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Relationship advice forum category advice forum categorySuper Confused (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 15 2018 at 10:17 by GWillis RESPONDENTS: lily31 / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 14:01

So at first I thought I was a booty call but now I'm confused. I really like the guy and I want to date him but when I asked what our relationship was he said that right now he just wanted to be friends and work up from there cause he doesnt want to rush into a relationship like he usually does, and he explained he just got out of a relationship back in April so it wouldn't be fair to me if he's still working through his feelings from his breakup. Which I find fair. This talk happened a couple days ago to about a week ago but today he talking about how he loved having me over and spending time...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryBeginning College And Ending My Relationship. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Aug 15 2018 at 01:59 by IcarusWings RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 12:29

I began dating my partner 4+ years ago. We we're just in high school. Now, recently we have both graduated and are off to college. Mine is different then his and, his is an hour away. We are both full time students starting within the next 2 weeks. I broke up with him (discussed it with him weeks in advance) at graduation. We are both still very in love with each other and we are trying to spend as much time together before school starts. Im scared of losing him. At the same time, i am also nervous that my school will suffer because of my relationship with him. It hard giving up a partner and ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy Would He Delete Me For Something So Petty? (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Aug 15 2018 at 01:18 by Chez200 RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 02:47

He deleted me off Snapchat after i pressed to call him rather than send him a chat. I hung up as soon as I realised what I'd done but when I typed a quick sorry into chat it said the message was pending until I was added as a friend. We had spoke almost everyday for a few weeks but this dwindled as it was almost impossible to see each other. We did know each other but we didn't meet up since talking online. We haven't spoken for a couple of weeks so I was going to send a message to ask if he was doing okay but pressed call instead of chat and as I said he's deleted me. It's really ups...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryHe’s 10 Years Older Than Me, What Can I Do? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Aug 15 2018 at 00:04 by Judy bo budy RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / IcarusWings LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 01:35

So I’ve been at my workplace for about 1 year now (I’m 18 years old). There’s a man of 28 who works in the same place and we get on quite well have a laugh sometimes and I’ve really taken a liking to him. Over time my feelings have grown stronger but I’m sure he really doesn’t have a clue and most likely doesn’t feel the same way at all. What do I do?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow To Know If You Boyfriend Is Sexually Attracted To You Anymore (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Aug 14 2018 at 19:10 by Junebug94 RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 02:10

Me and my bf live together. Here for the past 9 months, we hardly have sex anymore. I am always the one initiating sex first. He always says I am too tired,I am hurting,etc. I wake up to him almost every single night masturbating beside me. He tries to make sure I am asleep first before he starts. I had a conversation with him about it and he says I am crazy. That is lie when I know it isnt. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. We are lucky to have sex once every week if not once every 2 or 3. At night when he starts I try to help him by placing my hand their and he says are you stupid...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryStill Living With My Ex Bf But He's Also Communicating With Another Ex (Posts: 19)
CREATED: Aug 14 2018 at 09:12 by warmheartedhuman30 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 04:28

So this is my story. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last feb this year just because he cheated on me. After a month that we separated, I found out that it did not work out with the girl he chose over me. And then the next news is he is now communicating with his ex girlfriend (his gf before me). They were together for 6years while our relationship only lasted for almost 2yrs. Of course I got upset since I felt that I was cheated twice. Although he did that after we broke up, I questioned myself if he really loved me during the time that we are still together. Why is it easy for him to cheat a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHow Do I Deal With My Judgmental Sister And My Bf She Will Not Approve Of! (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Aug 13 2018 at 16:41 by choices400 RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 02:19

I am dating someone who I have been on and off again for a few years. I never shared this info with my sister b/c she is judgmental and we live a few hundred miles apart so the easier way was to avoid it. He served time for white collar crime but has turned his life around and I am very happy with him now. I've been widowed for 7 years and dated others but I do love the current bf and respect him for getting his life back on track. My sister is VERY JUDGMENTAL and I know she will freak out that I'm seeing him! The real issue is coming up...I invited her and her husband to the beach wher...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryJust Helping Anyone Out Of A Dysfunctional Relationship (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Aug 13 2018 at 12:37 by cassdee RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 02:23

Seven years ago, I found out accidenttly that he was texting this same old girlfriend, and I told him that if it happened again, it was a deal breaker. At that time, our children were still living at home so I decided to remain in the marriage. Now we are empty nesters.. last month i came in contact with an old friend who introduced me to this site almondhackingarena. com they helped me realize that my husband been having an affair with several other ladies through his phone text and fb.. i cannot thank them enough than to introduce their service to people out there in such dysfunctional r...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryWife Keeps Bringing Up Divorce, On And Off (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Aug 13 2018 at 04:31 by payitforward818 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Isobel / bunnyhabit / IcarusWings LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 02:57

I usually don't post to this kind of site, but I fear that any advice I get from my friends is inevitably biased, and could use some outside perspective on my situation. I have been with my wife for about ten years now. She has a son from a previous relationship, and I have been with her since he was a one-year old (the biological father has had an inconsistent presence, and has lived far away for most of the child's life now). I love her son as my own, and have been playing a father figure role for most of his life. Originally, my wife and I intended for us to have our own biological chi...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHow Would You Feel If Your Boyfriend/husband Donated His Sperm Without Telling? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 12 2018 at 16:01 by reddragon12 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / IcarusWings LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 03:09

My boyfriend and I are having a hard time working out a problem. I understand that we are not going to see eye to eye all the time but he thinks I am being very irrational. My boyfriend failed to tell me that he is a sperm donor and does not see the problem. Recently I asked him what he was up to and he dropped the bomb through text, that he had “just donated his seed to a lesbian couple”. I am not mad about him being a donor and I do not wish to control him. What hurts is the fact that he did not sit me down and just tell me. He waited until after it was done to tell me and I was far from...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum categoryMy Family Is Broken (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Aug 11 2018 at 00:42 by Luna RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 13 2018 at 13:34

My mom got married when she was 22, and I was her first child. No offense to any race or whatever, but my parents both come from India, so over there woman are treated like trash. Ever since my mom got married, she said it has become he'll for her. My dad would get mad for the smallest things, like my mom not being able to pick up his call this one time. My mom never got to graduate college or uni because of her sudden arranged marriage, so her best choice for a job was to open up a day home. My dad went to medical school and finished whatever he had to over there (India). But he complains tha...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs He Playing Me? (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Aug 10 2018 at 18:33 by RaVen18 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Aug 14 2018 at 03:24

I met this guy in college, and we became friends. 4 months later, he tells me that he loves me and hints to having a future together. During the fifth month since our meeting, I asked if he had me in his future plans so everything would be clear, and he told me that he has no intention of ever leaving my side. Two weeks later, I mention an official relationship and boom!! he decides that we are great friends but he's not ready for one. However, he still treats me the same way as a lover and ignores me when I question his behavior. Whenever I try to ignore him, he's like:"are you sick of me?". ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs There Any Chance She Might Come Back? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Aug 10 2018 at 16:39 by richdeniro RESPONDENTS: Bobbie76 / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 11 2018 at 22:48

Basically back at the beginning of January I met a slightly older woman and we kind of hit it off, I'm 38 by the way. Well to cut a long story short, I was seeing her quite intensely... I don't really know how to describe the relationship as we weren't boyfriend/girlfriend but it was a lot more than friends with benefits. She's 45, three kids and just divorced although she's still living with her ex-husband - they been separated for 18 months now, have separate rooms and the house is up for sale although taking forever to sell but they are also trying to make it easy on their kids. Anyway s...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship For 5 Years (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 10 2018 at 04:26 by WhatToDoNow2015 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / LoriMcDaniel LAST POST: Aug 14 2018 at 15:13

Barely any sex, 99% of the time I'm initiating it, he's totally closed off, doesn't want to talk about it...I've been going to counselling, to a psychologist, have spoken to many friends and still the same problem occurs. He has many good qualities but this is driving me mental. Please help. Is it worth ending the relationship?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIn A Failing Relationship But Back In Touch With Old Crush (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Aug 9 2018 at 17:39 by Bobbie76 RESPONDENTS: Royal baby / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 13 2018 at 13:21

I haven’t used a forum before, but here goes. I am currently in a bad relationship, I am working on ending this but as it is emotionally abusive and most of our friends are mutual I am finding it difficult to do this with low self-esteem and little support, but I will get there. My problem involves someone else. A while ago I met a lovely single man, when he started flirting with me I did respond, despite him letting me know he wanted to take things further I didn’t, although the flirting continued. The truth is the attention did give me back my self-esteem and I knew (know) that it ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHow Would You Deal With This Crisis? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 9 2018 at 12:27 by B4CON RESPONDENTS: Bobbie76 / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 9 2018 at 19:19

I was recently dumped by a 7 months boyfriend. He was very nice, loved me so much, and cared for me as hell. But one day he couldn't be there for me when I really needed someone because he was at work. We were doing a long distance thing for 2 months, and I am still across the globe. I said "I hate you you're not worth it". And he tried contacting me for the next 12 hrs and I ignored his texts. At the end of the day I tried apologizing after I was settled down. He said that he can't take it anymore, and he can't be so emotionally committed to someone and have them tell him these things. So he ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryExtremely Jealous Wife (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Aug 9 2018 at 05:28 by Nob24 RESPONDENTS: Bobbie76 / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 10 2018 at 13:34

Im going to try to explain my wifes point of view as best as I can. This is very hard for me because I cant make any sense of how or exactly what she is thinking. It seems that the main problem in our relationship is that she absolutely HATES my sister. There is NO reason for this. It started towards the beginning of our relationship. She just started getting jealous that I have a sister and occasionally she wanted to talk to her brother. My wife accuses me of somehow taking care of my sister while neglecting her but this could not be further from the truth. She accuses me of providing houses...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryMom Of Two, I Need Help Leaving Him. (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Aug 9 2018 at 03:31 by Newhere RESPONDENTS: Bobbie76 / susiedqq / LoriMcDaniel LAST POST: Aug 14 2018 at 15:19

So Im a stay at home mom, he works 40 hour weeks and its just not working out. Its not working out because he is starting to go back to how he used to be before we had babies. He was pysically abusive towards me but it was my first relationship so I stayed ( like a stupid bitch). Anyways now every day he comes home he cals me names, ugly, fat bitch, makes fun of how my arms have some fat, says im a shitting mom <--- that really broke my heart. Im not sure if i can leave. I know I need to because he yells at me around our 1 1/2 year old and our new baby. My 1 1/2 year old gets scared and run...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy Can’t I Get Over Partners Porn Viewing (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 9 2018 at 02:29 by Crazylove7 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 14 2018 at 13:34

I want to know by someone who views porn why my partner (when I looked right back through his history) searched for specific types of girls in porn videos. None that resemble me at all, things he has said are gross but you guessed it, we watched it. Teenage porn was a big favourite and I’m no teenager. When first confronted he said well I mainly look at milfs because they’re better more experienced, this is not true as I watched what he did. Told him this and he cannot give me an answer. Why? He’s not viewed any for 2 weeks, longest time ever and has said he won’t anymore. One day I’...

Other advice forum category advice forum categorySuggestions (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Aug 9 2018 at 01:33 by Stupidonforehead RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Aug 14 2018 at 18:19

Suggestions for spy app for android phones that are undetectable, preferably free, or reasonably priced and able to hopefully see all activity ie: chat rooms, dating sites, chat sites, emails, calls, etc. Any assistance is appreciated...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryKeep Or Tell? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Aug 9 2018 at 01:19 by Lea.r RESPONDENTS: WhatToDoNow2015 LAST POST: Aug 10 2018 at 04:43

Should I confuse to my boyfriend that I have been messaging another man? We have been together for close to 3 years. Since March, I felt like he wasn't there for me. He just didn't show concern or love. I don't have any friends where I live and the ones I do message, can be very picky in when they respond to me (not the best friends, I guess) I felt so lonely. So much was happening in my personal life. I had so much stress from my mom and brother. So I ended up searching out online chat apps. I ended up making one guy friend. We have been speaking since. Its been great having someone t...