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Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Feel Bad That My Husband Doesn't Want A Second Baby? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 22 2017 at 02:48 by anicole RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 22 2017 at 13:29

I'm 24 years old, my husband is 25. We've been together 6 years and married for 4. In 2014 we bought our first home together. He's a carpenter in a union, and at the time I was a Customer service representative at a bank. Right after we bought our home, he regretted it. He became distant to me, and we had a lot of issues at that time. Then a couple months later I get pregnant. When I was a couple months pregnant I lost my job due to the bank downsizing, and my husband got laid off. So what use to be really good money from both of us, was now a low earnings. He wasn't laid off for long, but we ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Want To Stay Friends But Scared I Get Too Close (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 21 2017 at 18:32 by Whattodo RESPONDENTS: Champagne / Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 22 2017 at 13:27

(I've just entered university and met a guy studying masters in the same department as me(I'm an undergraduate) we are both international students) I met this person a little more than a month ago , from the start we got along really well. Having the same interests and he mostly took the initiative to invite me out daily since we lived close and didn't have many close friends to go out with so it was often just us two. It was clear from his actions that he liked me and he is a really nice caring guy. I have not developed feelings for him yet. My guy friend seemed to not like him and warned ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category To Stay Married??? Is It Worth It? Can It Get Better? (Posts: 62)
CREATED: Jul 3 2017 at 06:26 by Reliable me RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Advice / Soulmate / John Peres / Silvarion / MamaBear / TRULUV LAST POST: Oct 22 2017 at 08:26

I've been married for 8 years and have three beautiful children. Both my husband and I have gone through some very big, and positive life changes such as obtaining our professional careers, having another baby, and moving. These changes, though positive, have creating issues and tension in our marriage. (Or at least I think those must be contributing factors, right??). When I fell for my husband he had been so loving, patient, kind, caring, observant, and thoughtful. He was fun and funny and didn't let me get too wrapped up in the little things. Now, however, he is irritable, angry, contr...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Seems Like We Drifted Apart..... (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 18 2017 at 22:21 by vb327 RESPONDENTS: CROSSroads LAST POST: Oct 21 2017 at 03:42

I have been married for or should I say will be married for 13 years this sunday. We have 5 kids. Seems like lately we are distant and have discussed me taking time away to figure myself out and what I want. Recently my wife has gotten into meditation and such. Which I'm fine with it. I have no interest in it but happy she has found a way to release stress and be more carefree and peaceful. Its good for her because we had issues in the past and she was always on guard or thinking the worst. But now I feel we are different. She always reading about things she is learning with meditation a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Why Is She Doing This To Me? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 19 2017 at 02:17 by Anonymous97 RESPONDENTS: 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Oct 21 2017 at 01:54

I'm 20 years old and a child abuse survivor. My whole life I've been deprived of attention,affection, comfort, safety. And this story is about how I got emotionally attached to the wrong person. I met this girl at a summer job and we became friends. We got close and she confided in me about her abuse. She described it in graphic detail. After that I made it my mission to fix her. I wanted to be there for her and help her. I never minded giving her anything even physical comfort. I'd lay in her lap and let her stroke my hair and touch my face. She'd hold my hand and intertwine or finger...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Wife Makes Me Depressed And Angry (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 26 2017 at 02:45 by Schpanky RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Oct 20 2017 at 19:02

Greetings everyone, I've been with my current wife for almost 25 years. Our relationship has always been rocky. I can say I was genuinely in love for only a week and have felt a huge weight of guilt ever since. From my experience, she's always been melancholy sort of person and has passive aggressively tried to guilt me to into loving her by feeling sorry for her. She's always had a sort of "please love me" demeanor about her. After a few months, I tried to break up with her but she begged on her knees for me to stay. I did, and then we got pregnant. I begrudgingly got married to h...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Anxiety And Depression (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 14 2017 at 19:07 by Bruce RESPONDENTS: f9lh444 LAST POST: Oct 20 2017 at 14:01

Well hear it goes.I'm 61 years old and have had Anxiety and Depression ever since I can remember.Ive been on Prozac for about 30 yrs,just switched to Celexa 1 yr ago and Doctor just put me on Adderall today.Have always had racing random thoughts and have always felt bad about things I have done in the past that really hurt some people. I'm finally seeking professional help.If anyone has had similar problems, I'd love to chat. I forgot to mention that I was a binge drinking weekend alcoholic for 40 years and just quit 4yrs ago. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Slept With My Boyfriends Brother Before We Even Met (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Oct 9 2017 at 03:46 by Idontevenknow101 RESPONDENTS: attilahelp / Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 19 2017 at 05:08

Okay, I am currently dating the most amazing guy ever but before we really knew each other, I slept with his brother. I thought that my boyfriend was away but I'm starting to feel like he isn't. I honestly don't know what to do or how to tell him because I don't want to lose him over something that happened in the past and that meant nothing. I feel so disgusted with myself ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category I Need Help Comprehending Or Diagnosing What This Is. (Posts: 8)
CREATED: Oct 16 2017 at 01:43 by Thedeadparadox RESPONDENTS: confused1 / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 19 2017 at 01:42

Hello, this is my first post here and I got here by looking up intelligable forums I could type out a current life problem on and hopefully have people respond with experiences/opinion of the matter/etc. Well, a little backstory. Im a male, im currently 16, im employed, im a straight A student, taking classes at a college, and highschool, and im where I want to be in life right now success-wise. I dont smoke much at all, I dont like the effects drugs have on me as it wears down my senses and I hate that. However, I have one problem. I desire friendships, purely platonic frienships, but a...

Other advice forum category advice forum category I Have A Long Story To Tell, And I Need To Determine Where To Go From Here. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 18 2017 at 07:58 by jstro486 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Oct 18 2017 at 21:12

So, I guess I should start by saying that I feel rather lost in my life right now, and I need some advice or guidance to help me decide what I should do from this point onward. To give a bit of background information, I come from a small, close-knit high school and county, and I am very highly regarded because of my intelligence. But, my home life has been a sad story since my birth. I never lived with my father, because my mother resented him and wanted to keep him away from me when I was very young (even though he lived in a house literally one mile away from me). I grew up hating him, becau...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Is On The Verge Of Ending . . . (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 17 2017 at 12:36 by Rach578 RESPONDENTS: MamaBear LAST POST: Oct 18 2017 at 20:48

Hi Everyone My husband and I have been married for 14 years now and we have had several issues along the way but I think that this time it might be the end for us :( Three weeks ago, we got into a serious argument and things turned sour and my dad and he also got into a major argument so he left our house. We are currently living in my father's outhouse. For one week, we did not contact each other by any means whatsoever. My dad said that he does not want him to stay with us anymore and gave me a whole list of why! After a friend asked me to send him a message asking him to tell me where...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Has Anything This Humiliating Happened To You Before? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 17 2017 at 12:47 by Jessicagirl RESPONDENTS: MamaBear LAST POST: Oct 18 2017 at 20:34

The year was 1990. I was 13 and was on a girl's basketball travel team. Both the girl's and boy's teams from my area got invited to a tournament in Hawaii. The day after our games, both the boys and girls went sightseeing at a volcano. The coaches and some parents, including my mom and dad, accompanied us. It was interesting. However, eventually I lost my footing and began to fall into a steam vent. It burned really badly. I had to grab onto some moss to avoid falling into the lava. My friend Adriana and some other people, both adults and kids, eventually helped me up. Once I was out...

Other advice forum category advice forum category I Need A Hobby (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 18 2017 at 14:32 by pcywifeyyy RESPONDENTS: MamaBear LAST POST: Oct 18 2017 at 20:27

Hello I need to find a hobby because my father says I work too much. I'm not really good at sports and I prefer to stay indoors but I'm good at crafts and I can make jewelry but I want to try something new and fun.any ideas?...

Money advice forum category advice forum category Can Someone Help Me Keep My Life Together? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 18 2017 at 12:01 by SarLou RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 18 2017 at 19:24

Hi. I'm 26 and my fiance is 27. We have been together nearly 6 years. We have recently moved into a new home (renting) after having an incredibly bad year and having to move back in with my Mum for some time. My father was arrested and sent to prison, leaving my mum with nothing but debt. We had to move in to help support her so she didnt lose her house. We have finally been able to move out and now we are looking at losing everything. My partner has written his car off in a crash. I have some serious medical problems and that ,eams i can;t drive so i have never even learnt to. He has also hit...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Parents Split Up (Posts: 244)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme LAST POST: Oct 17 2017 at 23:52

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Breakup With My Boyfriend? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 14 2017 at 15:26 by clwanon RESPONDENTS: Champagne / Soulmate / Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 17 2017 at 21:29

Basically it started out as little things like when he would come to my house he would text his friends and say “sorry she wanted me to come over” never would he see “I wanted to come over to her house” it was always me forcing him to do things. Then one night he said he was always over at my house because he didn’t want me to get mad at him if he wasn’t. So it makes me feel like I have to force him to do anything and it makes me feel depressed. It’s homecoming week and I asked him if he wanted to go and he said yes. He said he was going to make one of those cute little hoco sign...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Help! Don't Know What To Do. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 15 2017 at 20:30 by Confused2017 RESPONDENTS: Rach578 LAST POST: Oct 17 2017 at 20:53

I've never done this before so it could be kinda long sorry! My husband and I have been together now going on 5 years, married 4. In the beginning things went fast. We were just friends/coworkers for about a year, then dating for about 2 months, then moving with me and within 1 year we were married. We started off really good. He was attentive and loving. He was good with my kids and he raised his by himself. So in my book always a good quailty. Since I had kids already. He just was there for everything. He was my best friend and I love spending time with him. He made sure I knew he wanted ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Problems Problems Problems (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 2 2017 at 09:15 by Zenshin RESPONDENTS: MISSAPPROPRIATE LAST POST: Oct 17 2017 at 07:54

Where do I start, I am at a point if I don't write and express my feelings somewhere I am about to loose my mind literally. This is a lot, but I need to vent so I do apologize please forgive me for going on and on. I am a 38 year old married man with a wonderful wife and child my problems stem from my parents and sister. For the last 6 years unfortunately I have been disabled due to a major injury that I sustained in auto wreck ( there went my plans for law school) ever since then my life has been spiraling down and unfortunately it has not rebounded yet. In those six years my father has ro...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Afraid Of A Relapse In Depression (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 19 2017 at 02:34 by Capsized RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Guest-kw / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 20:56

Years ago, I was on antidepressants and I almost killed myself. I have been thought a tremendous amount of therapy and came off of those medications since then. I have worked hard to get where I am. But I am in a situation that is threatening that stability and I am afraid going back on those types of medications are my only choice. That terrifies me. But breaking terrifies me more. I have a therapist and we have talked about this but sometimes I don't think I have a choice and I'm scared. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Mixed Up Feelings (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 15 2017 at 01:37 by SoConfused2017 RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 20:11

So i have been with my partner for 4 years. Recently we have been struggling with a lot as he has recently been out of work and we struggled financially, we were homeless until a couple of months ago, he has drug use issues and following the very traumatic birth of our son in april i have struggled massively with post natal depression. Recently we have been having a lot of arguments which have been getting more and more out of hand (never violent towards me but walls and doors have been broken) and a lot of emotional verbal abuse. In recent weeks i have started to have 'feelings' toward...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I'm So Miserable And It's Pathetic.. Advice On How To Move On?? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Oct 8 2017 at 13:03 by Amy-less RESPONDENTS: Merci / Susiedqq / cray19 / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 19:33

Hi everyone, I'll first tell you a bit of a story if you don't mind, so you can better understand why I am such a loser. So I met this guy, happened bout 5 year ago now. I never really believed in love at first sight, that's for the movies right? But this was definitely something like that, and once we started seeing each other I fell so hard so quickly... But something was wrong, he was always busy, unavailable and slow to respond to any form of communication. I find out he's actually married about 8 months into our relationship, and although devastated I couldn't end it. I was so in l...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category How To Avoid Falling Out With My Friend Over A Former Friend (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 14 2017 at 21:11 by Tony1 RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 18:32

I have a "friend" ive known since school called A. Hes always been know for making comments and is quite controlling. Many people dislike him. Fortunately he now lives a few hours away. My very good friend B is best pals with him and is easily swayed by A. Long story short A always made comments to try and bring me down. About how i look, dress and what he thinks is my success. Some quite offensive and also about my partner (now wife). Hes plainly unhappy in life although makes out otherwise. Quite jealous and insecure. Ive let a lot of things go over the years some real offesive mainly to ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Girl Pregnant!! (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 16 2017 at 15:05 by imgonnadie91 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 17:51

Ok so my friend and his girlfriend have been dating for almost a year and they are saving it for marriage. Well me and his girlfriend have been doing some stuff in bed and she just texted me saying she took a pregnancy test and it came positive and i am the only one she has had sex with in over a year. My friend is gonna kill me when he finds out what should i do?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I’ve Gotten Into A Deep Depression, And It Pushes My Girlfriend And I Apart. (Posts: 9)
CREATED: Oct 2 2017 at 16:55 by Eilersen RESPONDENTS: Advice1 / 8Twenty8 / Soulmate / TRULUV LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 02:55

Hi all! I am a guy, who has been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two and a half year! With her, I’ve had some of the best moments of my life, and I know she’s the one for me. We currently study in two different cities, but we try and see each other almost every second week. However, recently I’ve been struggling with a deep depression and anxiety attacks. Because of it, ive become very insecure and my happiness has worsened. I’ve been seeing a psychiatrist, to make me better again, but sadly it has affected my relationship with my girlfriend. As she’s the o...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Men And Their Boobs.... (Posts: 10)
CREATED: Sep 30 2017 at 06:36 by Atwitsend RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / lily31 / Soulmate / rodeogirl / TRULUV / Just another mom LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 02:38

Just wondering how other women feel about their boyfriends or partners looking at other women on the internet. For me it makes me feel like I am inadequate. I am sitting here right beside him and he could easily look over at my breasts or touch them or whatever, yet he goes to the internet. Makes me feel like I am not good enough. I spiral into this negative self thought and it's hard to get out of. When I bring it up he thinks I'm being ridiculous and says that all men like to look at boobies and to get over it. It's not personal. Can someone give me some pointers on how I don't take t...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Problems (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 14 2017 at 11:05 by Bakudu RESPONDENTS: confused1 LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 02:25

Me and my Boyfriend are in relationship for more than 12 years now in which 5 years was a long distance relationship as he went overseas for his further studies. Before 2 years i went to stay with him and to know each other more. things were going well between us until he has to come back to our native place due to some family emergency and again we were in along distance relationship for almost 4 months. As he left the country in emergency he did nit got chance to extend his visa due to which he was not able to come back which led me to back back to my native place after 4 month from he left....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Guilty (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 13 2017 at 08:17 by Moondancer83 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Champagne LAST POST: Oct 15 2017 at 01:53

Looking for some advice. I had a friend who unknown to me throughout our friendship had long term mental health issues. She met a guy on an online dating service and they met once and had sex. He made it clear to her that he was not looking for a relationship beforehand. Afterwards he did not contact her and was not reading her messages she was becoming increasingly agitated, I tried to reassure her that maybe his phone was broken or he had a family issue, so she asked me to message him via snapchat to see if he replied to me, I did not know this man but I did as she asked and he replied imm...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Intrusive Thoughts... I Cant Take It Anymore (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 12 2017 at 23:16 by GeorgeBH RESPONDENTS: Catiy / Susiedqq / Vixi LAST POST: Oct 14 2017 at 08:59

Im 18, at uni and suffering from depression... I have no one around to turn to and i cant talk to anyone... i haven't got the confidence.. I keep getting morbid intrusive thoughts which are making me want to hurt myself and making me want to die.. i need help.. and this is the only way i can do it.....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Husband Is About To See His Ex Girlfriend And Doesn't Know It (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 14 2017 at 03:17 by anicole RESPONDENTS: Anno LAST POST: Oct 14 2017 at 04:09

Before I get to my real problem that I came here for help, I'll give a little back ground information. First, I'm 23 and my husband is 24. We've been together 6 years and married for 4. We have one 2 year old. In 2014 we bought our first home, and shortly after that things went wrong. He regretted buying the house and took it out on me. I soon found out he was talking to a girl he went to high school with. Turns out he had meet up with her a couple times, as far as I know they only kissed and didn't go farther. But I don't know. We were having problems, we wasn't talking much or doing any...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Cheating (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 13 2017 at 18:13 by PatrickM1955 RESPONDENTS: Anno LAST POST: Oct 14 2017 at 03:54

I was having a night out with my lover. We both had a fair bit to drink and she was particularly drunk. She picked up a man in a bar and went up to his bedroom to have unprotected sex. This was in front of me and she refused my pleas not to. I forced my way into the bedroom with them and pleaded with her again. She told me to **** off which I did. As I was leaving she was naked and giving the guy oral sex without a condom. She stayed out the night in the hotel room. She maintains after I left, she stopped sex, did not have intercourse and did nothing more. I was worried sick as he mobi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category The Life (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 12 2017 at 22:41 by Cila RESPONDENTS: Catiy / Susiedqq / Just another guy LAST POST: Oct 14 2017 at 03:24

I dont know where else should I put this but I feel like i'm going to explode if I dont. I don't need advice. Anymore that is. I just want to tell you guys who read this and maybe have same problem like me that there is someone who actually understands. It all started with my grandma and my father. You see my father was really obsessed with his mum aka my grandma. When she read the book every Sunday by the fire my father did too. When she went to church every day my father went too and so on.. He never moved out, His entire life he had spent with her. After some time he married my mum whom...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Life Insurance And Section 8/ Car Accident Slip N Fall Insurance Awards (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 11 2017 at 16:55 by mami RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 13 2017 at 13:21

My question is if you are on section 8 and want to purchase a small life insurance policy, why do they want to know. secondly if its term (which DOESN'T build cash value and you CAN'T borrow from) will it still affect your section 8 or SSI and if its whole life (which DOES build cash value and you CAN borrow from)does that affect your section 8 and what if you DON'T borrow from it... Another question is now about SSI not SSDI, and section 8, if you get into an car accident or slip and fall accident and are awarded say like 15,000 is that considered a lump-sum and does that have to be reported....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Mixed Signals And Temper (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 12 2017 at 21:32 by winterchild-thoughts RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 13 2017 at 13:04

I met this guy exactly a month ago. Even though we were both drunk there was an immediate connection. He was hooked to me the entire day we spent together So we exchanged numbers, but it was about two weeks before he could see me again, and in that time I tried to convince myself that it was the alcohol and heat talking that day, and that maybe I didn't want to see him again. But who was I trying to fool After the two weeks had passed, I had to house sit for my boss and told him this was his perfect opportunity. So I ended up meeting two of his best friends, and he came home with me. Onc...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Relation Problem (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 12 2017 at 21:04 by sdhfkjdkfh37249823 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 12 2017 at 22:53

i have my friend who is a girl she is with a crappy boyfriend the boyfriend is only there for lust and her body .how do i make her realize that he is not good.I know many bad things about him example one day he said it felt really good to touch her legs.Help me ouut as to hwat to do .what do i say to her for her to slowly realize ...

Bereavement advice forum category advice forum category Looking For Immediate Replacement? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 11 2017 at 16:31 by Mombear RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 12 2017 at 14:16

Am I alone in that I just want an immediate replacement for my husband of 30 years? I want my old life back and it seems like the way to get it is to find a replacement - fast. A friend came to family night and I'm fixated on him. Am I completely mentally ill? I just do not want to be an old maid. And I hate living alone....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Help (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 10 2017 at 21:46 by thatsadperson RESPONDENTS: Vv89 / Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 11 2017 at 21:47

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now and we just recentrly moved in at my parents place because we started our first year of college/university. We have our arguments and i have done some pretty bad stuff while in our relationship.. but she forgave me because she loves me that much. I am absolutely in love with her and we are only 18-19 years old. She wants to move in with a guy she recently met on a online chat site in our nearby city. She says that it would be good for the both of us to spend a little less time together. And she wants to be free and experience bein...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Anyone Felt Lonely In Their Marriage??? Ugly & Unwanted??? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 10 2017 at 23:27 by Vv89 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 11 2017 at 21:44

I’m a 27 yr old female been married to my husband 31 yr old, for almost 5 years. His job sent him to the police academy in July. We’ve been happily married since day 1, in August I started feeling lonely more than ever, I understood he was busy with the police academy work and the studying he had to do, but on his free time all he did was get on his phone instead of talking to me or the kids or getting involved with us as a family, the kids started noticing that and made me realize that I wasn’t just making it up in my head, not only was I feeling lonely, but our sex life was not good....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Have No Hobbies/ Interests? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 11 2017 at 02:07 by katie0908 RESPONDENTS: attilahelp / Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 11 2017 at 21:34

Hello! I am 17 years old, and I have depression and OCD. My OCD is mainly concentrated around school and college. I've had full blown panic attacks (most recently last night) over having a C or B. If it isn't obvious, it's taken it's toll. I have constant headaches, I always have an upset stomach, I'm withdrawn and all I think about is school work and succeeding. It came to realization the other day that I have no hobbies or interests to take my mind off the stress of succeeding in school. Nothing interests me anymore, and I don't know what to do. I've tried numerous things (drawing, hiking, b...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Tell Him How I'm Feeling? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 10 2017 at 21:27 by babyspice RESPONDENTS: Vv89 LAST POST: Oct 11 2017 at 00:05

my best friend has had a crush on me for about six months now. at first i didn’t even see him as more than a friend, then he slowly started to become one of my closest friends. i tell him things that nobody else knows about me. over the summer he struck up the courage to actually tell me he likes me (i had already known through our friends). i didn’t know if i could see us together romantically so i told him that and i tried to get closer with him in that way but i didn’t feel the same way as him. he got angry with me when i told him this and he accused me of just being scared. he tends ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category The Hardest Thing About Breaking Up Is....confusion (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 9 2017 at 14:52 by Coco RESPONDENTS: TrainwreckNot / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Oct 10 2017 at 23:22

Last night I got upset that my boyfriend of 3 years didn't tell me he would be meeting up with his friends across town. I'm very transparent when it comes to letting my bf know where I'll be, what I'll be doing and with whom. He always complains of mutual respect in our relationship which is why I became disgruntled and decided to find out for myself by going thru his iPad. I take full accountability for my actions. I ran across some very suspicious texts between him and a few other women. As soon as I saw this, I immediately admitted what I was doing and he became furious and started to hea...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Why Can't I Get Over Her (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 10 2017 at 06:48 by Michale24 RESPONDENTS: 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Oct 10 2017 at 22:34

I met this girl at the age of 15 and we dated till i was 17... i'm now nearly 20 and she still runs through my mind. I treated her like shit and i never changed my ways till i grew up and now look back at it and regret so much. It's weird though everytime i go through something or am down i see her pass me that day in her car , this has happened multiple times , is it meant to be .. idk how i could fix things but yeah I dated somebody after her who was a cheater and a manipulator always turning things back on me . Which makes it harder for me to get over the previous one ( who i dated for...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Officially Break Up With Him? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 10 2017 at 17:03 by TrainwreckNot RESPONDENTS: Champagne LAST POST: Oct 10 2017 at 19:41

I've been dating a guy for almost 2 years, we met in uni so we saw each other almost everyday. When I went back home in the summer he didn't bother texting much or even calling. When I text it takes him over a week to reply and the excuse is he's busy. He does have a job but no one is THAT busy. He also got caught cheating in an exam so he got a year's deferral which means I won't see him for a year. We texted a little but now he suddenly stopped replying all together, I've sent him multiple texts and it shows that he's read them. On whatsapp, I can see that he's online everyday but he does...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage And Sleepovers? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 9 2017 at 16:57 by Mike7384 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 10 2017 at 02:28

I've been married for just over a year now. My wife just met a new female friend that she really enjoys spending time with. My question, is it normal for my wife to want to sleep over at her house about 1 night a week? I understand it if she is drinking and doesn't want to drive home, but other than that I don't see any reason she can't go over there and hang out, then come home. Now she's also planning a trip out of state with this same friend. Keep in mind, her uncle just passed away whom she was very close with. Could this be some sort of grieving process for her? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Can A Good Samaritan Please Help Me Understand If A Girl Likes Me? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 9 2017 at 05:47 by RedFox485 RESPONDENTS: attilahelp / Champagne LAST POST: Oct 9 2017 at 20:50

There is an amazing and sweet girl who I really like a lot and I met her a couple of months ago and we get together with other friends sometimes and Snapchat each other occasionally. She invited me to a theme park last Saturday with a couple of other friends. Also, she is single currently and has been for a couple weeks. We are both still in high school. Here is some more information to help; we snapchat regularly and she sometimes waits a couple hours to reply and sometimes reply’s instantly. Our last few messages have been as follows: she posted to her snapchat story saying “send an X...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category My Kids Think That I Am A B***h (am I?) (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 8 2017 at 04:25 by rodeogirl RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 9 2017 at 03:45

I have a 30 year old and a 21 year old who were both living at home. My 21 year old moved out and my 30 year old somewhat moved out but was still staying here. The problem is, my husband is the only one working as I am unable to work due to a car accident I was in. So my husband is the only one who is working none stop to pay the mortgage, hydro, put food on the table, home and truck insurance for two vehicles, we have house taxes and all those other bills to pay and it's not cheap these days. My 30 year old was leaving her computer on and running while she was asleep. But there is a big pro...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Shattered By My Past (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 6 2017 at 08:25 by user88 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Miss B / Champagne LAST POST: Oct 9 2017 at 01:49

recently my partner found out about someone I have had sex with before him. but I didn't want to have sex with them, I didn't consent. when he asked, I lied and said it didn't happen. I don't know why, I was scared to admit it I think. it happened before I was with my partner I just still feel like I still haven't accepted it. he didn't believe my lie and I told him the truth. we are still together he just now says he feels 'different' towards me and he acts like he doesn't care. he still says he loves me though I don't know what to do. I have to wait for him to forgive me but I'm still s...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Failing (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 7 2017 at 06:14 by miss B RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 8 2017 at 04:12

I've been married 7 yrs,my husband is 53 and I'm 43.its been a long hard marriage,my husband has lied and kept secrets,is really bad with money(I don't even know how much he earns as I have no access to his account)he hasn't had sex with me for 15 months and has slept on the couch for well over half our marriage.he has straight out said that he will not talk about our problems and calls me a whinging bitch when I try and talk about things,which then of coarse ends up in a huge argument.i have expressed to him how lonely and depressed I feeland he doesn't care,I don't believe he loves me anymor...

Work advice forum category advice forum category Executives Showing Favoritism (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 6 2017 at 15:59 by apexfriend RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 7 2017 at 13:34

Looking for suggestions on how to ignore what appears to me to be an intentional effort to alienate me from group project team members. For example, executives do not make eye contact with me during group meetings - but they will other team members. Nor am I spoken to directly. In one recent example, after a small group meeting, one team executive leader thanked everyone for attending and contributing, etc., except for me. Am I too paranoid if I am beginning to think this behavior is intentional in hopes I will become dissatisfied and seek employment elsewhere? Could I in some wa...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category This Is Literally Nothing But.... (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Oct 3 2017 at 21:00 by Sarah RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / 8Twenty8 / TRULUV / Altreal LAST POST: Oct 7 2017 at 05:29

Okay so this is literally nothing but when little things like this happen- it triggers my anxiety. I stepped on a snail. Yep I stepped on a snail and I heard the crunch!!! :,( just knowing that I had destroyed a little life has made me feel the worst of the worst, like i am some sort of monster. I feel so bad and I can’t control that! Any tips on how I can somehow deal with this? It causes me stress. Thank you, Sarah. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Can Two Caregivers Build A Life Together? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 4 2017 at 18:56 by Mombear RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / sadafter26yrs LAST POST: Oct 7 2017 at 04:38

I am a caregiver and have always been the protector of my kids and lifestyle. My husband of 30 years died 6 weeks ago in a dirt bike accident. Our marriage had not been easy and he was getting ready to leave me for the 4th time when he died. A friend of his made it a point to speak to me at family night. 2 weeks later, he found out his girlfriend of 5 years was cheating on him and he kicked her out. He had been her caregiver. We got together and talked and talked. I find him considerate, smart, fiscal responsible, supportive - another caregiver. My question, can a relationship have 2 c...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Am Heartbroken (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 29 2017 at 19:40 by sdhfkjdkfh37249823 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / TRULUV / Madhuri gautam LAST POST: Oct 7 2017 at 04:32

I recently told my close friend that i have strong feelings for her.She has a boyfirend who is only there for lust.I told her then she said this was unexpected and that it is funny.She also told her friend.Her friend was laughing and then the friend shouted my name .I have recently been crying .I dont know what to do and can u explain what this means...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Dreaming Or Real? (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Oct 4 2017 at 01:51 by GrumpyKitten RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Advice / TRULUV / CROSSroads LAST POST: Oct 6 2017 at 15:10

So I walk into the tutoring center at my college and notice a cute new tutor. She seems a lot younger than most of the other tutors around campus so I walked over and said hi. She looked up at me and smiled said hi and all that, but I noticed that her eye contact lingered for a lot longer than normal. You know when you just get a weird feeling about the situation that makes it abnormal. So I broke the eye contact and just went on to ask my question as I didn't want to make it weird. After we solved my problem I started to pack my stuff when I heard her say that she would be there till 4 if...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Boyfriend And His Divorce (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 5 2017 at 09:10 by mdkmichelle RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 5 2017 at 22:58

Hi, I need advice about my boyfriend and his divorce and his ex. I am with my boyfriend for 11 months. He is going through a divorce. Before we met they were already separated. I really love him, he is my first love, I never felt this way about anybody before. He only started the proceedings because I kept asking when will it be finished. He doesn't want to talk about the proceedings with me and we fight a lot about his divorce. We fight because I feel he doesn't do enough to finish the proceedings and because he doesn't want to talk to me about it. Yesterday, I snooped trough h...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category He's Come Back And I Have No Idea What To Do! (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Oct 3 2017 at 01:58 by Deeplyinlove RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Soulmate / Merci LAST POST: Oct 4 2017 at 19:33

In 2015 I began uni and met this guy that I fell hard and fast for. I thought things were going well between us and then something happened, I have no idea what happened but whatever it was it made it seem like he hated me and therefore we lost all contact with each other after he told me to basically never speak to him again. I would see him from time to time on campus, followed by extreme breakdowns then and there. I felt stupid for feeling that way about a guy I had only really just met and knew little about but this was my first "love at first sight" experience. I had never felt this way a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Cheating Or Not? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 4 2017 at 13:00 by tyco RESPONDENTS: manalone / lill / TRULUV LAST POST: Oct 4 2017 at 16:32

I have a boyfriend who is very close to a person he works with. They both are very open and can give hugs or kisses when they feel like it. Is something like this considered cheating? I am even there, so it also could be for fun.. I really don't know....

Other advice forum category advice forum category Help I Left Belongings With Friend Who I Trusted He Won't Give Them Back (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 1 2017 at 21:36 by taniaheartche RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 4 2017 at 04:35

Help they are very meaningful and personal, some are tools and household items. He has deluded I myself and has attached false memories to my property. I am horrified he is moving now and I am at his house now.What do I do?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Very Down, Alone And Not Sure What To Do. (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 3 2017 at 15:19 by Chloe G RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 4 2017 at 01:19

I have been with my partner a few years. When we first met he was an active alcoholic with an eating disorder.I supported him and got him help resulting in him going into rehab for over six months. It was a very difficult and stressful time to say the least. Then when he came out, he was difficult emotionally and now his eating disorder is a huge issue, as is his spending money. He has been married and has 2 children who he doesn't bother with as he says he has no time and wants to do his things. Whilst a part of him is very nice another is exceptionally selfish where everything is on his term...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum category Please Advise Me Regarding My Relationship Issue! (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Sep 30 2017 at 02:23 by Rinku RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / n.martin / Soulmate / TRULUV LAST POST: Oct 2 2017 at 15:27

I am a male and I am in love with my straight male friend. We know each other since last 6 years. I had confessed my feelings to him long time ago. He did not reacted much at that time. I felt like it was okay with him and I was accepted. I was doing lots of things for him as you know being in love always make us curious to do anything. Even though I had a chance to have some kind of physical pleasure after that confession. I was more worried about Loosing him. So I tried to hide my physical attraction feelings. . I tried my best to just stay as a friend at that time. He was always ver...

Other advice forum category advice forum category You Guys Know What This Means? (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Sep 14 2017 at 22:26 by danny1998 RESPONDENTS: attilahelp / Susiedqq / Soulmate / TRULUV LAST POST: Oct 2 2017 at 15:14

so the other day in class i was staring into space and the girl i liked was looking at me while i was staring at the trash can. Then later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then the next day she said ” i don’t know why he looks at me."         ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Self Battle (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Sep 28 2017 at 13:45 by Vlak314 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Guestie / Susiedqq / Soulmate / TRULUV LAST POST: Oct 2 2017 at 15:03

I'm a 23 year old male and haven't had a real relationship in about 4 years. I work most of the day Monday to Friday and sometimes Saturdays My problem is that I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship or even if want one but every time I think I'm ready for one I feel I'm just going to bring down a girl that I might like and that she would better without me in her life because there's some one out there better for her and all I'd be doing is holding her back from that I don't know what to do anymore Any ideas on what I should/can do to stop this daily battle I have with ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category In A Really Difficult Situation (Posts: 26)
CREATED: Aug 25 2017 at 21:28 by Amister RESPONDENTS: Silvarion / manalone / 8Twenty8 / Susiedqq / Soulmate / harry888 / TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 30 2017 at 03:33

Hello, I need some advice please. I’m in a really difficult situation at the moment . I have the support of my intermediate family and boyfriend, which I know I’m lucky to have. I will start with my parents. They got divorced years ago when I was five, I’m now 22. They realised were not lovers, just very good friends and since, have always been very happy to be in each other’s company when they’ve needed to be. I had a very stable and happy up brining and always been very close to both my mum and dad. Since finishing university I’m now back home living with my mum, stepdad...

Other advice forum category advice forum category If She Still Has His Stuff (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 27 2017 at 05:50 by BM94 RESPONDENTS: Melissabrown70 / manalone LAST POST: Sep 28 2017 at 22:09

We have been living together over a year. We recently had a baby. The baby is less then a month old. All I do is work and come home. I have 2 jobs and just got another one. Also I have a interview for a 4th job. She's off work so I gave her money every time I get paid and also pay the bills so she won't stress. But I come home when day after a family bbq and she says I was out cheating. Next she throws all and breaks all my things. I have another son who isn't by her and she threw his things. She also said she'll fuck her ex to make me mad. Come to find out she's hiding his ball caps in her cl...

Health advice forum category advice forum category I Want This To Change. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 21 2017 at 15:21 by nurlook RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Sep 27 2017 at 23:54

This is the day I am starting my new life. I have to make move but it is as hard as always. I see everyone as perfect while I just struggle and insult myself. I have been going through this since my childhood, I don't know what triggered this. I overcame it for a while but it has come back again. I used to be scared of getting into bus alone. It is not like same. I have become normal. Though I am still hestitaing when it comes to presentation. I tried to get over this by making a speech in front of 300+ people. For twice. I made it then. But it has been a long time I didn't do it so I still fe...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Stray Cats (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 24 2017 at 21:57 by somebody789 RESPONDENTS: darmela LAST POST: Sep 27 2017 at 16:52

So, where i live there's a stray cat that has 3 or 4 kittens. my mom is trying to bring them in when we already have 6 cats of our own. she did this a few months ago, they had fleas, worms, and who knows what else. but those were just kittens, this is a full grown cat and her babies. my mom won't leave it alone and I've told her not to bring them in but she plans to do it anyways. any advice? i really don't want them in the house or making my cat sick. I'm going away on a trip next month so i won't be around and I'm scared she'll do it while I'm gone. I don't think the animal control place her...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Lonely (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 27 2017 at 05:55 by Betty1212 RESPONDENTS: Guestie LAST POST: Sep 27 2017 at 13:24

I am a 27 year old female and I was broken up with 6 months ago. Since that time, I haven't been truly interested in any other guy and no guy has been interested in me. I haven't been asked on any dates or hooked up with anyone. I feel like I have a lot to give in life and in love and like I am ready to be in a serious and loving relationship. I am happy with who I am and I feel like for the first time in my life I actually know who that is and I love the person I have become. I just need help with this nagging feeling of loneliness. I am ready to hold someone's hand in the grocery store, f...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Feel Like I Cant Even Tell Him.. (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Sep 24 2017 at 22:39 by itscomplicated RESPONDENTS: manalone / Susiedqq / Advice LAST POST: Sep 26 2017 at 17:30

how do i start a conversation that i dont want to have? My boyfriend has previously been caught watching porn on his phone, after an argument about it he promised not to watch it again... (this wwas last month) i deleted his history on google and last night found other links to porn sites again. We were in bed but he had to leave for a little time and then i found it, when he came back i couldnt look at him because i was so hurt...the time he was gone i sat there crying about it...he didnt even notice. am i over reacting? I dont even knoww how to speak to him about this......

Education advice forum category advice forum category Im Lost In My Education/ I Hate My Major (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 25 2017 at 19:49 by Jenna RESPONDENTS: Guest123 / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 26 2017 at 17:20

Hello! My problem is that i am studying something i don't like at all. I am studying accounting and finance and i find it really hard and apart from that, every time I'm studying I'm becoming miserable and it makes me think "what am i doing?? I dont CARE". I ended up here cause i was a very good student in high school and that is the best department to be (according to my parents). And since they wanted me to have a job, they didn't think of what I would like. I feel so lost. I was always artistic and i was dreaming as a kid that I would grow to be someone involved in the arts world and no...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category In Trouble At Work (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 25 2017 at 07:30 by Pebblesj RESPONDENTS: manalone / Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 26 2017 at 17:13

I split with my partner in while tired and drunk and on meds I emailed him some pictures, nothing rude but they accidently went through my work email, I was not at work I was at home but work have found out and I am facing a deciplinary maybe even the sack because they believe I was at work and downloaded pics to work computer I have proof I was at home but now they say it doesn't matter I'm in throuble just because they went through my work email. Also I tx a woman at work on my mobile to tell her me and my partner were back together because she was chasing after him and she's complained that...

Missing People advice forum category advice forum category Devoted Mom And Nana Abandoned (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Sep 21 2017 at 00:14 by dee4560 RESPONDENTS: Guestie / lily31 / Merci LAST POST: Sep 26 2017 at 00:52

I was a single mom. raised a beautiful daughter. we were two peas in a pod. moved to her new town, help with all her pregnancy/ help with her five kids under 7 daily. 3 months ago was told no longer needed and stay away from her and the kids. no contact since. I'm broken hearted and confused. all I do is cry. I miss my grsndbabies. now in this town with no family or friend. having health issue alone lost interest in life...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Promises Promises (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Sep 20 2017 at 22:08 by BeachLife RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / manalone / 8Twenty8 / LYNN LAST POST: Sep 25 2017 at 23:21

My BF is 44 years old (been dating 15 months) and still likes to go to clubs. I do not care for clubs and he knows I do no want him in one. I think once you reach 30+ you should be acting like an adult and not a college age kid. We had a discussion when he went the first time and he knew it hurt me. He went again and after I became more upset he promised he wouldn't do it again. The third time he went I was pretty upset and told him I would break up with him if he went again. He said that is not an option and he would never go again. Just two nights ago I found out he went and was so drunk he ...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category My Boyfriend Has A Son He Doesn't See (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 25 2017 at 14:58 by charwat RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 25 2017 at 21:30

I am 28 years old and have been with my partner for almost 3 years ago. He has 2 daughters from a previous marriage, whom I have known about since the beginning. Although this is difficult for me, we see them every other weekend and I am adjusting well to my role in the relationship. Last summer, my partner told me that he had another child, a son, who was about 2 years old at the time (would now be about 3 / 4). The son was a result of a 1 night stand and my partner has nothing to do with the child any more. When the mother fell pregnant, he told her that he didn't want the baby, but...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Depression And Loneliness (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 23 2017 at 04:04 by Elim RESPONDENTS: angry LAST POST: Sep 25 2017 at 10:39

Ok, here goes. I'm bipolar which is seriously not fun. I am a single parent with 4 children and their mother left 7 years ago when the youngest was 6 months old. I have no life and am so lonely that I want to die most of the time. My looks are not to my advantage, I don't drive, I'm signed off work and understandably, women are not embracing me and my situation. But I hate being alone. I have standards as anyone dies and recently I was led on by a friend and a girl about her possibly being interested to see what they could get out me in terms of gifts, etc. I hate being alone. I know I have ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Crazy For Not Trusting Husband... (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 24 2017 at 20:01 by CT727 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 25 2017 at 01:51

After a great vacation approx 6 weeks ago with my family and no cell service we got back home and my husbands mood shifted completely. He is attached to his phone 24/7. Grumpy and short with me and the kids, who he only sees for an hour a day. He makes me feel like I don't do anything right and questions how I do everything. I try and tell him how he making me feel, he either doesn't listen or denys that he does anything or says he is just joking around and I need to lighten up. Now my 5 year old is talking to me the same way her dad does. If that wasn't enough 2 days ago I picked up h...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Cant Get Over His Past (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 24 2017 at 23:00 by itscomplicated RESPONDENTS: ffk LAST POST: Sep 25 2017 at 00:38

im with an amazing guy for almost a year...when we got together he told me about his past (With women) I aaccepted everything. Im 19 and only had one sexual partner before him, hes 23 and I dont even know whaat his 'body count' is when it comes to women. i never cared. it never bothered me before..until recently. For a few weeks now his past is torturing me. we used to have a spot on a roof top where we would sit and have fun...now i feel like i cant go there because he was there with other girls before... thinking like that makes me go crazy. I HATE IT. we argued about WHY i dont want to go...

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