Threads created: Sep 13 2024 to Sep 19 2024

I'm 24 and he just recently turned 31. His birthday made a month since we've been entertaining eachother. I met him through a mutual, he came over to my apt and came over every night 4 days in a row, he wouldn't just wake up and immediately leave either he'll stay for a hour or 2 then leave. When we first met we both disclosed we had kids, and he is open about his situation wit...

My boyfriend almost used a racial slur related to Chinese people while we were discussing its inappropriateness. He was recalling a past comment and reading a screenshot where the slur was used (not by himself). He went to use the word as a descriptor, i.e. “I absolutely did not hate ch-.” But cut himself short and seemed upset- he quickly realized he almost slipped and was very shaken. He exp...

Hello, I just joined this community as I am trying to find some guidance in life. I finished my degree, currently doing Erasmus internship and I feel so lost in life, work and the career. I know I am not suppose to know much as I am just starting but I feel severely unprepared even according to my current colleagues and when I look at others in similar situation after graduating, they are much ...

3 months ago my husband found out he has another son, 9 years old. We have been together nearly 8 years with 2 boys together, 4 and 5. He also has a daughter he's always known about who is 16. It can't really be said that he had no idea, he was told when this woman was pregnant that it was not his, however his family members have at times said the boy looks like him but he never did anyt...

I'm feeling rather hurt. My only Sister just totally lost it with me. I support her constantly. I bite my tongue often. I reached out to her just to vent my concerns. I felt worried about my relationship with my daughter. I have nobody else to turn to. Both of us being Mothers with a daughter I was hoping for some emotional support and a shoulder to cry on. I was hoping ...