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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAny serious man out here...
[1 POST] CREATED: May 13 2024 at 17:21 by RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 18 2024 at 22:04

PS: "My ex cheated on me," Suspect he didn't, though. Suspect there isn't any ex, let alone cheating one, and that you're just trying to come across as a woman who'd be grateful for anyone or anything (setting the bar low)...Unless you yourself are a predator on-the-prowl, of course (which you could be with a 'damsel in distress'/Dumb Barbie call like ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFailed again? CREATED: May 15 2024 at 19:01 by hhk8798

Hello! I have posted about my past relationship experience in great detail. @SoulMate I have missed you & I always remember you in my prayers. So, a month ago, I made a dating profile which is actually meant for marriage. The concept is that it is a religious app for singles to seek a partner. I got connected to some people but we our interests were different. 20 days ago, I matche...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMom is cheating on my dad. What should I do? CREATED: May 14 2024 at 20:45 by Themoonisbeautiful

I 22f recently discovered that my mother has been cheating on my father for over a year. This hasn't been the first time it's happened. When I was 15 I discovered my mother sexting someone who wasn't my father. I couldn't figure who it was at the time so I didn't say anything. However eventually I looked at my mother's phone and saw all the messages gone but her c...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend doesnt care about my feelings CREATED: May 14 2024 at 06:16 by ameliaj

So my boyfriend and i were not arguing he was outside doing yard work, but grabbed his phone when he went outside and left me inside to do whatever. I became hurt and irritated so i stormed off. Its been 8hrs and he asnt even called to see if im ok. Should i call him first, een though i would sound like a broken record?...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel like my life is falling apart
[239 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 15 2023 at 03:13 by Thea1 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / doggydilemma LAST POST: May 19 2024 at 10:23

My partner of 8 years went to prison almost 8 months ago. I am struggling with loneliness and trying my best to survive financially. I had found a roommate to help but that fell through in spectacular fashion. I really need someone to talk to. The alone is starting to weigh on me....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNo sex
[7 POSTS] CREATED: May 10 2024 at 15:21 by Timmons RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / seannzl_ / Totoy LAST POST: May 19 2024 at 10:10

I’ve not had sex for four days. Been arguing with hubby and sleeping in separate beds. We Started talking again and I said, Get yourself ready for sex, He said whoo as if he wasn’t bothered. It really hurt me because I thought he would want it then he said, You can’t expect me to just go on as if nothing has happened. We did not have it and I know he was tired but I thought he would want...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI cannot imagine a woman wanting to be in a relationship with me
[21 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 16 2024 at 20:43 by V6079 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Don_292 LAST POST: May 19 2024 at 09:42

I have been alone for years now. But I would really like to share a bond with a lady. However I have so much distain and self-loathing I cannot imagine anyone wanting to be with me. I'll see a lady who I really like and all I can think is that it would be terrible for her and I would ruin her life. I find myself caught in these cycles and despiring. I have tried to destroy these elem...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents split up
[1288 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard / chatthegreenmile / docPpineapple LAST POST: May 19 2024 at 07:13

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI cheat on my husband p. 2
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2024 at 20:06 by dessert_roes RESPONDENTS: Orange juice is #1 / Themoonisbeautiful / Soulmate LAST POST: May 19 2024 at 02:03

Hello, This is connected to thread: https://www.peoplesproblems.org/showtopic/12835/i-cheat-on-my-husband which I posted about 3 years back. In short: I was cheating on my husband with a younger man. I was doing it purely for the pleasure of sex. Things back then "fixed" themselves by having my secret lover go abroad for his master's degree. I went back to my husband and altho...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHavent heard from him in days
[1 POST] CREATED: May 14 2024 at 13:24 by romanblock RESPONDENTS: Fkeduplil LAST POST: May 15 2024 at 14:45

Hi all, im going to provide some context before actually delving into the issue. I met this guy last summer on a dating app we really hit it off but he was only in my city for the summer and ended up going back home. Since then we have texted everyday, we call, ive spoken to his family members, essentially our communication is really good. We arent “boyfriend girlfriend” but im so happy with w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryJealous of best friend
[123 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2024 at 23:37 by Wt51 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / nav LAST POST: May 14 2024 at 22:03

Ok so im 18 years old and recently my best friend- or my only friend moved away. I stayed at our hometown with my parents even though i wanted to leave but we couldn't afford that. I was initially jealous because of that but i got over it quickly. Anyways, my main concern right now is that i feel like i am missing out on life. I go to uni but i havent really met anyone i like. I have people ...

Money advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I keep inheritance from boyfriend?
[19 POSTS] CREATED: May 2 2024 at 05:45 by Fkeduplil RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: May 14 2024 at 03:10

So I’ll be coming into some money this year via an inheritance. It’s not a huge amount but it’s still a lot for me. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 18 months, he doesn’t work. I don’t either due to mental and physical health issues. I’m hoping to start up a little business with the money as well as travel with my daughter and buy things I need, furniture etc My parents keep telli...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI ghosted my best friends and think I regret it?
[30 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 4 2024 at 20:13 by Grig RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 13 2024 at 02:21

Hey everyone, I’m a new member who could use some perspective on a situation that’s bothering me. In January this year I ghosted my two best friends, and I think I regret it but don’t really know how to proceed (I’ll call them Marcus and Angie).This isn’t the first time we’ve stopped talking; back around June of last year we got into a blowout fight when one of our 17 y/o friends go...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI am involved with a married man
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 3 2024 at 15:47 by Aki RESPONDENTS: Fkeduplil / Soulmate LAST POST: May 12 2024 at 19:57

I am involved with a married man. I am a 25y/o women who has been approached by one of the colleagues 35y/o. He is married and has 2 kids. I do not have any feelings for him bt he does. He was pretty clear about it as well. And he do not want to harm me or create any problem in his wife's life as well. He just want to talk and spend time. Sometime if I give permission then wants to touch me...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryKeeps looking
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 9 2024 at 15:10 by Totoy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 11 2024 at 05:10

Went to an outdoor pool with my husband. Four women were in there and about 30 years old and some mums and dads with there kids. I saw my husband look in the women’s direction a few times and over my shoulder at them which upset me as he was there to have fun with me. I asked if he knew them and he said he didn’t and said, Your not doing this again are you. He denies he looked at them and ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGrief and abuse, advice needed!
[10 POSTS] CREATED: May 5 2024 at 11:07 by Hodgeson RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 11 2024 at 04:41

My mum passed away just 2 months ago and I was very close to her, since then i've had 2 breakdowns and all I wanted to do is just kill myself. 2 weeks ago my wife left because she had her own mental health issues to sort and left me alone to deal with that and my grief. But when going through the breakdowns i've emotionally abused my wife, I know I'm wrong, I said I blame her for my...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryLooking for helpful advice and opinions on my relationship?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 7 2024 at 04:34 by AmIStupid? RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 11 2024 at 04:05

Well, I'm in a relationship rut and I'm not sure how to go about anything anymore. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years The problems started early with insecurities from his side along with a porn addiction and hiding things from me. We fought and fought through this. This most hurtful part was him asking for a 3some. He was always bringing it up despite our issues. He...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm clueless about my career
[1 POST] CREATED: May 9 2024 at 06:02 by eryengesh RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 9 2024 at 14:55

Nowadays, I am in difficult situation. My dad has retired from his job 3 months ago. That means our family isn't getting monthly income. Worst thing is that I'm still unemployed at the age of 26. I am causing a huge burden on my parents. If I don't earn, family will be in financial crisis. I have to take action as soon as possible. I can't rely on my dad's monthly inco...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI just want to run away and hide from everyone
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 1 2024 at 23:50 by Wanna runaway RESPONDENTS: Hellokajdhxk / Soulmate / AmIStupid? LAST POST: May 8 2024 at 10:24

I’ve gone through a lot this past 5 years. My youngest daughter had 3 babies starting at 16. She had issues with the baby daddy so had to foster them with my sister. Now I have one grandbaby living with me. I was ready to be an empty nester. In the last 5 years I have stopped hanging out with all of my friends and family. I stay alone at home all day and never leave my house. It’s really takin...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend is leaving me. .. .... slowly
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2024 at 09:12 by Orange juice is #1 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Don_292 / Soulmate LAST POST: May 8 2024 at 10:21

So I've been in a wonderful relationship with a guy I've known since we were younger. After high school we got together and it's been this way for 6 months, like a said pretty great.Weve been on multiple trips together to see concerts and stayed in hotels for days with one another. We love eachother and he supports me in a lot of mental health related struggles and I try to reciproc...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs his ex really just a friend?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 1 2024 at 17:35 by Kittykitty1 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 3 2024 at 20:31

Hi everyone. I could really use some advice. So I have started a new relationship with someone. We have been together for almost a month now, so very early days. He's honestly very amazing. He's attentive, kind, makes me feel special, makes time for me, etc. He's pretty perfect and everything that I have been looking for in a partner but there is just one thing that I can't sto...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categorySelf-confidence
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 1 2024 at 01:36 by Hellokajdhxk RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 7 2024 at 07:30

I have low-self esteem and slowly it has gotten better. Lately, I just feel like no one likes me. For example, there is a group chat for college and when I ask questions they do not answer them or they dismiss what I have to say. I have been trying to get a job and it feels like they do not like me. I do not know if I am not well presented or if I say or do something that makes them dislike me. If...

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat to add up to physiotherapy from client or patient perspective
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 30 2024 at 19:11 by Fitverny RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 2 2024 at 16:16

What would you have wanted to be incorporated as far as physiotherapy, fitness and wellbeing is concerned. A problem or an idea to add on to an already existing intervention or services that could be helpful if provided....

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryI failed two college courses this semester. I am scared to tell parent
[1 POST] CREATED: May 1 2024 at 23:45 by slooshhh12 RESPONDENTS: Hellokajdhxk LAST POST: May 2 2024 at 00:43

I am a biology major in my third year at college. I changed my major last year to biology. Ever since I have been getting really bad grades. I hate doing homework, I don't have the motivation so I failed two classes for the first time. I know I should tell my parents but I am so scared that they are going to cut me off and tell me that I shouldn't be in college. I also think I shouldn�...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryAfter four years of isolation, I accepted that I would die in my room.
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 27 2024 at 06:20 by sadsadguy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2024 at 03:00

I've been hiding away from my room for 4 years, this started around 2020, during the pandemic era, I started becoming a shut-in at sixteen, now 18, I dropped out of high school the moment I became a shut-in, the reason was the constant bullying with my appearance, I hated how I looked, and staying in my room all day during the pandemic has made my appearance even worse, so when I noticed how ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage rut
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 18 2024 at 22:59 by Middle age mom RESPONDENTS: Grig / manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 29 2024 at 02:03

My husband and I have been married 20 years and have 4 teenagers. He makes a very good living and I stay home and manage the house, kids, and everything in our lives. He works long hours and fields calls, emails, and work problems outside of his hours. He wants to spend the time he’s not at work decompressing by playing golf, sitting alone in his tv room, or hanging out with his nonmarried buddi...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryProposal ultimatum / am I overthinking / or in toxic relationship?
[89 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 2 2024 at 14:06 by Abcd123 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 27 2024 at 02:23

Hi, So I've been in a relationship for 3.5 years. Upa and downs of course. Though for a while now I've been feeling trapped/ stressed, so been doing research and I don't think I am respected and maybe with someone with a narcissistic tendencies. I feel I have been love bombed and then screamed at. My needs have not been met for the last few years, loads of little things that ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI love boyfriend but not in love, I stay so I won’t be lonely
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2024 at 19:49 by Fkeduplil RESPONDENTS: Don_292 / Grig / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 26 2024 at 20:23

We’ve been together for 1.5 years, he’s great, and I enjoy our time together, unfortunately I don’t think I’m in love with him. But I don’t want to finish with him because I’ll miss him, and I will have no one to talk to at all. I don’t have any friends as such, certainly no one I can confide in. I know it’s selfish, but I don’t know what else to do. I feel we are more like best ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI have severe social anxiety
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 23 2024 at 09:35 by timeless.timer RESPONDENTS: Grig / Orange juice is #1 / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 26 2024 at 20:15

I have a severe social anxiety even though I have been to therapy for 4 years now. I am still in school and my grades are going down because of it (I can't participate in class at all) I have only 2 friends. One goes to a different school, the other I don't like anymore. I want good grades so bad and a lot of friends and I just want to have fun. But all of this I can't have and I ...

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryI have no clue about my illness
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2024 at 02:04 by eryengesh RESPONDENTS: Grig / L212K LAST POST: Apr 26 2024 at 04:47

26 year old male here. I have very strange symptoms which I cannot even explain properly. I don't know how do I get rid of it. I experience these symptoms most of the days which occurs sometimes a day. I have this problem since 2.5 years. Symptoms – I feel like I have to manually control my breath which makes me feel really uncomfortable. I fear I may lose control of my breathe and s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIn a dilemma
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2024 at 12:56 by NeedHelp12 RESPONDENTS: Grig / Don_292 LAST POST: Apr 26 2024 at 04:43

I am in a pickel and I need help .so here is my story. I met my husband 2018 online and we got married in 2019 December but since we live in different continent's it's hard for use to see each other. When we started we are so much in love but still we didn't know each other that much but it wasn't a problem for me because I trust easy. So on 2022 he was arrested and he has bee...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryTaboo sex thoughts. Why am i like this?!
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 23 2024 at 16:16 by Fkeduplil RESPONDENTS: Grig LAST POST: Apr 26 2024 at 03:57

Ok this is really hard to confess too. When i (f) masterbate i think of my step dad. I seem to really get off on it. I’m not attracted to him, he is very old now. But he has been in my life since I was very young, I’m in my 40s now. And no as far as I’m aware he has never touched me in any way so it’s not like trauma making me do this. I must be really messed up in the head i guess. I just...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused over 2 year situationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2024 at 01:57 by confusedmente RESPONDENTS: Orange juice is #1 / Don_292 LAST POST: Apr 25 2024 at 10:19

Hi everyone, I really need help with my situationship cause all my friends don’t want me to talk about this anymore. In Sep 2021 I met this guy at the gym and we started hanging out. We didn’t really like each other and we both started dating other people. I moved abroad in Jan 2022 and right before moving, we both realised we were starting to like each orher. He started dating someone els...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy Husband has Fallen in Love- and I don't know what to do.
[13 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 9 2024 at 00:29 by IdScreambut...No RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Grig / Don_292 LAST POST: Apr 23 2024 at 22:00

Hello, So this past week I thought my Saturday night was going to be peaceful and full-on me replaying Final Fantasy 13, but nope. I got on the shared desktop and saw my husband Discord up. I don't snoop, I had a hovering mom and privacy has always been a big part of my MO, but tonight I did. I wish I hadn't, but it only worsened the things I felt. I felt bile in my throat and my eyes we...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know anymore, I'm just alone
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2024 at 00:08 by Sincere Human RESPONDENTS: Grig / Don_292 LAST POST: Apr 23 2024 at 21:58

As the title says, I'm just lost and very alone. I can't make friends, I don't have anyone to talk to and noone is willing to give me a chance, even though I try my best. I'm used to drown in despair and sadness, but it's getting to a point that it's not ok anymore, even for me. I just,... I don't know if I'm even worth it. What did I do to deserve this? I...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryCalling out bad behaviour
[20 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 7 2024 at 12:04 by Galadriel RESPONDENTS: macy / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 23 2024 at 06:33

I felt really appalled by a friends lack of emotionally maturity, her disrespect for people in general, her tantrum throwing when l tried to establish boundaries, unwillingness to view any perspective but her own, her unwanted and dodgy advice 'to never explain, never apologise' and rigid opinions that were decidedly right wing, completely uninformed and bordering on conspiracy theory. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to help him find a purpose in life
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 20 2024 at 13:33 by L212K RESPONDENTS: Grig LAST POST: Apr 21 2024 at 19:02

Hi everyone, I am new on here. Thank you for taking the time to read this post. I am looking for advice to help my husband. I will try to make it as short as possible. My husband and I have been together for 7 years and are very happy together. The thing is he has a lot of childhood trauma. It is one of those situations where his brother was the golden boy and anything my husband ever did was wr...