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Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Advice Plz (Posts: 38)

CREATED: Aug 29 2016 at 23:03 by Looking4Help RESPONDENTS: Mee / susiedqq / Meee / Altreal / Soulmate / Scopes LAST POST: Sep 29 2016 at 10:03

SORRY TMI AT SOME POINTS!!!! I cheated on my husband with two of his cousins and two friends. But with one cousin and friend they only stick it in and didn't pump. But the other cousin happened about 7 times within 5yrs. And one friend 1 time. The years between 2008-2013 And I would text random guys and send pics and text inappropriate stuff. YES, I know this it not rite. Well hubby had enough and left Feb 3 2016 and hasn't been home since. But he hasn't got a place of his own which I think is good. And we are going Thur marriage counseling. So my advice is do you think it can work out if w...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Love Or Fake Friendship Can't Figure It Out (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 29 2016 at 06:52 by Kammy RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Sep 29 2016 at 09:47

I am a girl and I met with a guy at my college. He was my senior (2 years elder than me). We worked together on some projects and became friends. We were in a college together for 2 years but just as a friend. After that we did not talk for 1 year and we both moved in different countries. After that 1 year we started to chat and then he started to comments on my photos about how good looking I am. He wants to take part in my every single detail what is going up in my life, how I am living in a different country, about my exams etc.He was showing a true care that what I felt. Then I had a feeli...

Other advice forum category advice forum category She Doesn't Want Me To Talk To Him (Posts: 14)

CREATED: Sep 20 2016 at 15:41 by moody_one RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 29 2016 at 09:26

I haven't been in here for some time as things are progressing fine relationshipwise. Damn good place to be if you have problems - sorted me out. However, an acquaintance, not a pal let's call him Tone, we see him and chat and drink weekly has just been done for the same crime as me and is now on the SOR. He has become very withdrawn, never was an extrovert like me, although trying to keep his life going on and quite frankly I feel sorry for him. As I am an inveterate talker and went through the same as him,I have approached him and suggested we meet up and have a talk. I was aiming to c...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Advice About Getting Back With An Ex. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 25 2016 at 19:50 by Joe0062 RESPONDENTS: Carolina / Altreal LAST POST: Sep 29 2016 at 09:18

Over the past two years I've been living and traveling in Canada. I'm from England originally but I decided after finishing my degree I needed to travel and since arriving here I've decided I want to settle here eventually. In my first year I met a girl, Hannah, Australian. We immediately hit it off and became close and involved with each other although as she was a student she'd be leaving Canada soon but coming back after finishing her studies. We were both upset the closer it got to her departure and after she left we spoke some more and decided that we could meet again when she returns ...

Disability advice forum category advice forum category How To Get People Past My Disabilty So I Can Integrate? (Posts: 101)

CREATED: Aug 1 2016 at 05:04 by ulrichburke2 RESPONDENTS: Hershell / ulrichburke / Cherie / Soulmate / Seen-thru LAST POST: Sep 29 2016 at 03:08

Dear Anyone. This is a general problem which I could happily ramble on about, with examples, all day - but I'm not going to (Phew! They cry.) So the following's just tips of very large, lifelong icebergs - I've had this problem for nearly half a century. You see I'm disabled - Cerebral Palsy, Hydrocephalus, Dyspraxia, Asperger's, Caetextia (wonder I'm alive, let alone notin a wheelchair!) And the first thing people see is The Face. Yes, it's a little deformed. It gets me called 'Frankenstein', 'Notre Dame', 'Excuse Me They Just Wheelclamped Your Spaceship', 'Harpic (clean round the...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Troubled Marriage (Posts: 16)

CREATED: Sep 7 2016 at 19:09 by lr RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Scopes / SoulAdviser / mindful-bliss / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 28 2016 at 22:22

My wife and I have been married now for 13 years. We have 4 kids ranging from 3 to 12 years of age. While we've had minor problems in our marriage, I never thought that things would be how they are now. We've always been extremely affectionate and caring towards each other. We've been best friends and always by each others side thru thick and thin. We never had more than a couple friends, and they were all common between us, but not extremely close. Occasionally, I was forced to leave for 5 days at a time for work (I work at a family owned business, so that adds more stress to our marriage...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Separated (Posts: 15)

CREATED: Sep 23 2016 at 15:52 by donstephen RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 28 2016 at 21:13

I had been with my wife 12 years this year. We have been through so much. Her family did not accept me due to a culture clash. Been bankrupt, wife bullied lots of times at work, moved home five times, I supported her at work because we both worked at the same place until 2 years ago when I took a job further away which meant traveling two hours there and two back the same day. We have two beautiful children now which mean the world to us both. We have both been through depression mine less so than my wife's. I did eveything I possible could, I got promotions at work so we had more money...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Crush Issues (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 28 2016 at 02:18 by Otaku0318 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 28 2016 at 11:04

Ok, so I've had a crush on this girl for all of a month. I broke up with me ex the week before I figured out I had this crush (BTW I'm a bi girl) and her and I were talking and she told me she liked me too, but her parents don't approve of gays so she and I couldn't date so we didn't until a week later when we dated for all of 19 hours. She is also best friends with my twin sister who is dating her twin brother. But she got back together with her ex bf and they broke up and now she likes my ex who is also still my best friend.. He said he likes her too and Idk how to feel about it. I cry o...

Workplace advice forum category advice forum category I Need Advice From An Ot Or Ot Student! Please Help (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 27 2016 at 03:43 by katie0908 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 28 2016 at 10:58

Hello! I've been wanting to become an occupational therapist since at least 8th grade. But, I see you can major in anything as an undergraduate to apply for ot school( and yes, I know about the prerequisites). I was wondering, what did you major in as an undergrad? I want to major in something that I know I can keep my grades up in. But id really like to hear about your experience! Also, I'm becoming a little be discouraged already about perusing this career. It's a passion of mine yes, I've volunteered a lot already, but I'm worried about not getting accepted when the time comes. I have and I...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Moving In Together After Online/long Distance.. (Posts: 253)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / staceyjones079 / luvbird / Scopes / Annigirl23 LAST POST: Sep 27 2016 at 16:09

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell him on time and when i did (took me some time to figure it out) he took it way too personally 2. the paperwork took us extremly long, we didnt rly take care of anything before he came to here..we ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I'm Moving And I'm Extremely Scared (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 27 2016 at 03:38 by katie0908 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 27 2016 at 14:11

Hey! I'm going to be moving soon and I'm very nervous. My current school is very small, and there are never any new kids, so I'm lost. When there's typically a new kid, do the current students at the school usually come up to him/her and talk to him/her? I'm not into sports, and I'll probably join clubs a few months in once I'm fully settled, but I don't want to depend on that. I'm very shy, but if someone comes up to me and starts a conversation, I'm very friendly and 100% fine. So yeah, when there's a new kid, do students come up to talk to that new kid and introduce themselves in class or s...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Thankyou:) (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Sep 18 2016 at 15:35 by MilkyWay RESPONDENTS: Seen-thru / Scopes / Amms / FriendNow / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 27 2016 at 13:36

It feels nice to share your problems and have someone take time to read it and answer them...feels like humanity isnt lost....people still care for others...PeoplesProblems.org may God bless you...:)...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is She Un-committed Or Just Stubborn? (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Sep 19 2016 at 18:32 by Faction3 RESPONDENTS: Chuck Canuck / nexuspark312 / Soulmate / manalone LAST POST: Sep 27 2016 at 02:18

Have been very sad today at the prospect of breaking up with my girlfriend of seven months. I'm 26 and she's 37 with two teenage children. We get along very well and have seen each other multiple nights a week all along. This will sound petty of me at first but there's some stuff underneath the surface so bear with me. I have been wanting to watch a film (Sausage Party) for a couple of months and when I showed her the advert she seemed keen to go. It came out at our local place this weekend - she's free, I'm free....there's just the minor issue that she streamed it online a couple of wee...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Having A Hard Time As A College Freshman. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 26 2016 at 23:19 by messbear RESPONDENTS: Pala0961 LAST POST: Sep 27 2016 at 00:13

I am a freshman at a college that I did not plan on going to. I was denied freshman acceptance at the school I wanted to attend but given a conditional admission allowing me to be admitted as long as I complete 30 hours and have a 3.3 GPA. I planned on rushing a sorority down here and was very excited, I thought I knew all the right people and was in wherever i wanted. I was dropped by every sorority except two(which were not for me personally and did not even have chapters at the school I plan on transferring to). When that happened, I lost every friend that I had made that was rushing excep...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Advice (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 26 2016 at 08:19 by Carolina RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 26 2016 at 15:46

I have been married for 3 years. The marriage has been difficult to say the least, to be more specific just a lot of arguments he seems to be very immature for his age, he doesn't have a father so has no frame of reference as to what a real marriage or husband should be. I do believe he is trying his best. I found out he was talking to his ex, she has caused problems in the past as in she tries to contact and he responded. Apparently she was with someone and they broke up she texted him and he answered consoled her which I can even be ok with given the history. But then I realized they had kep...

Missing People advice forum category advice forum category Am I A Horrible Person? I Thought I Wasn’t…..until Now. (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 25 2016 at 14:08 by only_me_again RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 25 2016 at 21:03

Am I a horrible person? I thought I wasn’t…..until now. I’ve been thinking for the last couple of hours what happened and I need to explain. My name is J (not my real name), I’m a single dad and raised 2 boys alone since their mum and I split about 10 years ago. I’ve been teaching in a college for a few years now and recently change to a different college, I love my job, difficult at times, but it has its benefits when students achieve. I found my true love about 18 months ago, I met (I’ll call her A) ‘A’ online, a dating site and we hit it off stra...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Do You Think Her Thoughts Are? Could We Possibly Be Together Again? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 25 2016 at 00:59 by Jay90T RESPONDENTS: Vanessa9501 LAST POST: Sep 25 2016 at 19:28

Hi there. I have a problem with a girl that I have lost all my hang ups on and I have admitted to myself that I love her. I am a male in my mid 20's. Near the turn of the year I met a lovely girl and things developed quite fast. The girl had a child and it's the first time I've dated a girl with a child. As this was new to me I had issues committing and the female starting asking what "we were" to which I didn't really answer. I also kept on massaging other girls which backfired as I messaged a friend of hers. The dating fizzled out as a result and I admitted to myself that maybe it was for...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused About A Girl (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 24 2016 at 10:43 by andy828282 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 25 2016 at 17:19

Hi,I am from India.I am dating a girl for sometime.she is ok to spend time with me.but not interested in committing with me.when I had proposed her,she told that she would want to remain only friend with me and not go in a relationship.so at the end of the day I feel I am being used.seems like she is just doing time pass with me and spending time with me and me losing my time and money.please suggest if what I am thinking is correct and what should be my next steps to get her....

Bereavement advice forum category advice forum category I Need Someone To Talk To (Posts: 14)

CREATED: Sep 20 2016 at 23:08 by susieanne RESPONDENTS: nexuspark312 / Scopes / MilkyWay / Skinnygirl / Sweet rose LAST POST: Sep 25 2016 at 02:56

anyone there that would like to talk...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Help! Bulimia (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 21 2016 at 06:44 by Millicent RESPONDENTS: Scopes / ChristinaB LAST POST: Sep 24 2016 at 16:58

Hello im a 27 year old female i have been bulimic for almost 3 years. Its been really bad for 8 months and even worse the past 3 months i would throw up everything because i csnt stop eating until im really full i binge alot. But i ended up having muscle spasms severe oaloton my bavk and chest i guess from the force of throwing up and anxiety so now its been 4 days that i stopped because im scared of dying.And its affecting me alot physically. Its just not worth it. But after 4 days of not throwing up i atill hve the same pain on my back and anxiety. And i feel like maybe i messed something up...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Response For Fuck Off? (Posts: 12)

CREATED: Sep 11 2016 at 16:45 by Amms RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone / Seen-thru / ANg LAST POST: Sep 24 2016 at 16:39

What should a girl do if her bf loves her to core but said "fuck off" in anger? How should she respond? At that moment she was cool but later she thought abt it and felt it offensive and disrespectful, she is now not talking to her but what should her response be like when he contacts her? please do give ur suggestion (P.s this is the second time he said this word in our 2 year relationship)...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category My 25 Year Old Brother Is Being Harrassed (Posts: 12)

CREATED: Sep 21 2016 at 21:03 by ClementineOlivia RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Amms LAST POST: Sep 23 2016 at 21:42

Hello, I don't know where to begin with this one... My brother is 25 and has been playing in a local, small league football team since he is 14. This football team is run by one of his friends dad, and the team used to be made up of himself and his close friends. But, about 2 years ago, some random, slightly older, men came along and decided to take over the football team (without any invitation or consent from the original manager). These men are convicted criminals (religiously in and out of prison) and seem to get great pleasure from harassing and threatening anyone who doesn't agre...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Lost (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Sep 22 2016 at 22:53 by glitterallover RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Becky with the good hair! LAST POST: Sep 23 2016 at 21:26

I am a 34 yr old woman from india, i am living seperately from my husband with no physical relations with him from past 5 years. I meet him sometimes and we have an 8 yr old daughter. I hv been in a sexual relationship with a gentleman fr last 4 years but now its no more. I have recently met a guy and spent two wonderful days with him. I had an instant liking for him. The problem is he is already in love with a married woman without sexual involvement with her.he promises that he will be loyal to me physically till we r together. He is divorced and is seeking a life partner. I dont see any fut...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Hard To Believe. (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Sep 14 2016 at 11:29 by really50 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / manalone / Rukia LAST POST: Sep 22 2016 at 20:31

Hello, Around a year ago my gf had a brief affair when I returned to my country to visit family. I pieced two and two together through a fb chat of hers with another friend. (I don't snoop, but her fb was somehow open on my fb) I exposed her and subsequent drama unfolded, she was so sorry etc, tears and the usual shenanigans. For some reason we still met and gradually got back together. Though, she changed her story from meeting the guy to being raped by the guy. I just didn't believe it tbh as she also said she went to his house not once but twice! And that he blackmailed her by saying h...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Paying Parents Bill (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 22 2016 at 04:44 by Someguy1234 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 22 2016 at 13:21

Hello, I have an issue I need some advice on that is causing some tension in my marriage. My wife's father is a pastor of a small church and her mother does not work due to health issues. Their income is not very high at all and so for the last 5 or so years we have been paying their cell phone bill. We added them to our plan and just pay it all. About 4-6 months ago the church decided to start giving him an extra $50 a month for his cell phone. He said he would just start paying that money directly to the cell company but has only done it once even though the church has been giving him the m...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Obese Single Mom Hates Her Mother (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 21 2016 at 03:24 by Anne Morgan RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 22 2016 at 13:12

This time I won't post a personal problem. It's something that happens to two people very dear to me. The only help I have provided is listening to both. What I would like is your opinion, how you would solve this issue, so I can help them or suggest them to do something. These two people are mother and daughter. Let's suppose the daughter is called Kayla and her mother, Ruth. (Excuse me if I make some grammar mistakes, English is not my first language). Kayla is 34 years old, she lives with her parents and she is morbidly obese. As a child she was chubby, and both her parents were f...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category His Ex Wife - Past Problems Affecting Things Now (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 22 2016 at 10:10 by heavenlychoirs RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 22 2016 at 12:57

Hi, I don't know if anyone can help me this is troubling me a bit. I am in a new relationship of 4 months with an older man 18 years older than me. He is divorced 10 years ago but was married for 14 years to a sociopathic sadistic golddigger that took everything left him on the street homeless and caused him to have a nervous breakdown. She lied to him all the way through as she was ciphoning off all his earnings each month and he didn't even know, then she even was getting benefits as a single parent so fraud too and never got caught. Basically, he told me it did his head in as when they...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Can't Stop Thinking About Him.... (Posts: 19)

CREATED: Aug 23 2016 at 18:25 by vanquish75 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Chuck Canuck / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 21 2016 at 22:19

Hi I'm looking for advice on how to get someone off my mind...I'm married have been for 10+ years and have never strayed or even thought about it. But lately I can't seem to get a friend off my mind. He's always in my thoughts in my dreams I just can't seem to let it go. He and I work in the same establishment we don't work together often but always seem to be in each other's orbit. We have worked at the same place for many years together but lately it seems were together all the time... It just seems that he spends way to much to time in my "bubble" always kinda hovering. And for so...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused About Marriage (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 13 2016 at 19:15 by Mariposa RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 21 2016 at 15:15

I am married now for 26 years and my relationship with my spouse is now in a big shift. I really have to admit to myself now that I am not comfortable with being in a marriage where my spouse wants to now identify as being polyamorous and wanting to explore that lifestyle. In theory and the searches I have done on the internet about being poly make sense but it does not make sense for me. I see that there are some poly/mono relationships that work but it is not my cup of tea. I do know that I love my spouse but I feel a shift in how I am able to express love for my spouse. I feel that I a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Stressed About My Future (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 21 2016 at 04:08 by MX36 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Sep 21 2016 at 07:37

I'm not sure if I'm unhappy with my relationship or with my life. I currently have a full time job, that I don't like. It doesn't pay a lot, which sucks, so I choose to live at home for financial security; most of my friends have moved out and are on their own so I feel unaccomplished. I've taken extra courses to specialize in my field but I am not finding any job opportunities and the jobs I do apply to i don't hear back from, ever, which is really frustrating. Then there is my relationship, he is trying to start his own business, I don't know how to help and its taking a long time to g...

Other advice forum category advice forum category I'm Stuck And Sick Of It (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 12 2016 at 05:30 by nexuspark312 RESPONDENTS: KayyJayy / Seen-thru LAST POST: Sep 21 2016 at 05:10

I can't lie and say that I don't feel sorry for myself because what else is depression and not being able to get out of it? Do I want to be like this? No. I want to move on and I don't know how.. And by that I mean I know certain things like "talk to friends", "get that job/class/hobby started that you want", "live healthier", blah blah blah... I get that; but it's more the action of moving on that I don't understand.. I know what part of my problem is. It's living with my family. When I moved out for a while on my own (I mean with people my age), I was actually doing good... Then my room-...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I'm A Total Waste Of Space (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 20 2016 at 16:00 by Desperate 40s RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Gunner34 LAST POST: Sep 20 2016 at 20:31

I'm 43 going through hell and it's a long story My whole life I've felt there was something wrong with me I was constantly off school due to differing health issues but have no childhood memories....... Until recently and now have only one I left school without any qualifications Started working but lost every job I had through time keeping Met my now wife at 17 and have never been apart from her since she is my everything And we have 4 wonderful kids together 19 16 13 10 In 96 after lots of visits to the Gp I was diagnosed with idiopathic hypersomnia (sleep disorder) and hav...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What To Make Of This... (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 19 2016 at 16:06 by Chuck Canuck RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Sep 20 2016 at 05:04

After posing a question about our relationship 2 times prior to this, I asked my GF of nearly 3 years the following: I need to know if im just treading water with you... im deeply concerned about us. I know you don't like talking about this stuff... and i dont want to beat a dead horse by asking either. Her reply: Nothing to be concerned about, I'm running in status quo mode......but need to make some personal changes......myself...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Being Strung Along Till She Moves On? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 20 2016 at 02:31 by Samuel824 RESPONDENTS: Chuck_Canuck / manalone LAST POST: Sep 20 2016 at 04:28

Im a 31 year old male currently engaged to my 26 year old partner. We have been together for 5 years, with 3 children. The first part of our relationship started off with me meeting her through a guy I knew from work, it was his sister. I lived with a roomate, she lived with her mother. The relationship started out as a hot fling to party with and have seen at the end of the night, she seemed genuine, but still on the crazy side. I enjoyed partying with her because I liked her, not because I liked to party. This part of the relationship went on for months, we used to say "love you frie...

Alcohol advice forum category advice forum category Cancelled Wedding After 5 Years (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 19 2016 at 19:16 by sunny44 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Sep 20 2016 at 03:05

Hi, I'm known as Sunny44. I just cancelled a wedding after five years of dating to a man who has had an abortion by me (medically recommended) and still wants to have kids together and is still with me. I'm having two problems. First, I am an alcoholic who didn't drink for a year and a half and when wedding planning came around I couldn't handle the family pressure from either of our families and I ended up drinking two months out during my first planning session and again a week later when we went to finish planning. That was when we decided not to follow through with the wedding the way ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Husband Who Needs Help (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 19 2016 at 20:43 by Adviceseeker RESPONDENTS: Scopes / molly way LAST POST: Sep 20 2016 at 02:47

Good Evening everyone, Little about myself. Been serving in the military for 17 years. I met my wife in 2007, married in 2009. Our marriage has definitely had its ups and downs. My wife just graduated LPN school a month after I deployed in April. The problems I am having is before I left in April, my wife caught me texting another female. The only reason I was texting her was because I felt she wasn't showing me attention plus she was hanging out every now and then with a guy (Who she says is married). I felt alone and I did what I did because I was lonely. The night before I deployed we ta...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Crisis (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 19 2016 at 02:56 by CateMitton RESPONDENTS: Seen-thru / Vanessa1 / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 19 2016 at 13:23

My husband and I have been together for the past 3.5 years. We have two children together plus two other children from previous relationships. I did not take care of him emotionally, and so he started to seek that kind of attention elsewhere. When I found out about it, I tried to explain to him that he was having an emotional affair and tried to fix that issue in our marriage. He continued to text and interact with this woman (they work together) and also told me that if she want married that he would marry her in a heart beat. I was 6 months pregnant at the time. He soon left me and the k...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Husband Cheating Online (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 19 2016 at 08:39 by Mrsgw RESPONDENTS: Mocha_raine / Seen-thru / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 19 2016 at 12:30

Hi, so, I found out last night my husband has created a fake Facebook account and has been dirty talking and proclaiming love etc to multiple women since 2010. I have no idea what to think about this, the level of deceit is huge. He's begging me to give him another chance etc I just don't know what to think, he keeps saying he's not physically cheated, but he's been messinging them, loads of messages everyday I cannot face talking to anyone I know about this, please talk to me...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category In A Strange State Of Limbo (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 18 2016 at 17:33 by Jigglychu RESPONDENTS: Scopes / manalone / mindful-bliss LAST POST: Sep 19 2016 at 02:00

Ahoy everyone, In need of some advice, first up the story! Ok, so I was in a long term relationship of 5 and a half years, and I broke up with the girl because I found her flirting and exchanging dirty photos with men online, this was the third time it had happened, so I lost the plot a little bit. Anyway the reason for my break up was to try and teach her a lesson, a lesson which horribly back fired! Within a month she flew to America to see friends for 3 weeks, I wasn't too bothered as I felt she needed space. I didn't message her once the whole time she was there. When she returned s...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Assuming Na Ok Na Sister-in-law At Daughter-in-law (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 18 2016 at 02:59 by Alloy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 17:51

..thankful ako kay baby kasi nung nagbuntis ako, nalaman kong yung mga taong inaasahan mung makakaintindi sayo, yun pa yung masakit magsalita pagtalikod mu.. maarte raw ako: konting sakit, dinadaing ko na.. buong buhay ko walang nagsabi sa kin na maarte ako (nang seryoso). pag may nararamdaman ako, hanggat kaya ko, di ko naman yun agad sinasabi sa iba: magulang, kapatid, kaibigan at asawa, unless matinding sakit na nararamdaman ko. 1st time ko magbuntis, di ako familiar sa kakaibang nararamdaman ko. di ko alam na yung pagsasabi ko pala sa asawa ko ng nararamdaman ko e kaartehan na. sabi sa k...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Ventingmyfrustation (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Sep 17 2016 at 06:26 by MilkyWay RESPONDENTS: Seen-thru LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 16:09

I really wanted to go that place.....to that concert..but it was a choice between my classes or the concert....now that i see my friends enjoying over there...i feel very sad...i really wanted to go there...I m fed up of playing the all understanding child...for once I want to be care free...i want to feel like a child...I want to throw this all.away and go somewhere..where there is no one to recoignise me...observe me...i hate this bottled up life...i want to shout at the top of my voice...i want to run till my legs give up...i want to travel...I hate this bottled up feeling..i want to let my...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Just Venting 2 (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Sep 15 2016 at 23:11 by Joe RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Seen-thru LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 16:01

So I'm back, for those who do not know (or just don't remember) I wrote quite a few paragraphs on this site a while back (somewhere in may) titled something like just venting to be honest. I pretty much talked about a lot of things I was thinking about back then. I stopped thinking about those things for a while and now they're back, so I decided to start writing again. So the first time around, I talked a lot about me being a virgin and never having a girlfriend, and now I somewhat want to continue on that in a different way. Before I start tho, some of you might realize (probably the ones...

Education advice forum category advice forum category What To Do With My Future. (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 17 2016 at 23:49 by YSoSerious105 RESPONDENTS: Elllllee / MilkyWay / Altreal LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 14:21

I began to attend college like I was expected to. Just like all high school graduates are expected to. But I quickly learned that it was no for me. I strongly dislike college. It is not hands on and full of learning like I thought. It's just more crappy standardized tests. I don't want to delay my future anymore than I already have. Right now I have a few options. I am currently stuck where I am at otherwise I know what I would do for sure. I want to be a police diver 1) I can continue college and working part time at the security company I work for and get my criminal justice degree and ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Adult Work Escort (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Sep 16 2016 at 22:24 by Teatea RESPONDENTS: manalone / Elllllee / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 14:14

My husband of 23 years has been seeing an escort - although he has denied she is a prostitute. He is often on Adultwork and having identified her and his ID he only gives her feedback so I assume he only interacts with her. He has admitted having seen her in person (she gives an amazing BJ). As I said we have been married 23 years. Our sex life dwindled some years ago. I believe he has had a few emotional affairs over the years and I believe this is the only physical relationship. He is self employed and I never know where he is from one day to another. When he sees her it is during the workin...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Cut Off Ties (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 18 2016 at 08:33 by Elllllee RESPONDENTS: MilkyWay / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 14:10

I had been with my partner for almost three years. Life with my in-laws were great on the start and we all got along very well. Until half way through the first year problems had started because his mother couldn't keep him in line and her only way for him to listen was for me to get involved , she eventually involved me in every single problem and issue he and her had and would always pin point me in the situation even when I have no clue with what is going on and also befriend my family to find any flaw I had then black mail me, defamed me on social media when none of it was true, back stabs...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category #mypost (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 16 2016 at 17:45 by MilkyWay RESPONDENTS: Elllllee LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 09:50

Hey guys hi....I just wanted to say something...please read it...I am a hostelier since last year...till last year my home was my everything but since going there I have seen a who le new world...I got my space over there...something which I never experienced...the freedom to do whatever I want with no one observing me and I kinda got addicted to that new gained freedom...now recently when I came home initially I was very happy but then things went a bit awry.. My mom never allows me to go anywhere in the fear that something my happen to me...So used to just in my house throughout the day...j...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Love A Friend Who Has A Girlfriend (Posts: 21)

CREATED: Sep 7 2016 at 23:17 by WorkWife RESPONDENTS: Seen-thru / Altreal / susiedqq / MilkyWay LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 09:47

Hi, everyone, I love my friend of 2 years, Mr W. He did not know that. Last year, he met a crazy girl, Miss A online. They hang out a lot, live together and argue a lot! Recently, she is unemployed for an unknown reason. It may be due to her misconduct as I believe. Sometimes, he told me that "my girlfriend drains me!" or "I am stressful with this relationship". According to to a gossip site, someone said Miss A is alcoholic , abuses drugs and has sex with every guy ! Obviously, she is not a good girl. I am sad that Mr W does not choose me. I am a nice girl. I feel sad with a brok...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Want To Divorce My Husband Of 14 Years (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 16 2016 at 18:05 by Jane45610 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Seen-thru LAST POST: Sep 18 2016 at 04:24

I have been married for 14 years and honestly don't want to be married to my husband anymore. We married very young. I was 19 and he was 23. We had many problems from the beginning and even separated for six months around our 7th year of marriage. He was very passive early on and would never discuss his feelings with me and even had an emotional affair with a coworker. It caused a lot of resentment and bitterness and trust issues for me. I fell out of love with him and simply tolerated him. My feelings came out with the way I treated him. We decided to renew our wedding vows and start over aro...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Needing Someone To Talk To About My Feelings (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Sep 17 2016 at 03:19 by Lachelle RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 17 2016 at 18:11

I recently posted in here about two weeks ago about my husband and I. I received a lot of great advice. As I said before my husband and are young and we have a 2 1/2 yr old daughter. It seems as if me and my husband can't even tolerate each other we have disagreements about every little thing. My husband is in the military and when he got stationed somewhere I quit my job, school, and sold my car. When we first got settled in everything was great I stayed home with our daughter and took care of everything besides going to work but shortly things went sour. I noticed I was being treated like a ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Sep 13 2016 at 23:10 by Lachelle RESPONDENTS: manalone / Scopes / mindful-bliss LAST POST: Sep 17 2016 at 02:02

My husband and I are very young and only been married for a short time but we've known each other for 7 yrs. we have a child and we moved to a new place and a new state all on our own. We've been having more problem than I can personally handle. I feel as if he thinks I'm his maid, he was babied by his family and making me take their position. I'm not fine with that I also feel as if he doesn't help enough with our daughter. I've been having feeling as I want to be by myself I really want to find myself. I want to find my own purpose in the world . When two people come together I feel they sho...

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