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I was in a friends with benefits for 3 years, which suited me at the time, but i ended it in February as i wanted a proper relationship. I joined a Online Dating site and within a couple of days, Bob messaged me. He seemed very nice and genuine, and after a week we spoke on the phone. He's a nurse, with a 15 year old son who lives with him.He was very full on and 2 weeks after first contact, we met. He talked a lot and we seemed to get on, so we met again 2 days later, he told me the life story of his son's mother and talked non stop for hours!i thought it was early days and it would get bette...

I’m new here so plz forgive me if this is a lot but let’s get into it... My name is “Jonelle” In 2015 I met the most amazing man who was full of life. It was easy for us to fall in love with each other. We fit one another. We’re alike on a lot of things. In fact our birthdays fall on the same day! Anyways I digress.. When we first met each other he was so full of life. In fact that’s how he won me over. It was like he was the sun. Everyone he ran across he brightened their day. We had a whirlwind romance. 2016 was a high but low year for us. January he lost his grandma who was l...

I have failed at everything I have tried and now have a falling down house, do not talk to others and those who went out of their way to destroy me have prospered. I have reached a point where I do not know what to do. There are good things too, but I am very depressed....

Hi, I’m a 20 years old and I’ve been struggling a lot lately I’ve never been in a relationship before and I’m starting to question a lot of things in my life I’ve always thought the reason why I’ve never been in a relationship is because I haven’t met the right guy yet and all the guys that asked me out and that I eventually ignored where just not for me but I know deep down that one of the reasons why I ignore them is because I have so much low self esteem and I remember having crushes on guys when I was younger and just telling myself to ignore it quickly because it could never...

So I started talking to this girl a couple of weeks ago. I met her at a friends house at a cookout. We hit it off big-time or so I thought. We were calling each other on a regular basis, and texting very frequently. She seemed to be into me. I can give examples. The first instance. I tried calling her in the middle of the day this past Week and she missed my call for whatever reason then text me a little while telling me sorry she overslept, and had a busy night at work. I respond with I'll call you after I get off work. I try calling her again after I get off then still no answer. A fe...

Hi, I split up with a guy 4 years ago now. I found out he was sleeping with other women and men and was confused over his bisexuality. I decided to leave the relationship, which ended me up in years of therapy as I was so in love with him. He often brought up marriage as we had basically planned our whole future plans together and he begged me back non stop for 2 years straight saying I was the only one who knew the ‘whole/real’ him and what a mistake he’d made due to trying to ‘explore’ himself. The whole thing broke me. I suggested he take more time figuring out how he wanted to...

I'm 16, 11th grade. OK, there's a girl I've liked since like 9th grade. I asked her out and she said no, so I was like "alright fine whatever, your loss". Then I see her with one of my good friends I've known long time (since like 1st grade), and got super jealous. For some reason I kept picturing him banging her after prom (and her moaning at him) whenever I'd see them, because when I was 9th grade some seniors from my baseball team told me prom was just a misspelling of porn, and everyone bangs afterwards, and it gave me a headache whenever I'd see them, so I basically just avoided them so I...

How does one get over feeling so lonely?? It's so embarrassing to me to say but I have no school friends, no childhood friends. Nothing like that. I can't even say I have a best friend. I had 2 besties in high school but we got into a fight and the one ended our friendship which then made the other one end it as well. And during college I had friends but never stayed in contact. I always make friends but then once they leave or I leave, its over. And for 4 years, I was away a lot as I worked for a cruise line. Again I made some friends there and some I thought we would be besties fore...

Hello I've posted once or twice on here before about my relationship with my mother. 3 months ago I cut all contact with her, after our last meeting didn't go well. I couldn't face seeing her every 6-8 weeks. It was for one day only, but it left me in termoil for days after, whilst she went home happy, thinking everything was ok. I have found it exstreamly infuriating that she can not acknowledge how she behaved at my wedding and the hell she put my husband and I through during the year of planning it, with her demands and sometimes childish tantrums. In our last meeting I confron...

So I started talking to this girl a couple of weeks ago. I met her at a friends house at a cookout. We hit it off big-time or so I thought. We were calling each other on a regular basis, and texting very frequently. She seemed to be into me. I can give examples. The first instance. I tried calling her in the middle of the day this past Week and she missed my call for whatever reason then text me a little while telling me sorry she overslept, and had a busy night at work. I respond with I'll call you after I get off work. I try calling her again after I get off then still no answer. A few h...

I got to know my girlfriend in a club. I was in another country and those were 3 amazing weeks. After 5 month she came at my home, and we went on summer vacation. After 6 months I went at her home and we started to live together. After 2 weeks of living with her she got sms at 2 at night. I got up and couldn't understand all, only lovely words (Cyrillic letters as she is from east Europe) but I just saved the number,as it was written up in the screen. Next morning I said her about this.and she started act like psycho. I asked her who is this person? After a lot of fighting and discussion she...

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

The last thing my girlfriend said to me this morning after I got dressed and ready for work was “You’re so adorable!” Mind you, I’m a 31 year old woman who works as a paralegal in a law firm. I’m wearing black slacks, a fitted white dress shirt, wingtip dress shoes and a gray flat cap. I am only 5 feet tall, so that doesn’t help trying to achieve “sexy” versus “adorable,” but there’s nothing I can do about that. After I tried to laugh it off I responded, “Yeah, adorable is what I’m going for.” She then let me know she also thinks our miniature schnauzer is adorable....

Me and my partner haven’t been together long however we’ve been good friends for over two years and it was only about 5 months ago we decided that we both had very strong feelings toward each other (he made the first move). We have been going really good in a relationship and he makes me so happy and would do anything for me. I’m 100% in love with him and he says he feels the same towards me. So anyway, he goes out to the pub usually on weekends with his friends and always lets me know he is safe and will usually come to stay with me the same night. However this w...

About 8 months ago a new woman started at the organization I work with. Just about at first sight, I fell in love with her. We worked together on a few jobs with other coworkers but I never really got close enough to her to get to know her. Then, one day we worked alone together on a job and we just plain clicked. We got to know each other a bit, enjoyed our time together, and left the job just feeling like we had both created a new bond between us. At the time, she was married but going through some issues with her husband being a jerk and abusive. She has since found out he was also cheating...

Hey! I dont know where to start ! Let me start by simply stating the problem. I have a very messed up friendship with the guy who is my 'best friend'. My friend ( i am gonna refer to him as peter since i am neal) and I are in the 4th semester of our college. Peter used to excel in studies till high school but lost his way somewhere and he barely managed to pass the first semester in college. I am good at studies, so peter used to discuss his doubts with me. Thats when we started bonding and ultimately we became best of friends. We shared everything. And being gay, I kind of started ...

Can anyone on this forum advise me by answering this question .. I feel I want to confide my story with a lawyer. I need to relate an incident regarding a third party. My intention is to talk to the lawyer regarding what I have suffered due to the results arriving from this incident. The question is "can I ask the lawyer to document the event? in case of repercussions later from the third party?"...

I have a very bad habit of dreaming too much. I spend many ours in a day just dreaming. I dream about being rich, having a ripped body, dating a super hot girl, having a good family and what not. Dreaming about which college to go, which girl to date Also my dreams keep changing. Sometimes I want a laid back life, sometimes I want a super active life. I dream about small things like where should I live and all. Then I go search about it on the internet and start fantasizing about it. Basically I end up wasting 7/8 hrs every day doing this bullshit. The truth is I don't even know what I...

Dear all, I would greatly appreciate you oppinion on my situation. Not sure if I am totally in the wrong here or my girls’ reaction is unjust. Apologies for the long rant. I hope some of you want to lend you honest opinion.. I live in Europe and 2 years ago moved to another country fairly close by. Shortly after I started dating this nice and sweet girl who live in my home country. After about 9months of seeing eachother on Weekends my GF Said that she loved me. Never having said that to anyone, and putting quite some meaning behind it, I could not say it back at that time. I know now ...

Hi, so I have a Problem and I really need some advice. I am not a native englisch speaker so sorry for any errors. The Story is a little long but i will give my best to shorten it. In my Friend group there is a guy that really sleeps around alot. Almost every girl in the friend group is one of his exes. (i am not). At first he started flirting with my roomate (and close friend) and she instantly fell for him. I did not like that and told her that he is a womanizer and that he will hurt her but that didnt work out. They started dating for a short while. When he lost interesst in her, he s...

Hi, everyone. This is going to get long, so strap in. I have been in my current relationship with my fiancee for about 9 1/2 years. We are currently engaged and living together with our three daughters (5, 3, and 1), my fiancee's two nieces and nephew (15, 12, and 9), as well as my SO's mother. We started off pretty strong. In the beginning I was much more attentive and caring and just generally a much more positive person. We moved in together about 5 years ago with her becoming pregnant with our first daughter, and since becoming parents, we've had our share of struggles in terms of ad...

I've been struggling for years now, I've not been happy for a very long time, we've been married nearly 26 years , I still love him but feel no emotion towards him anymore in that way , which I hate as he's a lovely husband , we've been through so much , more so myself with deaths of both parents and the suicide of my brother , and a huge barrier went up and we've drifted apart now are children are 22 and 24 , he's never been very loving and cuddly and since the children don't need me anymore I noticed it more and I need it now , after talking about it , he's tried but when he does try to hug ...

A few days ago my hubbies mobile rang and it was our son so I answered it, as his dad was busy. After the call ended his apps where still open and his gallery app wa the first on screen. What I saw was rather startling. He had photos of himself wearing woman’s tights and loads of photos he had taken from the internet of random naked woman. He even had a video of him masterbating. I was totally flabbergasted and flew off the handle at him. His reasoning for it was he had supposedly taken the pictures of himself to send to me then decided it wasn’t a good idea and forgot to delete them (they...

8 months ago I became friends with this girl in college. I thought she was pretty cool and we had a lot of similarities. We became quite close and used to share details of our life. I was really having fun with spending time with her. (We had to do a project together so used to spend a lot of time together). She would constantly cry about all her problems in life and I was there to listen to all of it, give her all the advice she needed. I used to type long ass texts to her and tried my best to give a solution for all her problems. I thought of her as a good friend and had no problem doing all...

My ex last night, whom I’m still friends with, said “I need you” to me last night. We were talking about how things are going between us as we still always fighting and he said he wants us to try to be better than this, I need you. I asked if he would get back in a relationship with me down the track and he said “yes I’m happy to get back with you in a couple months if things are going well. I still love you with all my heart” It’s nice he said that but it goes against what he said last week “we are friends or actually closer than usual friends with intimacy and emotional co...

My online friend and I haven’t spoken in nearly 4 months, and it’s starting to get to me. This isn’t the first time my friend has been gone for a long time; the first two times they had 1) forgot their password to their account, and 2)Family drama. I found those times relatively justifiable and would have done the same this time if it weren’t for a few details keeping me skeptical. For starters, they disappeared mid conversation this time. This comes after they had been gone because of said family drama, and I naturally assumed that to be the main reason as to why they were gone. Fast ...

I'm (25f) in a Long Distance relationship and my bf (26) started to work at a company where he met this girl. After a week the girl moved to another company but they went out twice as coworkers(technically ex-coworkers) in two weeks. When I asked him, he said they had been texting every day, and the girl suggested to go to his house to cook dinner together. I said "I'm not comfortable, you are not working together anymore and this looks like a date to me". He says they are just friends and he is meeting her anyway because if I trust her, then it is OK. I have never had issues with him about...

About 4 years ago I was living with my emotionally abusive mother (passive aggressive and I believe a covert narcissist). Things were intense between us and I was in no contact with my father for over 6 years up until my mother 'conveniently' arranged a reunion without my consent, which was incredibly stressful and I feel she disrespected me and disregarded my feelings and boundaries. She also had me see a Psych. who has encouraged regular contact with both family members. Am not sure she understands the dynamics in my family...? She also insists that I am entitled to social assistance, which ...

I’ve been with my fiancé for 2 1/2 years and we’ve lived together for a year. We’re both in our early 50s. When we first started seeing each other, we had sex 2-3 times a week and we enjoyed experimenting. About a year after getting together, he told me I was his first. Since we’ve been living together the sex has gotten less and less frequent. We’ve discussed it and fought about it. He says he doesn’t have the drive that I do. He never initiates. He doesn’t like oral sex and doesn’t really like to kiss. I love him but I feel so sad that he doesn’t want me in the same way. I...

In my first post, I exposed that I had a complex long distance relationship that was falling apart. Nonetheless, I was given one last chance to win her heart back. There are some lessons I learned during that period. I must state that the No-Contact rule doesn't apply for all relationships. In my situation, the break-up happened because I wasn't giving her enough attention. Sometimes, I was even ignoring her. Therefore, a no-Contact rule would only solidify the idea that "I don't love her". Anyways! After several days of watching youtube videos about "getting an Ex back" and about love, I un...

I have a pretty and well-endowed girlfriend. The problem is that my girlfriend doesn't moan during sex with me. She also doesn't make movement that shows she's enjoying it however hard I pound her. Then one night I heard her moaning softly. She seemed to be having sex in her dream. She also seemed to masturbate while I sleep. What could be going on and how do I change this situation? I love my girlfriend greatly. ...

I don't know if this is the best place. I was looking for a good place to ask a simple question with a bit of a long story. I got into a relationship 3 years ago. I am only just turning 21 in a couple day. At first the relationship was really good and I was really happy. We had really similar hobbies and wanted to spend just about all of our time together. After about 6 months into our relationship I made a small mistake that would haunt me throughout the relationship. I was madly in love and my boyfriend worked late nights and I wouldn't see him till later in the day. I asked him that nigh...

I had plans to go away for a bachorelet party for my future sister in law. We were suppose to leave on 2 weeks. Well since we booked my husband was arrested for not paying taxes in the past when he owned a business. He was let out and has to go back to figure out a deal. But he could technically go to jail he cant agree to the terms they give him. Then my other sister in law the only other person I know going on this trip tells me she is pregnant and will no longer we going. She was able to get out plane tickets refunded. So I agreed because I dont think this is a good time for me to be going ...

Thank you in advance for reading this. I have few places to turn to for advice at present, so I'm writing this in the hope that someone could offer some objective advice, as my objectivity and pragmatism are sadly lacking at the mo. I'm currently in a serious relationship that has been ongoing for just over a year. My boyfriend is in the process of moving in with me. I have been married twice, with both partners eventually cheating on me. This has left a deep mark. My other half is still married and when I met him, he wasn't entirely over his wife. He has made her, for me, a woman I f...

Hi there everyone, I was wondering if anyone could help me. Basically, I have this friend who we should call A, who don't get me wrong, I love to death. I have known her basically all of my life (we went to Primary school together) but we have only really got close in the last couple of years. I would describe her as lovely, but also very, very controlling, and she get's stressed out and jealous unbelievably easily. Back in December, she asked me to go on holiday with her in the Easter/summer. (I've already been on holiday with her once in the July previous, and had had an awful tim...

Hi, I love someone who's a really good friend and she says she is interested too but not ready for a relationship, we get on so well and have kissed a few times, she says we should just take it one day at a time but this has been going on for about a year now. My problem is that I help her so much with lifts and lent her money I've now got a feeling I'm being used and the reason she wont commit is she is keeping her options open, it's doing my head in so much that it's making me depressed, what should I do?...

The other day I posted on Twitter about my view on Brexit - I know this subject along causes differences. Her dad commented on my tweet, he really disagrees with my view. My wife then got angry with me for having a different view than her dad and her. I have never told anyone how to feel and even support free speech. She is convinced I'm in the wrong for having a different view. She hasn't spoken to me all day and is making me feel like I'm in the wrong. I have explained to her that people have different views and you have to deal with it and not get angry just because people feel differen...

I would like advice of if I should move out and what the best option is? Should I rent with a friend, go into a share house or put deposit on house. im 22 , still living with mum to save up for my future , but it’s the constant cycle of her and I fighting, it’s her way or no way, she doesn’t see any one else point of view, she emotinal abuses me it’s a negative environment she doesn’t want to change her attitude or see someone about it. At least I am seeing a therapist what do you think my best option is of moving out for my mental health and to be happy?? Thank you...

My partner and I have been together almost 4 years and we have a great relationship. But I have always felt like the sex has been just OK, sometimes he doesn’t even turn me on anymore. I’ve tried dropping small hints here and there and I’ve never really liked the way he kisses and never been able to tell him. For the past couple of years I have been thinking about the guy I was sleeping with before him as the sex with him was amazing, I even stalk him on Facebook and think about messaging him, but I don’t cos I know it’s wrong and I’d hate it if my partner did that! But I�...

So I have a family where’s nothing ever seems to Ben simple. Since my 10th birthday in 2001, I lived with my dad and stepmam (until I move down to uni in 2011, and then dor a few month after leaving uni and getting my own place). I have two blood siblings, one half and one full, both through my real mam. Due to stuff that went on (while in her care and afterwards), I never spoke to my real mam, unless I saw her in the street and then that was out of politeness but my two sisters had been in touch (full sister tried living with her but the night had nothing more to do with her after a bit, ha...

My girlfriend makes me hurt, feel alone and sad. She lacks empathy. If I tell her that aspects of her behaviour suck particularly badly or hurt me. She will later use those behaviours against me to hurt me on purpose. Most recently I told her that it would hurt me alot to lose her. She then threatened to break up with me to get her way during an argument. I know that it would hurt her as much to break up and she was just using this to get her way. But i'm not very strong at the moment. I'm depressed, anxious, and I didn't want that pain on top of it all at this point. I wuss...

Ok...so I reconnected with an ex boyfriend on Facebook. I have been married 27 yrs and he will be married 30 yrs this year. We reconnected on facebook 3yrs ago and flirted a lot before agreeing to meet. We met 4 times and spent those weekends together, he lives 300 miles from me. We have chatted every day sometimes for hours and about 6 weeks ago my husband finally caught me sending a naughty pic to him. My ex got scared, blocked me on WhatsApp, text, email and messenger. I got mad....told his wife all (pretending to be my scorned husband). His wife threw him out, is selling the house an...

So I have a bit of a long story but i will try to make it short. I was born in Korea and moved to the states with my parents and sister when I was nine years old. I was told all my grandparents were passed away before i was born. In my late 20's my parents blew up my world and told me that my dad's mother was still alive and in Korea. Now, what I knew was that my dad's father passed away when my dad was two or three years old and his sister was about five years old. In Korea, all men has to serve a mandatory military service for two or three years. During his service, there was ...

This is probably going to be long-winded, but right now I have some issues again and I'm processing them and trying to figure out what the main points are. So I've posted on here over the last few years about some of my problems. In particular for this post, I've previously mentioned my depression, my difficult time with meeting women, and the single mother I dated last year. I apologize if the topic jumps around a bit. For over 3 years I've used online dating sites off and on. I recently tried again, and gave up again. A few years ago I also made a profile on an adult dating websi...

I have been with my partner for nine years and I love her so much. We have been each other’s rock through every year. When we first got together I said to her time and time again I have had the snip I won’t be able to give u children. Which every reply was I know it’s all good. Well nine years on she wants children. She has started drinking more. We have been arguing more. I don’t know what to do. I love her so much I don’t want to loose her but I want her to be happy too. she can have what every woman wants a baby. Which will make her happy so is it best to let her go. It...

Two years ago, I broke up with my boyfriend because I didn’t love him. He always said “I love you” but it wasn’t reciprocated. it hurt him. I didn’t want to lead him on. He initiated contact after. we remained friends. got together few months later. Reason: felt guilty. During friendship, he said, “I’m always here for you. I still love you deeply. I’m waiting for us to be together again”. It hit hard. maybe I hadn’t given myself enough time to fall in love with him, maybe I rushed break. 3 people have said during our ‘2nd relationship,’ that they think he and anoth...

My boyfriend and I work at the same place, we work on different floors. He claims on Fridays he goes out with the boys, "boys night out" no girls invited but I snooped in his phone (yes I know it is wrong) and I found out that he was out up to 3am with just a female coworker and her girls (who are not his friends and don't work with us). Then yesterday he invited a relatively new girl at work on his floor out to drinks with him and his boys. This girl flirts with him and tells him he is cute. But when I ask him if girls are allowed at boys night out he insisted no. So basically sometimes...

I live with my boyfriend of over a year. Recently the honey moon phase has started to wear off and I found myself getting easier irritated with my better half. I think ALOT so my subject recently has been this, examining each and everything about our relationship, in hopes of making a stronger bond. I've noticed a lot of things that were quite obvious but never really paid mind to. some things started to eat at me day after day. im jut going to address the bigger ones. Every couples has issues , I get that its how you handle them that matter. I'm more laid back so I really do not care what...

i just recently left my husband for my new partner (my marriage was dead for years) we now live together and he wants to marry me my marriage was a disaster we should never of gotten married but any way i met my friends brother and really liked him for months but he was with one of my friends they split up and we got talking and got together thing is a couple of months ago i caught him chatting to anther girl there was nothing sexual or anything in the messages apart from she called him gorgeous which he is, he told me it was a family member which didnt sit right with me so i just said ok n we...

My boyfriend and I have been together for several years and we are in love with each other. But, there has been ongoing issues regarding the wide disparity of our incomes and assets which is more important now that we are a few years away from retirement. He wants to marry me and I won't do so because I am really afraid of the financial repercussions. Even to live with him I'm really nervous about if I"m setting myself up for misery. He works and collects SS so he can pay his regular bills; but for vacations, etc. he needs to dip into his savings which is starting to dwindle away (about $20...

Hello, I have been with my partner for 7 years, we have just bought a house together and have recently moved in. I have been feeling the "7 year itch" lately but did not act on it until the weekend just gone. I had one too many to drink (i know its no excuse) and i went home with someone i met at the bar. We did not sleep together but things did happen, i feel guilty and really want to tell my partner but he has a temper and I'm scared of what will happen, i don't have anywhere else to live and I guess I'm scared he will move me out and leave me with nothing... someone please help i dont know...

My daughter can be very controlling...it's her way or the highway sometimes. In some sense, she is immature (and possibly spoiled), even though she is 26 y/o. She lives with her boyfriend far from home, but she's on my case often about what I eat and who I date. I am a widow so maybe that has something to do with it. I'm sort of at my wits end. After dating the same man for several years, she has made it clear she really dislikes him and can't see what I see in him. I realize he doesn't have a lot of money (and I'm financially very settled) and that he has had financial issues in the past...

I've been knowing this girl over the internet for more than a year now. We've argued and fought quite a lot in the past mostly because of our problems, as we happen to have both anxiety issues and low self-esteem. I was having a mental breakdown in which I was afraid of not being able to meet her up irl and told her about it, she immediately called me over phone to calm me down. She initially told me some pretty basic stuff like "Don't be worried" and "I'm here for you", then went on to calm me down more using her own tactics. She wasn't doing a good job at it and I was even more upset abou...

Hello. My name is Fer. I need your advice. I really need advice. Background story: Two years ago, Maria rejected me. She was a friend of a friend. I was genuinely in love with her. What attracted me the most was that we had deep political and philosophical conversations. We would share very poetic experiences and I genuinely liked her. However, after confessing, she rejected me and blocked me from any means of communication. I was sad. The way in which I dealt with the pain was by becoming cynical, thinking that no true feelings existed and nothing was sincere. And more than that, I be...

Hello! I have some problems in my relationship, and I would love some advice! Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year, and we’ve been talking for 2 years now. We live in different cities but we still see eachother every weekend as we both make an effort for this. This summer I will be going to Spain for 6 months for an internship and he will be leaving for his internship when I come back from Spain. That means that we will be away from eachother for one year. Lately I’ve been feeling that something was off and that he was acting a bit strange. I asked him sever...

Hello all. So I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 years now, and I've been experiencing a lot of conflicting emotions for a good 2 months now. Some background to note, I am clinically depressed and have a severe form of bipolar disorder, but I am effectively medicated and lead a healthy lifestyle (gym, diet, etc). Basically, while it does still effect me daily, it is quite manageable, but may still be a contributing factor. I also had an extremely abusive relationship with an older man while I was still a minor for I would say, six years before this relationship. My current relatio...

May be a stupid question but I thought I’d ask in case, does anyone know of any loan sites or money lending sites where I can borrow literally £10? I don’t want to get £100 just to pay off my electricity as I can’t afford that. Thanks ...

I met this guy last summer on line. He wanted to meet me in February, so we met and it was awesome! We laughed so much and had a wonderful time. 4 weeks later I traveled to his city on business and he came to my Airbnb. We ended up spending the night together and it was amazing. We both had so much fun and the next day he was to be going out of town with some guy friends. He was hoping I could stay an extra day but I couldn't. I had time for some site seeing but would be leaving by mid afternoon. We both expressed disappointment and it was hard to part. Then he called me and told me...

just a few days ago, my city's emergency sirens started going off and didn't stop for a couple hours. my boyfriend woke me up and told me to ask someone why they were going off. i told him I didn't know who to ask and he immediately started yelling at me, i didnt argue back. i started to cry. i kept telling him to please quit being so mean to me, but it didnt help. he just kept yelling, he said so many things that hurt me. he told me he wasnt sure if he loved me anymore, but then said it was because i was childish and he felt like a pedophile because i was acting like a child. i didnt do a...

So, this is my first time doing something like this. I'm kind of scared honestly, getting all of this out into the open. I'll start off by saying that i'm 18 years old. I live with my mother (44) and my sister (17). There's no one i can talk to about this kind of stuff here, besides maybe one person but I don't see them enough to want to go into details. I don't know what's wrong with me, it seems like these past few years have done a massive number on me. I constantly feel alone, and spend most of my time in my room not hardly coming out for anything aside from food. I have severe troubles wh...

Hello, I need advice. I began relationships with the man who smoked. I don't like the smell of cigarettes and always have an allergic reaction to the smoke. I asked him to quit for a thousand times, but he ignored this and said that this addiction is stronger than him. I think that now it is time to revise my priorities and make changes in relationships. The final thing, what he decided to do for me was vaping. He started vaping instead of smoking cigarettes, it was like a compromise for us. I found some information about vaping and second-hand vaping on special sites, maybe you know Vapi...

In 2004 I met “B”. She was my boss in a team in the firm where I worked. She was engaged to someone I knew “M“, but we became close emotionally, not physically. My own marriage didn’t feel too good (I later found out my wife was having an affair). She is a very petite and well-spoken woman and we got on very well. We had a ‘thing’ between us. During our thing she would often criticise her fiancee in front of me, but we were careful because of office politics. Our ‘thing’ lasted some time until she decided to quit her role. At her leaving party in a local pub, our colleagues ...

I've been 22 years together 26. I am going through a hard time at the moment and not been happy for awhile. I seem to be getting along with my husband one minute then the next we are fighting. It does always seem to be me who starts it. I've asked my husband to take a day off maybe a Monday so we can do something and I've said it to him for a long time now but he still hasn't booked a day off. He gets four weeks off a year and said he tries to get time off like he does at Easter and only use so many days up because he does not get many. I feel he doesn't want to take time off because he does n...

I am in love with a boy who is in love with my best friend. And I can't quite seem to get over him....

Back in October 2018 my husband started low-t injections and almost instantly he changed from a loving, caring husband to a jerk, insensitivity, quiet man. No matter how many times I try to tell him to stop, he’s answer (and that’s if he speaks to me) is that he will not stop.. not sure how this can be legal, for physicians or whatever kind of people that work at those low-t centers to be injecting legal drugs into people without caring about the consequences.. i’ve heard a few stories about men doing the same injections and I always get the same answer. The mood swings and changed i...

hello there , let me begin by saying that i’m just trying to off load a forever filling mind and i’m not trying to change the way you are in anyway , after all its my interaction with other people thats changed me. Its about problems i’ve experienced and i’m sure you have ,and if you find time to express them you should , i wanna tell you about one problem in particular but its a difficult subject ............

I know it’s a long shot but I’m desperate. I stupidly allowed myself to get scammed online and now I’ve lost nearly £800. I feel terrible. I have bills to pay at the end of the month and as it stands no way to pay them. I’m just asking for a donation however small I’d be eternally greatfull to anyone who can help me out. My PayPal address is [e-mail address removed]. I feel so bad for even asking. I just don’t no what else to do. Thank you ...

I really do not know what to do. My middle sister is turning 53 years old and puts on a show that she is high class with impeccable taste. She lives in a wealthy neighborhood and has a six-digit salary. She has two children in their teenage years. Sometime ago I visited her and when her boyfriend came over she was mean to her kids. I took her in another room and confronted her. First, she says she needs something for herself then says, ...

Hi all, Looking for more advice, my partner has issues with trust and thrives on adulation from anyone. If someone shows an interest and he is well dressed (suit attire) she wants the attention. She told me that all men cheat and that I am a cheater cause I helped my ex-girlfriend with $3000 bond money. So in retaliation she went out as she claims with her much younger girlfriend to a nightclub in the city. I was away at the time and she was borrowing my car, she constantly updated what was going on IE: Live band playing at it was fun etc… and she lied to me about taking the car to th...

Hello I'm Stantza, I came to an advice forum because I have not come across a problem until now that I feel not only distressed by, but also feel an unfounded guilt, sense of responsibility and helplessness for. I'll explain... I love my younger brother with my whole soul. I have always (esp. during childhood) felt the need to protect and defend him with my life. He is at heart a great, loving, principalled and funny man. Who, as has been revealed to me in the last couple of months, has become not only depressed but paranoid, irrational, verbally aggressive towards his wife, using drugs,...

So my mother passed away 3yrs ago when I was 21 my father already passed when I was 10 now I have this huge load of responsibility on my shoulder then I have my asshole brother who does nothing to help me just sitting around and playing games and stuff he rarely goes outside home he has bad friends who invite him to drink smoke weed etc he is 20 yes now and he drinks,smokes a lot whenever I try to tell him what he is doing is bad he beats me up I can't fight back because of medical condition and he doesn't care I work with very minimal wage and I barely can afford myself with anything I know ...

My boyfriend is totally in love with me for the last 6 years and I love him. He can sometimes be a bit possessive but for me the real issue is that he wants to live and marry me soon. I'm hesitant and not sure why and the reason may be the key to me moving forward with him or not. In my mind there are a few possibilities including: I lost my husband to cancer 7 years ago and I thought I wouldn't survive the aftermath. I had a slight nervous breakdown and still suffer from reliving all of the events from diagnosis to death and beyond. If I marry again, this may happen again. My b...

So there is this girl who I got to know around 6 months ago. We had to do a group project. She was in my class since last 2 years but we barely knew each other. So we became good friends during the project. I got to know her a lot. She would share her life problems with me and I would help her out. I would go out of my way to help her. I used to write her huge texts to help her about the situation and she really appreciated it. In fact she changed a lot and took a lot of advice. So according to me we were really good friends. I started liking her during this entire process and became mad over...

Dear people, I am a workaholic single Asian woman, 40 years ago. But I am still alone, no boyfriend. I work hard to pay off my own bills. I cannot even afford any luxurious vacation or hobbies. I met some great guys. But they think I am too bored and not pretty enough for them. They like to try expensive food, playing golf, skiing, sky diving and blah blah blah.... They leave me alone and move on with other women who are willing to spend money on those expensive hobbies and clothes. I am too small to draw their attention. What should I do? I don't want to be alone for the rest of...

My husband and I feel that my only sister's 8 year old son acts very odd in our family social situations around our 3 year old son. It started when my son was first born 3 years ago. My nephew was 5 at the time and he would always creep around trying to watch his diaper changes or watch me breastfeed. I know small children often have a healthy curiosity but the way he acts just gives us the instinct that it is more than just healthy curiosity. He isn’t friendly to us and always keeps to himself which is already odd behavior but then when the baby is naked he shows up out of nowhere. ...

Since this is my first time posting on here, I should introduce myself. My name is Landon, but of course I go by JustAGinger. I am male, and I suffer from mild Asperger's syndrome. That's all the personal information I am willing to give out at this time. Recently, my significant other and I got into an argument on something that happened not too long ago. You see, we were talking all coupley and such, when I tried making a romantic move and removed her hoodie. However, I must have pulled too hard, as she stormed off and she later texted me telling me I had ripped out some of her hair and t...

I would really appreciate some advice of the following: I have been married to my husband for 5 years and I do love him very much . I always thought we had a great relationship but now I’m not too sure . Our sexlife used to be really great but then 2 years ago I had to have a total hysterectomy and since then I’m not wanting sex as much as I used to . I know my husband like quite a lot of sex but now I don’t like it more then once a week . The thing is I caught him masturbating which I don’t really mind but the fact is ,I think it’s to turn him on ,he goes on secret dating website...

Hello, I can start by saying that i have perfect life. My parent love me, i live in a nice house, soon i will finish school with good grades and i also have a dog, who has been my best friend since childhood. To be honest, i don't really know why i am writing this, but i think i am little messed up in the head. I have always been overweight. My whole life actually. Until school i never thought about it. I was happy being myself, but even now i can clearly remember when i was made fun of for the first time. Of course you can say that it is normal for young children to be like that. Everyb...

I’m encountering a stressful problem right now. Don’t know what to do! I am pregnant and I don’t know how to tell my mom. I know that she will get angry and might cry, I don’t want to hurt her. And to my boyfriend, he accepts my pregnancy, but he’s stressful too right now coz’ he don’t know how to get enough money to support my pregnancy. That’s our problem right now. We’re not even ready for this, but it’s an accident. He wants to apply on a call center job, and accept the contract money for 2years. But how can he leave there when he got a call from the agency he’s waiti...

Ive been in a relationship with a great guy for a about 14 months now. He is amazing. At the start of the new year we sat down and with much embarrassment per his request we went over my expenses/ debt/ etc. (brief view of my life- I have always been a completely single parent. I have an 11 year old daughter who I have raised on my own. I have always supported the both of us while maintaining a pretty decent job. (a lot of ppl would say, however I only make $20 an hour.) I have my own home and recently graduated with my associates degree in criminal justice. With my student loan and car and mo...

Hi I joined here because it seems like a good place to ask this. I just wanted some thoughts please and advice if I've done anything wrong. The other day I was at home doing not much and we have had trades men working on the walls inside the house for a few days because of some water problems we had To try to make a big story short, I'm sure I'm like most women and when I'm at home I don't wear a bra and pretty much my mom came home and saw I wasn't wearing a bra under my top. I never do at home because they are not comfortable but my mom got angry at me and said it was not right for me ...

Truthfulness is the most important thing in a relationship. If you have a situation where your boyfriend has been historically less than fully transparent but seems to have really changed, what do you think of this below? He is supposed to transfer money from a non interest bearing account to a money market account - this money is all he has in terms of assets and it's a limited amount. He tells me he will transfer all of it except some vacation money he insisted he wanted to pay for an upcoming trip of ours. When I first asked him he said he transferred most of it but wanted to leave...

Hello everyone I’ve been an English teacher for more than 10 years I want to my students get the best results in a short period of time and I want to be able to teach online....I haven’t had such an experience before... i need to make people trust me and I need to know how to start teaching online and of course increasing the numbers of my students...

I´m 25 and i basically never been in couple. I´m a shy person and i´m very insecure about myself. I´m afraid of unknown things, so i continue living at my comfort zone which is, continue being alone. I get unconfortable and nervous everytime people around me starts talking about their GF, BF or ex´s. its been years since i feel this way and i do absolutely nothing to get things changed....

I have a friend of the opposite sex and we've known each other for about a year. We met anonymously online and started out venting about our bad marriages and divorce processes. In the year we've been talking, which has been almost on a daily basis (throughout the whole day) we'd just talk and help each other through whatever new issues arose. We live in the same city but only recently decided to meet face to face, and when we did we both enjoyed being around each other as just friends. I cannot stress enough that our entire friendship has been based around being just friends. No expectations ...