Answered threads: Nov 23 2020 to Nov 29 2020

So I met this guy online(he started the conversation first) and it almost three weeks since we started talking. Two days ago I asked him what exactly is he looking for, and he told me: “ Honestly I’m just looking to make new friends and see where that goes.. i dont believe in just jumping into a relationship and expecting it to be something serious. I feel like every couple needs to be friends first and then have the relationship sort of evolve on its own.” What exactly do you think he meant about that? What do you think I should do?...

I had a wonderful friend. He and I shared everything. He was funny and easy to get along. About a year ago he got a medical marijuana card and it became legal for him to buy a lot of marijuana. He's been high ever since. His personality has changed. He says very little now and is constantly worried about his pot supply. I was going through some things this summer and he couldn't listen to me, not even for a minute. These were things that affected him too. I gave up trying to communicate with my friend because I had to deal with the challenges I was facing. After I got through the challenges I ...

Earlier this year I found out my wife had been sexting an old flame in Wyoming. The things they said to each other made me physically sick to my stomach. I told her I could forgive her but the words I saw keep coming back to haunt me. M desperate to talk to someone about this. Do I continue to live with it or seek professional help thanks Sham....

currently i have a fwb who i dated for three years in high school but broke up with. but i’m in love with a guy i worked with two years ago who now has a girlfriend but texts me every day. another guy who i like asked me on a trip a tropical country and i am going with him. i don’t know what do or who to talk to or if i should just not talk to any of them. ...

Throughout my 6 year relationship, me and my partner have grown and achieved so much together, often with the help of the on another. He is very stable whereas I can be very unstable, he is anxious where I am confident, he can stay calm where I would become annoyed. On paper, there are many positives about him and the relationship as far as future prospects go. There has been, however, many recurring issues that we can never seem to work through. We rarely agree to disagree. Although one may back down on their side in the end (usually him) we still ultimately stay opposing. Our arguments have ...

My co-worker is now considered senior citizen, (60yrs. old). Suddenly she tapped me and told me she bought a dress online that might fit my size. And she wanted me to check it out for the next day and that she will bring it. Well, i know that she wanted me to buy it, but that's not how I buy my dresses. What i usually do is go to the mall and do canvass until i get the perfect dress that i wanted. I really invest on my dresses contrary to my usual outfit inside the office that may be the reason why she's thinking that i will buy the dress instantly because it's not expensive and i look like i ...

The last few weeks have been a nightmare. A few members of my immediate family have contracted the Covid virus and one of them has been hospitalized. In addition, my cat of 17 years almost died the other night from congestive heart failure. First, the vet told me that he has cardiomyopathy and a very damaged heart so he may not survive long and now they called tonight to tell me the x-rays also reveal what they believe to be lung cancer. I don’t know how he could have both since the cardio that was positive that the heart failure was to only due to the heart and there is nothing else to be c...

I have been married for 6 six years and together for 10 years. My wife simply refuses to make love to me, she consummated the marriage on the first night but ha simply refused to have intimate relations since. I am 62 she is 58. I masturbate to relieve the sexual feelings but she says that I am betraying her. I simply do not know what to do. Plaese help....

My husband is a wonderful person who has always treated me well. This is my major insecurity causing me to feel down. Several years ago (before we were married), one of his ex's came up. We were with his friend and they were discussing hot celebrities. His friend mentioned that one celebrity reminded him of my then bf's 1st ex, how attractive she was. My bf agreed with him and I was a little shocked and hurt. Not for his friend calling her hot, but for my bf not shutting down the conversation then and there. Or him saying well that doesn't matter cause gf is the hottest, dumb and pet...

I am 28 (almost 29) and I have the most beautiful 5 year old girl. I have been with the man I thought I loved for about 4 years now. It was so great at first, we gradually got to know each other and eventually around almost 2 years moved in together (with my daughter). As we pretty much lived together, he stayed with me in an apartment and I paid all of the bills. He would ask me for $50 here and there (granted he made about 80k and I made about 11k at the time). He at first would play with DD and they had fun together. She loves him and his son whom comes over occasionally (his mother chooses...

Hi everybody, so my boyfriend and I had already talked about this and we kind of sorted things out, he said he felt comfortable speaking with me about it and so on, so I decided to give him a chance and start from there but recently I found out some things I didn’t know of which I don’t know what to think of. Below these lines I will give a brief explanation of my general situation, please read ,what I have discovered recently, it begins in the paragraph with a small ASTERISK (*) IN THE FRONT. Around June-August 2016 my now boyfriend as an engineer that he is, started wor...

I love buying things for my boyfriend, and he clearly loves receiving them. He tends to like one thing in particular for a month or so, and sometimes I will get it for him. He's always excited to get it. The problem is that if I tell him I'm buying it before I actually do, he tries to talk me out of it. It starts out light-hearted. He says how he really doesn't need it and I should spend my money on the something else. But then he starts to feel really guilty about it, and he feels like he needs to repay me. So much so that he can get to the point of tears. I only want to make him happy....

Anyway, probably about six months ago, I agreed to write the script for someone's game. The scope was about 100k words and I'd figured I could finish it in a month or three (since I write fairly quickly), maybe 5-6 with substantial edits. I am...nowhere near finished. This is mostly because the partner is often requiring 4-5 complete rewrites per section. (Often because she's just not "feeling it" or I didn't somehow read her mind and get her characters right. Or I did, but having them behave in the way she wants them to makes them "too unlikeable" or "doesn't develop their relationships p...

So back in school way before covid I started talking to this guy I had a crush on. Eventually we both had a crush on eachother and would text on snapchat or call almost everyday after school. We didn't ever end up officially dating because it was still too early for all of that. But when school shut down in March and everything was online he stopped talking to me completely. I still tried talking to him but he wouldn't reply so I just gave up. But in September on the 2nd day of school I asked how his first day went and he finally replied to me. So after he replied that I would just ask s...

I've been married (I'm 37M, she's 36F) for almost 15 years. Our marriage has certainly had it's share of ups and downs. Shortly after we were engaged I left my career in law enforcement with a diagnosis of PTSD. She was very supportive of my issues, and I was devoted to her entirely for staying with me. I believe in loyalty to a severe degree, and the fact that she never waivered was the most I could've ever hoped for. We had entered into our marriage with the understanding that we would have children after 5 years. We wanted to wait 5 years to make sure the marriage would last. About 2-3 ...

I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. Over the last few months I've started making some online friends (was getting desperate with quarantine). I (16F) have gotten really close with this one guy (17M) and we both like each other. We're not dating (I wasn't comfortable with the idea of an online relationship), but we text for hours every day, gm/gn texts, and voice call weekly. My parents have no idea about this, and I highly doubt they would be okay with me dating at all. So that's a bit stressful, having to hide this from my parents. On top of this, I haven't mentioned...

Hi I've posted a cpl of times before..honestly because I have no one to talk. My bf and I have had a bad sex life the last year not me him he's too tired not in the mood etc then September I caught him masturbating I didn't say at time then asked told me it was only a cpl times since been together tried to move on the happened again so I went away for a break without him so we could see if we missed each other then he left me few weeks later said lost the attraction to me but still loved me then came back the following week...I initially allowed him as lent him my savings and wanted money ...