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S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI fell for my husband seduction, so I shouldn't blame him right? TMI
CREATED: Jan 20 2022 at 09:40 by StayAtHomeWife

Well since this is a sex sub, so I ought to ask this here. I have found myself in a very grey area. I need to get this off my chest, as I can't seem to get pass this. I need reassurance/validation on this please. I don't know if this is me fell for my husband seduction, or he was somewhat forceful. Sorry for English is my third language. I'm from Shanghai. Me and my husb...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I tell my fwb’s wife with a newborn her husband is cheating?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 19 2022 at 20:24 by Cox’s Orange Pippin RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 20 2022 at 03:12

So I know I may get some hate for this but just to be clear I DID NOT KNOW HE WAS WITH HIS WIFE WHEN I MET HIM. for reference, I am a 26yo female and the man in question is 33. We met online in March 2021 and started seeing each other in person in early April. I am in a happy and committed open relationship with someone, and the person in question (who I will call Max from now on) and my par...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBroken hearted and backstabbed by best friend
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 19 2022 at 18:29 by Wolf71284 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 19 2022 at 22:04

Hello almost 5 years ago i met a 23 year old woman online playing video games. I soo. Learned she had a emotionally and physically abusive bf. And had 3 young kids. I was 33 years old when we met and became good friends. Over the course of that year we started to grow feelings for each other. And talked and played every day. And was witness to a lot of the emotional abuse. And heard the thre...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryNew job not the right fit, should I move on?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 10 2022 at 21:15 by Lou2022 RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 18 2022 at 14:03

I left a job after 3 months for what seemed like a good opportunity that I would regret not taking. Now I'm into my fourth month at this new job and i am miserable. I don't enjoy the work, the schedule has hours that mean I'm not able to be with my family as much, the training was minimal at best. I have stayed because i thought it was just new job anxiety and that I would find my...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryAnyone else get annoyed with declarations of faith conquers all
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 4 2022 at 11:30 by Aka RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / mona / new girl / oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 17 2022 at 08:27

The title pretty much says it all. Now don't get me wrong, I know God exists. I have seen enough in my life to know with certainty. It isn't just a belief with me. Now on to the debate. I keep seeing quotes, comments, posts on the social media platforms I use that all seem to say the same thing. Faith will get you through. Faith protects you. Etc. The last one I saw that really inf...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI destroyed our friendship
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 16 2022 at 23:57 by Everythingbagel RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Jan 17 2022 at 08:26

I (36M) have known this girl (31F) for over 6 years. We were roommates at first, had not met before. We hit off pretty quickly and became intimate at some point, about a few months after I moved in. We would grab a bite to eat or go to the movies, I really liked her but only as a friend, and sex was great so we kept that going for a few months. She then confessed she had feelings for me so I w...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryCo worker sexual attraction
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2022 at 19:20 by ManCalledHorse RESPONDENTS: Aka / oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 17 2022 at 02:39

Hi Guys I am trying to get my mind in gear would welcome honest advice and not judging me on what I say. I have started a New Job,in this pandemic World there are social policy's in place IE face mask to be worn at all time. staggered lunches most eat lunch in our cars. I have become friendly with a women in work,she is seeing someone,I am also living with someone. Attraction has grown...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship problems
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 12 2022 at 13:24 by Thatdude RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Jan 13 2022 at 11:18

Hey everyone! So I have some problems with me and my "gf" relationship. I really like this girl and she likes me (We both admitted to each other over snap), once I asked her if she sees me as her bf and she asked if I saw her as my gf and I said yes and I quote she said "Oh, then I see you as my bf". She's a very open and friendly girl and has a lot of friends. However one...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryEx from a month is messing with my head
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 8 2022 at 09:34 by NW25 RESPONDENTS: new girl / oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 13 2022 at 00:06

So my now ex girlfriend split up with me over a month ago, now I don’t know if this is because my previous relationships have been pushed and I’ve ended up disliking my other exes before her but I’m really confused as to how I’m feeling on it all. Basically the reasons she gave to me where our arguments that got quite bad over the last month or so- but I had believed it was just a phas...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryProblem with family and boyfriend - I need advice
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2022 at 19:27 by Green macaron RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 12 2022 at 13:17

Hello. I'm 22 years old girl, living in a ordinary-modern society. 2 years ago I met my boyfriend. This is my first romantic relationship. We like each other very much. But when my parents met him, they didn't like him. They think he's weird and not for me. My family isn't best in the world. My parents were always overprotective. In the house, it was never quiet, al...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTaking a backseat to adult children
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 9 2022 at 18:07 by Mkaya RESPONDENTS: mona LAST POST: Jan 12 2022 at 05:22

I'm early 60s and in a new couple month old relationship. My significant other has 2 children late 30s who are married and on their own. I have been told and shown that they will always come first. I dont need to always be first, but I would like to feel like I am not always 3rd place. Everything else about the relationship is good. Should I move on or wait it out hoping for it to get bette...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWas I just a rebound?
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 10 2022 at 02:39 by Christina2022 RESPONDENTS: new girl / oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 11 2022 at 21:51

Hey everyone and thanks for reading. Hopefully this won’t be too long… Was seeing this guy for 7 months… gave me a ring after 1 month of dating… gave me $10,000 to pay off my car, planning a house to build with me. He bought a truck and camper and it was placed in my name. We went on plenty of trips , but then we break up 2 months ago. I start to miss him so I reach out to him to talk...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I being strung along or is he getting comfortable?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 11 2022 at 05:15 by Sunstcrm RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 11 2022 at 12:50

I apologize if this is quite long but I was rather confused about the state of my relationship. I met a guy off of an app 3 months ago who’s pretty much my gender bend. I was looking for friendship as to where he was looking for friendships and romance. We had started talking on the phone and were completely obsessed with each other. We would spend nights and mornings on the phone and FaceTi...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySeek advice regarding how to tell someone something
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 7 2022 at 17:03 by mona RESPONDENTS: NW25 / lily31 / oldmainer LAST POST: Jan 10 2022 at 01:38

I have an ex-coworker who wants to have a picnic with me in the park. She has chosen to not receive the Covid-19 vaccine. I don't feel safe being around her because of this. How can I decline the picnic invitation without offending her? ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[928 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard LAST POST: Jan 8 2022 at 13:35

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryIVF round 2 - struggling with my feelings
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 30 2021 at 20:50 by fatmama RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 5 2022 at 00:29

I’m about to start IVF round 2 - I have a healthy child born from our first ever round. We waited three years to have IVF in the first place so have already been through hell with this. I have five embryos in the freezer, one of which will be transferred to my uterus in the upcoming round. I am overweight which reduces the chance of IVF working. I was overweight last time and it worked, bu...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I wasting my time with this man?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 3 2022 at 19:00 by seeingthetruth RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Jan 4 2022 at 11:18

While I have dated divorced men in the last several years, I have never had the issues I'm having with my current partner. We've been seeing each other for about 4 months and while he seems very interested in me and makes efforts to see me regularly, I feel like he has one foot in his prior marriage. He has been divorced for 3 years after a 34 year marriage and has told me his ex asked...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it my fault my sister abandoned me?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 20 2021 at 13:03 by Idontknow2001 RESPONDENTS: Aka / lily31 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 3 2022 at 03:23

I’d just like to say Thankyou to anybody who has the time to read this and possibly give any advice! I just need to get 8 years worth of heartache off my chest and just to hear that hopefully it wasn’t my fault. Trust me when I say I am getting professional help for this, but I’d just like some REAL opinions from real people! Hello everybody, I’m not really sure where to start real...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat’s the meaning of this?
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 31 2021 at 06:59 by Jonny1980 RESPONDENTS: mona LAST POST: Dec 31 2021 at 18:36

When my ex ended things she wanted to remain friends but I choose not to.. she seemed a little taken back by this and an argument broke out lasting on and off for a week.. it ended up in her blocking my mobile number.. I felt a little bad knowing I had upset her threw things I had said during the argument and wanted to apologise.. I used Facebook to contact her and apologise, she thanked me...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband or Lover or myself?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 31 2021 at 13:42 by BeachLife101 RESPONDENTS: mona LAST POST: Dec 31 2021 at 18:31

So I'm 34 married for 9 years. No kids. Love my husband, but we are no longer sexually intimate or affectionate. I deal with all the housework, bills, appointments etc. He will do the dishes or the bins occasionally. He wants children yet won't have sex with me unless it's near my fertile time otherwise I get told he's too tired or can't be bothered. Been this way for a...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGot dumped. After no contact for 3 months got in contact again
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 25 2021 at 16:17 by Weirdtentaclelover RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Dec 31 2021 at 06:42

I really want to move on. I have no idea what I can do to move on from this relationship in which I wasn't even loved. After breaking no contact we argued again i thought he wouldn't reply anymore so I typed in a last goodbye. He didn't reply and i lost all hope. Next day he sent a good bye message as well and he told me he only loved the idea of me. And at the end of the day he d...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryCEO Behavior
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 29 2021 at 16:26 by mona RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Dec 30 2021 at 15:47

I recently did a contract job helping with a dinner event at the company I used to work for. The company has a CEO I had never met before. After the event, the CEO called me into her office. I thought she was going to basically do a "debriefing" about the event. However, she didn't discuss the event at all but, instead, just asked me questions about the date I brought to the eve...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat do I do?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 30 2021 at 05:12 by Anxious RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Dec 30 2021 at 08:28

Going to start again. I am in a relationship that I am planning to leave. I am in love with one of my partners friends. We have flirted for a year, even snuck in a couple of kisses. Eventually we had intense and fantastic sex, but now he has gone away for 5 weeks and won’t talk to me. I don’t know whether he is wanting to finish it? Whether I imagined we were both in the same space? Whether I ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI got too close to my really good friend and he’s gone strange now
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 29 2021 at 20:13 by Kitty600 RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Dec 30 2021 at 07:47

I was great frends with a guy who is married with kids and last summer it got a bit more where he started sending videos and photos and I started sending them back then as well. We were enjoying the flirting and he’d ring me a few times a day and we’d be constantly texting until early hrs of morning. At first we had no intentions of having sex but then started discussing it and I where it co...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryStarted dating after 5 years again - still too insecure?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 27 2021 at 09:44 by Chatty RESPONDENTS: Aka / mona LAST POST: Dec 29 2021 at 17:27

Hi dear people! I need some help/advice please! So after 5 years of not dating and trying to heal from a past relationship and heartbreak after loosing some very close family members i signed up on Bumble and a day later found a guy that i connected with. I really just swiped right 4 times, i was playing it very safe. We started chatting right away and we did so for 2 and a half months. ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm stuck in friendzone! Help!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 20 2021 at 22:46 by Rmin RESPONDENTS: yoyo13875 / TheColorPink LAST POST: Dec 26 2021 at 16:44

Hi. I'm a boy 23, I have a friend that we are so close to each other. since last year I had some feelings for her. I feel comfortable around her, she is cute and has a great personality. last year I asked her if we could be in a relationship or not and she told me that she don't want to talk about it. At that time we weren't close like today and she was broke up with her last rela...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryLongtime crush, 3rd time friend
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 23 2021 at 12:54 by Jellybeanboom RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Dec 26 2021 at 03:38

There's this friend that I've known for a long time now and we'd hang out and message each other from time to time. We even went out once years ago but it didn't amount to anything. Recently, we reconnected and we had good conversations, fun and we'd message every day. One day, I decided to flirt a bit more obviously and "shoot my shot" and while he responded tha...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused by ex boyfriend
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 22 2021 at 08:08 by Baffled RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Dec 24 2021 at 10:59

My ex Boyfriend ended things months ago. He has fought for us to be friends, even when I have wanted to run away. he would always txt me, every day. For the past 2 weeks he has suddenly become distant and cold. he still messages me, just not daily, and when he does its short conversations or yes, no answers. He will not tell me where I stand, and he knows I still have feelings for him. I'm co...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryXmas dilemma: Husband vs Family
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 13 2021 at 22:13 by Miranda3 RESPONDENTS: Crazy_Wife / susiedqq / Custard LAST POST: Dec 23 2021 at 07:37

My husband has decided that since last week, he doesn't want to go to my parents for xmas dinner. He said that myself and the kids can go without him. He has decided that he doesn't want to be around my family anymore. He thinks they don't like him which is completely untrue. The problem is that my parents and siblings are all looking forward to us all being together at xmas as ...