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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I like my best friend?
CREATED: Jan 25 2021 at 05:09 by A19yo

(English is not my first language so if my grammar sucks I’m sorry :) ) First some background information: I have been friends with this guy A for about 8 years and we’ve become best friends about 1,5 years ago. I’m also really good friends with another guy B for about a year. The problem is when we are both (very) drunk, we have a habit of “touching” each other. It started with just handholding and “feet rubbing” (I don’t know the English word) but lately it gets a little more intemate (like hugging but in a more sexual way and he has touched my boobs). We don’t really t...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp my boyfriend spends all his spare time playing video games!!
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2021 at 16:56 by HL0010 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone / barnettnce LAST POST: Jan 25 2021 at 06:34

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, for the past year he’s spent most of his spare time playing on the PlayStation! We both work throughout the day, he gets home typically 6/7o’clock in the evenings, as soon as he comes home he goes and plays on the PlayStation, we have dinner, after he goes back on it and comes back in our bedroom about half an hour before we go to bed! (PlayStation is in a different room) We are currently living with his Father, his Fathers partner and his brother. I feel so drained from all this, I feel we spend zero quality time together ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGuy needs a relationship advice, please help!
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 24 2021 at 10:09 by Ank93 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 24 2021 at 17:01

Hi, I met this girl 7 years ago in college I fell for her and expressed my feelings for her.. soon we were in a relationship, she is kind of an extrovert open minded and fun loving person and gets along pretty well with most people! I am an introvert and i would like to call myself focused person. Our relationship was pretty fine we both loved each other, she loves to eat out, have fun and splurge money unnecessarily, I did not liked her behavior as she transformed herself from a lean girl I met in college to a borderline obese girl which enjoys food over anything else.. We had regul...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryPreparing for boyfriends release
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2021 at 08:53 by mjsm RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jan 25 2021 at 03:00

Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and he gets out in 4. We met while he was inside and the closer it gets the more anxious i feel. We talk about it but i think its a risk. I dont really know what to do. He seems kind of reassuring but idk. I use to say if he gets out and ghosts me I will deal with it but now being in it if he did that I'd lose it. I have done alot for him. Anyway thanks for hearing me out. Please do not judge me as I am aware its a unconventional relationship....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryPartner secretly watches porn
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2021 at 05:09 by Allena222 RESPONDENTS: moon-and-stars / Aka / HL0010 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 24 2021 at 20:41

Hi I have been with my partner 7 months. I see he has watched porn and I don't want that in my relationship. I think it best to separate which is a shame. We have talked about it and he said its no big deal he can't see why it should be. He dies not do it much. But I don't like it as it najes me see images if him in my head enjoying that and I kniw we are fine in our relationship but it's what he's done before being with me on his own and he's still looking at it so I don't feel that close to him much now. I think I should break up but I just wonder how others see this. Does it make them feel...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAre we being selfish and immature? CREATED: Jan 24 2021 at 04:53 by moon-and-stars

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years, but my parents dont know. I'm already in my third year of college and my parents are pretty anal abt me dating and they want me focused on my grades. BTW i go to school in another country and my parents stay in the US. I'm also an honor student, since like high school so I've never really had issues regarding my grades. my boyfriend, on the other hand, is not as academically gifted as i am but he's a hard worker and helps provide for his family since theyre underprivileged. unlike other people our age, he never drinks alcohol or parties...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do? Relationship advice please
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 23 2021 at 20:51 by khushi1 RESPONDENTS: AJM248 / manalone LAST POST: Jan 24 2021 at 00:52

Hi, I'm in a relationship of more than 7 years. My boyfriend is kind of controlling. He's not a bad person but sometimes he wants to control everything. I mean he wants me to change myself according to him. So I was in college when i first met him and it was my first relationship. I didn't have much friends in graduation and he was my priority. I used to spend all the time with him in graduation. So after we got graduated we took admission in the same college for PG. Our classes were different. So on the very first day of our college, he introduced me to two of his classmates. I also introduc...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI think my online boyfriend is lying to me and not being open
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 23 2021 at 17:39 by justanonpan RESPONDENTS: moon-and-stars LAST POST: Jan 24 2021 at 05:14

my boyfriend and i have been dating for five months through discord. he lives about 3h away by plane. recently we've been having a lot of ups and downs in our relationship but we manage to talk them out. last night, he said he didn't want to look something up for me because he couldn't trust me. i know when he's being sarcastic or if he's joking but he sounded really serious. we stayed pretty silent afterwards. about 15 minutes later, i had to leave the call because i had to take me dog out and give him food, etc. because i was away for so long, my computer fell asleep and i appeared o...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I get people to take me seriously...
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 23 2021 at 17:26 by justanonpan RESPONDENTS: khushi1 / AJM248 LAST POST: Jan 24 2021 at 01:10

i don't think anyone takes me seriously. i act a bit mature for my age but that's because i haven't gotten to live a "real" childhood. i'm pretty sure everyone think i'm always lying or that i'm just a little kid in a teenager's body and i just hate it so much. how do i get my friends, bf, and family to stop thinking of me like this?...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryPregnant with the possibility he wants out
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 23 2021 at 11:57 by JaneD0E RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Bluebird11 LAST POST: Jan 23 2021 at 12:15

Dear Readers, Thank you for clicking on this thread, I hope everyone is staying safe. My boyfriend (28 yrs) and I (27 yrs) have known each other over 5 years, but been in a relationship for 15 months only. We've been a bit rocky, where trust issues has made us fight even broke up one time during the 15 months. Nobody ever cheated though, as far as I know. During the time we got back together, we got along fine and it so happened that I found out I was pregnant when I was 10 weeks 3 days along. I found out so late because when I first missed my cycle I thought nothing of it as I was ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category19 Years - Time to Leave?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 23 2021 at 02:53 by randyguy216 RESPONDENTS: Aka / Bluebird11 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 23 2021 at 12:00

My wife and I have been married for 19 years. I am 46, and she is 40. We have two kids, a 16 year old son and a 13 year old daughter. Our son is graduating high school this year and has already completed 2 years of college completed. He will go to college next year away from home. Daughter will start high school next year. Wife had an affair 13 years ago, and we worked things out...but we never worked through things. She is a fantastic mother, but every bit of energy is focused on the kids (who are quite capable and very bright). She watches a small disabled child in the mornings and aftern...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryParanoia
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 22 2021 at 13:17 by WARtard RESPONDENTS: Aka / Bluebird11 / Sunbeams LAST POST: Jan 23 2021 at 16:44

Hey man Just looking for advice on what I can do just in case my doctor doesn't put me on clapixol right away I'm paranoid and constantly here voices It feels like everything's against me Seems like I'm paying for things I did in my previous life Just because I was hit by a car and got my brain damaged when I was 5 Witch makes it more easier to get paranoid I just want to not be so paranoid before I leave this earth Before the real torcher begins in the afterlife...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGirlfriend wants space but not broken up
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 21 2021 at 17:44 by Cbass RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 21 2021 at 20:22

My girlfriend deals with anxiety and now recent depression because of stresses in her life. She got overwhelmed with stress in life and from affection from me and asked for space and to go slow and pull back from the relationship. She sees us as still dating and not talking to anyone else. We spent the holidays together and went through having COVID together so we spent a lot of time and only been talking since early December and together right before Christmas officially. She brought up all the serious deep serious relationship topics and said she's in love with me first and wanted to plan li...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do in this situation?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 21 2021 at 07:10 by greenb3ar RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jan 22 2021 at 21:56

for context, this takes place with me (17) and my friend (18) a few weeks ago during my winter break, she asked if she could come over. her home life isn't quite the best, and she often stays at my house for extended periods of time. although i was a bit hesitant (i planned to use winter break to relax from the stress of online school and both of my parents becoming ill with cancer, and the other one with diabetes) so i said yes (which may have been my first mistake) when she comes over, i remind her again, that we currently do not have a lot of food. this is due to the fact that we ar...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed advice about valentines gift
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 21 2021 at 07:01 by estelle41 RESPONDENTS: Brunettegirl / barnettnce LAST POST: Jan 25 2021 at 04:41

Actually, I met a girl for about 6 months now. All I can say is we both realized that we love each other. I’m looking for some ideas of gifts I can buy on the online store that can be shipped to her on Valentine’s day. Do you guys have any ideas of shops or gifts for this occasion?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp me to stop wanting to seduce my coworker
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 20 2021 at 19:45 by Ramblinrose RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq / Bluebird11 LAST POST: Jan 23 2021 at 12:01

Ok. I have a coworker who is in a sense my boss and I am extremely attracted to him. Many girls are, he is gorgeous and muscular, and somehow he doesn’t seem to realize the power he holds over women bc he is shy and raised in a religious home. I’ve tried the trick of imagining him doing disgusting human things to get over his sex appeal, like him pooping/smelly farts/stinky feet or something but that just makes him sexier and adds a kinky dimension to my obsession with him. I’ve tried ignoring him at work but when I have all coworkers around me get silent and it’s so awkward bec...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTeacher-student feelings
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 20 2021 at 19:02 by Raju RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jan 23 2021 at 15:13

I am a college teacher of 45 years of age and am married with two kids. Recently, it came to my notice that a student of mine of age approximately 21 years has developed a feeling about me. In return, I have also developed the same feeling about her. But, my sense does not allow me to go ahead with this as I have a nice family and am a teacher of her. Nowadays, I realize that she is becoming serious about me, but she does not disclose it (perhaps for teacher-student relationship). When I look at her eyes, I can see a lot of love and I feel myself guilty. As a teacher and a mora...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAbout to begin personal counselling
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 19 2021 at 14:56 by SThomas RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 / AJM248 LAST POST: Jan 22 2021 at 22:29

I am looking to go into counselling for my mental health. I feel like what I am doing isn’t getting me anywhere and with lockdown I just can’t cope. Has anyone been through it before? ...