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[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 24 2021 at 04:12 by A.P. RESPONDENTS: Perspectivenumber7 LAST POST: Oct 24 2021 at 09:33

Ok so I have been single since February and I’ve been doing some online dating through tinder since then. I met my ex (together for 3 years) on tinder so I’m hopeful that I will find something new on there. At the end of September, I matched with this guy and we’ve been talking since. We’ve gone on multiple dates and I’ve even stayed over for a night at his place. We have really good...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySomething feels so off.... Or is he right it's all in my head
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 22 2021 at 00:06 by Brokenwings07 RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Oct 22 2021 at 10:16

Hello, I'm in such desperate need of honest input, as the last few months I feel overwhelmed with suspicion and the fear I'm becoming delusional. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years all in all he's a good guy he works hard and is a pretty good provider. However lately something feels really off. He seems very detached as if our relationship is the furthest thing from...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI wanna feel desired
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 19 2021 at 06:52 by NotAJudge RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Oct 22 2021 at 10:14

I am currently in a long distance relationship, he lives and works in a remote area with limited cell service. It is temporary, and the kids and I will be moving up there by the new year. It sucks because even though I don't have long, every day away from him is like a week. I love him and he loves me but I need more. Some days i want a friend other days i want a special friend. I feel fo...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[857 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard LAST POST: Oct 20 2021 at 15:23

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySmoking and relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 18 2021 at 19:19 by Mmmpies RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 18 2021 at 20:14

Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 years. We moved in together about 7 months ago. When we first got together she was a smoker. It didn't bother me too much despite never being a smoker myself. Without any influence from me she has made several attempts to quit but failed. Since we have moved in I've found that I'm struggling to deal with the smoking. I know it...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryI have a crush and I need help trying to make them like me
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 14 2021 at 02:15 by Ineedhelpliketf RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 20 2021 at 08:50

So I started liking this guy and I think uphe cute, funny, smart but stupid sometimes. And idk if he like me or not. Help me pls....

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I choose. Passion or Opportunity?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 9 2021 at 11:58 by Skidd RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Ineedhelpliketf LAST POST: Oct 14 2021 at 02:18

I don't know how to start my thread and also i apologize in advance for my bad english but hopefully someone can give me an advice. Here is my story. 2018. I'm a seafarer and our ship's route is at Sulu (one of the islands in the Philippines that is well known for terrorist groups). During my 1 and half month stay on Sulu , i was able to talk to some of the soldiers and learned a...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarried and confused.
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 10 2021 at 04:01 by Bloom565 RESPONDENTS: sputnik00 / NotAJudge / susiedqq / oldmainer / Ineedhelpliketf LAST POST: Oct 20 2021 at 06:26

I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy I met online. We both wanted to marry each other but the circumstances didn't work in our favour. Now, I'm married to someone else. But I miss my ex. It's been 2 and half year's of our break up and 2 year's of my marriage. I feel like I rushed the marriage because I wanted to move on. My husband is a kind, gentle man but my...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryToo embarrassing for the doctors
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 11 2021 at 17:20 by DB RESPONDENTS: sputnik00 / susiedqq / NotAJudge LAST POST: Oct 13 2021 at 18:33

I have an issue that I'm struggling with that I'm too embarrassed to see a doctor about. I've been in a fully committed relationship for the past year with a great guy. Since the start, everything between us has been great. Dreamlike really. The only issue we've had is sex. He isn't my first. In fact, I've been with plenty of guys, as a top and bottom and I'v...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryMooch living with me
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 10 2021 at 05:10 by Passingthru RESPONDENTS: sputnik00 / NotAJudge / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 10 2021 at 12:43

I have a friend that I've known for about 30 years. He's one of the few friends from that time that has stuck around through my own personal problems. He makes money by selling a particular product (not drugs) that was lucrative in the 90s but has fallen significantly since. He was a caretaker for an elderly gentleman, a WWII vet, who died last year (not from COVID). Because of the d...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to deal with a jealous friend?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 9 2021 at 01:26 by youthanalysis499 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 9 2021 at 19:37

A friend introduced me to her best friend and he seems to be closer with me. We hang out a lot and now she's often rude to me. She’s always busy, so him and I have been hanging out while she’s away. When she sees us she’s often cold to me or won’t speak to me unless I speak to her. She treats him the same though and tries to isolate me whenever she gets a chance to. I’m not really h...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 7 2021 at 10:37 by lety9284 RESPONDENTS: sputnik00 / lily31 LAST POST: Oct 9 2021 at 06:48

I have been seeing this guy for 2 months he just got out of a 20-year relationship because he cheated on her throughout their 20-year relationship. He said he changed that he will never cheat on anyone ever again. I believed him at first but it is hard to trust him when he is always making jokes about him being with other girls. He keeps saying we need to split up so that I could work on my jealou...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling ok after death and want to move on
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 8 2021 at 06:17 by Insight RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 8 2021 at 20:56

My husband unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack 2 months ago. We had only been married for 9 months. We had only been together for less than 2 years. Prior to meeting him I had been a single mom if 3 kids for 7 years. One of the first guys I ever dated after my divorce and not dating for 6 years I really fell hard for but the timing was way off. He reached out to me after my husband...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI can't deal with this anymore
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 8 2021 at 12:49 by Samuel Reis Lopes RESPONDENTS: sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 8 2021 at 20:25

Hello, my name is Samuel, 16 years olá. I have a problem I m gay and I have already accpeted it, but i talked to my parenta and they don t accept. Incmy school my friends bully me in the classroom and in the playground they are always me....

Drugs advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I being childish?
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 8 2021 at 10:32 by NotAJudge RESPONDENTS: sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 8 2021 at 20:22

guy I am currently committed to revealed that he occasionally chats with his ex. An ex he cheated on me with in the beginning after being together for 5 months, due to a nasty argument. He confessed to me, stating that I deserve better and left me for her. We didn't talk for months after that, he left voicemails stating that he regretted it, stating that she helped him financially at a time ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryNSA or something else?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 5 2021 at 18:17 by Finally free RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 10:31

I’ve recently returned to the UK after living abroad for over 20 years. After leaving an abusive relationship, I was reluctant to get into anything serious, so had a few NSA relationships which worked really well for me. I decided that’s how I wanted to continue, so looked into the situation here. Disregarding the time wasters, the flashers and the downright disgusting chat and pictures, I...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryParents are kinda sucky
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 23 2021 at 03:35 by LoveIsGod123 RESPONDENTS: Oma_squared / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 08:16

I am a teenage trans boy with ADHD and I've been falling behind on school. My parents are understandably upset but I think that they are taking it too far. My dad has gotten better with handling me over the past years, but it feels like my mom just doesn't care anymore. Every time I am trying to work on my current homework she gets mad at me for not working on the missing stuff, but when...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I bail out without knowing for certain the rumors are true?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 20 2021 at 22:00 by tooearlytogiveup RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 00:49

Started seeing someone I’ve know through a friend. After going out to a restaurant a got word from some folks that I he has had a troubled past with money and relationships (taking money from his prior spouses). Also heard from a friend who was out with him and some other folks that he was bragging about his sexual conquests and talking about a woman’s breasts in the same room at the restauran...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDid I do something wrong? Was it me? Please help!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 22 2021 at 15:45 by Drumstetra RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / ImNoAngel / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 00:42

Hi, I am driving myself mad here and need advice. After 20 years my marriage broke down and I've been on my own quiet happily for the last 9 months. I don't do dating websites or anything and although I felt it would be lovely to meet someone I wasn't going to go looking. 3 weeks ago a man messaged me, thinking I was someone else (probably clever line) anyway we got chatting and...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling of Emptiness
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 30 2021 at 12:16 by Oma_squared RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 00:40

Please I need advice on this matter. I have been in a relationship for 6months, it was wonderful. I got to experience love and I loved back whole heartedly. We talked about a future together. We were both in our finals in school and lockdown got us chatting and falling in love eventually. After final exams,my boyfriend went back home which was still in the same state. I was yet to go home becau...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI found 15000 image of other women on my partners phone
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 26 2021 at 00:50 by Tiredmomma27 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / R_W_98 / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 00:35

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8, we have. 3 year old son together. Our relationship was fantastic to begin but after the birth of our son I feel it went south, I gained around 80lbs that I have struggled to shed due to PCOS and my poor diet (not gunna lie) and our arguing increased. Around 5 years into our relationship he got a new phone and changed his password so I didn’t know it ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryBoy help
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 23 2021 at 01:17 by LoveIsGod123 RESPONDENTS: sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 00:31

Hi! I am a teen boy in middle school, and there is this other boy in a few of my classes. He is very pretty and openly gay and I think I might be developing a crush on him. The problem is I have no idea how to approach him. I am new at the school and am still trying to get to know everyone. I just don't know if he would even bother with the awkward new gay kid. I've seen him looking at m...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I over reacting to my husband using internet chat rooms to "flirt"
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 2 2021 at 22:31 by Sexychick RESPONDENTS: manalone / Checkmate15282 / susiedqq / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 00:30

I have been married 20 years. I recently found out that my husband has secretly been chatting and flirting with women in internet chat rooms. He tells these women how beautiful they are, or how sexy they look. He evan told 1 girl that in his eyes, she was the perfect woman. Things he has never told me, evan before we were married. He has sent photos of himself to these women (fully clothed), and w...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it finally time for me to cut off my grandmother?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 26 2021 at 14:07 by R_W_98 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / sputnik00 LAST POST: Oct 6 2021 at 00:27

Please bear with me; this is going to be a long one... A bit of context: Hi, my name (for the purpose of this forum) is R. I am 22 years old and am feeling particularly conflicted at the moment. I am wondering if anybody could give me some advice on this situation and I am completely lost. When I was 9 years old, my mother took her own life. There was no one major cause of this; she was a...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI need some advice regarding something that happened
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 22 2021 at 17:18 by TemporaryCorn RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / NotAJudge LAST POST: Oct 5 2021 at 09:45

Hey, dwellers of peoplesproblems. Hope you're all doing well. 16M, going on 17. Girlfriend is 16. Recently, I got into an argument with my father. This argument escalated into a more intense than usual situation. As I was driving with him trying to get some final hours in for my driver's test (which was supposed to be today), I did my best to respectfully point out that he was con...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow can I make a relationship w him work?
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 1 2021 at 23:16 by Flowers1991 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 2 2021 at 00:51

He’s married but left his wife and 7-year-old for faraway job - says he just felt like it, for $/selfishness/ freedom, and his family cried for him to stay but he ignored. He’ll go back whenever vacation time allows, but it’s really far so that’s every few months. I said well something must have been wrong in your marriage, there was some reason you left, and he insists nothing at all. S...

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I switch schools?
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 30 2021 at 23:49 by cornforkzoo RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 1 2021 at 00:55

I am currently attending a school which is strongly based on academics. The reason I am attending is because it gives me the opportunity to obtain a high-level academic diploma which could help my chances of getting into college. I am challenged (in a good way) in all of my classes. I have great relationships with almost all of my teachers, except for one, my foreign language teacher. I have th...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I wrong to delete my Twitter account?
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 27 2021 at 06:58 by TheLoneVaultDweller RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 29 2021 at 12:24

Okay so the long and short of it is that I deleted my social media so that no one could get a hold of me unless they had my email. I have been having issues with drama in the community I was hanging out with and I just can't handle the stress and bullying because I don't believe everything they think. Also it's filled with three year old drama like picking sides. I hope one day ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice please! Pregnancy after a breakup…
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 23 2021 at 07:44 by Sdj1991 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 26 2021 at 13:36

I broke up with my ex in may this year, we hadn’t been close in quite a while, I was very unhappy, he was unwilling to work with me to make things better. We were together 13 years. We have 3 children together ages 5, 3 and 9 months. I moved out temporarily to my mums until I can find suitable housing. I started chatting to an old friend whilst I was going through the separation and we have gott...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it ok to message an ex on Facebook
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 25 2021 at 15:30 by bcurry101 RESPONDENTS: Tiredmomma27 / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 26 2021 at 13:25

My ex broke up with me 13 years ago. We drifted apart, and it was amicable. My long time girlfriend/life partner (10 years) passed away a few months ago. We were never ones to be on social media, but I have recently set up an account and saw that my ex has an account. Is it ok to send her a message just as a friend to see how things are going? I have no idea of her relationship status and I am ...