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So the guy i am dating had a fling a 2 years ago. ( they met before we started dating) They met at our college and they worked in a study group together. Our mutual friend that was with them told me that he approached her a few times to ask for question about homework and study and then she invited him to be in their study group and he said yes. Apparently the study group lasted for about a week. ...

Hi! I work with people and have to be service minded. I'm married. I made the mistake in the past when asking my husband for advice on how to deal with flirtatous customers. He has a jealous streak which I feel goes away and it can be long periods of time or short periods. Something triggers it that has nothing to do with me. It makes me sad. To me he is sensitive and he reads all sorts of...

I'm an 18 year old girl who's never been in a real relationship before. I tried dating a guy when I was 16, but it didn't work out since we never really acknowledged each other irl and our conversations basically fizzled out. I'd like to call it an attraction I had that didn't work out. Anyways. I'd always had a crush on this guy I'd been friends with since I was...

I don't want to focus in on any one issue, but there are a few different things troubling me as of late. I reckon I used to think I had a pretty good "radar" for sensing out good friendships, and people to consider friends. But some of my longest-lasting friendships have thrown me for a loop lately. I'm starting to think that maybe since I've grown as a person I now v...

Recently, I was at school during lunch when my principal was having a disagreement with my girlfriend. I was triggered so, I left the area to calm down. My girlfriend quickly followed me and so did my principal. My girlfriend was hugging me because I was on the verge of tears. During the argument between my principal and girlfriend, she had called him weird which is important to what he said to us...

I'm a 30 year old guy who looks younger, and people usually think I'm 18 - 20 Sometimes when I interact with people, they think I'm a girl somehow and say ma'am, she, or her How would someone think ...

I'm 15 and pregnant. One of my best friends is the dad. He's 16. We've never dated, but we had sex a couple of times and he ended up getting me pregnant. We're still super close and he's really supportive. He comes to all of my appointments and cries with me and is just all around a super sweet boy. My parents have known about the pregnancy for around five months. They&...

I started a new job around 8 months ago, it’s a small group of people who I work with, I was very apprehensive about discussing my personal life with these people when I first started working with them, in my previous job I had a really hard time with being judged about my relationship ( my partner is a lot older than me ) and I found that some people didn’t except this and made cruel comments...

Me (31, female) and my friend (30, female) had a fight over text messages. Background: I am sine a year and a half and especially currently in bad health. I get my work done and some of my household tasks, but after that, I’m usually exhausted due to severe pain and other symptoms like dizziness, brain fog, and concentration problems, which can even lead to panic attacks. On weekends, I mos...

Hello all! I'm a 25 years old male. Let me give you a quick summary of my past and then I'll talk about today. I was diagnosed with OCD when I was 12 or 13. I was afraid of going to hell and in order to deal with this uncertainty I asked people lots of questions, looked up religions that can give me the guarantee that I'll go to heaven or at least I'll be ok that nothing bad...

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

I have been married for almost 15 years now, and over time, I have become just generally unhappy. I have considered looking into separation and more, but I am scared of what comes next. I have abandonment issues that have led to a PTSD diagnosis and am terrified of being alone. I feel trapped with no clear path. I am hoping someone here can give me any advice on the topic. It is not fair to me to ...

I'm don't know what to do here. I'm more confused than anything else to be honest. I'm an older woman, and as I've gotten older I've been prioritising my comfort more and more, and to that end I recently gave up my more "sexier" underwear in favour of womens boxers. The brand is called Oddballs, and if you google you'll see that they are quite colourful...

Ok so im 18 years old and recently my best friend- or my only friend moved away. I stayed at our hometown with my parents even though i wanted to leave but we couldn't afford that. I was initially jealous because of that but i got over it quickly. Anyways, my main concern right now is that i feel like i am missing out on life. I go to uni but i havent really met anyone i like. I have people ...

This guy and I dated during the summer, but we weren't getting along. So we stopped dating and were friends with benefits for a month. That ended in January because, again, we were not getting along. Recently, he and the guy had been texting. He told me he had a "spicy" dream about me. And I asked him if he wanted to have casual sex with me. He said, "That's a complicated ...

I never thought I would be in this position, but here I am, trying to make sense of a silence that feels heavier than any spoken goodbye. Being ghosted is not just someone leaving. It is the slow fading of connection, the confusion that comes with unanswered messages, and the aching realization that someone you cared about chose to disappear without explanation. In my search for clarity, I u...

Hi everyone! I’m currently juggling several prescriptions—from blood pressure meds to an inhaler and daily supplements—and it’s starting to feel overwhelming. I’ve set up a weekly pill organizer and use my phone alarm, but I still worry about mix‑ups, interactions, and remembering doses on busy days. How do you build a foolproof routine for taking multiple medications safely? Whi...

Hi Marked this under 'other' as really not sure what category to put it under and will try and keep it as short as possible. I recently met up with a woman I used to work with that I really liked ,after about 4 years. In the time in between we'd chat on WhatsApp but it was always me that initiated it and not her. Anyway we met a couple of weeks ago for coffee and spent a good...

Hello, I hope you're doing well. Here’s the situation: I’m 25 years old. I’m writing to you because I’ve been through a lot in the past few months and I need to talk about it. On January 21st, my maternal grandfather passed away from cardiac arrest at 68 years old. It was my first time experiencing grief, and I took it very badly. Then, on March 20th, my maternal grandmother passed...

It’s been over a month since “P,” one of my best friends, crossed my boundary. I had opened up to him about painful things—abandonment issues and hyper-sexuality after my breakup, sexual trauma, self-harm, drug use, and the shame I carry from all of it. I rarely open up, but he and another close friend, “J,” always encouraged me to share instead of keeping it all in. Our friend grou...

Hey! This is my 1st post. Umm I'm a normal (mostly) 40 year old mum of 3. I have a partner. We've been together solidly now for 6 years (on and off for many years before that( but that's a whole another story. Basically since having our twins 5 years ago, we have hardly had sex. I mean when I say hardly ever, the last time was about 2 months ago. So yea, basically never. It'...

Need help with sensitive topic...

Hi, I’m a 17-year-old guy from Spain, currently in my first year of a tech baccalaureate. There are two guys in my class—let’s call them Denis and Ian—who constantly tease me about little things to make me uncomfortable. For example, they laugh if I stutter slightly when I speak or make fun of my dad’s name (“David”) just to get under my skin. It escalates beyond words: Denis pokes m...

I am a final year undergraduate majoring in computer science and I have admits from Stevens institute of technology for MS in data science and I got deferred to Computer engineering in NYU. (Computer engineering is a combination of computer science and electronics and I am not that interested in electronics)I want to build a career in computer science. So what should I choose? And I have heard ...

Hi. I'm eighteen, and my pops lives in another country than the one I'm in; he fled some years ago (when I was pretty little) because he didn't want to show up-to court. He was in a position of power and sexually assaulted many women. It's haunted me. We talk on the phone, and he visits once every few years. I feel - as a woman myself and someone moral - like I'm a tra...

Hi all! I am not sure of these types of updates are allowed on here or not. I kind of lost track of the time and the last thread expired. @SOULMATE How's everything? So life update - I have since finally moved out of my hometown to another city for work. And then to another city again within the span of 5 months to pursue a part time course in science. I always wanted to go into scien...

It's been a little since I've been on here, hello. I made dandelion root tea for the first time, because I do practice witchcraft and I heard it has both medicinal and spiritual benefits. My family didn't like the smell (the recipe said to charcoal the roots and it gave the kitchen a bit of an I made something I was really proud of but I showed my family and they don't like ...

Me, 18F went through a breakup pretty recently about two months ago. The breakup was pretty messy and I really wanted to stay with him for a little while but eventually I got over him after finding out he moved on. (I'm not settling for that) And I've recently been talking to a new guy who is 19, he's very sweet and we both actually like the same games, music, interests ect. I'...

My classmate always does weird things with her tongue. She often sticks her tongue out, showing the smooth polkadotted light pink surface of her tongue and the shiny pink edges of her tongue. I could also see the rainbow colors underneath her tongue like the blue and purple veins and yellow midline on the cherry pink underside of her tongue. I don't like it when I see her tongue like that....

So I posted back in July. I wish I had listened. Shit happened. I will recap now. And I need help. I will go crazy................. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I want to share my story, hoping it will give me some clarity and peace of mind. I met someone...

I have just discovered that my husband of nearly 20 years (together 25+) is having an affair with a women he has been gaming with online. He doesn't know that I know. I am absolutely shattered and have no idea what to do next. My priority is to protect our 2 children. I have always been aware of how manipulative my husband can be, so really need help to know what I can do to protect m...