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Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat Should You Do When You Find The Perfect Woman You Can Not Have?
CREATED: Jan 19 2019 at 00:53 by JustSomeGuy

Hi, I want to apologise in advance for any grammatical or syntactical mistakes I make. English is not my first language. I am a guy in my late twenties and I have had a major emotional crisis over the past couple of months. It was the first time in my life that I felt this way and I have nobody to turn to with my problems. At this point I just wish to tell my story to somebody. I apologise for the length but what I have is perhaps not a simple situation. For most of my life I have been a loner, but I have not been lonely. I don't have any friends at all, and I am not exaggerating with ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryDon’t Know What To Do!
CREATED: Jan 18 2019 at 21:22 by Unhappy wife

I have been with my husband for 9 years. We dated for 6 and have been married for 3. He was my night in shining armor. I had gone through a nasty divorce and he saved me. I was very depressed. I’m not sure I would be here today if it wasn’t for him. He has a photography/videography business. It started with him filming weddings and all was good! He got very good at it. As he got known his business started to grow and he started doing photography also. I kept noticing him being very secretive and kept everything from me. (Not normal, we told each other everything) I kept saying to myself ...

Drug advice forum category advice forum categoryHe Won't Be Seen With Me Because I'm An Addict..but We Just Got High For His Vac
CREATED: Jan 14 2019 at 23:49 by Mistress

There are many issues but one pressing. After being his mistress for 10 years..not allowed to tell anyone..his wife funny finally left.i am now a drug addict and he's ashamed to even be seen with me in public..out 3x a year..he also is in recovery and asked me to get him high 2x Last year..he never touched it again till Christmas he knows I won't sent deny him anything..i love him more than he loves me..thats my cross..i feel used..beccause after wards he can shower and go on with his life ..i can't stop..he once had a big problem so he knows..but he finds my inability to stop as a choice or...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband Says I’m ‘lording’ The Decision To Have A 2nd Child Over Him
CREATED: Jan 14 2019 at 06:14 by StressedMomma

I’m not sure if I want to have a second child. Our daughter is 5 and our marquee has always had problems. Ive never really felt like my feelings are valid to my husband. After our daughter was born things were very hard, I was seen as the Nag, wanting him to participates more at home and party less. We went to counseling and made some changes to our living situation which took some of the pressure off me. He says he always wanted a big family, I had always thought I wanted two but one was so hard and while things between us are better they aren’t great. Today we had a fight in fron...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryI Can Finally Admit I’m Not Happy.
CREATED: Jan 13 2019 at 22:28 by HidingAway

I’ve been in a relationship for the last 3 years, i no longer feel like i get anything from it.. no happiness, no affection, no sex, no attention, no appreciation and no financial stability ( he is currently on the sick, so i am paying all bills ). I just know this isnt a relationship i want anymore, after months i can finally admit to myself that i’m not happy and feel lonely around him. Its just difficult because for a year we were long distance and he moved away from his family to be with me.. how can i end things knowing it will leave him with nothing? I dont have the heart to do that ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm Depressed And I Need Help
CREATED: Jan 13 2019 at 20:42 by Wrong_feelings

I'm sleepy but I can't sleep. I'm hungry but dont have an appetite. I'm crying but I dont know why. I'm laughing but I'm not happy. For a few months now, I have been experiencing these things and I dont really know whats happening to me. For a moment I'm goofy and laughing but whenever I'm alone, I cry and feel really really sad. I think I'm depressed but I dont know. I'm not sure. I tried talking to my boyfriend and telling him about these things that I'm experiencing and he told me that he's here whenever I need him. That made me feel relieved.. Because of that, ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I Taking Too Much Risk Staying With Boyfriend Who Has Had Money Issues In Pas
CREATED: Jan 10 2019 at 21:11 by trusting

My boyfriend is really trying to turn his life around despite having a terrible record of (mis)handling money. He exhibits poor financial judgement which has exacerbated his money woes. Fast forward...he, with my advice, is doing better and pays his bills generally on time. This would be fine if I was only going to the date him the rest of my life but we are both retirement age (or getting close to it) and he wants to live with me (and marry if possible). We do get along but I just feel like I can't trust him with his $ issues because he has lied in the past and b/c of his limited finan...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs My Boyfriend Broke But Says He Is Financially Settled For Us To Live Together
CREATED: Jan 7 2019 at 16:18 by Honesty1623

After many years of my bf struggling to get his finances in order and with my non financial support to help him budget and financial gift from a family member, he tells me he is really happy with his finances so we can plan to live together. In the past, I told him I wouldn't live with him unless he was financially responsible, like me. Well here are the facts... He has paid off all but about $1,100 of current balances for cards, with 1 payment due 2/1 and another shortly thereafter. Of course, this will go up over the next few weeks with purchases of food and gas. He is current on h...