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Work advice forum category advice forum categoryIs what happened at previous job discrimination, harassment, or abuse?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 27 2021 at 15:45 by Green123 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 / manalone LAST POST: Feb 28 2021 at 03:26

6 months ago I chose to transfer to another department. A colleague asked what happened to me was discrimination. Story: For a yr, was me director & secretary that started right after me. Director switches from overly friendly to yelling and critical, at that point mostly overly friendly. Dept. expanded, She hired 3 people all the same gender&race/ethnicity as her.I was in interviews & others ha...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryCrazy mom
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 25 2021 at 19:25 by Crazyloon RESPONDENTS: Aka / lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 26 2021 at 18:25

My mom went off on me this morning, she was absolutely fine, absolutely fine, she was laying with me and we were talking. Then my grandma called asking if I wanted to go get lunch. So I said yes, all of a sudden my mom is like "Get up now you need to get ready" Over and over and She is not taking me for 2 hours!! I do have a class between then but all I have to do is put on a shirt and shorts.... ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow can I help more? Wife x work x kids
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 22 2021 at 20:59 by Tunafish RESPONDENTS: manalone / 8Twenty8 / Aka LAST POST: Feb 26 2021 at 03:50

Hi, the problem I want to talk about seems simple: I have a feeling I shouldn´t have married my wife. We have a lovely son and we are expecting a second baby. A year ago, when the first lockdown in my country was imposed, we separated for a month or so. However, I couldn´t handle not being with my son, so I moved back and tried to make everything up. I´m a teacher, I´ve been teaching online...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI may have opened Pandora's box
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 21 2021 at 22:30 by Sapanas RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq / Sunbeams LAST POST: Feb 25 2021 at 01:47

I have a problem that is rather layered but I will try and condense it. I developed a hobby of genealogy a year or so ago after doing a 23 and me DNA test. I found it to be fun tracing my roots and I was constantly talking with my significant other about what cool things I was finding out. He was raised by a single mom who hadn't maintained any family ties. His mother had left the father portion...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I being unreasonable?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 22 2021 at 00:14 by Genie RESPONDENTS: Aka / lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 23 2021 at 14:24

I am 29 and was recently told by my doctor that due to a pre-existing condition I am not ovulating, and if I want to conceive I will need to be referred to a fertility clinic for treatment. I understand that in the UK, you need to be trying for a baby for 12 months before a GP will approve a referral, but the doctor said she would push for one now if I wanted. I desperately want this referral beca...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryMade a bad choice
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 21 2021 at 18:00 by Dumb RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Feb 22 2021 at 05:30

I have suffered with depression and anxiety for a long time. It has affected me very badly and caused me not to be able to think logically about things. At the moment I am having a bad time in work and I feel like everyone hates me there and I don't belong there. These feelings have made me all confused and I feel I am making a lot of bad decisions. When a work colleague asked me to join her a...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I overreacting?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 21 2021 at 03:06 by fadden RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Aka LAST POST: Feb 22 2021 at 05:21

Would you allow your partner to take a 2 week break from you and the relationship with no communication between you two? I feel slighted, sad, angry, and hurt that they told me they want a break because they have alot going on in their lives. Well I do too, and I should be included. I'm not running away because my life is chaotic and messy , I feel like they shouldn't either. am I overreacting? Sh...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI have nothing
[11 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 17 2021 at 03:53 by Aka RESPONDENTS: In God's Hands / Bluebird11 LAST POST: Feb 19 2021 at 20:06

I feel like I've lost everything. I never had that much to begin with, but it was enough because what I did have was amazing. But now. I feel like my marriage is pretty much broken. She doesn't listen to me anymore, constantly interrupts me when I am talking, and doesn't seem to really be considerate of anything that includes me. My pup died about 2 years ago, and she was pretty much the onl...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryRegretting opening my relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 19 2021 at 06:28 by PuppyBerry RESPONDENTS: Aka / Bluebird11 LAST POST: Feb 19 2021 at 19:19

TL/DR: We opened our relationship, my partner has fallen for someone, im overcome with jealousy and wish I never did this in the first place My partner and I are 21 and have been together for about 7 years. I would say we’re in an extremely emotionally close and loving relationship, but since we moved in together our sex life diminished dramatically. I guess because I was getting bored and w...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[777 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard LAST POST: Feb 19 2021 at 10:25

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it me or the ex wife
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 18 2021 at 22:51 by Greyhusky RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 19 2021 at 02:01

My husband and I coparent with his ex wife. I find myself constantly comparing myself to her. My first marriage was horrible and ruined my self esteem so I know this is partially the reason. My current husband told me from the get go that he will always love his ex bc she is the mother of his children. I feel like that is another reason for my self esteem issues as I have absolutely no love fo...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I question him or not?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 15 2021 at 16:36 by Tjb70 RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Feb 17 2021 at 23:59

I know I shouldn't have but I checked partners phone this morning and found that he had yet again taken a semi hard dick pic which he hasn't sent to me. This isn't the first time he has done this. I questioned him the last time and he said he was going to send to me, but felt that as things weren't great between us, that he shouldn't do it. I'm going through a tough time, emotionally and mentall...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease help. My fiancé thinks I ruined VDay I feel she’s wrong
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 17 2021 at 00:05 by C-gar RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Aka LAST POST: Feb 17 2021 at 15:40

Here’s the scenario. VDay was (from start to almost finish) verging on the best day ever. We woke up early, made breakfast, watched some Netflix and had an Afternoon Nap. When I woke up it was only 1:30pm. The room was dark and AC was blowing, perfect vibe for awesome afternoon sex! The day couldn’t get better i thought, but it did. She told me I had an hour to get ready for a place she...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do in this situation?
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 21 2021 at 07:10 by greenb3ar RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Feb 16 2021 at 13:43

for context, this takes place with me (17) and my friend (18) a few weeks ago during my winter break, she asked if she could come over. her home life isn't quite the best, and she often stays at my house for extended periods of time. although i was a bit hesitant (i planned to use winter break to relax from the stress of online school and both of my parents becoming ill with cancer, and the oth...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFalling out of love
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 14 2021 at 20:15 by Someone02 RESPONDENTS: AJM248 / manalone LAST POST: Feb 14 2021 at 22:50

Hello there, I recently found this forum so I decided to ask for some advice here. I am a girl, 18 years old and currently I am in a relationship with a really sweet guy. To mention, I’ve never had a boyfriend before so he is my first one. He is a really nice person, he is sweet, caring, he keeps showing me the perfect amount of love and everything else is just perfect. The problem is that I ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy can’t I just feel happy again?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 31 2021 at 09:56 by Lennonlover21 RESPONDENTS: Sunbeams / Latersgaters LAST POST: Feb 14 2021 at 18:23

Hi, Firstly, I’ve never done this before but I just feel like I need advice because my life has been so complicated and this is on my mind all the time. I’m now 36, divorced and mother of two sons ages 6 & 5. When I was 18 I met my first love who was 7 years older than me. He told me he wanted to move to Australia as he had been there on a years working holiday visa and felt like it...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I break up with someone I love due to an impasse about the future?
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 1 2021 at 21:51 by Anxiousornot RESPONDENTS: manalone / MamaBear / Jennifer01 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 12 2021 at 18:56

My bf and I do love each other and he’s really pushing to marry me after our 19 month courtship. Actually he was pushing to marry me well before but I told him I needed time. So now fast forward several months of spending time together. We are generally compatible including our interests and sex life. But over this time he has shown certain personality issues and I don’t know if they will get ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNo marriage proposal, what would you do?
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 7 2021 at 16:07 by Jennifer01 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Shellz LAST POST: Feb 12 2021 at 12:55

We have been together for 4yrs we have a 1yr old I wanted to talk about marriage and he doesn't want to. I am hurt and broken and he says its not me that its him. He cant promise that commitment to me ever pretty much. I am currently packing my stuff😥 its awful that whatever it is it is stronger than him caring about us his family. He says it means total control of the other person when you m...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryTexting but not planning dates: why do men do this?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 10 2021 at 15:47 by Menara RESPONDENTS: Jennifer01 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 12 2021 at 12:51

I'm a single mom officially divorced and separated since two years. Dating has been quite frustrating. I was with someone for a year who ended up not liking my children. We broke up seven months ago, and I've struggled through online dating the past months. I am noticing that some guys have a tendency of texting frequently (if not all day long), but rarely planning dates. Back in September I me...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFamily problem relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 10 2021 at 20:59 by lara01 RESPONDENTS: Jennifer01 LAST POST: Feb 11 2021 at 00:43

i don't have a good relationship with my parents , they are too strict,controlling and always make me insecure and feel bad about myself , i ve been going through anxiety since i was a child , always bad memories come to my mind and a lot shit is happening in the present moment , they make me feel as i m not enough . but how could i live with them in peace ? i ve hated my life with them since i w...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryProblem with a manager
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 7 2021 at 17:10 by Chloests RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Feb 10 2021 at 16:46

Hi everyone, it's my first post here and I can't believe I am resorting to seeking advice for my manager. I guess I should put my entire life on the line and let ransom strangers all over the internet decide my fate but here it goes. There is a manager at my work and he's really hot and appears to be a complete sweet heart. I was going through a lot of problems and did not treat him very kindl...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIntimacy issues in marriage
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 18 2021 at 10:38 by Frankie99988 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / JoeBlack LAST POST: Feb 10 2021 at 14:27

Me and my husband had a massive argument before Christmas which ended up being a blessing in disguise, for the past 5 years there has been physical affection in our marriage inc sex. We both acknowledged we are more like parents living together. Over Christmas I tried to offer my husband affection, however it was just very awkward for both of us. I think working alternative shifts and having a you...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI was a toxic girlfriend
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 14 2021 at 18:27 by yoxkaii RESPONDENTS: Aka / manalone / 8Twenty8 / JoeBlack LAST POST: Feb 10 2021 at 14:27

TW: suicide I was in a relationship with this guy for nearly 2 years. We've been through thick and thin, I've struggled a lot with my mental health, attempted many times, and had 4 psych ward visits as well as being kicked out of my home twice. Despite that, he stayed strong for me and continued to support me. I've always been moody and hard to handle at times, but so loving and caring, and a g...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTeacher-student feelings
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 20 2021 at 19:02 by Raju RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq / 8Twenty8 / JoeBlack LAST POST: Feb 10 2021 at 14:19

I am a college teacher of 45 years of age and am married with two kids. Recently, it came to my notice that a student of mine of age approximately 21 years has developed a feeling about me. In return, I have also developed the same feeling about her. But, my sense does not allow me to go ahead with this as I have a nice family and am a teacher of her. Nowadays, I realize that she i...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGuy needs a relationship advice, please help!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2021 at 10:09 by Ank93 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear / Caroline Kjeldgard LAST POST: Feb 9 2021 at 13:53

Hi, I met this girl 7 years ago in college I fell for her and expressed my feelings for her.. soon we were in a relationship, she is kind of an extrovert open minded and fun loving person and gets along pretty well with most people! I am an introvert and i would like to call myself focused person. Our relationship was pretty fine we both loved each other, she loves to eat out, have fun and ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy now after 9 years
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 4 2021 at 11:30 by let9222 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 LAST POST: Feb 8 2021 at 23:04

My ex fiancé of 8 months cheated on me with his toxic ex than dumped me in October 2020. He got engaged to his ex in January 2021 and got married a few days ago. What I don’t understand is why now they were off and on again for 9 years why now get married when I was in the picture. He had 9 years to ask her to be his wife.Me and him were supposed to be married in December 22 2020. It’s like a...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI am in love with two and don't know who to marry
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 8 2021 at 16:13 by chiamaka1 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 LAST POST: Feb 8 2021 at 22:57

I have a baby out of wedlock.but the man am with is not the father to the baby. but he does not know about that, so and he is not married to me yet. and there is this other guy that I love so much each time sleep or in my leisure time I think about him but he does not want the baby boy. he said I should give the baby to his father and also the man that is standing has his father I have been havin...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySo confused...
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 3 2021 at 12:27 by Yoshi RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Feb 8 2021 at 00:54

Long story short, my husband and i have been together 21 years, most were good. The last five have been bad, at times very bad, and we've def lost trust and communication, but we claim to love each other and want to make it work. That being said, i still catch my husband withholding things from me, telling little white lies about small things, just generally not trying like he said. He's also bec...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDid he cheat
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 5 2021 at 12:37 by moramay RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 LAST POST: Feb 7 2021 at 15:45

My husband as worked for a company for 7 years as a sales rep out on the road. The first time he went for the interview I was with him and I remember a woman coming out from the office and saying, goodbye and said my husbands name. I thought it was odd that she walked out with him and Im sure he told me that she asked what he was going to be doing after the interview. he had been interviewed by he...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFriend or more
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 5 2021 at 13:06 by tilaxxx RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 LAST POST: Feb 7 2021 at 15:37

Can you be friends with the opposite sex without anything going on between you. I met my husband through a dating site he was friends with a older woman before he met me who he had known since he was young and living at home. his parents were friendly with her and her husband and they used to get together for meals and the woman ended up working with my husband years later. he did not recognize he...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused dating advice
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 4 2021 at 19:11 by Breezeca RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Feb 5 2021 at 01:00

I have been dating this guy I met 5 months ago online. We really hit it off and got along so well in person. Our sexual, physical and emotional chemistry is unlike any other guy I have dated before. There is a few set backs that I have with him first he has a kid that he never mentioned until I saw a picture on his phone. His kid is in another state and he only visits him every month or two. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWife after 14 years sends video feeds masturbating to ex
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 29 2021 at 19:34 by Cedrick37 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 LAST POST: Feb 3 2021 at 13:42

What should i do after 14 years my wife send sexual videos to the same guy she was messing with when we first got together. I caught her trying to call him 2 years after we got together now 14 years she does this again even worst. I just dont understand why now. I asked what im i doing wrong she says nothing. Does she love me? Do she care more for him? I need answers. She really broke my heart. We...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband won’t seek help for his mental health
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 29 2021 at 00:19 by Laukw RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 / January LAST POST: Feb 3 2021 at 10:47

My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 3 and have a gorgeous almost 2 year old son together. He confided in me early on that he suffered with bulimia from the age of around 15 due to being very overweight as a child and being bullied mercilessly for it at school. He’s always had issues with his self image and pride. Shortly after we got together, when he was about 2...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNeeding sincere advice please
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 28 2021 at 21:37 by Mjay RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Feb 2 2021 at 19:52

I am having some concerns regarding my recent relationship. My fiance and I have been together for under a year. He has jumped into relationships in the past, I haven't since I was younger. When we first met we spent every weekend together and an hour or so during the week. He started pushing to move in together because of distance and his job. Against my better judgment I agreed. Now, aft...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend is jealous
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 28 2021 at 22:08 by swainssnuggy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 555824761 / MamaBear LAST POST: Feb 2 2021 at 19:45

my boyfriend has a close female best friend that lives near to him. I have been jealous of for a long time because they are close and I told him I didnt want them talking anymore because I didn't like that she was loading her personal problems onto him as if he doesn't have enough on his plate and I didnt like that he was telling her his problems and not coming to me with them instead. He was and ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I wrong or right?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 31 2021 at 12:57 by 555824761 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Feb 2 2021 at 19:39

Dear all, I would appreciate advise/opinion from all of you. I and she (Philippine Girl) fall in love 3 months back. I dont doubt her character but the problem is her online life on facebook and a game 8 ball pool. She have few friends on Facebook and few on pool game, they all send her love invitations almost every time they talk since many months. she show me sometimes, yesterday she show ...

Legal advice forum category advice forum categoryFather passed away, mother wants to change will, need advice!
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 25 2021 at 22:13 by Connor_1-4-21 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq / Jennifer01 / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Feb 2 2021 at 15:28

This may take a while to explain, but please bear with me. My father passed in January 2020. My mother seemingly waited until October to send my two siblings and I paperwork requesting to change the will. She needed our signatures to change it because we were listed. Let me explain in full detail: Both my parents, from my perspective as the youngest child, were very humble Christian people. ...

Disability advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it okay to put a family member to a mental institution for the rest
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 28 2021 at 23:26 by suzy (alias modified to protect identity) RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 31 2021 at 17:07

he has mental illness and he is living with us and our family are toxic now because of him we are all stress by him..we want him out of our life.....