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Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat Should I Do With My Mother In Law? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jan 19 2018 at 21:44 by Victoria64 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 19 2018 at 22:46

I am writing my story here because it is a family issue and it would be very difficult to really tell my husband how i feel because it is his mother. I met my husband 5 years ago. We starting dated and quickly knew we were meant for each other. Ever since, his mom has been extremely difficult with me and i do not have a solution anymore. My parents are still married and i have a great relationship with all my family and it was a dream of mine to have a big blended family with my husbands family so i did everything that i could to have the best realtionship with her. My mother in law: s...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHow Do I Tell My Parents That I'm Dating Someone I Met Through The Singles Tour? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jan 19 2018 at 09:29 by angelOfmine12 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jan 19 2018 at 12:11

I’ve been dating Mei since we’ve met through a singles tour held by A Foreign Affair in Shenzhen, China. It’s been a month now since then and we’ve continued to correspond and has definitely gotten to know each other better. My parents have started to ask me about being married and finding someone to date and I don’t want anyone else other than Mei… so, I want to let them know about her. My parents don't really know about the trip I had and clearly have no clue that I’m in a long-distance relationship with Mei. I am not really embarrassed; I am rather concerned about how they...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category23 In A 5 Year Relationship And I'm Scared Of Commitment! (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jan 18 2018 at 17:02 by 23confused RESPONDENTS: !!! / Susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 19 2018 at 00:52

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend a little over 5 years now. Please do not judge me at all. I really do love him but I'm not sure if I want to be with him anymore. I am completely comfortable a round him and we do have good times but I feel as if he doesn't really care sometimes. Im the first girlfriend, sex partner, pretty much everything he's ever had. I worry that maybe since I'm his first hes just settled because maybe he doesnt know if hes truly happy or not. I've told him before that I'm scared maybe one day he will leave me because he wants to see what else is out there. I a...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat To Expect When Dating A Filipina Woman? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jan 18 2018 at 12:10 by bloom123 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jan 19 2018 at 01:40

I decided to join a singles tour to Cebu, Philippines by A Foreign Affair for this coming Jan. 25, 2018. I’ve heard a lot of good things about Philippine women; the fact that they’re family-oriented, loyal and great mothers definitely made me want to marry one. I want to make a great impression and succeed in this singles tour… I want to make my expenses worth it. So, I’m here to ask some questions: what are the things I should be expecting when being with a Filipina? What are the things I should be wary of? What are the things I shouldn’t do? I have much more to ask but for now,...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHe Is Confusing Me (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jan 18 2018 at 10:54 by fatroucha RESPONDENTS: Hard fact LAST POST: Jan 18 2018 at 12:54

There is this guy we had some lectures together, he wrote me around the end of November on facebook he wanted to know more about me so eventually, he asked me out. I was surprised when I first met him we had a lot of fun we almost spent 4 hours together laughing talking and walking it was really good. At the beginning, I thought it just friendship I’m just making a new friend but when I see the way he talks with me, the details he wants to know some of them are even the silliest even when he looks at me it is different. I’m not trying to imagine things but I have a lot of male friends and ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryMy Back Is Up Against The Wall! (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jan 17 2018 at 18:23 by soconfused12345 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 18 2018 at 18:10

I'm the type of person who goes out of her way to avoid hurting people's feelings, especially those close to me. I've dated someone for 5 years and we've had our ups and downs, mostly about his finances. Fast forward, he just got reemployed after almost a year but he is 65 yrs old and even though he collects social security, his wages are low and he has barely any savings (the only money he has on the side is $ he just inherited but it's small). He is AFTER ME, putting a lot of pressure on me now that he found a job - he is ecstatic and wants to live/marry ASAP...I'm really scared...I have a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryThe Girl I'm Interested In Can't Speak English.i Need Help! (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jan 17 2018 at 09:00 by Lover1234 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jan 17 2018 at 15:49

There’s this girl I’m interested in, I met her through A Foreign Affair, she’s from Bangkok, Thailand and she barely speaks English. The services of AFA has provided a free translator and have been translating for us. When we had our first call it was a bit awkward… but she’s still someone I’m interested in. I’m just a bit worried about how genuine her words really are. Let’s be honest, translations aren’t as accurate as we want them to be. So, now I am a thorn. I want to know more about her because she seems to be a real sweetheart but at the same time, I can’t be comp...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHow Can I Fix My Marriage After This? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jan 16 2018 at 15:25 by NYstateofmind RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Factisfact / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jan 19 2018 at 23:19

So I have been with my husband for nearly 10 years total, recently married and we just had our first child. There hasn’t been any issues in our relationship that I know of. We got really drunk one night and had a girl friend of mine come back to our house. Due to drinking so much we blacked out. My husband had went to bed earlier after an argument. Apparently he walked in on my hand in her pants. I’ve never done anything like this and I’m not even attracted to women. Over night my entire world has been flipped upside down. Im so terrified I’m going to lose my family over something ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryCheating Husband (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jan 16 2018 at 10:30 by Jess2947 RESPONDENTS: FishingNet36 LAST POST: Jan 19 2018 at 10:01

My husband had an affair which resulted in a love child. The woman he met on line deliberately got pregnant, we later found an advert on the internet where she was requesting a man for either sperm donor or co parent. He stopped seeing her when she got pregnant and I ever found out until the child was 6 months old when this woman dropped a photograph of the child in the post to me. He now pays child support through the CMS but doesn’t see the child, even though I ever stopped him. He decided he wanted to stay with me as it was me who he loved and the affair meant nothing (the usual cock and ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryFriendship Loss (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jan 16 2018 at 08:25 by FishingNet36 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Jan 19 2018 at 23:14

If a person asks for a lot of favours,turns up unannounced,threatens to break friends with you for not answering the phone and the moment you have a go at them they say that they were as nice as pie to you,need some space and point out all your bad traits,would you say that they have used you to some degree? I am unsure...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryIs There A Way To Adapt To An Online Future? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jan 15 2018 at 18:58 by Altreal RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 17 2018 at 17:40

I'm a 30 y/o American male, and have worked in retail for over 5 years. In the past two years or so, I've noticed how quickly the world is changing. I like technology and the Internet, to a point. I still enjoy video games and occasionally shop online. I prefer self check-outs to registers at stores most of the time. I grew up as a teenager chatting on AIM and using message boards and blogs. But I only recently gave in and started using a smartphone. I have never really gotten into Facebook or watching Youtube videos by different personalities. And the jokes and memes online....It'...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryMy Girlfriend Has Moved Out (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jan 15 2018 at 15:36 by Adzio RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 17 2018 at 16:24

Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year on the 12th January. We met when she started at my place of work at the time. It was frowned upon from the start. We met up and met up without anyone knowing. We had been going for walks on the promanade twice a week and messaging every day. We did everything we could because of how we made each other feel. Saw each other for few hours in between us crossing shifts (i was working nights and she was working days). We had met up from middle of November 2016 and on the 4th of February 2017 we moved in together. My partner had to try move here beca...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryUkraine's "city Of Brides" - Is It Worth Visiting? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jan 15 2018 at 11:20 by cloudnine9 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jan 15 2018 at 23:40

I have always been interested in going to Ukraine. I’ve been a part of a site called LoveMe and have been corresponding with a few great Ukrainian girls… I’m not just interested in their country; I’m also interested in marrying a local woman of Ukraine. The girl I’m interested in is from Nikolaev and I’ve heard that it is also called the “City of Brides.” Apparently, that city has an interesting history that made it into a city filled with marriage-worthy ladies. Aside from the fact that I am looking for marriage, I can’t deny the stunning beauty their local women poss...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryLost After Split With Wife (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jan 14 2018 at 13:49 by Andy_pk RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 17 2018 at 14:21

Me and my wife have just split after being together for 21 years.I did not see it coming but looking on it the may have been some warning signs which i never picked up on.As in normal day to day you get swept along with life ,work etc. My wife started a new job back in june everything was ok and she was happy she had to go on a conference in november for a team building and evening awards which was fine she came home the next day as she was suppose never thought nothing about it.Anyway moving on Christmas came and went all ok but a quite one mother in law came up for new year.Well on Monday ju...