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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySister in law trouble
CREATED: May 27 2022 at 13:03 by Abil

Myself and my partner have put up with years of my sister in law doing ridiculous things that have cause us hurt or anger. She recently met a man and they've been going fast in sense of house babies etc. He seemed nice and we all got along fine. However in recent weeks they came to my partner (her brother) and demanded help with something in their personal life. They didn't listen to his...

Money advice forum category advice forum categoryEstate Distribution Out of Balance/Short End of the Stick
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 20 2022 at 02:05 by Rogues_Scholar RESPONDENTS: Balance / Soulmate / Aka LAST POST: May 27 2022 at 15:30

Let me start by saying I'm in a blessed situation financially and my concerns come from a place of fairness not greed. I hate money for the problems it can cause but I don't know what to do with my feelings over this. I'll try to keep this brief. I chose not to get married nor have any kids. I'm a disabled vet that has money coming in monthly to help balance the times I can�...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTo stay or to let go of my marriage
[9 POSTS] CREATED: May 20 2022 at 14:53 by SadCat RESPONDENTS: Balance / Aka / Soulmate LAST POST: May 26 2022 at 16:05

Ive been in this marriage with my husband of 3 years. All was good in fact most days are good. But it's been months since our last time being intimate (I blame us for working 24/7) but it's because of this too I'm beginning to become less attracted to him sexually as a husband. He often assures me that he is still attracted to me but the hecticness & tiring life led us both t...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryProblems with MEN - Result of teenage Trauma
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 23 2022 at 06:43 by Freegirl92 RESPONDENTS: Aka / Soulmate LAST POST: May 25 2022 at 19:22

Hello all, I would like some advice on how to go about dealing with and getting my power back as a result of having sex/relations with an older male when I was younger. (Being Taken advantage of) The story goes, when I was 16 I had the typical emotional problems that comes with being a teenager, I realized quickly I loved to drink to mask my problems from lack of affection from my father. I con...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[1051 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard LAST POST: May 25 2022 at 17:15

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGame gone wrong
[156 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 18 2022 at 02:22 by transmutation RESPONDENTS: Balance / susiedqq / Soulmate / lily31 LAST POST: May 25 2022 at 16:50

A decade ago my partner & I started writing a novella containing several characters. It was to be something we do together. Was supposed to be our very own entertainment, creation, fun & a secret pastime at home just for us. Over the years it has grown to quite the obsession. We role play into characters! However, the two main characters (Lovers Mirra & Pete with kids never married...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryMy mom is very angry about a family holiday, please help
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2022 at 18:42 by Iloverosie RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 25 2022 at 14:52

I live with my mother in the family home. My father wasn't there when I was growing up. My siblings are gone away to live and work abroad. One of my siblings has plans to come home on holidays this summer. My mom knew this and she was looking forward to the visit. She was cleaning the spare room for months. It's an older house and there is some damp and some jobs to do on the ho...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I in the wrong here? Should I apologise?
[17 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 16 2022 at 20:26 by heisenberg RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone / oldmainer / Soulmate / Aka LAST POST: May 23 2022 at 21:12

So, there is this common friend group that I have. I have met most people from it but due to the pandemic, we mostly meet in online video calls. The number of people on the call varies depending on everyone's schedule. There is this one girl in the group that was my senior and over the past few months, I started talking to her. We started talking about casual stuff like shows, work etc. but o...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryCircles
[1 POST] CREATED: May 19 2022 at 09:14 by Balance RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: May 23 2022 at 21:00

I grew up in what we'll refer to as town 'A'. It is a small place, and aside from going to school and joining the workforce here, I had no desire to stick around. Many years ago I moved to town B, and spent a good chunk of my young adulthood there. I gradually made friends there, found areas I liked to go to, and had my longest-lasting job thus far. It wasn't all roses, b...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFeel like I was treated really badly, but still beating myself up
[6 POSTS] CREATED: May 11 2022 at 14:02 by LakesNightmare RESPONDENTS: manalone / oldmainer / Aka LAST POST: May 18 2022 at 14:03

A friend of mine who I had always loved moved away to a different continent well over a decade ago. She got married had children and the only contact I had with her was through facebook. Her marriage broke down she ended up back in the UK. But she lives a long way away. But she got in touch and we started speaking a lot over a year and a lot of a lot in the final 4 months of lockdown. She was...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTired of being torn
[15 POSTS] CREATED: May 2 2022 at 18:24 by Wendy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / manalone / oldmainer LAST POST: May 16 2022 at 15:05

Hi, so I know what most are going to say "you don't deserve either" With that being said, I've been casually dating two guys the past few months and I've gotten to the point where I need to pick one or none. I know I can't keep stringing them both along. Let me start off by saying I am a 32 year old female. With that being said guy #1 is 8 years older than me...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryMother in law
[24 POSTS] CREATED: May 4 2022 at 06:15 by Louise Anne RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / transmutation LAST POST: May 16 2022 at 14:21

My mil is sensitive , caring , lovely Etc , all the reasons why it’s complicated. Without even knowing or noticing why , she somehow creates such anxiety. She’s 2 different people. Perhaps all the above when things go her way. But then she has always said she can be nasty If she’s wronged , and that she’s not forgiving. Examples- i recently had major surgery. On the build up , I’m th...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGot together after 3 years and now having issues
[13 POSTS] CREATED: May 4 2022 at 10:17 by Sharon89 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Truthlady LAST POST: May 16 2022 at 14:02

Hi everyone, Me and my husband met each other in 2015 and fell in love with . Met after a year and got married the next year. We both live in different countries and now we are finally together things are not working out. His parents were giving me hard time and I kept telling him. And now when he saw it himself he didn’t say a word. He didn’t support me at all. He even swore at me in front...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy would he tell me this?
[23 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2022 at 21:13 by Jde245 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 12 2022 at 17:14

I, F(21) was dating this M(30), but he broke things off with me because he said he thought the age difference would cause problems in the future. We are currently fwb. I spent the night at his place Saturday and he dropped me off at home the following morning. As we were in the car he told me this “funny story” about a girl approaching him and telling him he was exactly the guy she was lo...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHopelessness & no clear way out
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2022 at 05:21 by Hopelessly Torn RESPONDENTS: Aka / Soulmate / oldmainer / susiedqq LAST POST: May 8 2022 at 22:17

I started out in this relationship for the wrong reasons, we were expecting a child. Then when everything in me told me not to stay, I staid, & to make it worse I married her out of guilt and a sense of responsibility. We were married even though I knew I wasn’t happy I couldn’t bring myself to leave that child & to have her grow up in a broken home from the start, or at least that...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I a bad person?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 7 2022 at 22:26 by feelingmeh RESPONDENTS: Someoneidk2 / Soulmate / oldmainer LAST POST: May 8 2022 at 18:11

Hello! Sorry if this is kind of long... I suffer from pretty bad anxiety, and recently a lot of it has been about me thinking of myself as a terrible person. Especially when I was younger, I feel like I was just really self-centred and only thought about myself. But the main thing that's really been bothering me is how I treated one person in particular when we were around 10-11. Basic...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI saw feedback on my boyfriend's Ebay Account from Sex Shops
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 1 2022 at 09:32 by Girlagogo RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: May 6 2022 at 21:23

My boyfriend has changed alot over the last few months - lots of new clothes, different shoes, very good mood all the time. We live apart but see each other on weekends, although in recent months he spends less time with me on those weekends. He sells alot of collectibles etc on Ebay and after viewing something on there he was talking about I checked his feedback as a buyer ( being nosey I s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFriendship fall out
[19 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 23 2022 at 17:23 by Louise Anne RESPONDENTS: lily31 / manalone / Soulmate / Aka LAST POST: May 5 2022 at 23:02

I’m curious to know if I have reacted far too sensitively. My colleague, who I work with every day, we have developed a close friendship over the last few years. He recently said he doesn’t message much outside of work anymore because his connection with me is always at work , therefore us messaging is like hearing from work. I thought and apparently meant more than that. He’s always said ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLike a father!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 7 2022 at 21:22 by 007diamonds RESPONDENTS: Chatterbox / oldmainer / Soulmate LAST POST: May 4 2022 at 03:55

Hi all. Brief background. Im M (31) 2 Kids as well. When i was 8yo my parents separated which didnt effect me. They were not good together anyway. But at 9yo my mother bought in the man who would go on to be a special part of my life. I always looked up to this man, still do and love him like a father. We would spend a lot of time together as he would drive me to school which was an ho...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I toxic?
[8 POSTS] CREATED: May 2 2022 at 13:31 by Froggileggs RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / Soulmate LAST POST: May 4 2022 at 02:39

Hi everyone, So I need advice… I have been in a on and off again relationship for the past two years. We have had our fair share of shit and always managed to work things out but we had a fight last night and now I’m questioning my own sanity and whether or not I am these things he said; Abusive Manipulative Narcissistic Crazy Bipolar Split personalty Victim mentality To...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy girlfriend suffers from suicidal depression
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 14 2022 at 06:48 by anonimo RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / susiedqq / lily31 / loved&lost / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 29 2022 at 05:48

Hello, I am reaching out here because my girlfriend is struggling with suicidal depression and I need advice on how to proceed in our relationship. Some background: this is my first relationship, we met in college, and have been together for five years. I found out early on that she suffers from this condition and it has continually persisted. Her depression comes in periodic waves. There ar...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryThe chat room trap
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2022 at 16:05 by Peter527Kent RESPONDENTS: Aka / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 29 2022 at 03:28

My wife has been chatting for about a year I think. She is 55 and although fairly prim and proper in public has a naughtyish side when she gets to know people. Chat rooms appear to have allowed her darker side full reign. I found her half dressed and with one of her toys on the desk with a much younger man on screen who was naked from the waist up. I said nothing and left the room only to hear he...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI desperately need to choose between a life in the EU vs Bali
[75 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 14 2022 at 17:00 by Elusiveman RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Richard B LAST POST: Apr 28 2022 at 01:48

I am a 51 year old white male and am suffering from a little self-inflicted mind game. I am also currently living with my current girlfriend in a common-law partnership in a country in the EU. I have been here 1 month and need to start working soon and have to stay 5 years to get the EU passport. I also have the opportunity to live and work in BALI. I am so drawn to the different lifestyle ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI am in an unrequited love
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 18 2022 at 15:56 by happeepiii RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / nikkiwats LAST POST: Apr 27 2022 at 23:20

I like this person for more than 5 years already. We used to talk but suddenly we just acted like we didn't know each other. We would exchange glances or smile and that's it. For messages, we only message each other during birthdays and yes that's every year. We don't miss any birthdays. I sometimes think he's showing me mixed signals or motives that makes me think he like...