PeoplesProblems Logo

Forum Index

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryReally confused by his mixed signals
CREATED: Sep 26 2022 at 00:03 by Sunnyclimes

Firstly please let me apologise for the length of this post. Sorry x.. I'm feeling really confused regarding a guy I'd been seeing.. We went on a date over several years ago and got on really well but we never went on a second date but friended one another on Facebook although never stayed in touch.. Fast forward to July this year and I received a message via Facebook from him sa...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed Advice
CREATED: Sep 25 2022 at 01:03 by Vib

On Monday, I'm going out with a girl I really like. We went out last year on a date, but nothing came of it because I was so smitten with her that I scared her off. Lesson learned. She has agreed to give me another chance. Any advice would be appreciated. And yes, I know I screwed up. What I'm looking for is encouragement....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI've broke with my gf and still can't believe it's really happens
CREATED: Sep 23 2022 at 19:48 by detlef LAST POST: Sep 23 2022 at 19:50

I met here on FB. After 3 months I came to her to Kenya. We were dating for 3 months, she took me to the city where she raised, to introduce me to her family. Ive met her parents, grandma, siblinngs, cousins, aunts and uncles. We agreed to go to one place (mombasa) by a train and stay there for 5 days... So... We entered to train, I joined her little later, like 1-2 minutes coz Ive had bags. There...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm a live-in nanny for my toxic aunt, I don't want to leave the kids
CREATED: Sep 14 2022 at 00:42 by I_Love_3.14

So my aunt is a foster parent for her three grandchildren because their parents were abusive. Two of the kids have autism and one has some behavior challenges because of the trauma. I've been babysitting them for 5 years now, living with them for the past 3 years. My aunt is toxic, she blames either me or the kids for everything, never taking responsibility for her own actions. ...

Money advice forum category advice forum categoryCarrying heavy burden
CREATED: Sep 12 2022 at 06:46 by ApostolicGirl

Hi! I am new to this forum. I join here because I want to reach out my big problem. I didn't tell my problem to my parents because I don't want them to worry and feel stress. I am the breadwinner of our family, I need to support my family and give there needs everyday but I can't because of the big circumstances we've encounter last year until now. I have a lot of debt.:( Yes I...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryI need advice. Should I take my sister to court to get custody of my n
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 25 2022 at 02:28 by RenkiDink RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Sep 25 2022 at 13:35

So my sister L (27) had a son J when she was 20. At the time, L was homeless, couch and man surfing, with abusive, ex criminals. When she found out she was pregnant, I was only 16, and she asked my parents M71 and A69 to take J until she was able to be a mother. At the time, it truly was the best case scenario, and I helped my parents raise him until I moved out myself. (J is living in the exact s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWorried
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 16 2022 at 13:01 by SkySky123??? RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / CHICKADEE LAST POST: Sep 24 2022 at 00:22

My husband as been offered a sales job. The company is closer to home and he will still get paid the same amount of money. He as been looking for something that doesn’t involve long distance driving as he as done it for years. He is 56 years old. I’m worried he will meet someone new at his company and even thou we have been together 30 years married 26 and have 3 children together I feel i...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryA dirty little secret
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 11 2022 at 00:34 by Sunlover RESPONDENTS: Aka / oldmainer / Candyfloss / CHICKADEE LAST POST: Sep 23 2022 at 20:31

I've been with my partner for a year (F47 M50) I spend on average 3 nights a week at his. I'm spoilt rotten when I go there. When we're apart he messages and calls. Is constantly telling me he loves me, that I'm amazing, beautiful, sexy and clever, and that he's lucky to be with me. Sounds brilliant doesn't it? This is my problem. In the year we've been to...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWill things ever be the same again? Am I just overthinking things?
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 19 2022 at 01:17 by Gawain_Not_Wayne RESPONDENTS: CHICKADEE LAST POST: Sep 23 2022 at 17:55

When my friend from college met his wife, he became less available. I adapted, though it was difficult. I met a group of people from another town and got to know them well enough to stay over at theirs on nights out. I made individualised photo calendars for them over lockdown Christmas, they buy me birthday and Christmas presents and I buy them birthday and Christmas presents. Their Whatsapp grou...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[1122 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard LAST POST: Sep 23 2022 at 17:43

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBreaking up with fiance over thoughts changing of having kids
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 21 2022 at 03:15 by HaeunKim RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / CHICKADEE LAST POST: Sep 23 2022 at 16:40

Hi! My fiance and i broke up... Here comes the problem: We are have been engaged for a year and before that dated too and even before dating we are have been friends for 3 years. He always wanted to have kids and to build a family, so we are talked about having kids together, building our own little family. He is even bought baby shoes too. We are went abroad for a two week long work trip. S...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm contemplating getting a divorce, should I go through with it
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 19 2022 at 22:29 by Excrucior Anima RESPONDENTS: CHICKADEE LAST POST: Sep 23 2022 at 01:15

I've been married to my wife for 4 yours now. Things have always been near perfect before we got married, we never fought about anything, it was never necessary. After about 2 years we got married and things were still good. The problem started when we had our 1st child. My wife has asthma and hypertension so it was a high-risk pregnancy, but things went relatively smoothly. We were blesse...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I in the wrong here? Should I apologise?
[53 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 16 2022 at 20:26 by heisenberg RESPONDENTS: manalone / oldmainer / Soulmate / Aka LAST POST: Sep 23 2022 at 00:04

So, there is this common friend group that I have. I have met most people from it but due to the pandemic, we mostly meet in online video calls. The number of people on the call varies depending on everyone's schedule. There is this one girl in the group that was my senior and over the past few months, I started talking to her. We started talking about casual stuff like shows, work etc. but o...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 14 2022 at 00:57 by Jelisa RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Sep 15 2022 at 04:03

I'm married. Everything I do is wrong. Nothing I do for them is good enough. I have loved them beyond my personal self care or self love they can't see the sacrifices. I am always wrong. They never admit when they are wrong yet tell me they always admit when they are wrong. They say they are always blamed yet they are always blaming me. They go out of there way to make sure I go without ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI need a women's advice
[22 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 21 2022 at 17:53 by obvious RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / Soulmate / new girl / I_Love_3.14 LAST POST: Sep 14 2022 at 18:33

I am a single 62-year-old male full-time daddy with 2 girls who are 6 and 8. I am fit and people think I'm in my forties but I can never seem to find a date. It has been years since their mom left she had just turned 30 and was too young for me but I was never expecting children. Since this is an anonymous forum I'm thinking someone will give me their honest opinion. I'm not asking ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFirst time, I ever wished I had just gone to work
[78 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 5 2022 at 04:58 by Aka RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Balance LAST POST: Sep 13 2022 at 05:58

Been an overall bad day. I wanted to BBQ spiedies (pronounced speedy's, it's chunks of marinated chicken on a skewer put on Italian bread with toppings, a dish I grew up with) for dinner. Asked my wife to pick up the stuff and I would make it. She bought some cheap pre-marinated (wrong flavors) chicken on skewers. Wasn't very good. And while this is a minor thing that I can certainl...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDistance in rather relationship
[15 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 1 2022 at 14:42 by Chatty RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 12 2022 at 12:41

Hi guys, id like to have some of your opinions to my following problem: ive been with my boyfriend almost a year now and we moved in rather quickly after starting our relationship. and now, so for some weeks now, ive noticed emotional distance living in our flat with us, if i may say so. the past few months i have been under constant stress because of money. i have a gambling addiction...

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I tell my friend that I don't like our mutual friend anymore?
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 9 2022 at 22:47 by lemongrass RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Sep 11 2022 at 11:46

Hi everyone, In my school I am somewhat of a loner - I have only one friend ("B") in my school. She has a few more friends, none she is particularly close with, other than another girl ("R"). R and I used to be very close for our first year of school. She was my only friend in first year, but she got very tiring very quickly. She's very high maintenance and I really just...

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryI accidently hit a kid with marker pen. What to do now?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 7 2022 at 14:46 by Ankitajena RESPONDENTS: Aka / oldmainer LAST POST: Sep 11 2022 at 05:38

I am a teacher at a private today due to some mischief done by the this 10th class student I threw the marker pen at him with no intention of hitting him however unfortunately it hit him in middle of his nose. Now I feel really guilty about it since from the very start I don't like hitting kids. Now his parents are furious and also yelled a lot of things in the phone. I am not disappointed on...

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it right for principal to scold tracher on this?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 10 2022 at 18:18 by Ankitajena RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / Aka LAST POST: Sep 11 2022 at 05:29

I'm a teacher and in my school it is forbidden for a teacher to study while taking classes. However teachers has atleast 7 period in a day without any break and sometime it becomes impossible to stand for that long sometime we really even struggle to walk after standing for so long. One of the teacher in our school has knee problem still she is not allowed to sit. One time when she sat for a ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHi? 19F met a 31M and i think i like him...a lot? help?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 2 2022 at 07:41 by dumbfrenchie RESPONDENTS: Aka / obvious LAST POST: Sep 11 2022 at 03:27

hi so umm, i want to preface this by saying i don't know much about relationships in general and absolutely nothing about age gap relationships. but essentially what has happened is that i met this guy (im too embarrassed to admit the means through which this occurred) and what started out as me asking for advice turned into staying up until 5am just talking. and he says things that he kn...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice please
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 10 2022 at 07:05 by Unicorn198543213 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Sep 10 2022 at 19:12

My partner is the kindest man I've ever met, however, he shows all signs of having Autism and is on a waiting list. He is extrenely high functioning. He flips almost like he is bipolar from wanting a family and to grow together to not wanting anything at all. He gets upset and loses all feelings for me over the smallest thing as he said it causes him stress and he can't cope. He used to...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I confess this to my boyfriend?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 7 2022 at 13:02 by crazycatlady227 RESPONDENTS: Aka / Astral LAST POST: Sep 9 2022 at 15:09

I haven’t cheated. I just flirt a lot. I’m trying to stop but should I tell him? I love him so much and I would never want to hurt him. Is telling him what I should do or should I just stop without telling him?...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my boyfriend moving too fast with me?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 30 2022 at 17:05 by Moving too fast RESPONDENTS: Aka / Astral LAST POST: Sep 9 2022 at 15:05

I've been dating a guy for almost a year. We are senior citizens and both of us have dated before. I am a widow almost 11 years and he's been divorced for 4 years after a 35 year marriage. We live 50 miles apart. Since meeting him, he has been encouraging me to move to his area. He loves his area and has a lot of nice friends (his grown kids live in the area too). While I really ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat is he waiting for
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 4 2022 at 21:21 by BrainyBri RESPONDENTS: Aka / Astral LAST POST: Sep 9 2022 at 15:01

So I've been friends with this man for a few years. We worked together, spent most of our time at work together, speak all day and night mostly everyday. The thing is he never invited me to spend time with him outside of work. He likes going out with his friends. He's not dating anyone but he won't offer to ever hang out and when I offer he has an excuse. I mentioned to a mu...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I a jerk for telling my brother he ruined my life?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 7 2022 at 16:24 by crazycatlady227 RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Sep 8 2022 at 16:13

My brother and I were best friends up until he was about 6. He started pulling my hair, and being rude. Now he is starting puberty and thinks he is the shit. Idk if it’s the hormones or what. He thinks he’s so much better than me. He thinks of himself as a bad kid, but then says he’s nicer than me. I told him that he’s been a little shit since he was six and that he ruined my life by being...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy does it sometimes smell in my youth club's corridor?
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 30 2022 at 18:11 by Youth 2019 RESPONDENTS: Aka / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 7 2022 at 14:28

It sometimes smells in my youth club's corridor. I'm a young person and should I talk to my youth leaders about this? Every time I go out in the corridor I have to hold my nose....

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryI am fed up
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 1 2022 at 12:39 by Depressed.kitty RESPONDENTS: new girl / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 7 2022 at 02:44

I start university in September and I am excited about it but on the inside I feel useless. I want to lose weight but I don’t have an active lifestyle or friends and I just keep binge eating and it’s making me sad I don’t know what else to do....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryComplicated relationship with friend after 2 years of fighting
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 1 2022 at 11:17 by aldjabby RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Sep 3 2022 at 21:38

In 2020 my best friend got into a serious romantic relationship. I was surprised because I didn't know she was even looking for a partner, especially as we had been talking about moving in together. She knows that I'm not remotely interested in dating and had been planning to prioritize her as the main person in my life once we lived together, so to not even mention that she wanted a boy...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryShould i tell my feelings to my crush ?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 31 2022 at 16:05 by anonymus RESPONDENTS: peoplecallmenao / Aka LAST POST: Sep 2 2022 at 01:18

so recently i got admitted to a new college and on the admission date i saw a boy . it was my first sight love . he was so cute . of course somehow i got to know his name and that he had a gf . he doesn't know me and i feel very shy to talk to him . i have no clue to make excuses to talk to him so i am not able to befriend him till now.so will it be ok if i go straight to him and tell him i l...

Bereavement advice forum category advice forum categoryHas my friend lied to me about the death of her sister?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 31 2022 at 00:20 by 123/A RESPONDENTS: Aka / oldmainer LAST POST: Sep 1 2022 at 13:59

About a year ago I became friends with a girl and we became close quite quickly. For the purpose of this post let’s call her Emma I first met Emma when she started working for the bar my boyfriend owned. She came to the city I lived in for university and was looking for a part time job, i got on with Emma well and we had things in common. She soon became a value member of the team and a clos...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNewly married no sex life
[11 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 16 2022 at 23:57 by Shei RESPONDENTS: Aka / GentleFox / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 30 2022 at 00:09

I'm 26 years old female recently married 7 months ago. My problem is that my husband doesn't pay attention to me since we got married and he hardly wants sex. Before we were married, we had a good sex life and he would constantly be behind me for it and I would sometimes turn him down because we weren't married as yet. Ever since we got married I'm usually the initiator and Im ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySeperated but confused
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2022 at 18:01 by nature1 RESPONDENTS: Aka / Silvarion LAST POST: Aug 29 2022 at 07:38

please help. I am seperated from my wife for 3 years and she has a partner. our daughter is terminally Ill and we have been spending a lot of time together. I keep catching her looking at me and she always texts me at bedtime. What is going on? ...