This is not a *please give me advice* post. This more to the tune of *please read this and not let it ever happen to you*!!!!! My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years. Have a son together who is 1.5 yes old. And my daughter from a previous relationship is 6. My relationship is a doozy. Not as much of a drama as many others I’m sure. Yet whopper all on its own. He is a narcissist and I am a pushover who has lost any form of indépendance. I feel like phones and social media can be poison. My boyfriend is on his phone about as much as he can be. Some evening he and I do...

ok, I have a bit of a doozy of a conundrum. So lets break it down. 1. I am a polyamorous woman in a relation with a poly man we both love each other incredibly and he is my life partner. I cant see life with out him, and the poly has only made our relationship stronger. I was in fact late to the party with this, he had been poly for years and i made him monogamous for the first years of our lives together, but after teary nights where i thought i was going mad, i finally confessed all the feeling i had been having about another man, and not in a i want to leave you way more a i love you bu...

On New year's Eve 2017 my wife received a message from a male work colleague. It was a short gif showing a mans hand smacking a sand covered femaless bum.The sand dispersed to reveal the message 'Happy New Year'. We were in the company of her sister and husband at the time and she just happened to be reading some other messages when it came through. I could tell by her sisters reaction that she felt it was odd or inappropriate but I shrugged it off and continued with the night out. And forgot about it for a few months. One evening as my wife was out walking I spotted her phone on the kitche...

I'm a 31 years old woman. never married, I'm a legal advisor and a super skilled professional with master degree in Law, I came from a middle up level family,always wellfaired, my father is a great supportive, everybody says that I;m beautiful (well to be honest think so too). I have experienced a lots of unsuccessful datingas and relationship whiich moslty they left me. I know that I was partially responsible for some of them, but I'm seriously frustrated that no matter how hard i tried, it never worked out. I'm sad these days, most of my friend are haviiing children but I'm still single ...

Hi everyone, I am one of the leaders of a club at my high school and had been encountering multiple issues with it. The club members, for one, are mostly disruptive and hard to control - bringing in kids that walk by from other clubs to talk with them during club session, arguing with other club leaders over the information we present, and messing around with other club members. I know this sounds like a typical teacher nightmare - losing control over their students, but the greater issue I see here is the fact that these people have no obligation to stay in the club and can walk out anytim...

Hello, This week my mother is traveling down to visit me and my baby. We have had an estranged relationship since my wedding, where she tried to control every aspect of it and was exstreamly horrible throughout. Not just me, my husband and other family members too. My husband and I stopped contact after my wedding for well over a year. Then I fell pregnant, I felt the decent thing to do was to tell her face to face, so I did, and from then on our relationship now is very much based around my baby. I have been civil with my mother the whole time, the only thing I'm guilty of is not being ho...

My boyfriend and I have been dating nearly 3 years, and living together 2 years, up until a few months ago. We have so much in common and have great chemistry, great sex, so many great times, but We had an argument that lead to a conversation about him having doubts. As you can imagine, it hit me very hard. He explained that sometimes he has thoughts about what his life would be like with someone else. But that the thoughts pass, and he still loves me and wants to be with me. His thoughts had become progressively worse for a few months and he doesn't know why he's having them. Currentl...

I have been married to my true love for 20 years and together 30. I love this man with all my heart and I don't want to loose him. After being married for a few years we got into the swinger's lifestyle. It took me a bit to be OK with it because I didn't understand why my husband said he wanted to watch me with other men. We have been swinger's for about 10 years or so now and I want to stop and just be with my husband and only him with me, but he doesn't feel the same. In so many ways he is hurting me on a day to day base. He is always on Facebook in naughty groups and sexting them. Saving...

Hi I was on only two dates with this guy who I really thought seemed nice until the second date. We were kissing and then he went to finger me and it happened quite quick! It was quite painful I told him to stop as he was hurting me and he did then stop. I remember feeling really shocked because I didn't think he was going to do that and it happened quite fast. He exposed himself started feeling himself in front of me and started calling me useless because he wanted sex and I told him no. I had already told him I'm still a virgin he kept pressuring me to have sex saying I'm just afraid ...

I have been married to the same guy for 20 years, we had kids after 8 years of the married life. Things started getting stressful and I made the decision to be a SAHM after my second child was born. Things were still going ok unitl last year when my husband started spending less and less time with me and the kids. But overall I always trusted him and thought of him as a good husband and father. My kids started acting up and I was stressed with my daily life which I had conveyed to my husband but he was just too busy at work or so I thought. He would always tell me he was in a meeting and will ...

We are best friends, and have known each other online for over two years. We have quite a large age gap, but it hasn't been a problem as I haven't had much life experience compared to my peers and he is wise for his age, so it feels like we are much closer in age than we are. We are very close, and we text everyday for anywhere from two to five hours altogether. It has always been like this. We both have severe forms of social anxiety, and met on a forum for that. We decided a while ago that we wanted to be in a relationship with each other one day, which I have been very much looking forward ...

My bf is hard to talk to we been together for a yr ive never met his family just his aunt but he says that just him. We also dont go anywhere together we have never been on a date. But he is a homebody he like being in the house. But he said i act like we are married but cant tell me hoe. well how am i suppised to act?? I want to be with him forever! Idk he also isnt affectionate he only does it bc he knows i like it so when he holds me and kisses me i feel like hes only doing it bc i like it not bc he wants to. And he never really tells me im pretty idk maybe im being petty but i dont feel li...