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I have been in a relationship since 2013. My boyfriend is 6 years older than me. I could say that our relationship is happy, but not perfect. Our relationship is mature and something that is really true. He is a very good man, loving, caring, kind, sweet, patient, think of all good adjectives and he has those. But of course, like other relationships, we encounter problems as well. Let me tell you one by one. 1. First and foremost, he does not have a job. He only graduated in high school. That was because his family does not have money to support his studies. He took a vocational course, an...

so idk if shes trying to avoid me or not but the other day at work i was giving people there food at their table & when i went over i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school just sitting at the table with her boyfriend & i just stood there looking at her she was looking at me too but then i looked away & went back to work. then the other day i saw her boyfriend buying food for the both of them but she didnt go with him i guess. but then the next day when i went out with my friends at the mall i guess she was there with her boyfriend & was talking about me because when i turn aroun...

So at first I thought I was a booty call but now I'm confused. I really like the guy and I want to date him but when I asked what our relationship was he said that right now he just wanted to be friends and work up from there cause he doesnt want to rush into a relationship like he usually does, and he explained he just got out of a relationship back in April so it wouldn't be fair to me if he's still working through his feelings from his breakup. Which I find fair. This talk happened a couple days ago to about a week ago but today he talking about how he loved having me over and spending time...

I am dating someone who I have been on and off again for a few years. I never shared this info with my sister b/c she is judgmental and we live a few hundred miles apart so the easier way was to avoid it. He served time for white collar crime but has turned his life around and I am very happy with him now. I've been widowed for 7 years and dated others but I do love the current bf and respect him for getting his life back on track. My sister is VERY JUDGMENTAL and I know she will freak out that I'm seeing him! The real issue is coming up...I invited her and her husband to the beach wher...

My boyfriend and I are having a hard time working out a problem. I understand that we are not going to see eye to eye all the time but he thinks I am being very irrational. My boyfriend failed to tell me that he is a sperm donor and does not see the problem. Recently I asked him what he was up to and he dropped the bomb through text, that he had “just donated his seed to a lesbian couple”. I am not mad about him being a donor and I do not wish to control him. What hurts is the fact that he did not sit me down and just tell me. He waited until after it was done to tell me and I was far from...

I currently live with my boyfriend. I think he is starting to have a wondering eye… I looked at his phone and discovered he is on meet me. I set up an account with a friend’s picture he did not know and started chatting with him he agreed to go on a date with me this weekend.He said how pretty her picture wasIf he goes to meet her which is really me is this considered cheating? Should I tell them that it is me? Is it bad that I tricked him? Please tell me what to do! ...

So I've been dating this guy for over a year now and I really think I love him, but he had to go overseas for work and I have been unable to contact him. This however is not the problem as I knew I would not be able to talk to him during this trip. My problem is that I am worried about the long term affects this will have on our relationship. The work trip is 6 weeks long, and he has already been there for about a month. I miss him alot and I can't wait for him to return but there's a part of me that is worried he doesn't feel the same. Do you think my worries are reality or am I just ...

I began dating my partner 4+ years ago. We we're just in high school. Now, recently we have both graduated and are off to college. Mine is different then his and, his is an hour away. We are both full time students starting within the next 2 weeks. I broke up with him (discussed it with him weeks in advance) at graduation. We are both still very in love with each other and we are trying to spend as much time together before school starts. Im scared of losing him. At the same time, i am also nervous that my school will suffer because of my relationship with him. It hard giving up a partner and ...

So this is my story. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last feb this year just because he cheated on me. After a month that we separated, I found out that it did not work out with the girl he chose over me. And then the next news is he is now communicating with his ex girlfriend (his gf before me). They were together for 6years while our relationship only lasted for almost 2yrs. Of course I got upset since I felt that I was cheated twice. Although he did that after we broke up, I questioned myself if he really loved me during the time that we are still together. Why is it easy for him to cheat a...

I’ve been divorced since 2008 and living in a motor home om my parents property due to the divorce. I have a 12 ya old daughter with ex wife. We were together starting 2003 I think.we are better friends the husband and wife and we are currently friends with benefits but it’s only every so often. Skip ahead... Since 2008 I’ve really been alone and lonely and I’ve been trying the dating site but nothing real. It’s mostly scams as I have found. I’ve given up but I don’t want to be alone anymore, my problem is I’m thinking of maybe going back to ex. I know for a fact she would b...

I usually don't post to this kind of site, but I fear that any advice I get from my friends is inevitably biased, and could use some outside perspective on my situation. I have been with my wife for about ten years now. She has a son from a previous relationship, and I have been with her since he was a one-year old (the biological father has had an inconsistent presence, and has lived far away for most of the child's life now). I love her son as my own, and have been playing a father figure role for most of his life. Originally, my wife and I intended for us to have our own biological chi...

He deleted me off Snapchat after i pressed to call him rather than send him a chat. I hung up as soon as I realised what I'd done but when I typed a quick sorry into chat it said the message was pending until I was added as a friend. We had spoke almost everyday for a few weeks but this dwindled as it was almost impossible to see each other. We did know each other but we didn't meet up since talking online. We haven't spoken for a couple of weeks so I was going to send a message to ask if he was doing okay but pressed call instead of chat and as I said he's deleted me. It's really ups...

Is home refinancing a good option while undergoing home renovation?...

Everyone has that person in their family who seems to have the worst luck in life. And that person who can't really get it together despite all the help s/he receives. Or the one who lives outside of his/her means, making poor decisions with time and money. More often than not,these are all qualities of one single person. My family owns several of these. The generations before mine were not equipped with the right tools, I guess. My mom is my trifle this week. Let's start with the fact that she can't catch a break. Relationships, jobs, education, health; you name it, it'll go south. S...

Seven years ago, I found out accidenttly that he was texting this same old girlfriend, and I told him that if it happened again, it was a deal breaker. At that time, our children were still living at home so I decided to remain in the marriage. Now we are empty nesters.. last month i came in contact with an old friend who introduced me to this site almondhackingarena. com they helped me realize that my husband been having an affair with several other ladies through his phone text and fb.. i cannot thank them enough than to introduce their service to people out there in such dysfunctional r...

Me and my bf live together. Here for the past 9 months, we hardly have sex anymore. I am always the one initiating sex first. He always says I am too tired,I am hurting,etc. I wake up to him almost every single night masturbating beside me. He tries to make sure I am asleep first before he starts. I had a conversation with him about it and he says I am crazy. That is lie when I know it isnt. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. We are lucky to have sex once every week if not once every 2 or 3. At night when he starts I try to help him by placing my hand their and he says are you stupid...

So I’ve been at my workplace for about 1 year now (I’m 18 years old). There’s a man of 28 who works in the same place and we get on quite well have a laugh sometimes and I’ve really taken a liking to him. Over time my feelings have grown stronger but I’m sure he really doesn’t have a clue and most likely doesn’t feel the same way at all. What do I do?...

So, to not make the back story way too long and boring, there's a guy I met online around 2 years ago and texted with A LOT since we met. We have not met since we live in different countries really far away from each other, but still we became really close really fast. In the beginning we were sort of dating, or at least I'm pretty sure we both had feelings for each other. Anyway, obviously we both knew it would never work, I sorta left him for another guy and later he met a girl who he's now been dating for around 1,5 years. The problem is I've now started having feelings for him again... ...

I caught my partner of 12 years outside late at night texting someone he said he was not but I had a feeling after being cheated on by my last 2 partners, he was lying so I checked his phone when he was asleep and saw a number of messages to a number (no name) about how he had met up with another woman and he has feelings for her,I confronted him and he said the texts are a set up that he knows I have been checking his phone so he got a female friend of his to put them on to catch me out,the same phone he has said many times he has nothing on it to hide so he does not care who checks it,total...

Suggestions for spy app for android phones that are undetectable, preferably free, or reasonably priced and able to hopefully see all activity ie: chat rooms, dating sites, chat sites, emails, calls, etc. Any assistance is appreciated...

So Im a stay at home mom, he works 40 hour weeks and its just not working out. Its not working out because he is starting to go back to how he used to be before we had babies. He was pysically abusive towards me but it was my first relationship so I stayed ( like a stupid bitch). Anyways now every day he comes home he cals me names, ugly, fat bitch, makes fun of how my arms have some fat, says im a shitting mom <--- that really broke my heart. Im not sure if i can leave. I know I need to because he yells at me around our 1 1/2 year old and our new baby. My 1 1/2 year old gets scared and run...

Barely any sex, 99% of the time I'm initiating it, he's totally closed off, doesn't want to talk about it...I've been going to counselling, to a psychologist, have spoken to many friends and still the same problem occurs. He has many good qualities but this is driving me mental. Please help. Is it worth ending the relationship?...

I want to know by someone who views porn why my partner (when I looked right back through his history) searched for specific types of girls in porn videos. None that resemble me at all, things he has said are gross but you guessed it, we watched it. Teenage porn was a big favourite and I’m no teenager. When first confronted he said well I mainly look at milfs because they’re better more experienced, this is not true as I watched what he did. Told him this and he cannot give me an answer. Why? He’s not viewed any for 2 weeks, longest time ever and has said he won’t anymore. One day I’...

I met this guy in college, and we became friends. 4 months later, he tells me that he loves me and hints to having a future together. During the fifth month since our meeting, I asked if he had me in his future plans so everything would be clear, and he told me that he has no intention of ever leaving my side. Two weeks later, I mention an official relationship and boom!! he decides that we are great friends but he's not ready for one. However, he still treats me the same way as a lover and ignores me when I question his behavior. Whenever I try to ignore him, he's like:"are you sick of me?". ...

My mom got married when she was 22, and I was her first child. No offense to any race or whatever, but my parents both come from India, so over there woman are treated like trash. Ever since my mom got married, she said it has become he'll for her. My dad would get mad for the smallest things, like my mom not being able to pick up his call this one time. My mom never got to graduate college or uni because of her sudden arranged marriage, so her best choice for a job was to open up a day home. My dad went to medical school and finished whatever he had to over there (India). But he complains tha...

I haven’t used a forum before, but here goes. I am currently in a bad relationship, I am working on ending this but as it is emotionally abusive and most of our friends are mutual I am finding it difficult to do this with low self-esteem and little support, but I will get there. My problem involves someone else. A while ago I met a lovely single man, when he started flirting with me I did respond, despite him letting me know he wanted to take things further I didn’t, although the flirting continued. The truth is the attention did give me back my self-esteem and I knew (know) that it ...

Basically back at the beginning of January I met a slightly older woman and we kind of hit it off, I'm 38 by the way. Well to cut a long story short, I was seeing her quite intensely... I don't really know how to describe the relationship as we weren't boyfriend/girlfriend but it was a lot more than friends with benefits. She's 45, three kids and just divorced although she's still living with her ex-husband - they been separated for 18 months now, have separate rooms and the house is up for sale although taking forever to sell but they are also trying to make it easy on their kids. Anyway s...

This is the first time I’ve ever gone in a chat room so I don’t know what to expect. All I know is I have no one to talk to or no one that won’t judge me anyway. My problem seems to be I’m so desperate for a relationship or at least a bit of attention I’m seeking it from the wrong men and to be relatively they don’t even want me. I think I’m just pathitic!...

Hello, I'm female, in my mid twenties. I came out of counselling recently, as it felt like I had done all the talking I could and I needed to move on with my life positively. It's been a few weeks but I still feel lost and depressed. So I'm turning here for some advice and to put things into prospective. I've been in and out of counselling since a teenager. I am an ex self harmer and suffer with anxiety and depression. Whilst in counselling I realised the reason why I am the way I am is because of my parents, who are very controlling people. My mum is the main controller, she contr...

So a little about us. I'm 31 and a lesbian. She's 33 and also a lesbian. We met online and she pursued me hard. She asked me to be exclusive right away. I'm talking a couple of days here and then the 3 words ...

Im going to try to explain my wifes point of view as best as I can. This is very hard for me because I cant make any sense of how or exactly what she is thinking. It seems that the main problem in our relationship is that she absolutely HATES my sister. There is NO reason for this. It started towards the beginning of our relationship. She just started getting jealous that I have a sister and occasionally she wanted to talk to her brother. My wife accuses me of somehow taking care of my sister while neglecting her but this could not be further from the truth. She accuses me of providing houses...

Should I confuse to my boyfriend that I have been messaging another man? We have been together for close to 3 years. Since March, I felt like he wasn't there for me. He just didn't show concern or love. I don't have any friends where I live and the ones I do message, can be very picky in when they respond to me (not the best friends, I guess) I felt so lonely. So much was happening in my personal life. I had so much stress from my mom and brother. So I ended up searching out online chat apps. I ended up making one guy friend. We have been speaking since. Its been great having someone t...

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

I was recently dumped by a 7 months boyfriend. He was very nice, loved me so much, and cared for me as hell. But one day he couldn't be there for me when I really needed someone because he was at work. We were doing a long distance thing for 2 months, and I am still across the globe. I said "I hate you you're not worth it". And he tried contacting me for the next 12 hrs and I ignored his texts. At the end of the day I tried apologizing after I was settled down. He said that he can't take it anymore, and he can't be so emotionally committed to someone and have them tell him these things. So he ...

I have been married for 14 years and due to a difficult marriage we have been living in together but been sleeping in separate rooms for 4 years. No sexual contact has happened. We have a child who is 12 and together we raise her. He cheated on me in the past but insists that i have no proof that it happened. As we live separately and i no longer find him attractive i keep asking for a divorce. He refuses to respond and turns a deaf ear when the subject comes up. To be honest i am waiting for another year which will make 5 years of not living as man and wife. And divorce him without permi...

My girlfriend 26 has been my life for 7 years. Im 29 and all of 20s were together. So we work together and our families are really close. We were so in love and i know for a fact she wanted me to propose. I wasnt the best at talking about the future and she said i shut down. I honestly wasn't being attentive as i should've been after I graduated college. To many times i went home after work instead of her house. I had a bit of a drinking problem and kinda lost my personality. I admit my mistakes. We have done so much together over the years trips, concerts, dinners, parties. But i took her fo...

So, a really stupid problem here.... I lost my husband 5 years ago to Cancer. He was amazing and totally my best friend. I miss him very much. I was 37 when he died and very soon started to panic and feel like I desperately needed a partner as I felt scared and lonely. I dated a couple of guys but nothing major. A couple of years after he died, I met a guy who lived about an hour away from me. He was separated with a 10year old son. I have to admit that I didn’t think much about it but we soon started a very intense relationship. He told me that I was his soul mate, that he wished he had me...

I (38) met a guy (45) via an online dating app and we had some very good conversations before he asked me out for our first date about a month ago on a Friday night. It went really well and he initiated the 2nd date the day after, and we met up again the Friday after ( was supposed to be sooner but somethings came up). The 2nd date went even better, and he stayed over at mine but we did not have sex as I told him I wanted to wait for abit and he respected that. Since then we have been texting consistently pretty much on an almost daily basis with him initiating ( except for the first 3 days...

what would you do if your mate was chatting online to another female - denys it? Any suggestions on undetectable apps to get the real truth?...

So let me start from the start. My mum and dad found a packet of condoms in my room and they decided to search my room. They found a bong and as soon as I got home, they had a chat with me. My dad said he had called the police and I was to go to the station for an interview. After the interview me and my parents were alright. There was no tension between us. After a couple months, my dad found another bong in my room and decided to call the cops for the second time, which i obviously didn't like which is why I started swearing at him. I said stuff that i shouldn't have said and stuff that i...

Before anything,I would just want you to know how grateful I would be if you read all of this because it really is a big thing to me, thank you in advance! Hello, a few weeks ago I had a problem with my breakup and I though that the lack of love was the cause of my depression, lack of motivation and unfulfillment in general. The thing is that I listened to your advice and tried to be happy with my life and it appears that is has been just a mask and since a few days ago, I started feeling unfulfilled once again. I don't know, it seems that something just clicked and I went blanked and ...

There's this guy who is kind of a play boy and he's really far from me so we only text and talk from apps right now. I really like him bit I don't know if he feels the same. We sleep in voice calls sometimes and he teases me and says things like " is very beautiful" (we have seen each other) and I would laugh and say "no I'm a potato" then he said "you are a pretty potato and if you're a potato then I'm into potatoes" we really enjoy listening to music together and have similar taste but we don't always talk a lot. He can be kinda pervy and flirty with others but I really do like him....

Okay so basically I went to a rave last night with my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend got there but first we bought alcohol, he bought 4 cans a beer even tho i dont drink beer and he finished all of it, then we went to the bathroom after. After that we tried our best to get to the front because that's where all the fun is because it's the closest to the stage. Okay let me begin, we get to the front of the crowd, and about 10 mins in, i get sober af, so i ask him "let's go get a drink im sober", then he said to me "we just came back from there, I don;t want to leave the front" and i asked hi...

I was seeing this guy for a few weeks. It was casual at first but then two weeks in we started having feelings for each other. After a little less than a month I decided that he wasn’t really right for me and I had just gotten out of a long relationship and realized I wasn’t ready for another one. I was honest with him and ended it in person. I feel terrible! He was clearly upset and I hate hurting people. Worst part: I met him because he’s good friends with my sister. Now I’m terrified she’s going to be angry at me. Should I feel bad for doing what I did? I was just trying to do...

Hi I was dating someone who on the second date he exposed himself and wanted sex I didn't feel ready so I told him no and also he knows im still a virgin but he kept insulting me he kept calling me useless. I gave off to him over Facebook and he blocked me. Its not the first time he insulted me he called me a Freak before too he sent me a text one time over Facebook saying freak stop annoying me! A few months after I'd met him again on a night out and I asked him why he went on like that to call me names he said to my face I don't like you! I felt very upset and just walked away :( I couldn't ...

Thinking of walking away from a long distance relationship as I’ve not seen him in person 2 years but we regularly txt. I love him so much but feel like I’m wasting my time he has said to me before when I tried to break it off there’s always that what if feeling he has and he has put that into my head. I tried the no contact rule before he always manages to contact me and my feelings go back to square one. Help what should I do? ...