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In the past three weeks i I’ve questioned my sexuality multiple times but I’ve always ended up saying I’m straight because I could never picture myself marrying or seeing a woman in a romantic context in general. However I’m extremely aroused by these small women. I consider myself straight, but my nipples go hard while thinking of these women's hands at me lol. It's very confus...

How do I politely ask when we can meet in person. Daily chats, video calls every week, I know he is a real person, I have been with him one year. Early on our relationship, we talked about meeting in person but I live in the USA and he lives in Europe, so we both know it will take some time to save money to travel. But now it's been a year and I wonder how's the best approach to ask when...

Any feedback, opinions, and thoughts on this question will be greatly appreciated … I have been involved with Japanese woman (on and off) for a few years. We are both in our 50’s (not kids anymore). I am American and she lives in Japan. We have met and spent time with each other many times, so she is totally “real” … However, it has been a real “learning experience” for me t...

So my story is very sad. I'm 34 male and never dated or even went on a date in my life. This damages my mental health a lot and causes lots of sadness and depression. I'm 6ft tall, born in England and very muscular from lifting weights all my life for the last 17 years. So I'm above average attractiveness according to AI around 8/10 in terms of physical attractiveness. I...

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I have been married for 13 years, and during that time I've had many years of conflict* with my in-laws (parents and siblings). For the past few years, we have (for the most part) been polite and see each other during Christmas (we live in different states). During our entire relationship, though, none of my in-laws have ever tried to get to know me. No one in the family has ever even texted ...

I know this behavior is not normal, but I cannot talk to my friend about it because it will destroy our friendship. Here is the story: She was widowed in her early 50's several years ago after husband lost his battle with cancer. She has one adult daughter who is married with a toddler and another baby on the way. In the years since her husband passed, she has grown more and more attach...

TW: Sex, Cheating I do believe i deserve some amount of flame for my actions. However, i am tired of running around in circles and pretending I'm okay when I'm not.. i do think that even though I was wrong I should forgive myself and move on but i have not been able to get anywhere near coming to terms with it. I 21F cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years 29M. He ended it (rightfull...

My husband does not talk to me properly since 2 years of marriage. Forget about physical relationship, He avoids sex and has never given me an orgasm. he does not even want to have an emotional relationship. We also have a son. My husband does not even perform his duties as a father properly. He is also in debt. My mother-in-law always fights with me. My sister-in-law is jealous of my beauty and w...

I'm Aydan, 27 years old. I have been noticing something weird for years now, that I deliberately push to the back of my mind everytime. I have 2 younger siblings, and we're all 2 years apart from each other. I love them of course! However, recently the weird behaviours have been more frequent and it seems like it's been done on purpose. My siblings tend to ignore me on purpose and/o...

There has been a tremendous amount of stress at work. Poor managament in a nut shell. Experienceing PTSD and anxiety not sleeping this is killing me and I am not sure how long I can last. Lots of job duties being shuffeled around. Never knowing what is what, being put intentionally in very difficult surroundings. Malicious gossip landed me in the radar of powerful people and well ya know what it...

6 months in. She's in Abu Dhabi, I'm in Germany. Still haven't met irl 😭 that's happening later this year in october and I think about it way too much. kinda nervous about it I can't make music so I just wrote the lyrics and let Suno do the sound. Words mine, sound is AI 🤷‍♂️ before anyone asks The distance part is rough but you all already know that. She...

My boyfriend and I met on a dating app and have been together a little over 3 years, living together a little over 2 years now. He still texts a woman he met on the dating app before me. They went on a couple of dates and had sex, but ultimately decided the 2 hour driving distance between them was too much. However, when he texts her, it is often flirting or even what would be considered sexting. ...

I met my husband 8 years ago online in a Facebook group. I was in the middle if a divorce and so was he. He was in india and me un the usa. We talked as friends and helped each ither through our divorces. We remained friends and became closer and fell in love and after 3 years I decided to travel to India to meet him and see if this could actually become more. He proposed and we started k1 visa p...

My dad is going to turn 62 this year. He was retired from job 2 years ago. Sadly, he is not getting back his backlog money of $24,000 (i am from different country) from his company. The company is in legal trouble and has taken the matter of paying retired employees to the court. Court is not giving any date. My dad's money is hanging for a long time. He is making lots of efforts to find ...

So I met this girl last year and got close to her really quick (we are both freshman right now) tbh I was very openly homophobic (I didn't want people to know I liked girls) and she was bi but I didn't know until this year and I used to vent about my boy problems and all my trauma to her I mean I regret it so much but I think I was just desperate for any type of attention back then T...

Hello, I'm a newbie here. Realizing I need to vent frustrations, I found this site. Well, I am in a relationship with a short tempered, alcoholic man with some bad addictive type habits. I told him on our 1st conversation, the kind of person I hoped to find... someone with my own lifestyle, choices & hopefully at least some shared interests in common. So, I made it plain, I did not want s...

Husband had a night away with work during the week. Told me the night before but he knew at least 2 weeks before he had to stay away. He has stayed away for 1 night each year for 12 years to do with work. I believe him when he tells me this. It’s to take his customers out for the evening for a meal and drinks. I knew the night away was coming up and I was wondering when he was going to tell me...

Need help with how to deal with my husband’s communication. We have been married for 26 years. As long as everything stays surface level he is fine. The second it gets deeper he gets defensive even if it’s the first time talking about it. He decides when, how long and if it can be revisited. He tells me”say what you have to say”. If I want to revisit the topic, he will tell me “we’ve a...

Was with a girl for 2 years. I was her first relationship, she was my 4th.First year was perfect, second year we ended the distance. We lived 50-60 minutes away by subway. I lived with my parents and she lived alone. I told her I will visit her every other weekend, weekdays I work 2-8 so no and i want one weekend to be at home. She said seeing each other for 2 days every 10 days is little. Some we...

I've (30m) been friends with this girl (25f) for around 10 months now. We met at a cosplay event,kept in touch online and would meet up at conventions whenever they happened. Around October last year she had kinda had a bit of a personal crisis after breaking up with her ex, so I comforted her and I feel like we ended up becoming really close.  At some point during this time I began devel...

Right now everything is a lot and I just need positive words or someone to talk to......

So I want to ask about oral sex. I’m 55, husband is 59. We have sex a couple of times a week but with the oral it’s about twice a month. I cannot orgasm when we have sex so I will use my hand after he as finished to make myself come. He hardly says he wants to give me oral. I suggest it more than him and I think he does not like to do it to me. I get it that not everyone likes it but why...

I learned accidentally a couple months ago that my (F23) boyfriend (M22) has a fart/burp fetish. He doesn’t care for the smell, only the “sound and vibration” from them. He says it started with the live action Scooby Doo film. I feel uncomfortable to fart around him and try to leave the room when I can. Whenever I do fart a “good fart” as he says, he gets aroused and he let...

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

I met this man 9 years ago. And I've loved him ever since. He was my former boss. Like literally my boss, I was his assistant. I know he has been in relationship since we met for the first time. Time flies and my love for him grows deeper. He didnt care of me at first, but since 1,5 years ago we've gone differently. He told me he's attracted to me. He told me I've changed to be...

We have been married for 3, together 5 years. We're in our 30s. My spouse randomly won tickets to a hockey playoff game on the other side of the state for the middle of the week. He invited a coworker (they couldn't go) as well as a couple guy friends (also couldn't go). He briefly mentioned he is going with Kate (30F), an old college friend who he has seen once last winter and ...

My story goes as follows: I met my husband when he came into the office I worked for do to his taxes. It was love at first sight for me. I still remember what he was wearing and what his hair looked like but it was the way he carried himself that immediately sent me head over heels. He walked with so much confidence and power words can’t even describe. At first I thought wow, this guy must be an...

Hi! Just joined, introducing myself. As the name implies, I'm an Auto*.*, just coming out these past few months. Reading to learn, lurking to read. Coming out to family has been painful, but the LGBTQIA+ community has been marvelous. ...

hello there, i am definitely new to peoples problems website...

Hi all, this is a long and convoluted story, thanks for reading if you have the time, though the heading here gets the basic idea across. My question is if you think I should try to do anything here or just let it lie? Chapter 1: College, post-college, establishing relationships I'm a woman in my 30s but the story begins about 10 years ago when I was in college, where I knew two people,...

I suppose most of what I'm asking is in the title, but I'll give you some context. I'm pretty young, I'm just starting university this year straight out of high school. I've never been a massively social person and generally got on well with many people but never really made very strong connections. I moved schools a lot as a kid and there's a pretty big age gap betwe...