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I'm rebuilding my life from ground zero - finances, the whole 9 yards. My clock is ticking on some things I've been confused about and repressed for a long time. One being, I want to move and go live somewhere I want to live. I want to save what I need to move and go as soon as possible, with a little cushion in the bank account. With the above criteria I don't want to hold...

My husband wrote me a little note. On it it said. To my babe. I do really love you and want you forever. I don’t want to lose you, be mine forever Love yourthen he put his name) xxx It’s a lovely note but should he have put, I really do love you instead of, I do really love you. To me I felt it was like he was like he had questioned himself if he does love me. He said it was ver...

I like to buy nice things for the home. I’m very materialistic and I like to buy orament, plants and little things to make it cosy. I recently bought a new plant and ok it’s just some plants but my husband did not even noticed them. I had to show him and he even thought one of the plants was one that was there before. I just wanted him to notice it and say it was nice. Ok I like these thi...

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

I'm so heartbroken, we've been together nearly 7years in October, he returned to his home country in Europe for his best friends wedding over the weekend past. I found out the bride and groom went on a trip yesterday a few hours drive away with also my partner with another woman. Thanks to the bride sharing a Facebook live that's how I found out. He didn't have the decency ...

Ok so im 18 years old and recently my best friend- or my only friend moved away. I stayed at our hometown with my parents even though i wanted to leave but we couldn't afford that. I was initially jealous because of that but i got over it quickly. Anyways, my main concern right now is that i feel like i am missing out on life. I go to uni but i havent really met anyone i like. I have people ...

Hi, So I've been in a relationship for 3.5 years. Upa and downs of course. Though for a while now I've been feeling trapped/ stressed, so been doing research and I don't think I am respected and maybe with someone with a narcissistic tendencies. I feel I have been love bombed and then screamed at. My needs have not been met for the last few years, loads of little things that ...

I have been talking to a guy I met on bumble for around 5 months now. We have met 6-7 times and over the last 2-3 times there has been cuddling and hand holding although there has been no talks to define relationship. Apart from the meetings, we text each other sometimes as well although the conversations there are not very long. I really like him and have gotten attached to him. He has been very ...

Stepfather Issue. Three weeks ago completely unprovoked he was name calling and mean spirited. Due to a domestic violence situation I needed somewhere to stay in a hurry. He refused me. I was hurt and distraught. Police got me a Hotel. I'm still in it. Out of the blue he calls me. As though nothing happened between us. Says where are you? I do not tell. Says he ca...

So a new neighbour has moved in next door. I’ve Only heard her voice not seen her face but I think she might be quite young. You can hear her when she’s in going up the stairs and shutting doors. The houses are terraced do all close together and you can hear if so robe is in next door. This house was empty for a year and it was nice not having anyone live there snd not have to worry who w...

TLDR – Over the past few years, in large part due to my own behaviour, I appear to have lost the trust of one of my oldest and dearest friends (and former love interest). I’m struggling to move on and am not even sure if there’s a future for our friendship. Please advise. About me – 40 year old male with a chronic history of physical, emotional and verbal abuse from my mom which st...

First of all, I apologize if this is in the wrong forum or if there are any grammatical errors X'DD. Life has never been easy; it always feels like I'm missing something, but I don't know what. Lately, talking with someone doesn't felt right. I just want to ignore everybody, but I hate loneliness (kinda funny X'DD). Some people say they care about me, but I know it...

Owning a dog is my biggest regret in life. My dog is 6.5 years old. I adopted him from streets when he was a pup. I made a huge blunder at that time by being playful with him. Walking him outside is the biggest nightmare for me. Letting him defecate is the most difficult thing. He doesn't defecates at home. He poops and urinates only outside. I get abused by people for letting him defecate...

Things are not going good and there have been many ups and downs which has left me feeling totally confused abt everything atp. This month tbh majorly revolved around a heart break but not so real tho I'll tell you why so its like this my first ever crush or love technically you can say cuz we've been in what they call a situationship and there were some muffled down feelings from both s...

I’m confused. I don’t know what’s real or in my head. I’m realising so much recently. I used to think my anxieties were my issues but I’m finally thinking actually , my anxiety is only about one person , no one else , maybe she has made me this way. I’d really appreciate advice, opinions. This goes back years and years. My children are grown up now and ive had anxiety regar...

It's been almost 10 years since I've spoken with her, the last time being when I catfished her after planning a meetup where I came onto her. Before that, almost every encounter I had with her involved me groping her. I want to reconnect and apologize but I'm afraid she'll react negatively and/or expose our past. Help?...

1. My lady friend with whom I am dating for 5 years is a widow had gone for a trip some days ago with her other lady friends. There was one lady who also took her boyfriend with her and he was also known to my lady friend. 2. My lady friend had one said that the man somehow or the other tried in earlier occasion to express his love for her and tried to convince her for dating. However she denie...

I broke up with someone not too long ago and it wasn't even that big of a deal I feel. We dated for three weeks and we hadn't even kissed and he just one day sent me a text saying that we shouldn't talk for a while because something that happened in his personal life(I do not know what happened, he never told me) and he just ignored me the whole time. We had a few of the same classe...

What do people mean by activities to do? I can never find anything near me, im so lonely i might have to go back to the hospital. my therapist is not sending me there or thinking i need it but i do. I have no friends and am 28 years old. This has been going on for months now. Maybe i should just run away? unsure....

My partner of 8 years went to prison almost 8 months ago. I am struggling with loneliness and trying my best to survive financially. I had found a roommate to help but that fell through in spectacular fashion. I really need someone to talk to. The alone is starting to weigh on me....

I have been alone for years now. But I would really like to share a bond with a lady. However I have so much distain and self-loathing I cannot imagine anyone wanting to be with me. I'll see a lady who I really like and all I can think is that it would be terrible for her and I would ruin her life. I find myself caught in these cycles and despiring. I have tried to destroy these elem...

My boyfriend and I are of same age. My boyfriend is studying in a tier 1 engineering college and I am studying in a Tier-3 engineering college. He has already secured an internship. We were discussing about future plans and stuff. I told him I cannot live with his parents if it’s like a flat you know like 2/3 rooms, 1 kitchen , 1 bathroom type. I haven’t grown up in a joint family so I am used...

I'm currently feeling stuck in life and I'm not sure what to do. I think one of the main reasons is because I don't really have anyone to go and do things with. I quite a few friends but it's a struggle to organised things with them. They all have their own partners or they live a bit too far etc. I do have my best friend. Who I love to bits however I've realised we ne...

The girl who i am crushing on has just left a year and a half relationship where she was pretty badlyy hurt. whats worse is that this guy is an ex friend of mine. She wasnt on my radar before and i was just trying to help her feel better but i feel ive caught feelings and idk how to show them to her without it being weird. We'v eehung out 1:1 before and its been fine but i feel like she ...

I have been on here before So sorry if my posts seems a little like the last one. Should I be happy with little touches here and there from him and be grateful when I get it in return? I just don’t feel my husband wants much sex with me it gives me the affection I crave. I like a lot of touch and affection but don’t get much from him. Plus I also say to have sex most of the time. He will ho...