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Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryGirlfriend of married man pregnant
CREATED: Sep 15 2019 at 13:04 by Musanda

Good day. My 30 year old girlfriend is 1and a half months pregnant with our child. She already has 2 other childern aged 10 and 6 years. She was engaged to the father of the 6 year-old when we met. She staus with her parents but has a full-time job. I am a married man. My wife does not know about any of this. My girlfriend is thinking of an abortion. She believes her father will be disappointed and will disown her I don't agree but I'm not pushing. I love her very much. Please advise....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs there anything I can do mindset wise to improve a neg situation
CREATED: Sep 12 2019 at 12:58 by Tamebunny

Firstly, I would like to say I know this whole situation makes me a shady B****. I would appreciate advice that I could use to make the best of the situation and life choices I've created for myself not judgments and criticisms for what I should or shouldn't be doing. Ok so background: I'm 29 and have a young daughter to think of and for the first time in four years I took advantage of the first opportunity I could to move out from my child's father place. He was a rebound from my divorce (was with ex husband from 18-25 I only dated one guy before) and had an unplanned pregnancy with rebou...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryLove life
CREATED: Aug 28 2019 at 18:16 by Tuki

I am a college student and theres a guy that i really like ...and yeah we're maybe friends or no i am not very sure of that but just that i really wanna know if hes really interested or no...and my mind is going crazy for this and i really need help in this cause hes in my mind everytime...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryResponsibility or happiness? Jane or Kathy?
CREATED: Aug 22 2019 at 16:26 by Trytobegood

Life Context I am in my early 30s, male, only child. My parents are very hardworking overachievers who made huge strides for our family, going from penniless rural China to a comfortable middle-class life in the UK. Perhaps because of this, I have always been ambitious and driven to succeed, to make the most of the much easier start in life that I got thanks to my parents (compared to them). Before the age of 21, I was very much a successful high achiever myself. Top grades at school, got into an elite university, you get the idea. However for reasons too complicated to get into here, I...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know what to do
CREATED: Aug 22 2019 at 10:49 by Curiously

I'm sick of myself. Each day I wake up and hate how I look but here's the thing, people call me pretty. Down to strangers,my mom, sister and just about everyone and I don't see it! It's not some light insecurity, I promise, it makes me want to kill myself. Down to a bad angle or anything. It's on and off whether I think I'm pretty.One moment I feel like a goddess and the next I don't. I just wanna feel okay again and no I can't go to therapy. Please just tell me how to be okay. I have things I like and talent's but nothing can keep my mind off it! What should I do?...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I just a wimp
CREATED: Aug 21 2019 at 15:31 by sissyboy

it all started four years ago when i was out with my girlfriend at a local bar when two girls walked over and took the table we were sitting at,at time we were talking to someone else. My girlfriend said look they stole our table ,go say something to them so i walked over and nicely said that our stuff was here and i felt that the table was still ours, well the one female stood up and said its theirs now,and i should leave now. atthat point i said no i wont leave and that she needed to give the table back at which point she stood up and and with one punch knocked me unconscious ! there i laid ...

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryI can't quiet my head
CREATED: Aug 18 2019 at 20:48 by Carabean26

Very long story but I will keep to the main points. A year ago my partner whom I lived with in a lovely house with my two children up and left me the same day I started my new job. We lost the house and me and my two children had to move back in with my parents. My children are 9 and 5 and I am 26, your math is correct, not necessary for my problem but just to give an idea of my life. I wasn't devastated when he left me and didn't eat for three months, did my best to be a mum and to do my new job. About two months after he had left I got a message from my boss from my old work who asked me out...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat's going on???
CREATED: Aug 17 2019 at 21:19 by Tallbean

Hey y'all so here's my problem, a while ago I met a girl through her lovely twin sister who hoped we would become friends as well. At first we were cool and all, noticed she was slightly perverted, like to talk to me and post pictures revealing some of her chest and just fetishised men dressing as women a lot. Yet it was nothing related to me so I let my opinions settle in my gut. A little more into the developing friendship I learn that she's has 6 past relationships and that she cut out a lot of friendships to keep me closer and wanted me to do the same. Didn't like hearing me say th...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryMy husband won't forgive me for being weak
CREATED: Aug 5 2019 at 06:10 by Adrianna

I've never cheated on my husband. He claims I am "disloyal" and I might as well have cheated on him because when he had a mental breakdown and we had to move back to my mom's house I was too friendly with people he didn't like or trust. The people he is talking about are my best childhood friend, her husband and mother. He didn't want me to bring our kids to their house and we argued over it one night and during the argument I said "I hate you!" and "You're lucky I'm still here with you." I also brought them to the house anyway, and because I was so exhausted and sad about the argument, I told...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryCan it be love?
CREATED: Aug 23 2019 at 07:12 by It_Aint_A_Crush LAST POST: Aug 24 2019 at 06:32

So I like this friend and he likes me. We aren’t dating because of a mutual agreement and understanding based around life circumstances. We kind of act like we are though, holding hands and stuff- but no kissing. For reference we’ve known each other a total of three years now. Anyway, I just have this feeling like I could say I love you in that empty space of conversation and really mean it, and looking it up is sort of unhelpful but what I can find supports the thought. I am happy when he’s happy and his smile is contagious for me. Around him I feel at peace, like all my troubles ...