known my wife since high school and have been with four people besides her. in college we broke up because i found out she cheated on me in high school. any guy that showed her attention she would eat it up like candy. i treated her great and showed her how a guy should treat a woman. that was not enough for her as she messed around with various guys and would never admit it. when we broke up in college i had sex with two people and it was not my cup of tea. my future wife and I started dating again but something was off she only wanted me to please her and she would never please ...

Education advice forum category advice forum category Stress (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 4 2017 at 04:28 by angeltterfly RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / CROSSroads LAST POST: Sep 6 2017 at 16:55

I managed to improve in my studies for a short period of time. However, in my recent tests, I flunked my Sciences and did quite badly overall. It is honestly really disappointing and I know i should keep trying but it is really difficult to do so when I keep failing. I am also really lazy to study for my final exams which is the most major thing that will let me pass this year. Would really appreciate it if someone has any advice to motivate me. Thanks in advance. Sincerely, Angeltterfly...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category From Friends To More (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Aug 29 2017 at 07:59 by missyb RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / harry888 / Merci / Mingliao LAST POST: Sep 5 2017 at 23:13

I have had a close guy friend for about 2 years now and for the vast majority of this time I have had growing feelings for him. I told him about a year ago but I was drunk at the time and black out, only time its ever happened to me. I tried to get over him, but every guy I met or even went out with just fell miles short. I am very inexperienced when it comes to these thing, ( most significant relationship was a week long fling in a semester abroad.) I tend to be a runner. Now, it came out, unintentionally, that he has feelings for me. After talking about it, we decided to go on a date. It...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What The Heck Happened Here??? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 5 2017 at 03:39 by Bruised and broken RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Sep 5 2017 at 21:16

Hi, trying this site to try to end my confusion. Have been in a solid relationship for 6 months or so, then on Fri after a mild argument (no exaggeration) she blows things up and on Fri, after she had a issue that was stressful, she declares she nbeed "me time". She refused to answer calls or text until Sun. at which poit she tells me we should just be friends. Out of the blue. Please consider this: on the Thur.prior she states that Iam the best thing that ever happened to her. We have both expressed intamacy iasues, some with me taking medicine (both of us actually), her children who I ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Brother Doesn't Approve Of My Husband (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 5 2017 at 05:46 by Anna_H2017 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 5 2017 at 20:00

My oldest brother -out of 4- has very, very different political beliefs than my husband. My husband and his family are political debaters but respect each other and know when to drawback if it gets too heated. My brother and husband have gotten into some heated debates and now my brother told me he doesn't approve of my husband and ...

Money advice forum category advice forum category Relationship And Money (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 5 2017 at 18:25 by Tinugold RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 5 2017 at 19:54

my boyfriend borrowed money from my mum for his sick mother hospital bill. it is four months now and has refused to pay back meanwhile he also borrowed money from me too since last 2 years without refunding it. he didn't tell me he borrowed money from my mum but my mum did and told me not to ask him about d money. my question is should I ask him against my mum consent because my mind is not always at rest whenever am with my mom ...

Education advice forum category advice forum category School (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 3 2017 at 23:23 by Sarah RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 4 2017 at 19:53

So from my earliest school years up until now, I have always been strong with English. English/ literacy/ grammar has always been my strong point. Maths on the other hand, has not. Maths for me isn't simple yet isn't too complicated. I don't dread going to math class because I know my school will give me the help I need. But here's the problem. Since the start of new term, I have been moved to the highest math class. And assessment percentages sit at roughly 96%-100%. And I could never imagine myself getting these scores on tests. My test scores vary, let's take the last three scores- 9...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Why Would The Other Woman Be Mad At Me? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Aug 31 2017 at 22:25 by Beauty 808 RESPONDENTS: Cryrose / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 3 2017 at 19:56

Me & my bf were together for 3 years. He cheated on me with someone else & I let his sorry ass go. Well the other woman acts like she's mad at me & doesn't even want his family talking to me. She does not like the fact that his mother and family still favor me after all of these years. I have since then Married and moved on. What would cause her to still have an issue with me and she was the one who broke up my home? ...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Family Has A Tough Relationship With Grandfather- Worried About Him. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 14 2017 at 15:48 by Sarah RESPONDENTS: Silvarion LAST POST: Sep 3 2017 at 14:46

Recently over the past years my family has developed a tough relationship with my grandad. His health has worsened and it is worrying. His relationship specifically with my grandmother is appalling to see. The medication he is taking has caused his to go into a state where he is not himself anymore, everyone knows that this isn't the real him. To be honest he has always been a bit of a selfish man but never the way he is now. His behaviour towards others is causing the family around him to not care anymore. My family knows he needs help, he needs to eat healthy, he needs to cut down the d...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Problems Problems Problems (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 2 2017 at 09:15 by Zenshin RESPONDENTS: MISSAPPROPRIATE LAST POST: Sep 3 2017 at 00:36

Where do I start, I am at a point if I don't write and express my feelings somewhere I am about to loose my mind literally. This is a lot, but I need to vent so I do apologize please forgive me for going on and on. I am a 38 year old married man with a wonderful wife and child my problems stem from my parents and sister. For the last 6 years unfortunately I have been disabled due to a major injury that I sustained in auto wreck ( there went my plans for law school) ever since then my life has been spiraling down and unfortunately it has not rebounded yet. In those six years my father has ro...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Fear Of Cheating Wife (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 2 2017 at 17:07 by blackout RESPONDENTS: cory LAST POST: Sep 2 2017 at 23:38

i'm a man 23 years old. I never have relationship before but everytime a watch a movie when the wife cheat to her husband it feels like i can feel the pain of the husband. When i was young i dont have that fear but when i grow up it happens to me. Everytime i watch a cheating wife in a movie, my body feels a little cold and my heart beat faster. But someday i still want to get married and have a happy family, that is something that I dreamed. But what if I get married and my wife cheat on me? I dont know am I strong enough if that happen to me? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Tried Cheering Up A Depressed Guy, And Now I Think He's Obsessed With Me? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 29 2017 at 15:42 by mesojoy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / harry888 LAST POST: Sep 2 2017 at 12:54

I am a very normal person, or at least i like to think that i am. So when i found out that the guy that sits next to me in class is depressed, i tried cheering him up by just talking to him everyday. Turns out we have alot in common, we both like games, and internet culture and stuff, so we get along just well. But the problem is... i think he likes me? I'm not actually sure, it could just be that since we get along so well, he just feel better talking to me. Now he talk to me constantly in class, sometimes even getting me in trouble. He wants to hang out at school, after school, saturday, ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Should I Move Home? Tortured :( (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Aug 31 2017 at 04:14 by Nicky RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / @trying2help / Silvarion LAST POST: Aug 31 2017 at 22:45

Hi everyone, So I am hoping that somebody may be able to help me make a decision or advise me on how to. My story is I have been living in Toronto for over two years on a working visa. I came here with my partner and through the ups and downs we managed to land good jobs and things were going well. In May the working visas ran out and the lengthy process of applying for an extension began. At the same time I suffered a kind of breakdown of sorts and ended up being signed off work with depression and anxiety. I am currently still being treated for this. To date, I have not worked in almost t...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category When You Are Suddenly Being Ignored By A Guy (Posts: 7)
CREATED: Aug 15 2017 at 18:48 by sunshine787 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Mingliao / Altreal / Silvarion / seriouslyme LAST POST: Aug 31 2017 at 21:48

First I admit I entered into a relationship with someone I shouldn't have. He's been separated from his wife for two and half years but at the end of the day still married. After about two months of very flirty friendship, we never crossed "the line", he is ignoring me. There is a specific moment where things really changed. He had a car accident, his wife and kids met him after and brought him food. She didn't stay the night and he was honest about it. Which I totally understand. The next day I checked on him to see how he was feeling.. crickets. I know the answer is to move on but...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Nightmare 3 Year Marriage With Step Kids. Help Please (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 29 2017 at 21:17 by Impy2 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 30 2017 at 22:09

Hi, been married 3 years, both second time around. My wife is English. I'm in northern Ireland where we are living. When we got married my wife came over here and brought her 27 year old son to live with us with the understanding he would stay 1 year maximum. Anyway it's been a disaster with me not getting on with him. He is still here and he's now 30. I moved out for a couple of days a few months ago telling my wife he had to go but she won't put him out. I'm really at the end of the road with this. I have no kids myself and I'm suffering depression with the atmosphere in the house. My just k...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Advice For My Relationship And Myself (Posts: 8)
CREATED: Aug 10 2017 at 22:57 by FEANON RESPONDENTS: 8Twenty8 / Silvarion / bunnyhabit / Susiedqq / TUNDEX LAST POST: Aug 30 2017 at 08:33

Lately i realize I've been feeling jealous- or something close to jealousy -of my girlfriend, but not in the usual sense. I love my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 2 years, and i trust her with all my heart. It doesn't bother me when she goes and hangs out with her friends, whether they are male or female. I'm a firm believer that people in a relationship need space and hanging out with others is healthy to both parties. When we started to hook up in the beginning we were just people enjoying each other. We even saw other people while we messed around, but in the end she told me she...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category To Stay Married??? Is It Worth It? Can It Get Better? (Posts: 55)
CREATED: Jul 3 2017 at 06:26 by Reliable me RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Advice / Soulmate / John Peres / Silvarion / MamaBear LAST POST: Aug 29 2017 at 05:06

I've been married for 8 years and have three beautiful children. Both my husband and I have gone through some very big, and positive life changes such as obtaining our professional careers, having another baby, and moving. These changes, though positive, have creating issues and tension in our marriage. (Or at least I think those must be contributing factors, right??). When I fell for my husband he had been so loving, patient, kind, caring, observant, and thoughtful. He was fun and funny and didn't let me get too wrapped up in the little things. Now, however, he is irritable, angry, contr...

Housing advice forum category advice forum category About To Go Homeless (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Aug 23 2017 at 21:38 by Raidel RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Aug 26 2017 at 19:55

I am 24 and a really hard worker, I grew up with an abusive father until he ran away when I was 10, Since then I have lived with my mother and her boyfriend whom she met when I was 12 and my twin sister, until 2 years ago when my sister moved in with his boyfriend with whom she had a kid. We lived in a relatively large apartment, which was infact a gift to my mother from her mother, I haven't ofcourse lived in this apartment for free, every month I pay rent for the room I live in ever since I was 17, I also take care of maintenance because of my carpenters background and I always fed myself, I...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Wife's Health, Inlaws (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Aug 21 2017 at 05:29 by Minejunk RESPONDENTS: manalone / Susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Aug 26 2017 at 04:03

Hello dear reader (thanks so much in advance. This is pretty lengthy) My wife and I have 2 children. 3 and 1 yrs. I love my family dearly and would do anything for them. Im a hard headed former Marine with a degree in Computer Science. I believe that everyone you meet in life is a teacher in one way or another. I come from a dysfuctional family (not a lot of affection in either direction) but otherwise well adjusted. Recently, I asked her 2 sisters and mother on their stance about CPAP machines for wifes sleep apnea. I noticed after some time in our relationship that she would snore and ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Pathological Liar/alcoholic Mother Is Trying To Break Up 10 Year Relationship (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Aug 22 2017 at 21:44 by Nubbs29 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Silvarion LAST POST: Aug 25 2017 at 22:59

About a month ago, my fiancé called me informing me that my dad had kicked him out of the house. When I asked him why, he said that the night before, in the middle of the night he was walking to the restroom and saw my mother sleeping on the couch. He went over and grabbed my moms butt. The next day my dad asked my fiancé to talk and told him my mom told my dad what happened the night before. My fiancé apologized and didn't want to cause any problems so he left without any confrontation. But neither party actually talked about what the other party did or didn't do. Backstory, my fia...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Waisting My Time Or Should I Stay? (Posts: 10)
CREATED: Aug 15 2017 at 15:47 by Beauty 808 RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye / CROSSroads / Susiedqq / Silvarion LAST POST: Aug 25 2017 at 22:56

Me & my bf have been together almost 10 years. I took him from his ex gf bc i just knew i had to have him. We have two kids together one of which I haven't told him wasn't his, but he thinks she is. I often talk to him about marriage but he always says I'm not married or I'm never getting married. But he brought me a ring and told me ut was just a ring and nothing more. He just recently brought a house near his parents and didnt put me on the mortgage. I dont like it but I tell people we brought it together.People would often tell me he doesn't love me like that but I knew over time we would g...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Have I Done (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 24 2017 at 12:15 by joanne5057 (alias modified to protect identity) RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 25 2017 at 14:08

I started seeing someone (a) 18 months ago, it has been really difficult, he never texted or called and it was left to me to arrange contact. I don't know why i bothered. Last night after me contacting him for 4 days, sending text and pics, he finally admitted he'd met someone last week. i wasn't happy because i felt he should have told me 4 days ago.I know it was only fun for him, but part of me wanted a relationship.Until last week, i'd never let him come to my flat as i knew when he saw i didn't have money, it would be over, and he proved me right! However, in this time i have also been see...

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