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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBizarre crush
CREATED: Feb 2 2023 at 15:42 by CliveTheCactus

Hello all, I've been in a relationship with the love of my life for nearly 2 years. They have my heart, complete me and are just the perfect person for me. However, I have developed a bizarre crush on someone else. I would never pursue anything, but I do fantasise and find myself thinking about this crush more than I should. I have never been in a committed relationship for as long as I h...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFrance to the US - long distance problems
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 6 2023 at 00:56 by blackberrymojito RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Feb 6 2023 at 17:40

I'm having real struggles with my relationship. I've been with my partner for a year now, and we've been long-distance the whole time. He lives in France and I in the United States. He's visited here twice, for a total of about a month and a half, and I've visited him twice, for a total of a month, with plans to visit him again for a month this April. Since the beginning, ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs he messing with me?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 4 2023 at 22:59 by Winterdayz75 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Feb 5 2023 at 14:07

A guy I had a date (one date) with 10 years ago got in touch with me, out of the blue, via social media 8 months ago. I was the one on our date 10 years ago that thanked him for our date (just drinks) and said I didn't want to date him, he was accepting of that and we went our separate ways. He was the first date I'd had after my break up from my partner of several years. I realised on m...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[1179 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard / chatthegreenmile LAST POST: Feb 4 2023 at 20:37

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryParanoia that my wife is cheating...
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 1 2023 at 14:08 by ManchesterMan RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 4 2023 at 00:50

So, let me begin by saying that generally, our relationship seems (on my end) quite solid, we live together and have been married for almost a year. we have known each other for nearly 10 years. I work full time to support us both, she mostly stays at home but sometimes works for an hour or so a day in a cleaning role, we share the responsibility for cleaning and cooking at home. We are both...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice on sex anxiety?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2023 at 01:37 by hearthacheache RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / skylerpenny1 / CliveTheCactus / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 3 2023 at 23:51

I am a female, and I am currently dating another female. Our relationship, overall, is good, until the idea of sex comes up. She has experience with both genders, I have literally none. The other day, we were going back and forth joking about what we'd do to each other and all that good stuff, but then she asked me if I was really being serious about everything I had said or not. Now, we'...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryThe worst mother
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 29 2023 at 08:40 by Mtaew18 RESPONDENTS: chatthegreenmile / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 1 2023 at 10:39

So I have a friend and now a roommate who gave birth to a girl a couple years ago. Now my roommate is an alcoholic and boy crazy. She dates guys for a few weeks and then she gets drunk then ends up getting broken up with. When she’s drinking, she becomes the absolute worst person saying a bunch of crap about how the other person did something or something happened. Whenever she goes on binges, s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I in the wrong here? Should I apologise?
[77 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 16 2022 at 20:26 by heisenberg RESPONDENTS: manalone / oldmainer / Soulmate / Aka / chatthegreenmile LAST POST: Jan 31 2023 at 20:02

So, there is this common friend group that I have. I have met most people from it but due to the pandemic, we mostly meet in online video calls. The number of people on the call varies depending on everyone's schedule. There is this one girl in the group that was my senior and over the past few months, I started talking to her. We started talking about casual stuff like shows, work etc. but o...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I help my dad?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 2 2023 at 02:00 by ReRe RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / chatthegreenmile LAST POST: Jan 30 2023 at 23:38

I am so worried about my dad and don’t know how to help him for the best. My dad lives alone and I know he gets very lonely and is depressed. He had an accident at work many years ago and shattered his leg from the kneecap down which still has not healed properly to this day and he is in pain with it every day. Since then my dad has gone downhill, he doesn’t take care of himself he looks very...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTORN
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2023 at 02:32 by zmary7775 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / chatthegreenmile LAST POST: Jan 30 2023 at 23:35

I have a wonderful boyfriend of many years and a wonderful  son whos 26 and has a 2 year old baby and a wife. My son was raised since the age of 5 with his dad on the other side of the country and the last few years he has been in the navy so he has now move d only about three hours from me. every other weekend I drive up to babysit my grandbaby while they are working. we have taken time off for...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFalling out of love
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 26 2023 at 10:36 by rivergirl777 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 30 2023 at 22:58

I need advice. I have been married for two years now (we got married for health insurance benefits). I have been with him for 5 1/2 years since I was 19 and we have both helped each other through hard stuff. We have a 3 year old together and he is literally my best friend. I stay at home and watch our kid while he works. But lately I have been feeling like he loves me more than I love him. An...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it hopeless?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 25 2023 at 08:24 by caine_VIxIII RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 26 2023 at 00:14

I'm 40yo male and am coming up on 1 year of sobriety. I'm realizing when I left the drug scene I left more then just drugs behind. I had been using drugs full time for my entire adult life since I was 15 really. I was thrown out of the house I grew up in at 16 and left to fend for myself. I don't blame my parents for doing it they were at there breaking point. I had put them thro...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryWork advice
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 24 2023 at 05:30 by anonemployee123 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 24 2023 at 12:40

I am in an entry level position in a professional work environment and have been on my team for about 2 years since completing undergrad. Today my boss and I had a meeting with some external stakeholders who we have been partnering with on a project. We maintain professional relationships with them although many of our meetings are brainstorms which I consider to be less formal than a group that w...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm i (33m) just an emotional support blanket for my girlfriend (44f)
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 18 2023 at 21:35 by OHpsm RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 20 2023 at 01:50

so we have been together for over two months (roughly about two months and two weeks) and after the first month I started to notice strange things which didn't make any sense to me. since the relationship started (which i must point out she started it all off by asking for my number and also when i asked her "so what are we doing what are we" to her replying "i would like to th...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryTinder date says she pregnant I think I’m being scammed
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 28 2022 at 04:20 by Scaredandtired1 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 14 2023 at 22:23

Aug 18th I had unprotected sex with a tinder hook up. Told her to get plan b she said she got it and took it. Then 6 or seven dats later she says it didn’t work and she’s pregnant and needs the money for an abortion. I give her the money. She tells me she’s done it. The next day after she asks me for money to buy food and pads as she needs them. I tell her sorry I’m broke. She says she doe...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNo pleasure
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 10 2023 at 19:55 by Fulls RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 14 2023 at 22:12

My husband had his prostrate removed 5 years ago. Sex as changed a lot as I no longer feel him in me. He as to use a pump device to get it ready for sex which can take about 10 minutes when he gets on me. I’m normally on top of him when he doesn’t use his device and I can only feel abit when he comes otherwise I feel nothing. I don’t get much pleasure at all. I can only get a orgasm when ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryRe-establishing contact?
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 8 2022 at 03:39 by DJHill RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 14 2023 at 20:58

I used to talk to someone I used to work with over a year ago. I had actually matched with them through Facebook Dating. Ended up getting her number and we talked a bit more, to the point where we discovered at least some stuff we have in common. I stopped talking to her about a year ago out of fear of rejection (I have depression). I just felt like if things continued that something would go wron...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused sexual identity
[28 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 7 2022 at 15:53 by skylerpenny1 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 9 2023 at 15:30

I've been a closeted transgender for decades and it's created a tremendous amount of anxiety in my life.. I identify as a male but for years have wanted to explore FULLY a feminine side to see if that's really who I am/want to be... I've hinted to my spouse over the years during bedroom sex that I'm interested in a female/submissive role but she doesn't want any part ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship advice
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 7 2023 at 10:35 by Emmy3000 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 8 2023 at 00:31

I am 22(f) and my partner is 21(m). I have recently found messages between him and another person and when I confronted him about it he admitted he thinks he's bisexual and was talking to the person to understand and see if he is actually into men.My inner conflict with the issue is that I have no problem about him being bisexual and trying to figure out his sexuality my problem is that he di...