What Should I Do? (Posts: 3)|
Feb 16 2017 at 17:54 by Elzic RESPONDENTS:
Saige / Fritopie LAST POST:
Feb 21 2017 at 01:58
My husband is a great guy and very kind and people like to confide in him. It becomes a problem to me though, when unmarried women go to confide in him. He doesn't want to be mean or cause them problems by not listening but I feel like it crosses a line somehow. Just recently a mutual friend was on Skype with him and some other people and after everyone was in bed she messaged him about how she was having nightmares about a sexual assault in the past and she kept him up really late. The next morning he was very tired and I told him that she should talk to me or someone else and he said I shoul...
Falling In Love With Your Best Friend.. (Posts: 1)|
Feb 13 2017 at 03:40 by MoldyBread RESPONDENTS:
Fritopie LAST POST:
Feb 21 2017 at 01:46
For more than a year now, I fell in love with my best friend who is a girl but she is taken by someone else. I would always feel jealous and bitter when she talks about him. But she would always lead me on and give me signals that she likes me also, which she doesn't. I would ask her personally how she feels about me but I feel that it would be too painful for me too handle it. I really don't want to lose our friendship but at this point, I feel like i have too. She is the source of my happiness but also the source of my pain. I have never felt this way towards a girl before, there is somethin...
Parents Split Up (Posts: 116)|
Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS:
Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 20:03
My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy.
I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...
Love Or Marriage?? (Posts: 2)|
Feb 15 2017 at 07:02 by mumu RESPONDENTS:
Saige LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 14:29
Hi m married for 12 yr having 8yr old son...i recently fallen in love with other guy who is not financially sound or lets say can afford me n my son expenses...m just a hoousewife not earning...i love this guy n want to be with him.My hubby is earning really good salary...if i take divorce how will i manage myn my son expenses...Plz advice whether should i leave my marriage or forget this guy whom i love......
Roller Coaster Life... (Posts: 1)|
Feb 17 2017 at 01:37 by Princewaz RESPONDENTS:
Saige LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 14:04
I was a medical student at a UK university on my way to a successful life and career until I fell in love.My Grandfather passed away at a similar time which had a profound effect on my Father's mental Health.I am from a Asian family ( Pakistani) and as soon as he found out I was interested in a girl at uni he went nuts with me...so much so that I ended up suffering mentally because of the emotional pressure.The girl was the same as me...a Pakistani Muslim girl...but unfortunately my dad had got the idea that the girl had a bad reputation at uni...yeah she liked her partying but she was a very ...
Loosing My Friends And Feeling Alone :( (Posts: 1)|
Feb 20 2017 at 12:27 by Kayla_88 RESPONDENTS:
Saige LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 13:43
hello.. basically, I've had the same friendship group my entire life, I'm 27 now. I had an argument with one of the girls over basically nothing and now I've been totally extradited from the group, no one invites me to drinks or anything anymore and I feel left out and it's been like this for the past 2 months. I'm paranoid all the time now, if I see someone tweet something I think it's about me and I'm obsessing over what's being said about me behind my back. anyone been through anything similar or have any advice on how to get over it? Thank you everyone :) ...
Fiance And I Have Major Communication And Trust Issues And Need Help (Posts: 1)|
Feb 19 2017 at 06:29 by CriketBass RESPONDENTS:
Saige LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 13:32
There have been multiple things that both of us have done to lose the trust, and I'm convinced that its almost completely because of our communication with each other.
we are both hard headed and stubborn, but we both love each other so deeply that we are without a doubt ment to be together. we just need help with how to get past the past and work together on future communication....
Why Can't I Get Over My Ex?? (Posts: 1)|
Feb 19 2017 at 14:11 by reggie RESPONDENTS:
Kayla_88 LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 12:33
Please help me. I have been broken up from my ex for almost a year and I cant stop thinking about how things could have been different. I keep blaming myself and crying that he don't want me and will meet someone else. We have a three year old son together and were together five years. Most of it was not that great. Honestly I never felt loved and he put everything else before our son and me. I felt unappreciated for everything I did and ended up resenting him. This led to me yelling and not acting like my normal self. I know I'm not perfect but I just wanted to be wanted. I'm the summer he w...
I Need To Make Sure That This Lawyer Is Legitimate Help!!! (Posts: 2)|
Dec 23 2016 at 17:06 by Almog RESPONDENTS:
Razmataz / Rhalla_98 LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 11:25
Had an accident a couple of weeks ago and the medical bills have been outstanding i am looking for a lawyer who can help I found one but he was asking for an upfront cost and I cannot afford him. So, I am looking for a personal injury lawyer who can help me - I came across this page https://percymartinezlaw.com/miami-car-accident-lawyer/ and wanted to know if this is a legitimate lawyer aka trial attorney. How can I know? and who should I contact to verify, I am just very worried with all these websites and things like that! Help!! ...
I Can't Stand Him Being Around!! (Posts: 2)|
Feb 16 2017 at 19:05 by Lucylu RESPONDENTS:
Your Helper / JSC LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 03:07
A bit of history, married 25 years this year, 3 kids all still at home. 3 years ago he lost his job the day before I was diagnosed with a long term condition. He has had a few jobs but never survives the training as he knows nothing about computers. Put him on a course but he stopped after one term. He doesn't drive, Can t do DIY, doesn't do much with the kids and cannot even fix the bikes. He does do the ironing, triestries to do some housework and will walk anywhere. Work full time, run a small business and do a network marketing business. I do the DIY, I drive and I did the bikes. I take t...
Fiancee Says She Never Wants Sex (Posts: 3)|
Feb 15 2017 at 21:46 by StoneJack RESPONDENTS:
Saige / Moonchow / JSC LAST POST:
Feb 20 2017 at 02:50
We have been together for 3 years and living with each other for 2.5 years.
Our wedding is planned for this summer.
We have had sex maybe 3 times in the last 12 months.
She says she never feels like it and that nothing works down there.
She says sex is not important to her and I should get used to it or leave.
It's obviously very upsetting to be basically told she would rather I left her than to have sex with me.
I'm worried this lack of compatibility will create tension and stress and ultimately resentment.
I have tried to talk to her but she just gets angry.
She says I alway...
Future Or No Future? (Posts: 2)|
Feb 14 2017 at 15:48 by Rissalea RESPONDENTS:
manalone / Scopes LAST POST:
Feb 19 2017 at 04:59
Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for going on 5 years now. between the 2 of us we have 5 kids, one we have together. I am very much in love with this man and very happy with our life together, the only problem is that, well, he is still married. everytime i bring up when he is going to file a divorce he gets on defense and never answers the question or just tells me that it doesnt matter because he doesnt want to be with her. Now they havent been together since way before me but how can i see a future between the 2 of us if he is still legally married to another woman? ...
Needing Advice To Make A Major Life Decision (Posts: 1)|
Feb 16 2017 at 00:57 by Javaknowledge RESPONDENTS:
manalone LAST POST:
Feb 18 2017 at 23:45
It is been a long-time dream of mine to purchase a school bus and refurbish it and move back to the city of Portland Oregon which I love. I am disabled to a certain extent and I am on Social Security and am very low income. I am looking for work I'm sure I will get a job in the next month. However I have a chance to purchase a school bus for $1,200. Typically school buses for sale start at around 5 to $6,000 and usually they have seats in them. You have to tear those out. This bus already has the seats torn out and it is my understanding the only thing wrong with it is that it has a small leak...
Need Advice (Posts: 1)|
Feb 18 2017 at 07:17 by Shoal RESPONDENTS:
manalone LAST POST:
Feb 18 2017 at 23:24
I just came across an email of my husbands (yes, sometimes I look at his email becaue there have been trust issues) and it appears that he is trying to co sign a mortgage for his ex whom he shares a son with. This ex has never been anything but difficult and nasty since the day we started dating (5 years ago, married for 3.5 years). He's doing it completely behind my back knowing full well I would never agree, risking our livelihood (of which we are in vast debt as it is). In my opinion it's not okay to do that behind your spouses back for ANYONE let alone an ex who has caused huge issues.
Am I Overreacting Or Is My Dad Manipulative (Posts: 2)|
Feb 14 2017 at 00:13 by Rose02 RESPONDENTS:
alsosusan2 / Chatwme123 LAST POST:
Feb 18 2017 at 08:25
I am looking for some help and advice I guess.
I'm scared that this is all in my head and I'm being ungrateful and disrespectful. Basically my Dad is weird, like he's not physically abusive to me and only laid a hand on my brother a few times when we were younger as normal discipline.
But he does this thing and it's like he makes me feel guilty for everything. I used to think it was my fault and I must be over reacting or doing something wrong. It's like say for example I make pasta for dinner hell come in and say something like "oh I thought we were having chicken".(Even though no arr...
Love My Partner, Can't Deal With Her Kids... (Posts: 2)|
Feb 18 2017 at 03:53 by Frenchman RESPONDENTS:
alsosusan2 LAST POST:
Feb 18 2017 at 05:24
I am divorced with an 8 yr old daughter who lives in a different country. I have been seeing a wonderful woman for a year now. She is also divorced and has two young boys (4 and 6). The boys' father is still very present, and the boys see him and their mom (my partner) in a 50/50 sort of timeshare arrangement. I have met the boys' dad, and we get on fine.
The time I spend with my partner one on one is great. She's kind, caring, fun, smart... But her kids are turbulent and I really don't like being around when they are there, because the whole dynamic between her and me changes. Without exc...
This Loneliness Is Eating Me Up ! (Posts: 1)|
Feb 15 2017 at 18:11 by N Sbeep RESPONDENTS:
Saige LAST POST:
Feb 17 2017 at 22:18
I feel so useless and more like a parasite on planet earth . So lonely , always procrastinating ...nothing interests me now , not even the things that once added meaning to my life. I know that literally with every passing day , i am losing my opportunity to make my dream come true but i still dont do anything .. ...
Why Does It Still Hurt?!? (Posts: 1)|
Feb 16 2017 at 03:34 by FlyingWithStars RESPONDENTS:
Saige LAST POST:
Feb 17 2017 at 20:11
I have been with my husband for going on 6 yrs. When we met he told me he had a child that was 4yrs old with a female he was in a relationship with for 5 yrs, he also told me he was expecting a child just in one month with a female he was never in a relationship with and she means nothing to him. He was a great father and would do anything for the little girl he already had, but he warned me that the mother of the other baby soon to come was crazy and we would have problems with her in the future bc she has done something cruel to him. He told me that he told her he did not want no more kids, ...
Mistakes? When Will They Stop?? (Posts: 3)|
Feb 11 2017 at 08:46 by Super Mom 247 RESPONDENTS:
D_Train / alsosusan2 / Ed LAST POST:
Feb 17 2017 at 15:33
At my age, I for sure thought id out grow my cravings for wanting to use and drink, only to get myself into icky situations that I have often avoided. I suffer from depression and anxiety. I am a single mother who was never close to any of my family. My mother was also suffering from alcoholism, was able to get sober from alcohol. She later died of medical complications at the age of 55. I have struggled all my life to be loved by a man and friends who can get me as a person with my many character defects, but I catch myself purposely damaging the relationships due to distrust and physical or ...
Relationship End? (Posts: 18)|
Jan 3 2017 at 15:18 by Woozy RESPONDENTS:
Soulmate / honestruth / slowjoe83 / alsosusan2 / harry888 LAST POST:
Feb 17 2017 at 14:15
Well, im 28 and my girlfriend is 22. We have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and started to live together after 2 months meeting. Everything was great till 2 weeks ago, when we had a horrible fight. I know i haven't been a perfect guy but we always have had a jelousy problem. She doesn't trust me most likely at all. But for her, i even stoped talking to other females long time ago, cus i love her so much and that's not a problem for me. But every time someone contacted me, there was a problem, so i think i was getting distant cus lack of trust. That was wrong of me. Looking back i wa...
Feel So Hopeless (Posts: 4)|
Feb 8 2017 at 19:17 by zoolanderxxx RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq / alsosusan2 / Ajay Immanuel / Bold & Beautiful LAST POST:
Feb 17 2017 at 12:13
Im a 46 year old married woman. Our 3 kids are all at uni.one as been there five months the other two one and a half years. Been a housewife for as long as i can remember. I havent worked for years and when i did it was in childcare on and off when the kids where young. I feel so empty alone and a complete failer because i havent done much with my life and dont have any skills, i dont even have 1 friend. On top of this we are looking to move out to a new area but its been 5 months and even thou we have looked at quite afew properties nothing as really took our fancy even thou we are both despe...
Sharing Custody (Posts: 2)|
Feb 13 2017 at 13:22 by reggie RESPONDENTS:
Broost / RalphMcFadden LAST POST:
Feb 17 2017 at 10:03
My sons father wants to take him away for 5 days. He is three and we have never been apart for more than 2 days. I know he is allowed to take him. Emotionally I am not ready. I still want to be part of everything my son does. It kills me that I will have to miss out on these things. I feel like I have always put my son first, his father on the other hand is so selfish. But still I have to be away from him. It sucks. How do other single parents do it? Any advice would be great....
No Sex (Posts: 5)|
Feb 15 2017 at 04:16 by Cpr123 RESPONDENTS:
London / TroyC / Scopes / Soulmate LAST POST:
Feb 16 2017 at 21:19
We've been married for 28 1/2 years for the last 3 years there's been no sex. He says he has no drive at all. Won't seek help and expects me to be ok with it. Well I'm not don't know what to do. ...
Trying To Deal With 2 Years Of Constant Life Devistating Moments (Posts: 3)|
Feb 11 2017 at 00:45 by vickib22 RESPONDENTS:
alsosusan2 / Amaze0707 / 8Twenty8 LAST POST:
Feb 16 2017 at 19:11
im 22 and i have been through the worst two years of my life. i went through a break up at the beginning of 2015 who i had been with for 4 years. A month after that i found out that i had a benign brain tumor which was causing my migraines and dizziness which i had to have surgery for 5 months later.
i had the surgery and got back to work in 2016 and got into a long distance relationship in January of 2016 which was great for two months and then she dumped me for no reason then two months later i start getting blurred vision and headaches again and had to have two surgery's during the year.
Feeling A Litle 'first Time Nervous' (Posts: 2)|
Feb 14 2017 at 17:30 by G60 RESPONDENTS:
Kayla_88 / Soulmate LAST POST:
Feb 16 2017 at 14:13
Hi out there
I have just joined but am still a little jittery. Is it all really anonymous...
Nesting Doll Of Issues (Posts: 15)|
Jan 16 2017 at 05:06 by lostandfound RESPONDENTS:
TeenieG / ANOTHER VIEW / Soulmate LAST POST:
Feb 15 2017 at 12:10
I have four major issues in my life: life, wife, job and its also about a girl. Here it goes:
life: I feel like i am going through mid life crisis or something. I feel like i have generally lost interest in things that i used to like and i do not feel motivate about most things. I want to be happy but i don't feel like doing things that used i used to like doing. I used to be a very passionate and determined person but and i miss that passion and determination badly.
wife: I am 32 year old married guy. I have realized that I married my wife only out of guilt and I am not happy with her...
My Family Moved Into My Parents Home, Bad Choice.... (Posts: 4)|
Jan 15 2017 at 03:32 by anicole RESPONDENTS:
wintersun / susiedqq / alsosusan2 / HGA2017 LAST POST:
Feb 15 2017 at 01:11
Me and my husband are in our early twenties. We have been married for 3 years. We have a one year old son. We bought our first house two years ago and was doing very well financially. When I was pregnant I lost my job at a bank due to job cuts, and my husband works in construction so he got laid off due to no work, so we went through our savings trying to make due with bills. We don't have any family able to watch our son, and if I were to get a job I would be paying for child care so I currently stay home with our son.
About a year ago we decided to put our home for sale as it was becoming ...
Marriage Is On Rocky Ground...advice Please (Posts: 2)|
Feb 12 2017 at 11:09 by Nancy71 RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq / Amaze0707 LAST POST:
Feb 14 2017 at 04:23
My husband and I have 3 beautiful children (aged 8, 6 and 4 years of age). We have always had a bit of a tumultuous up and down type relationship but usually work things out. We are both eldest children in our families and both quite stubborn. Anyway, he just doesn't seem to love and accept me for who I am. I am a huge animal lover and I had 3 dogs when we met and were dating. I have recently become the owner of just the one elderly dog now and he has been quite sick. I recently bought a new puppy and the kids and I are completely besotted with him. However, my husband was very angry with me a...
Not Sure What To Do For Work (Posts: 3)|
Feb 1 2017 at 21:14 by DaveyD RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq / slowjoe83 / Glenn LAST POST:
Feb 14 2017 at 03:01
I worked as an IT contractor for over 2 years at a major hospital. I did all of the iPhone deployments/troubleshooting as well as computer deployments. I did not do that much support so I'm not that proficient in troubleshooting.
I was let go due to attendance a few months back. I missed time due to 2 herniated discs I have and could not even stand/walk. My manager was not very happy with this and let me go, had security walk me out non the less. This guy was a friend of my wife's too.
Now I am looking to get back to work and I'm not sure what to do. This was my onl...
Rego.insurance. Ownership Enquiry (Posts: 1)|
Feb 10 2017 at 13:59 by Chatwme123 RESPONDENTS:
Broost LAST POST:
Feb 13 2017 at 15:00
My x states his dad owns a particular vechile... and therefore not claiming as an asset... I don't have the rego number...only names and addresses. I'd also like to find out who is paying for the insurance on the vechile, if in fact there is any. Where would I go and how could I find out what vechile or vechiles are in fact owned by my x? ...
Into A Huge Problem Because Of Neighbors (Posts: 2)|
Jan 27 2017 at 04:42 by nicole RESPONDENTS:
D_Train / alsosusan2 LAST POST:
Feb 13 2017 at 08:41
Ok, so this is a really weird situation to be in. So, the thing is, we have been married for 5 years, and we are gifted with a beautiful daughter. But since some days, my husband is having a lot of work pressure and he is really tensed and worried about it. He is always gloomy and has gets irritated fast. Since our daughter’s birthday was coming up, I wanted to plan a party for her.
One night, when he came back from work, I asked him about it, and he got really angry and started shouting. I should have understood that it was not really the right time to ask, but I also got angr...
Sexual Dysfunction (Posts: 37)|
Dec 29 2016 at 05:28 by Irina RESPONDENTS:
Scopes / Soulmate / susiedqq / honestruth / Saffron / Wesley40 / OnTheRoad / wintersun / harry888 / alsosusan2 LAST POST:
Feb 13 2017 at 08:27
Thankyou for taking the time and reading my story. I need to share this unique situation I find myself in. I am married for the last 8 years. Married in 2009. Husband has sexual problems. He has erectile dis function. Cannot keep it hard. We could not consummate our marriage for good 6 years of our marriage. The little sex we've had is using Viagra but even that doesn't help much. He is a great guy otherwise, someone I love care about and respect . Quite a gem really. He is nice to me. Sometimes I feel he is compensating for this deficiency. I feel very dissatisfied with my sex life which is n...
Required To Dress As A Female At Work (Posts: 4)|
Jan 11 2017 at 15:52 by Sid196 RESPONDENTS:
whatislife / OnTheRoad / wintersun / alsosusan2 LAST POST:
Feb 13 2017 at 08:19
I have been offered a job which I really want but I'm required to wear a uniform like the other staff but it is a female uniform.I will be cleaning rooms in a hotel so will have to wear a housekeeing dress and apron.I need the job, should I just take it.I am a man and the manageress won't compromise on this...
Is She Gay? (Posts: 4)|
Jan 22 2017 at 22:23 by Brennie RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq / Broost / january thinker / alsosusan2 LAST POST:
Feb 13 2017 at 08:15
The guy I used to date a long time ago has a grown daughter now. I've known her since she was a teen, she's now 36. She's neither masculine or feminine, she's been wearing a pony tail for years, no makeup, and very tall. I ran into her a few years back and she introduced me to a girlfriend. Now the girl lives with her and her infirmed mother. They take trips together, sometimes work at her dad's job together. I know it's none of my business but it's something that I would like to know. I do not want to lose her dad's friendship that's important to me. Should I ask him? HOW do I ask him?...
Partner Lied And Now I Can't Trust (Posts: 43)|
Feb 2 2017 at 15:52 by Lee2017 RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq / Scopes / slowjoe83 / alsosusan2 LAST POST:
Feb 13 2017 at 04:51
Me and my partner have been together for 20 years. To my knowledge he has never lied to me, not about serious stuff anyway. He went on a business trip and told me he was gonna go by himself. He keep saying how bad it was gonna because no one else was going. I had a weird feeling about 2 days into the trip that something wasn't right with him, so I checked the phone records and saw where he had been texting a number I didn't recognize. The texting started the minute he left our house. Come to find out a female coworker had went on the trip as well and the texting was to arrange supper one...
Urgent Advice Needed About Coming Clean (Posts: 2)|
Feb 12 2017 at 19:30 by GLOUISE RESPONDENTS:
Susiedq / manalone LAST POST:
Feb 13 2017 at 00:10
I have been with my partner for over a year now but when we got together he made it clear he was very uncomfortable with my sexual history - he understood i had one but i think he prefered to think of me as just being his, im not sure. He has a somewhat more colourful sexual history than me which doesnt bother me in the slightest, as long as he's only being with me thats all i care about.
When we came to have the TALK just to clear the air over what we had previously experienced, i worried about telling him the truth about mine because i thought he wouldnt be able to handle it and would...
Single Moms Who Are Independant, Beautiful, Smart And Loving (Posts: 2)|
Feb 11 2017 at 09:18 by Super Mom 247 RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq / Scopes LAST POST:
Feb 12 2017 at 21:31
I am a single mom of three, who is mind boggled at the percentage of single men and women who are wanting that life partner and best friend, but cant seem to connect due to social media causing anti socialism. Lets not forget the strong independent woman who was left to raise the kids alone and grew as a woman who can manage the kids, the job, the bills,on her own. you'd think men would be proud to have such a fine flower by his side? right? WRONG! Men today are so intimidated by this, that they have caused themselves to grow lonely and long for that kind of woman, but too afraid of rejection...
Strong, Wise, Neutral, Experienced, Reasonable Opinions Needed!!!!!! (Posts: 1)|
Feb 11 2017 at 17:28 by IKeepSwimming RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq LAST POST:
Feb 12 2017 at 18:05
am going to make this as SHORT and SIMPLE as I can, so I don't lose any of your extremely valuable opinions!
Known someone since high school. Didn't date him back then, but had an innocent crush in High school.
Lost touch, as most of us do. Until the days of Facebook surfaced. In 2008, while going through my basic "suggested friends" list, I came across hos proile.
My heart instantly skipped a beat. I bee-lined to his profile, sent a friend request, and a couple days later, we were "friends". Browsing through his stuff, I saw he was married. And only 2 years married. My heart sunk...oh wel...
Marriage Trouble While Dealing With A Sick Parent (Posts: 1)|
Feb 11 2017 at 19:08 by Patman52 RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq LAST POST:
Feb 12 2017 at 17:49
My mom has been suffering from terminal brain cancer for the past five years. Within the past six months it has gotten progressively worse now to the point where she is basically unresponsive and on permanent bed rest. Probably only has a few weeks left.
The hardness part about this ordeal is strangely the logistics. I live about 250 miles from my parents so it's not like it's easy to manage helping my dad care for her while juggling everything else. My work has been gracious in that they have set me up with a remote access that I can use to get my work done remotely out of the office. It'...
Advice On Course Of Action.. (Posts: 2)|
Feb 12 2017 at 16:15 by QD RESPONDENTS:
susiedqq LAST POST:
Feb 12 2017 at 17:46
Although by no means serious in the grand scheme of things, I have a situation I'm not sure how to move forward with. Speaking to friends is tough as I believe they might infur identities no matter how cryptic I was and I'm not wanting to try to rationalise and give my thoughts at the moment in case I'm being too soft/tough etc with my current views and way I should approach things. As such I'll give just the facts.
I've discovered by chance (due to the fact that mac laptop's sync iMessages sent from other devices) that my brother in law has sent himself 3 intimate pictures of my partner ...