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Hi, I’ve been struggling with this for some time, I have a 14 year old son from a previous relationship. I met my husband 7 years ago and we recently go married and have a daughter. There have been various displays of behaviour from my ex that I imagine many separated couples go through, basically him trying to make me jealous, overly spoiling son on what felt like an attempt to buy his affection all of which I just put down to the messiness of moving on but having to co-parent. I didn’t really think much about it and never reacted as I felt this would only give him what he wanted, just al...

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We have both been previously married and we both have 2 grown children. I really care for him and want to share our lives together. We moved in together after a year of being together. He has met my kids and my family now over a year ago but I have not met his. This is were my issue is. His kids who are 23 and 19 as well as his mom do not no I even exist. He has not even mentioned to them that he has a girlfriend. He says he doesn't want to upset them and that it's not a big deal and it doesn't matter. Well it matters to me I feel like he's h...

The guy I totally fancied years ago ended up trying to kiss me even though he knows I have a boyfriend now. We were together for the first time in months because he is now best friends with my friends boyfriend so we sometimes bump into each other at their house. I thought we were all just having a good laugh together and enjoyed the fact we were like good friends. I wasn’t expecting it at all as we were all just slowly falling asleep on the couch after a few drinks. My reaction at the time was just “I can’t” and then none of us said anything else and went to sleep. The morning...

Earlier this year I found out my wife had been sexting an old flame in Wyoming. The things they said to each other made me physically sick to my stomach. I told her I could forgive her but the words I saw keep coming back to haunt me. M desperate to talk to someone about this. Do I continue to live with it or seek professional help thanks Sham....

The last few weeks have been a nightmare. A few members of my immediate family have contracted the Covid virus and one of them has been hospitalized. In addition, my cat of 17 years almost died the other night from congestive heart failure. First, the vet told me that he has cardiomyopathy and a very damaged heart so he may not survive long and now they called tonight to tell me the x-rays also reveal what they believe to be lung cancer. I don’t know how he could have both since the cardio that was positive that the heart failure was to only due to the heart and there is nothing else to be c...

Throughout my 6 year relationship, me and my partner have grown and achieved so much together, often with the help of the on another. He is very stable whereas I can be very unstable, he is anxious where I am confident, he can stay calm where I would become annoyed. On paper, there are many positives about him and the relationship as far as future prospects go. There has been, however, many recurring issues that we can never seem to work through. We rarely agree to disagree. Although one may back down on their side in the end (usually him) we still ultimately stay opposing. Our arguments have ...

I am very emotional after finding out that my wife had been sexting an old boyfriend. I feel as if I am really losing it sometimes. ...

Long story but i need someone elses view on my situation. I struggle to deal with issues and confrontation and its causing more arguements than needed. I was in a long term relationship of 8 years which majority of this was mentally torturing but i felt trapped. Despite everyones plea that shes was changing who i was. effecting me as a person. I stayed because i thought she was the one! Fast forward and i somehow saw sense and ended the relationship and moved home. As a recovery i came to point where a friendship with a girl turned alittle morefor 3 months. Things got too much and as i fe...

I had a wonderful friend. He and I shared everything. He was funny and easy to get along. About a year ago he got a medical marijuana card and it became legal for him to buy a lot of marijuana. He's been high ever since. His personality has changed. He says very little now and is constantly worried about his pot supply. I was going through some things this summer and he couldn't listen to me, not even for a minute. These were things that affected him too. I gave up trying to communicate with my friend because I had to deal with the challenges I was facing. After I got through the challenges I ...

So I met this guy online(he started the conversation first) and it almost three weeks since we started talking. Two days ago I asked him what exactly is he looking for, and he told me: “ Honestly I’m just looking to make new friends and see where that goes.. i dont believe in just jumping into a relationship and expecting it to be something serious. I feel like every couple needs to be friends first and then have the relationship sort of evolve on its own.” What exactly do you think he meant about that? What do you think I should do?...

I have been married for 6 six years and together for 10 years. My wife simply refuses to make love to me, she consummated the marriage on the first night but ha simply refused to have intimate relations since. I am 62 she is 58. I masturbate to relieve the sexual feelings but she says that I am betraying her. I simply do not know what to do. Plaese help....

currently i have a fwb who i dated for three years in high school but broke up with. but i’m in love with a guy i worked with two years ago who now has a girlfriend but texts me every day. another guy who i like asked me on a trip a tropical country and i am going with him. i don’t know what do or who to talk to or if i should just not talk to any of them. ...

I am 28 (almost 29) and I have the most beautiful 5 year old girl. I have been with the man I thought I loved for about 4 years now. It was so great at first, we gradually got to know each other and eventually around almost 2 years moved in together (with my daughter). As we pretty much lived together, he stayed with me in an apartment and I paid all of the bills. He would ask me for $50 here and there (granted he made about 80k and I made about 11k at the time). He at first would play with DD and they had fun together. She loves him and his son whom comes over occasionally (his mother chooses...

Hi everybody, so my boyfriend and I had already talked about this and we kind of sorted things out, he said he felt comfortable speaking with me about it and so on, so I decided to give him a chance and start from there but recently I found out some things I didn’t know of which I don’t know what to think of. Below these lines I will give a brief explanation of my general situation, please read ,what I have discovered recently, it begins in the paragraph with a small ASTERISK (*) IN THE FRONT. Around June-August 2016 my now boyfriend as an engineer that he is, started wor...

My husband is a wonderful person who has always treated me well. This is my major insecurity causing me to feel down. Several years ago (before we were married), one of his ex's came up. We were with his friend and they were discussing hot celebrities. His friend mentioned that one celebrity reminded him of my then bf's 1st ex, how attractive she was. My bf agreed with him and I was a little shocked and hurt. Not for his friend calling her hot, but for my bf not shutting down the conversation then and there. Or him saying well that doesn't matter cause gf is the hottest, dumb and pet...

My co-worker is now considered senior citizen, (60yrs. old). Suddenly she tapped me and told me she bought a dress online that might fit my size. And she wanted me to check it out for the next day and that she will bring it. Well, i know that she wanted me to buy it, but that's not how I buy my dresses. What i usually do is go to the mall and do canvass until i get the perfect dress that i wanted. I really invest on my dresses contrary to my usual outfit inside the office that may be the reason why she's thinking that i will buy the dress instantly because it's not expensive and i look like i ...

Hi I've posted a cpl of times before..honestly because I have no one to talk. My bf and I have had a bad sex life the last year not me him he's too tired not in the mood etc then September I caught him masturbating I didn't say at time then asked told me it was only a cpl times since been together tried to move on the happened again so I went away for a break without him so we could see if we missed each other then he left me few weeks later said lost the attraction to me but still loved me then came back the following week...I initially allowed him as lent him my savings and wanted money ...

I hear some men say they prefer a woman not to play hard to get. But I hear some say they like it. Here is my story: So I am not the kind of girl who likes to play hard to get. If anything, I'm the opposite - I play easy to get. I am so weak for my crushes and cannot resist, so it is so hard to do so. BUT that does not mean I am clingy. I could so easily avoid that as I am so shy and careful around my crushes. I try to be very nice and friendly to them and show interest when I have feelings for them. However, I don't know if it's me, but that seems to turn them off. A couple of guys I knew ap...

Anyway, probably about six months ago, I agreed to write the script for someone's game. The scope was about 100k words and I'd figured I could finish it in a month or three (since I write fairly quickly), maybe 5-6 with substantial edits. I am...nowhere near finished. This is mostly because the partner is often requiring 4-5 complete rewrites per section. (Often because she's just not "feeling it" or I didn't somehow read her mind and get her characters right. Or I did, but having them behave in the way she wants them to makes them "too unlikeable" or "doesn't develop their relationships p...

I've been married (I'm 37M, she's 36F) for almost 15 years. Our marriage has certainly had it's share of ups and downs. Shortly after we were engaged I left my career in law enforcement with a diagnosis of PTSD. She was very supportive of my issues, and I was devoted to her entirely for staying with me. I believe in loyalty to a severe degree, and the fact that she never waivered was the most I could've ever hoped for. We had entered into our marriage with the understanding that we would have children after 5 years. We wanted to wait 5 years to make sure the marriage would last. About 2-3 ...

I love buying things for my boyfriend, and he clearly loves receiving them. He tends to like one thing in particular for a month or so, and sometimes I will get it for him. He's always excited to get it. The problem is that if I tell him I'm buying it before I actually do, he tries to talk me out of it. It starts out light-hearted. He says how he really doesn't need it and I should spend my money on the something else. But then he starts to feel really guilty about it, and he feels like he needs to repay me. So much so that he can get to the point of tears. I only want to make him happy....

I have been dating a guy consistently for three months and to be honest it felt perfect. We were getting along, we had similar values, and great conversation everyday and our dates were always nice. Two days ago he was telling me he missed me and he can't wait till I cook for him some day (He's attracted to girls who cook and we always talked about him trying my cooking) and then the next day, he called me and told me he likes me but he's emotionally not ready for a relationship and that we should just stop talking. He talked so fast and hung up that I didn't even get a chance to say what I wa...

So back in school way before covid I started talking to this guy I had a crush on. Eventually we both had a crush on eachother and would text on snapchat or call almost everyday after school. We didn't ever end up officially dating because it was still too early for all of that. But when school shut down in March and everything was online he stopped talking to me completely. I still tried talking to him but he wouldn't reply so I just gave up. But in September on the 2nd day of school I asked how his first day went and he finally replied to me. So after he replied that I would just ask s...

I have been hooking up with a boy since I was 15 (I'm now 26). I'm now just really confused with the our relationship it is basically "friends with benefits". Recently he's started talking about having a future partner and it's really hurt me because I feel like I'm good enough for him to hook up with but not be his girlfriend. I've met his parents and sibling but he wants our hook ups now to be kept secret just between us. I 100% know he's not seeing anyone else but I'm just confused on what to do. Do I just move on and cut all ties? ...

Hey all, I started dating this guy I met in college; we’ve been going out for 7 months now. At first, things were going well; but as time passes, I have real doubts about this relationship. 1-he told me he ‘couldn’t feel my vagina’, immediately assuming the problem was me. Granted, I get very wet when we have sex, but I’ve never had that problem with my previous partners; and I do feel he can’t really get into it as easily as I can. I accidentally found out he’s addicted to pornography, and uses it to vent stress out; furthermore, I suspect he might masturbate with a very ti...

I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. Over the last few months I've started making some online friends (was getting desperate with quarantine). I (16F) have gotten really close with this one guy (17M) and we both like each other. We're not dating (I wasn't comfortable with the idea of an online relationship), but we text for hours every day, gm/gn texts, and voice call weekly. My parents have no idea about this, and I highly doubt they would be okay with me dating at all. So that's a bit stressful, having to hide this from my parents. On top of this, I haven't mentioned...

Just wanted to share my story and get some insight from people here. My bf and I had to break up because of his family's disapproval. Unlike most other stories, the disapproval was not personal to me. We had been dating many months now, and he's honestly the most compatible partner I have ever met in my life. We align in almost every single way, and in just the first few months, we had reached the sort of levels people usually reach after a year or 2. I've had several relationships in the past, but none of my other exes even come close in terms of compatibility and the love I felt for him. ...

Hi Alll Been with my hubby 20yrs now and all was fantastic until 7 years ago he was a naughty boy (let’s say) I was devastated to say the least!!! A lot of unhappiness was about for some months and thought as I loved him I would forgive him! If I’m honest since that time I have never trusted my husband but tried my best to get on lives together as this is and was I believe totally out of character for him (I’m no fool I know what he did) my husband is nit very sociable at the best of times quite grumpy lol he’s not a mixer as they say! So lol this year my street had a party and we ...

Sorry this is long, I'm a writer and don't know how to shorten anything up. There's a ton of backstory, but I met "Robert". He was a customer I'd never seen before. It was instant attraction. He never talked, but he started coming in more and more. He asked me out, we went out a few times, but I was basically living with a guy (John) at the point in time to just not be homeless, because I had been briefly. Then had a mental breakdown from losing everything in the recession, when I had just graduated and had my dream job with the nation's second largest firm in my field. John was jealous of Rob...

I was divorced over 16 years ago with no kids after being married for almost 7 years. Since then, I have an ex-girlfriend I've known over 15 years, call her Woman A. Woman A and I have seen each other on and off since and have both had other relationships. One of those relationships, call her Woman B, went on for around three years on and off, and broke off around 2 years ago. Woman B had contacted me since, within the past two years, with an interest in resuming the relationship but I haven't pursued that opportunity. As recently as this past spring 2020, I started seeing woman A again. It br...

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

So tonight I discovered my partner has been secretly watching porn. This shouldn't be a problem i am no prude,our sex life is good. Could be better but sharing a house with paper thin walls with our 17 and 21 year old kids and working full time we never get a minute's peace. But we try make up for it where possible. We've always had a great relationship. 3 kids 2 grandkids we don't have alot but we have love in vast quantities. I believe the reason we've lasted so long is down to sheer 100% honesty and trust. We've never cheated on one another or broken up. He's is litrelly the only guy I've...

I am wanting advice, my husband and I have 2 beautiful kids when we first discussed having children we agreed that 3 kids no more so all along that has been the plan we have been through a rough couple of years and it hasn't been the right time for another child we now have our life back on track and when I bought up the subject of possibly having another kids in maybe a year year and a half he said no we aren't having another and I was gutted he said he is too old I am 31 he is 39, so I completely understand where he is coming from and I respect that and when I have tried to discuss it with h...

Hi everyone! I am new on here and I'm looking for some advice on my relationship predicament. I apologize it is somewhat complicated/lengthy. I have been with this guy for 4 years. Our personalities are basically the same and we like all of the same stuff. But, lately we have been drifting apart and he doesn't communicate well at all. His major downfalls are that he cannot seem to get his life together. His license got suspended, he has no car insurance, a theft on this record, and he cannot find a stable job. I have been paying for our rent, groceries, and I have put myself in debt to kee...

(Here goes...) - I'm 31, I'll be 32 next March. I grew up in Los Angeles, where my aspirations were akin to today's youth who aspire to YouTube Fame. My dream of being an entertainer failed at age 25/26, after experiencing a traumatic event in the industry that left me confused and lost. Luckily, I managed to obtain a Bachelor's Degree while I was in Hollywood. In survival mode, I sought a job related to my degree, hated it and went back to school without giving my Master's any thought. I realize now, that was my way of compensating for failure and that I just wanted to impress those that ...

Over the last year my husband has started drinking more, and at a local strip club. I do not normally have an issue with strip clubs, but do not want my husband to be a regular. I have asked him repeatedly not to go there, but he continues, claiming it is "just another bar" to him and I have no reason to worry. Is it wrong for me to make a deal out of this? I am considering giving him an altamatum....

We’ve been married 10 years, friends long before that and nothing we rushed into. No wedding, just togetherness, and it was enough knowing we could have a wedding /some day/. There was a lot of passion and excitement for several years, but it’s been a struggle financially and emotionally. We both have emotional issues we are in therapy and taking medications for, mine manifesting in anxiety and deep sadness and his in self-loathing and anger which results in self-harm. He has been unemployed for almost most of our marriage, unable to keep jobs due to his illness, and I have been happy to s...

Hi, I was hoping you could help me with some advise. My husband and i have been married for 22 yrs, not all of them have been happy. We've had alot of struggles with him showing me real affection and showing emotion. He expected me to just know he loved me. Long story short , i moved out and decided that was it. I was tired of begging for attention and affection. I did the worst thing i can do. I allowed another man to show me these things. I was starving for it in my marriage. After 8 months of being gone from the house my husband came to my job and asked me to come home. He said he was ready...

I dated this guy off and on a year ago. We were very toxic and long story short it never worked because A-he took my best friend's virginity prior to us dating but he loved her B-he said I assume the worst or C-he pressured me into things and my parents hate him. Now it's been a while and I saw him. We spent a few hours together one night, but nothing happened really. He acted as he loved me. Well we live in different cities now and since seeing him he hardly speaks to me but I never lost feelings for him and I'm deeply attached to him, but he makes no effort to talk to me. I want nothing more...

Hi, this is my first time on a forum . I’m looking for impartial anonymous advice . It’s my 40th birthday in a months time which has been difficult to plan due to covid but I’m still hoping to get away and do something as usually I don’t do much but 40 is a big milestone. My wife is from the Philippines and has a mother with mental health issues , her mum is been forced into moving house which she’s known about for months now if not a year or two . She has to move be beginning of January . My wife’s brother works out of the country so no one is there and she has suggested thi...

I always been a bit of a loner and I always been the type to have only a few trustworthy friends around me. Over the years I either fell out with some of this friends because they let me down and disappointed me for various reasons or just because we have less contact with each other because we spent a lot of time with family and work. My wife recently told me that she finds loners like myself unattractive. I replied to her that I find people that beg for friendships and that rate people based on their popularity also unattractive. I stopped talking to some of my friends because they we...

My girlfriend and I have been dating 10 months. We have a great relationship most of the time. She has been hurt a lot so sometimes she gets butt hurt(her words not mine) She has 2 younger children which I adore and they adore me. We get to spend every weekend with eachother and we usually just hang out at her place or mine. She likes to get butt hurt about things that are just silly. One morning I was at home and I missed her call and she instantly starts accusing me of being dishonest about what I was doing. I told her I was doing some chores around the house and when she called my phone was...

I met A through online dating in Feb 2019, he was very intense and then he went cold very quickly, whilst on a break and never expecting to hear from him again, I slept with an ex. A and I got back together, but it was still not working! We ended badly, I told him about my ex and said a lot of nasty things! However a few months later I felt guilty and contacted him. We began a friendship and 5 months later I asked him 2 be my boyfriend again, he agreed but said he could never forgive me!the relationship was awful, I would get angry with him! In lockdown I felt he was not supportive and asked...

I admit I'm a person who always likes to please and avoid any type of controversy. My bf of 15 months is very loving but can be very intrusive too and has a tendency not to be sensitive to the needs of others sometimes (including how and what he says). Now to the issue: I told him I needed this past weekend alone with my child visiting from far away for only a week. Since I told him, he has been avoiding me to some extent by not calling me almost at all (he usually calls twice a day) so I have been calling him (and he is quite short on the phone). As it turns out, he has been sick since Friday...

I was recently talking to my husband about our joint life insurance and he said, 3 years ago he was thinking of changing it so I would only get £1. he said at the time I had really been going on at him and it crossed his mind for a few seconds then went out of his mind. he said he would wonder what the look on my face would be like. he said I would only give our children £25 each and i would keep the rest.I was very upset at hearing this and have been crying over what he said as we do not own our own house nor do we have any savings to leave our 3 grown up children so are relying on the life...

Sorry if this is too daft, but I had to get it out there. Im a single male in my early 30s and haven't really had a proper long term relationship. Ive tried to meet people, but never quite hit it off with anyone. So I tried online dating. You do come across interesting people, but for some reason it never goes beyond the first date. I try to be the gentleman, be polite, attentive and make her laugh. I always put myself out there, but nobody seems to like me. They usually say Im nice and intelligent, but theres no spark, no romantic connection. Why does this happen every time? Am I the "nice gu...

Looking for help and advice! I’ve never posted on anything like this before but I feel like I’m beginning to exhaust all options so I suppose that I’m hoping that someone who has maybe been in a similar situation before can help. I have been with my partner for 15 years now. I fell pregnant at the age of 20 with our now 14 year old daughter and although it wasn’t planned and we struggled at the time, we made it work and have been together ever since. This may sound awful but we didn’t get a lot of time to know each other and we never exactly made the decision to commit to ea...

I’ve been together with my fiancé for over 2 years now. We felt deeply in love right away after the first date and the first couple of months together were paradise.... and the sex was absolutely awesome! After about 5-6 months of relationship I kinda stopped feeling aroused (not only by him... just in general) I was like dead down there. However I loved him more every day. He would try to seduce me but i was always feeling too tired or just not in the mood. Eventually he stopped trying and we passed from having sex almost every day (on the first couple months) to just once or twice...

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have lived together for the last 2 years. We met when we were 16 and he's the only person I've ever been with. He's my best friend in every way and I love the relationship we have. We are both happy (we've obviously had our ups and downs over the years) and we have a good sex life. I reckon he will be the guy I marry and have a family with. However, I often find myself fantasising over another guy that I've fancied since I was 10. We used to be good friends and I always fancied him (and he liked me) but nothing ever happened between us. On our...

Hi I’m in relationship with over 3 years with a lady. And she lives abroad so different cultures etc. She always says things to hurt me and I keep telling her to stop. It’s like she don’t care. Now I do everything for this lady Financial support Holidays etc. If I say to her your words are hurting me she always says I’m not hurting you. Now we had o huge argument the other night and I hung up the phone. She message me next day saying good morning i saw the message but haven’t opened it. I hope this silent treatment will work. Because previous arguments I just text her back. And all i...

I fell in love with my brother's girlfriend after trying to save her from the toxic atmosphere that he has trapped her in. They are constantly fighting, to the point it get violent, and she has become suicidal on more than one occasion and I've done my absolute best to just be a friend. I don't want to ruin my relationship with him or my friendship with her and I would appreciate any advice I can get....

Would you consider it emotional or a form of cheating when a man starts a relationship with you while still having feelings for his ex-girlfriend? In addition, he comments with hearts and flames on his female friends Instagram pictures which are very sexual, meaning showing their naked butts and naked breasts. He would never leave a comment under his girlfriends pictures which are non-sexual. He would also delete all their text messages between them on his phone. Please tell me what you think!...

I got into a relationship with someone for almost 3 months. He is very close with his ex that was with him for 9 years. They constantly are messaging each other. I am uncomfortable when I am around them so I chose to not be around her. What do I do? My mind I wanna stay with him but I can’t be comfortable with her around....

My adult daughter tries to control my life and has been doing so since my husband (her father) passed away 9 years ago. I did go through a temporary rough patch after he passed but never lost control of my life except I lost a lot of weight and became dehydrated leaving me in the hospital a few times. She freaked out which I understand b/c I am her sole parent now. Once I started dating a few years after that, she became worse and constantly had to know about my dates. I dated someone on and off for about 6 yrs and she resented him so bad that I had to keep them separated most of the time. Sh...

Hi Long story I'll try to keep it brief. Earlier this year I found naked pictures of a woman on my boyfriends phone. These were very explicit and this was such a shock. When I looked at the girls Instagram account I seen that she works in the 'porn industry' she wasn't a normal girl like me. He followed her account also. So I confronted him. He completely blows up and is angry that I had looked at his phone, I ask him why he has them on his photos and he just calls me names and says that they get sent to him from mates from work and that the pictures 'automatically save' on his phone and th...

Hello everyone. I am new here, literally signed up a few minutes ago. I was busy browsing other websites looking for solutions to my problem and reaching a dead-end. I am not sure if my problem is the usual kind or if it's even allowed. But it's a problem and I'm a person, so I guess it qualifies. As the title suggests, I am stuck in a space where I can not seem to move forward and every time I take a leap I end up back where I started. I would obviously benefit from specific advice, but any general tips and understanding would boost my will to live. I am a university graduate with an Hon...

Please feel free to tell me that I’m being unreasonable or overly paranoid. I’ve got a girlfriend who seems to relish being the other woman, has no qualms whatsoever about being with married men or men in committed long term relationships. She also has a real love for being a martyr, and letting men treat her terribly. The other day, she was supposedly having a Halloween party. I show up with my newish boyfriend who I’ve been incredibly hopeful about, and first she answers the door in lingerie. A slutty Halloween costume to the extreme. And she was definitely showcasing assets that sh...

I am here to find the best woman in my life the person can love me with all of heard also the woman that i will cherish forever thanks....

My bf and I are in our 60s and have been together more than a year. While I'm aware he can be somewhat bossy and too harsh with words, he generally is very loving and kind. However, my adult daughter met him once last year and he came off as brash and bossy to the point where she cried. He was picking on our family cat, who has been a source of comfort for me and my kids since my husband (their dad) died 10 years ago. I asked him to apologize at the time and instead he made small talk with her. I decided to still stay in the relationship b/c everyone should have a 2nd chance but the few time...

Where do I start? Here goes. I find myself very destructive in relationships, this is on going and really hurts the other party. I have underlying trust issues, I'm the first person to admit that. I feel these stem from 2009 ish when my cousin apparently got close to my wife, who was then my girlfriend. He died in 2016 and 3 months later I was kicked out of the martial home. We had a daughter in 2010. But when he passed away he claimed on his death bed that the daughter I believed was mine was actually his. I approached my then wife and explained to her what was said and it w...

I am 53 dating a 47 year old Pam going very well until we are at an after party on Sunday she is drunk but announced she is leaving unless music changed. Very odd I thought and rude to hostess Charlotte She then says I am leaving and moves to kiss me. I did not like the unilateral way she decided to leave without me so I said " I am staying and withdrew my head" she interpreted this to mean I wanted to stay because I fancied the hostess Charlotte I chased her down the street I thought what a crazy over reaction over nothing but she left... next day she was saying "Any guy who pulls his head aw...