Relationship for 12 mths, no sign of moving forward?

Hi all :) would love your thoughts. I am 37, divorced, and have a 9 yo child who lives with me. He is 39 never been married or had defacto relationship. We have been in a loving committed relationship for over 12 months now. We live in the same city, but 1hrs drive apart and see each other on weekends. It is getting more difficult for both of us not seeing each other more often (during the week) and I brought it up this weekend, asking him what he saw for the future, ie does he see us living together etc. He replied that he saw that because I have a child in school that I wouldn't be moving anytime soon (meaning the next few years) and if I were to move closer to him that it shouldn't just be because of him!! He said he saw us living together eventually but no idea when that would be. Now, my real question is - is he just trying to make really sure we are right before making such a big committment, or is he trying to tell me that he doesn't want that with me? It is pretty confusing as we are really in love and when we are together it is wonderful, however I didn't push it too much as I felt it was a bit confronting for him. Your thoughts?:)

hi...this means.. that he just needs time, if he asks you to move or make a decision like this. The relation will move in to a more serious phase. Inshort if you like him, and you both enjoy with eachother just give him a bit of time, and after a while when you think that relation should move to the next level again talk 2 him about it and see how it feels :) for now just enjoy the relationship.