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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy bf has an Inappropriate relationship with a girl half his age!!
CREATED: Jun 18 2021 at 11:25 by Nichole878954

My bf has a inappropriate relationship she is 20 he is 43 she is his friends daughter has known her most her life they lived down the rd.. they never talked while we have been together til she moved in down the street renting her moms house... he makes comments about her like she’s hot he wants to fuck her got upset when I didn’t think she was hot then I find out at 16 her asked to see her nip...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI’m conflicted… should I risk it?
CREATED: Jun 18 2021 at 07:13 by Beetle

So… there’s this person whom I’ve known for a long time. We were close friends since elementary school and always got along and stuff. They’re sweet, and caring, and we make each other laugh. Things sort of changed in high school, when they told me that they had a crush on me. At the time, I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship, (you know, being young and dumb) and I turned them down as ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGoing Crazy
CREATED: Jun 17 2021 at 13:24 by swimmingabroad

Dear All, I have got into a mess and can't get out of it I need some advice please. Basically I have ended up in an online relationship with someone who is 15 years younger than me , I am married with kids , in an unhappy marriage and live a very stressful life for various reasons. I think it was a form of escape to start chatting to people online and find friendship I was not looking for anything...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryI "need" therapy because the concept of work is a joke?
CREATED: Jun 16 2021 at 19:50 by GaiaGoddess

For 30 years I bounced around to about 15 different jobs and each one made me more depressed. I eventually realized what I knew all along...I am a square peg surrounded by round holes, and no job is going to allow me to be happy. The entire concept of working is a joke, and we are born into a society that perpetuates this trap. You are forced to choose an activity that you have to do, trading ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy is he doing this?
CREATED: Jun 16 2021 at 10:20 by IamSanna

There is one guy, having two kids, same as me. We r friends now for some time, since he got divorced and his ex has new bf and kid. When his kids r staying with him we always play together with my and his kids. I confess my feelings to him andhe said he doesnt feel the same. It was a year ago. I stopped talking to him for a week, then he contacted me again and we talk normal since then. Last c...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category35M girl asked my contact but gave up when she knew the age gap
CREATED: Jun 15 2021 at 02:51 by Pnfsvjxokd LAST POST: Jun 15 2021 at 14:25

I was in a zoom meeting and a friend of a friend asked my contact from her. When this common friend told me about her, she said that this girl "liked me." I added her and we talked for 2 days. But one of the first things she asked me was my age. I told her I'm 35 and she told me she is 21. I found her really pretty. But the next day she opened the game that she couldn't see herself with me beca...

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryFertility and covid vaccine
CREATED: Jun 7 2021 at 22:04 by AmazingButton

I have concerns about receiving the covid vaccine as i have fertility problems and was wondering if anyone knows of anyone personally that had conceived and still pregnant since having their vaccine. Although i realised there is no evidence to suggest that the vaccine can effect fertility as this is an issue for me i was hoping to gain some knowledge as i am having to wait weeks to discuss this w...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm worried and scared I might never find a boyfriend?
CREATED: Jun 7 2021 at 02:38 by TheColorPink

Because people might might think I'm really ugly as possible....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFighting to get to the same life level...
CREATED: May 22 2021 at 20:40 by retconeezing

my goal in life is to get what others got. there are a few incidents here that stand out. i saw this bodywork practitioner a few years ago. she seemed highly rated, so i booked a session, but what happened is that after the session I used her bathroom, and then as she was letting me out the door she said “why are you looking like that, were you raped?” I didn’t really register it at fi...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[807 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard LAST POST: Jun 16 2021 at 18:41

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryYearly family gathering - I don't wanna go
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 14 2021 at 00:44 by APE1972 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 15 2021 at 17:54

Hi all Maybe my problem is not really that big a problem in many peoples eyes, but nonetheless it sometimes really bothers me and it would be great with some input. When I was younger and when my grandmother was still alive, there used to be a yearly gathering at her house, around the time of her birthday, where the entire family on my mothers side would be gathered from noon until late even...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDrunkenly kissed someone - do I tell my boyfriend?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 6 2021 at 01:34 by TricksAreForKids RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 6 2021 at 02:50

I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I love my boyfriend dearly. Last night I went out and got really drunk (not an excuse) and ended up kissing another guy for less than 2 seconds. It meant nothing and I immediately regretted it. If anything this completely solidified the fact that my boyfriend is the person I want to be with for the rest of my life. Do I tell him? I know that you should...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryPhysical relationship and emotional effects
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2021 at 17:01 by Dharshini RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 12 2021 at 13:00

Hi.. I am 26Female. I lost my dad when i was 19. I planned to study CA. I fell in love with a guy(X) different caste, during my 21 and i did not study or be happy with him or with my life. I know it was toxic but i was scared that i will lose him. Because I don’t have anybody else. I was very impatient, over possessive on him. I tried a lot to come out of that relationship but couldn’t. When i...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDating a sociopath- hopeless?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2021 at 12:42 by Plastics567 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 4 2021 at 20:30

, I’ve been seeing a guy who says he’s a sociopath and feels nothing for anyone except his son. BUT he abandoned his son and wife (not sure if they’re still married?) to move to California 3000 miles away, for a job that’s not much different from his job back home. He’ll tell me he’s so depressed over missing his son and “ruining his family,” yet he could’ve gone back home for th...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat do i do to get out of this loop with girl i like?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 31 2021 at 23:39 by Somehere RESPONDENTS: 786 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 1 2021 at 22:46

Hello,this story will be long but i will try to keep it short as i can,but it's important to get all the details out so if some of you have advice for me it would be better that you get whole story. So,story goes long way back when i was a secound year of my high school life,in my country we have 4 years of high school system,and there was this girl i really fell for,after abouth a month of sor...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryRetired neighbour wants to teach me sex
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 28 2021 at 19:51 by unsureguy RESPONDENTS: 786 LAST POST: Jun 15 2021 at 14:29

I am 18 and I cant get a girlfriend my age as I am not that good looking. One of my neighbours is a retired, really nice lady aged 67, who I do shopping for and then have a chat and a cuppa afterwards. One day I told her about the problems I was having getting a girl my age, and she asked whether I was a virgin. I said I was, and she said "I would have you anytime". I laughed it off as a joke, ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to navigate a 25 year age gap
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 29 2021 at 18:49 by NonJudgemental2021 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 31 2021 at 22:45

Manhattan based Male 48 - 23 year old female. I live in the East village in a walk-up apartment. I am single, work at a charity and I do research in sociology. I am clean, decent, respectful, law-abiding, non-smoking, non-drinking. I don't have that much money, but I am an optimist and have a good attitude, a sunny, positive outlook and a good voice. Am Asian. In February 2020 I met a new ne...

Other advice forum category advice forum categorySevere anxiety and being kicked out at 18
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 30 2021 at 03:23 by anxiousnikki RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 2 2021 at 10:08

Hello… so i’ve always had very severe anxiety for as long as i can remember and it’s basically ruining my life at this point. I see a therapist and i’m being evaluated for a mood disorder diagnosis (bipolar 2 seems most likely). I said something really stupid that i didn’t mean and seriously regret but my mother is a bit of a narcissist and i don’t think there’s any way i can conv...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGirl gave me number at work
[6 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2021 at 03:17 by Anonymousbigly RESPONDENTS: SilviaGirl / deontaywilder / 786 LAST POST: May 27 2021 at 16:52

So I'm kinda old, early 40s. Anyway I work in a hospital. There is a young girl, early 20s, works in a different dept in an entry level position while attending college. We have worked together about a year but only actually see each other at work 1 day every other week. We have been friendly, never flirty or anything.she has a boyfriend. Anyways today at the end of her shift she informs me that...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWant to leave a perfect relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 27 2021 at 11:29 by DemiLovato123 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 27 2021 at 12:43

Hello. I am 19yo,, a female and I am currently at a 2.5 yo long distance relationship. Me and my partner are great. We have the only kind of relationship I would ever see myself in. They are the only type of person I can visualize a long term relationship with. The problem is, I feel like I have lost the excitement and the strong feelings I had in the start of our relationship. Also, I don...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my friend a bad friend, or suffering somehow?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 23 2021 at 17:26 by Peraamore RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / SilviaGirl LAST POST: May 25 2021 at 23:33

I have a friend who, since getting into a relationship (7years ago) has slowly disappeared. It would start with not answering messages or agreeing to meet us. She would claim that her phone was playing up, or she had to delete the messaging app for storage space etc. This has gone on for probably at kesst 5 years so she has had a new phone in that time, and also uses it for work purposes s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWants a relationship after two dates
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2021 at 18:28 by SM1592 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / SilviaGirl LAST POST: May 25 2021 at 23:31

So I'm getting some conflicting views on this from friends, and I just wanted to get others' opinions on it even though I'm fairly certain my gut instinct isn't leading me wrong. I met this guy online, and we decided to meet up for a date. The date went really well, and I felt like I liked him a lot. I ended up inviting him over afterwards, and we slept together. I don't normally do that, but I...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy relationship with my dad
[1 POST] CREATED: May 23 2021 at 16:35 by Tulip RESPONDENTS: SilviaGirl LAST POST: May 25 2021 at 23:24

I have been finding my relationship with my dad frustrating for sometime now. My mom passed away when I was In my mid twenties and dad remarried some years later . He and his wife always made it clear, they would move back to her home country when my dad reached retirement age. They made the move early and now it feels like he cant be bothered with me anymore. I put all the effort into our ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend’s response isn’t what I expected
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2021 at 08:03 by LuvHeart RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq / SilviaGirl LAST POST: May 25 2021 at 23:17

I texted my bf “I love you 😘 You’re my favorite person 🥰” and his response was “ Wow nobody ever said that to me before! You're pretty fantastic yourself.” Umm 🤔 … I honestly didn’t expect this response. I would have preferred he just send me the 😘 emoji in response. His wording sucks. I was definitely put off by it. Should I just keep reading into this or let it slid...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I find men to have sex with without going on a dating site when
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 22 2021 at 12:11 by TheColorPink RESPONDENTS: retconeezing / 786 LAST POST: May 25 2021 at 12:21

you don't know any because going on dating sites for sex is dangerous....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I prove I do not have trust issues?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 9 2021 at 06:05 by Anonymous7 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / SM1592 LAST POST: May 24 2021 at 18:44

My fiance relocated out of town for work, I will soon follow with moving truck. We get along great,everything in common. Something rare in past relationships. I calmly asked him if anything was going on between him and a co worker he texts/calls all the time for hours, even not at work, blowing me and others off while he's on the call, or puts me on hold. I'm not a jealous person in relationships...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI just started dating a sweet, awesome girl. Any tips/advice?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 18 2021 at 13:48 by wihenih877 RESPONDENTS: 786 / Santa7 LAST POST: May 24 2021 at 15:51

I (18M) work part-time as an elementary school librarian. For the past almost 2 weeks now, there's been a new girl in town, about my age, doing volunteer work at the school. AFAIK, she just goes around looking for people who need help and doing things with them, which is basically what I did the first few weeks I worked there. One day she came in and asked if I needed any help while I didn't ha...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy world is crumbling and I don't know what to do
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 15 2021 at 02:19 by 091110sredch RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: May 24 2021 at 03:26

I feel numb, empty. Today I found out that my grandfather molested my mother and aunt when they were 13. Until today I would have said he was a good man. He is a little overbearing, and talks down to just about everyone but not a horrible person by most standards. We are close, the whole family is. We do weekly dinners at my husband and I's house. My mom has never seemed to get along with Gran...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat do I do about my dad?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 16 2021 at 03:11 by cvsmixleafyy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Aka / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: May 23 2021 at 02:09

I don't really have anywhere else to put this, as I tried telling my friend and she said: "well that's bad but my dad is worse" and I have nowhere else to turn. I really need advice so any would be appreciated (sorry for grammar mistakes it's late at night and I'm tired): So my dad has bipolar and used to take medicine until I was about 7. Something happened and he stopped. My mom is also bipol...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryPornographic images of my mother on a porn site
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 5 2021 at 13:07 by Anonymous000 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / retconeezing LAST POST: May 22 2021 at 22:36

I am grown up so no issues there. However I was shocked to learn that there are eleven pornographic images in a gallery on a porn site of my own mother. I was even more shocked to learn that the images are not owned by my Mother but the site does have consent from her to display them, and therefore I could not have them removed even though I tried. However my Mother is absolutely mortified that ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs seduction always needed in marriage?
[1 POST] CREATED: May 18 2021 at 19:48 by eric101guy RESPONDENTS: retconeezing LAST POST: May 22 2021 at 22:30

So I am a young 25 year old married man and I have been with my wife for a couple years (prior to marriage). Our sex life is great, when it's active. There are occasional "dry periods" where my wife is not as sexually engaged as she normally is. What is my responsibility here? Should I be working harder on sexual appeal and seduction or do I let her come to me when she is ready? ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I give her a chance?
[1 POST] CREATED: May 22 2021 at 12:03 by Lakrisa RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2021 at 12:30

Dear forum users, I would like to write about my difficult relationship. I'm aware of the fact that I should seek the help of a psychologist, but for now I can't afford it. Therefore, I will be grateful for any advice or questions from you - maybe they will make me realize something. This is going to be a long story, but in short: I have a lot of doubts about my current relationship. I am a woman...

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryMy way to succeed after failure from hardwork
[1 POST] CREATED: May 21 2021 at 12:52 by irish RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 21 2021 at 22:38

Hi,,,I started primary school as a bright student but it ended me with very bad marks,,,the same was also in high school was bright but at the end got a grade I didn't want,,my dream is to join university,,, being the first in our family,,,I don't know wat to do,,...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBack with an old boyfriend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 21 2021 at 04:36 by Geegee RESPONDENTS: 786 LAST POST: May 21 2021 at 11:28

I recently started talking to an old boyfriend that I have always been n love with and I am struggling to keep the relationship going but I love the guy so I need advice...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I in a toxic relationship or not?
[1 POST] CREATED: May 21 2021 at 06:01 by Yana RESPONDENTS: 786 LAST POST: May 21 2021 at 11:21

Hi, three months ago I started my relationship, but since then I feel off and I am very confused. I need someone to listen to me and tell me whether my feelings are valid or I am being anxious?...