Answered threads: Feb 10 2019 to Feb 16 2019

So the background of this story is that basically, me and my partner found a video on the internet of her making out with someone without her knowledge from before our relationship. The video goes for about half a minute and they didn't notice anyone filming because they were extremely drunk at the time. She remembered that on the same night, they had sex in the same place of filming. She is now extremely anxious about if there was more footage from the same night that could come back to bite her in the future but we don't have anything to prove or disprove this. I've tried contacting the pos...

Hi I have been dating this woman for 4 months now. Background...When I met her she told me she has never been emotionally attached to any man and it will be sex only. She started opening up to me after a month of sleeping together and told me she got pregnant at 14 and had to fend for herself, alcoholic mother who is no longer alive. She told me at the start she has never had feelings for any man. I said jokingly, you haven't met the right one. Sex is amazing, the best we both have had. We both have strong feelings now. But she allows her ex to dictate, if he thinks she is dating he g...

-When I was 14 in 2008, bet my buddy that I could masturbate in class with nobody noticing, we thought it was hilarious (obviously extremely stupid looking back, never did anything like that before or after), I tried and couldn't really do it then stopped. -We didn't think it was a big deal, we were joking about it a year later, and an upperclassman overheard us. -He started spreading it, yelling it to me in the halls, making fun of me, I went along with it because I still thought it was funny for some reason, I think he spread it was because the teacher was attractive, finally I told ...

We are an older couple, both widowed, living together. I planned a very nice VDay meal, hoping to really focus on each other and help each other feel special and loved. His clueless but sweet Best Friend showed up, wanting to share his findings for a problem we have with our rental. Ok, that's nice. But. It's Valentine's Day. After a while, I asked him if he wanted to join us for dinner, for me that's what you do when someone shows up at mealtime, but I was inwardly hoping he'd eaten early like always and/or realize he could be imposing and leave. No such luck, but we had a nice meal.He left...

I used to serve in the military went on operations in a combat zone, as a result suffered PTSD, severe depression, Anxiety OCD and a few other mental health problems as a result, attempted suicide when I first developed them problems, lost my job in the military because of it, got help now 4 years later I’m slipping back into serious problems with PTSD ...

High so a rough over guide/brief history of me, I’m ex-forces so when it comes to seeking a job I’m not very desirable because of my previous military history and now still recovering 4 years later mental health situation, however I struggle financially to stand independent on my own two feet. (Living with parent still at 24) however I’ve been trying to start my own part time business as a photographer, however it’s been mostly low level stuff like cancer charities, dog shows and a few weddings however trying to work out how to push myself and create a recognisable symbol and the parti...

So the background of this story is that basically, me and my partner found a video on the internet of her making out with someone without her knowledge from before our relationship. The video goes for about half a minute and they didn't notice anyone filming because they were extremely drunk at the time. She remembered that on the same night, they had sex in the same place of filming. She is now extremely anxious about if there was more footage from the same night that could come back to bite her in the future but we don't have anything to prove or disprove this. I've tried contacting the ...

My best friend's husband was friends with my husband. They met through me. They currently just had a falling out. Her husband and my husband would go on man trips. During one of these man trips he cheated. My husband was the only one to know. My best friend found out through phone records about the night of cheating. My husband and me are the only ones that know about it. My problem is my husband told me that he is still cheating on her and that is part of the reasons he doesn't want to be friends with him anymore. I don't know how to tell her without throwing my husband under the bus....

I will try to be as descriptive as possible for this. I am a single 17-year-old girl. I was saving my virginity for someone I loved and that loved me. In December I hung out at the mall with my guy friend and my best girlfriend, let's call her Katie. we met his two friends at the mall. my friend is now dating one of them, let's call him Jack. i noticed the other one looking at me, his name will be Tim. we all hung out in Jack's car. Tim flirted a little with me that night, took my phone and looked through the pics, not giving it back until I was in his lap. later that night he took my gold cha...

I am approaching retirement and have $1.5 million in various 401k/retirement accounts. I also have a non-curable medical condition. The money is invested with my long term financial advisers. I am married & have 4 kids. One of my sons just graduated college and became a financial adviser himself less than 1 year ago. Of course he wants me to become his client and transfer all my money to his accounts. My wife agrees with him because she says we need to help/support him. I am a private person about financial matters and don't want my child to know all about every dollar I've ever made. My curre...

I am a 21 year old guy. I have never dated a girl and I think I'm really desperate right now. I have spent the last 5 years of my life chasing 3 girls ( one after the other ). I spoiled my chances with all of these girls by revealing my feelings in an early stage and then acting like a creep. I think I liked all these girls just for the looks. Currently I like another girl since the last 5 months. I haven't revealed my feelings yet. I became friends with her when we were assigned as a team for a college project. I got to know her well. Found many similarities with her and we would enjoy time t...

So I was with my ex for 2 and a half years and it was an amazing relationship, I was ready to settle down with him and one day completely to my surprise he finished things with me because he wanted to focus on his career and put all of his energy into that. He broke my heart and I was devastated but I had to be understanding because he was getting busy at work and I didn’t want to hold him back in any way, I just wanted him to be happy. I found out a week later he was meeting a girl that wanted to get to know him when we were together and she wanted to get with him but he said he didn’t...

My dad will not accept my mixed race boyfriend purely based on race. He says he will be "civil but don't have to accept him" and i don't think thats good enough. We've recently had a baby and he wants to meet her. I feel by not accepting my bf he doesn't accept half of my baby. I've made it clear that unless he accepts my bf he won't be seeing her. I wouldn't be setting a very good example to our daughter if i allowed them to have a relationship? He has several step grandchildren through his new wife and they all call him granddad. It hurts to see photos of him posing with new babies ...

So me and my husband for a about four years have been discussing swinging. Him more so than me. He wants to have threesomes with another male involved of for me to be with another female. I was against it for so long as it felt like if I did it I was cheating on him. Anyway eventually he persuaded me to try it once. So we did and it wasn't so bad. He kept telling me to message men and if I wanted to I could meet them alone. I did not take him up on the offer but thought about it. Anyway a few months later he kept mentioning that my female friend fancied me And it was obvious. I couldn't see ...

So ive had an interesting relationship with this girl over the 5 years or so and mind you her and i were our firsts for each other we had a very intimate relationship for about 6-7 months but before that we were great friends for a year and have been still be day. This was during high school and after that amazing 6 months she left and went off to college we probably saw each other 2 maybe 3 times wthin the first 2 years. After that havent since and over the years ive gottin random texts from her saying i was the best guy she was every with this was usually every time a guy would hurt her. I...

My boyfriend and I have been together for around five years, while we only started dating for three. He's nearing his thirty fourth birthday this year and I'll be twenty two this summer, he has two kids from two separate ex wives and his son lives with us. He says he wants more kids but he refuses to have any right now. I know its early for me but I've dreampt of being a mom for years, I have Rh Negative blood which makes it very difficult for me to conceive and carry past the first trimester without blood transfusions and strict health routines. I love this man with everything I have and ...

Okay so I started to write this post and once I hit 1000 characters realized that probably nobody wants to hear all that. So here’s the short version. After 3 long term (7+ years) relationships that ended in my partner being unfaithful to me I realized that I am just a completely lost person. I am the type of guy that puts everything on hold for his woman and now that I have been cheated on again I realized that in the course of the past 8 years all I have done day in and day out is try to make her happy, work, and raise kids. I have ZERO hobbies or interests, I have no friends male or fe...