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So basically I feel like I majorly screwed over everyone I work with (including my boss) and I need advice on how I can make it up to them or even if I should just leave so they can find better. My father in law passed away after a long stay in the hospital and because of this, I missed around 4 days of work in a row (when it happened) and I worked a few (under 5) half days leading up to it to...

Recently watched a series about a Utah Polygamy Family. Have previously watched a series titled 'Empresses in the Palace'. Had a huge discussion with Adult Daughter about the concept of people who have open intimate or romantic relationships with more than one person at a time. It ended in a Massive Argument. I was shocked to discover how very different our view points are o...

Hi, looking for advice and or feedback from others with similar experience. I’ve been married to my husband for 14 years and whilst we are great friends, we’ve not had any intimacy for 12 of those. He’s just not interested and won’t discuss it. We do love each other but it feels just as friends now. I miss the sexual spark and the feelings related to that…to be honest we never had...

I am very lonely. I am 23 years old and I have no one to talk to. My best friend is in college and is busy. She never has time to talk to me. I can't afford college so I'm kinda stuck. I just want someone to talk to me....

Visiting daughter and son in law out of state with boyfriend of 18 months and it hasn’t gone as smoothly as it should. My boyfriend feels slighted by my daughter and says she barely talks to him and monopolizes me. I don’t agree with this entirely and only see my daughter a few times a year. My son in law has spent time with my bf and all 4 of us have too. my daughter says she and my son in...

My boyfriend has a tendency to be "possessive" in the sense that he sometimes can get a bit insecure if I don't text him too much, etc. including when I spend some time with my grown kids. He now says if we live together he would not be that way because he would feel more secure. Should I believe him? I don't think he is lying to me but it seems weird that he cannot feel just...

I'm in debt and I've been too sick to work, what do I do? I'm 21 years old, female, still live with my parents. I believe I got an injury in my jaw/teeth last month and it triggered some type of nervous system response in my body. It was so bad for the past couple months, felt like I was dying. I couldn't work, I was barely functioning. I had numbness, tingling, loss of sens...

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

So, there is this common friend group that I have. I have met most people from it but due to the pandemic, we mostly meet in online video calls. The number of people on the call varies depending on everyone's schedule. There is this one girl in the group that was my senior and over the past few months, I started talking to her. We started talking about casual stuff like shows, work etc. but o...

I believe I may need genuine Help. I just can't seem to get it anywhere....

My partner of 7 years separated from his wife but is now caring for his elderly mother 96. They live a 6 hour drive from me and his mother will only allow a neighbour to look in on her for a few days in the week a few times à month. My partner is a very kind caring man we are both retired but I am mostly on my own. His health is suffering becoming depressed because of the situation ...

I felt like my bf was becoming more possessive and controlling so I told him I need a break to think things through. Since then, he has promised to be more sensitive to my needs and give me as much breathing room as I want/need. He sent me a dozen red roses and lots of communications how about how much he loves me, etc. I just don't know if I can rely on his promises. Maybe he learned a l...

I've been with my husband for 12 years, about 20 years ago i had a one night stand with a friends cousin not an issue we would only see him occasionally if we were invited to friends house. but recently my husband has got friends with the cousin and invited him round for drinks. do i tell him about the one night stand. thanks...

Tl;Dr: My dad has been really difficult to maintain any sort of relationship with, especially in the past few months or so. He doesn't seem to respect me at all, as far as I can tell we don't have any common interests anymore and I'm feeling really conflicted and angry over something he said on social media. It's to the point where I don't even want to talk to him. Any ...

I’m concerned my partner is narcissistic or has narcissistic traits. I’ve been with my partner for eight years and we’ve nearly broken up four times. It’s generally over how controlling he can be. There’s not much room for my own opinion and he crosses over boundaries and quite often shows no respect for me. He’s a very obsessive person. Everything has to be how he wants it. Nothing ca...

My (53F) boyfriend (49M) came to me this weekend, angry, and said he feels like I am hiding things. When I inquired why, he said he "just felt that way". I asked him what he thinks I am hiding, but he did not have an answer, just repeated "It is a feeling". For reference, we both work from home all day. We take every break together and neither of us leaves for lunch. In t...

My boyfriend's had quite a few one-night (to a few week) stands in his past. He's a great guy overall, but there's this one thing that bothers me (and we've talked about it, but it still persists).. I have access to his FB search history (he doesn't know) and what I see there is him looking up his exes, his one-timers and just random girls with big boobs, nearly every day....

Hello, I'm need some job advice. I'm a uni student working part time at a Jewelry shop in hk. After working for about 2 months, I realized that the job is not flexible enough to suit my daily schedule. They keep asking ne to put in more hours of work. They prefer for me to work from 1045 am to past 6pm, just like a full time job but I really can't. I need to make time shift chan...

I have a friend that I became super close with over the last two years. We were both there for each other when we needed someone. I consider her to be my best friend. But unfortunately, a couple of months ago she lost a family member suddenly. I tried my best to be there for her and always offered my support through messages. I felt that I did not want to be pushy and just show up when she has ...

A guy and my self have known each other and our families for years. Literally since I was in dipers (he's a few years older than me). But a few years ago (both over 20years old) we started speaking to each other more and more and not just the basic "how's the family" thing, real deep conversations. When this all started we where living in different countries on different sides ...

Found her dirty lingerie, which I’ve never seen before. Someone at another chat site suggested looking for more, and I found 50+ pieces of unfamiliar lingerie, most showed heavy use. She has lots of older lingerie she wore for me. But this stuff is newer. When I asked her about them, she states she bought it but didn’t wear most of them. And refused to discuss it further! Stating I forgot h...

My husband lost his mum a couple of weeks ago and at first he was upset but now he has because so angry, I know anger is normal in grief but all of his anger is being aimed at me. He has become so nasty and quite verbally abusive, when he has been I have either walked away (but this makes him worse) or said please don’t talk to me like that, I know you are hurt but that is just not okay. He sinc...

So here goes... I am the father of a 7 year old Australian Citizen. I am also a British citizen living in England. My ex has not facilitated contact between my son and I for 11 months. I am not on my son's birth certificate because ex told me she had aborted my son and maintained this lie until he was 1.5 years old when she cracked. She then invited me into his life, asked me to get bac...

I don’t really know how to put all I’m feeling into words. Every time I want to explain my thinking whether when I’m speaking to someone I know or typing it up, I always begin to doubt myself. I don’t think it’s bad to doubt your own doubts, but I know if I don’t express what I really feel I won’t be getting better any time soon. Today is one of those especially down days. I’m u...

I am 36 years old, male and never had a relationship. I tried various dating apps never get any matches. I also have few friends who live miles away and I rarely see. I also have vitiligo that has affected my confidence. I really want to settle down and get married but feel it is too late for me....

Recently, we purchased a car. We purchased a car because we don't want to remain dependent on taxis to reach a destination and also the hassle of finding a public transport gets eliminated. Owning a car means you can go anywhere you want which is far from your home whenever you want. Unfortunately, owning a car also comes with side effects like petrol expenses, maintainence and repairing and ...

I have recently been made manager of a preschool I work in but before even starting the role with kids back I regret my decision to take the job. It’s all I can think about and is making me very anxious and even sick with the thoughts of work. I don’t know whether to walk away now or give it a chance ...