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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryStuck in a relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 18 2017 at 15:11 by trumpet RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jan 19 2017 at 14:33

Hi all, I am in a relationship with a married woman. She has two kids. We have been together for almost a year and intimate for more than 6 months. She claims that she loves me. She calls me every day and visits my house almost daily. She says that she is happy with me. I keep asking her if she loves me enough to divorce her husband. She always answers: only if he dies naturally or when a truck ru...

Money advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed to dive in, and fast CREATED: Jan 17 2017 at 19:42 by DreamsDestroyed08 LAST POST: Jan 19 2017 at 14:28

I just turned 28. I am stuck in a small town that I DO NOT want to be in. I want to live in a city, in warm temperatures, near the ocean. I would even love to live overseas. I have so many things im interested in but not good enough in them to get a job in them yet. Im not sure which one to choose and dive into to make it my career and love it and love life. I am not work driven, I am happy-li...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs My Partner Cheating On Me With His Ex Wife? CREATED: Jan 17 2017 at 14:07 by Lady1964 LAST POST: Jan 17 2017 at 14:49

My partner and I have been together for 17 years. We have no children together. Our children from previous relationships are adults with families of their own. My partner was divorced from his wife 10 years before we met. She has since remarried 3 times and her last marriage (4th) has just ended. They had the usual amount of contact when the children were young, but not so much since they bec...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend paid for a lap dance found out years after. is everthing a lie? CREATED: Jan 16 2017 at 23:48 by Kpnut76 LAST POST: Jan 20 2017 at 08:16

Found out my boycriend paid for a lap dance. Thing is he twists the truth about it. First he didnt have one it was a dance in front of him. But his freind dropped him in it. Then years after i find out it was a full lap dance . He told me firat they was chatting an she offered him one an dont know why he did because he didnt enjoy it . Fibd out his matea eent in booths . Dont they all anyway .wh...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFinding out that my husband was going to leave me CREATED: Jan 16 2017 at 15:22 by Luvpancakes LAST POST: Jan 19 2017 at 14:24

I knew my husband was cheating on me but I didn't know that he was actually going to leave. This happened 12 years ago but recently I was speaking with my mom "n" law and somehow our conversation lead to the time my hubby/her stepson was cheating on me. I guess she knew that I knew it all but I didn't. I didn't know that his whole family was involved in his decision to st...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNesting doll of issues
[15 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 16 2017 at 05:06 by lostandfound RESPONDENTS: TeenieG / another view / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 15 2017 at 12:10

I have four major issues in my life: life, wife, job and its also about a girl. Here it goes: life: I feel like i am going through mid life crisis or something. I feel like i have generally lost interest in things that i used to like and i do not feel motivate about most things. I want to be happy but i don't feel like doing things that used i used to like doing. I used to be a very passio...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepression anxiety help CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 15:11 by edvins1998 LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 23:51

I been deprest for 4 year and i feel worthless :(( i need friedns to talk too. :)...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling kinda lost CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 11:58 by nicknametaken LAST POST: Jan 17 2017 at 07:08

So since September last year, I've been living off my savings which are slowly melting away, and I should probably look for something meaningful to do. The most important thing to me is my boyfriend, and he's probably the reason I have any motivation to do anything (I think). I've been growing apart from my friends and family, and I find most people annoying, to the point where goin...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDon't know what to do, please help
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 10:06 by JordanL103 RESPONDENTS: nicknametaken / Beepond LAST POST: Jan 22 2017 at 02:54

So this morning I just had an argument with my mother. I know, it was my fault starting it and I was being a ignorant person again and pissed her off. I had made my mom angry so constantly and frequently that she obviously had ENOUGH. I can tell. And she got really mad and out of control and said some really nasty and disgusting stuff. It's more nasty than you can imagine. I am a 17 year old ...

Housing advice forum category advice forum categoryMy family moved into my parents home, bad choice....
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 03:32 by anicole RESPONDENTS: AES123 LAST POST: Feb 15 2017 at 01:11

Me and my husband are in our early twenties. We have been married for 3 years. We have a one year old son. We bought our first house two years ago and was doing very well financially. When I was pregnant I lost my job at a bank due to job cuts, and my husband works in construction so he got laid off due to no work, so we went through our savings trying to make due with bills. We don't have an...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryLost
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 00:44 by Lost & Confused RESPONDENTS: anicole / Scopes LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 00:56

A week ago my husband told me that he and one of his female co workers had sex about a week or so before Christmas 2016. He told me that him and her had pre planned 24 hours in advance to have sex after they got off work the following night. That following night he said they got off work and he followed her to an empty parking lot and had sex in the back of her car. Now he says it only happened th...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFundamental disagreement with my husband makes me sad
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 10:04 by Shauna RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood / Altreal LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 22:15

I am pro-life. My husband is not. Some time ago he made reference to abortion in a callous comment: "It's going to come in so you may as well get used to the idea." I have had serious difficulty in talking to him about any real subject apart from kids and timetables since. When I said I didn't want to shop in Tesco anymore because of their stance on Every Life Counts, we ended ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused and don't know what to do
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 07:35 by Confusedaboutus RESPONDENTS: Beepond LAST POST: Jan 22 2017 at 01:43

We've been together off and on for 10 years as of recently he has found recovery and our family has been more than well...As of recently he has been distant and come to find out he had recevied and started talking to someones phone number he had met on the bus and i guess has had conversation with. it caused us to break up or at least significantly split. we have two children together but yet...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryBabysitting help
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 05:10 by Sup1234 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 14:50

I'm older than your average babysitter (20s) and I've been babysitting for this really nice family for a couple years. The only issue I have with them is the dad gets a little innapropriate when he gets drunk (usually every time he comes home). My last time babysitting for them he was already drunk when I got there and was extremely inappropriate towards me telling me he'd have ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage and doing seperate things?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 05:01 by Jono_aussie RESPONDENTS: broost LAST POST: Jan 20 2017 at 00:06

Ok so been with my wife for 9 years now, we have a pretty good relationship id say, we have a 20 month old baby boy and a 7 week old girl. The last month my wife has felt like she is bored with her life and is stuck home, and that I go to work and that I can go and do my music things (im a musician) such as gigs etc which is possibly once a month.. So the other day she mentioned about being bo...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes anyone else feel like their marriage has suffered after having kids?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 13 2017 at 04:41 by luvmybabies1617 RESPONDENTS: Ladder666 / Scopes / Anamica / Shauna LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 19:31

I have a beautiful baby boy and another one on the way. Yay! Only problem is, my husband and are growing further and further apart! It's a lot of things that are contributing to our distance. 1. He spends tons of time at the gym, which I used to do, but don't have time to do now. 2. He doesn't help around the house much with cooking, cleaning or yard work. 3. He never compliment...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryA long time relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 14:00 by Nan RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 14:31

When in high school, I confessed to girl that I had feelings for her, and she agreed to start a relationship with me. We were both fine together,not obsessed, but stayed together when we could. At that time both of us were seeing other men, which means it was more of an open relationship. I didn't take it seriously until years later I can't but think of her, I called her back but she cha...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWife to be serviced by another man
[20 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 09:10 by Sid196 RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood / Scopes / Beepond / OnTheRoad / Altreal / slowjoe83 LAST POST: Feb 6 2017 at 13:58

I have a fantasy to wear something of my wife's then for her to tie me to a chair and lock me in a closet while I listen to her having sex with another man.I've talked this over with her and she is up for it.I am a decent bloke but just have this one fantasy to be locked away in her clothes and made to listen to her getting hot and having sex with someone else.Should I go for it or get h...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryEmployment reference check
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 06:20 by capricozee RESPONDENTS: Beepond LAST POST: Jan 22 2017 at 01:35

Hi, I left the an employer on the best terms. However we agreed he will provide positive reference for any future application. Can someone help do a dummy reference check to see what he has to say about me? Busybee...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to get over a break up when he says he needs to find himself
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 02:58 by heatherrk13 RESPONDENTS: Nice Guy LAST POST: Jan 13 2017 at 18:59

I'm having a sort of crisis at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years this month when out of nowhere he says the past two months have been a lie and he is feeling tied down? We agreed to break up and find ourselves with the hopes that we might get back together. But when I asked him before we took our break if he loves me and wants to be with me he can only reply "...