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Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryI Don't Know If I Should Stay With My Husband (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jun 19 2018 at 09:50 by Dunnowhattodo RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Jun 20 2018 at 18:11

So in January after 89 days of conversation after conversation my husband admitted he had unprotected sex with a stranger in 2015. 89 days of lying to my face watching me break down, knowing in my gut I hadn't got the truth. In October he admitted to chatting to girls online, i pushed him a bit and he said he would write me a letter, so 10 hours of anxiety and worry and stress ensued while he wrote, in the end he handed me a letter which basically blamed me for all of our problems. He admitted entertaining himself to my friends pictures on FB and living in a fantasy land including po*...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryDeadbeat Mother (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 17 2018 at 16:31 by NikNik RESPONDENTS: Dunnowhattodo / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 19 2018 at 13:11

Well I just graduated high school and I’ve been working since my sophomore year. My mother doesn’t do anything for me but she does everything for her other 3 kids. I literally work my ass off for EVERYTHING I OWN! I saved up for a car that had unfortunately too many problems that I couldn’t fix and I can barely get a ride to work from her. Since graduating I’ve spent almost every min I possibly could at work because not only am I going out of state to school I have to buy everything on my own because she doesn’t do anything to support me. I’ve had good grades and I’m on a sch...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy Did She Betray Me? What Is Wrong With Me? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 19 2018 at 08:09 by Proactivepotato RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 19 2018 at 13:05

My best friend of 1 year and I moved away for college together. She was depressed and suicidal and she wanted to go away and start a new life with me. Her parents weren't helping much so I offered to support her until she was stable. I gathered money from my old jobs and helped her with our dorm,food,leisure etc. But when we arrived everything went down.We would fight as she was ungrateful and demanding, and I had an alcohol addiction, and I was recovering from some trauma. Sometimes she’d slap me or bite me really hard which drew flashbacks on me. I was feeling traumatized by my past, and...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryDid I Make A Mistake Having Sex With My Ex?? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 18 2018 at 15:53 by Trouble RESPONDENTS: Dunnowhattodo LAST POST: Jun 19 2018 at 10:44

Broke up with my ex-boyfriend about six weeks ago and I managed to block his number and email. The truth is that I really missed his touch his love and our fabulous sex life. I decided to sign up for some online dating recently and out of the blue I received a response from the site from my prior boyfriend. I tried to ignore it but one thing led to another and after several days I agreed to meet with him to bring some closure to our relationship since the break up was quite abrupt. I broke up with him after I learned he was lying about his finances again. He told me in that he has changed ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryJust Need To Vent A Little (Posts: 8)
CREATED: Jun 15 2018 at 06:05 by Physics Enthusiast RESPONDENTS: Minipizza / MamaBear / susiedqq / Scopes / Christy LAST POST: Jun 18 2018 at 08:07

Been married 17 years, together for 22. My dad died seven years ago and I started falling into a pretty deep depression. My wife put up with it for about three years and then decided the best way to handle it would be to start dating other men. Between willful ignorance and wishful thinking I was able to ignore it for 3 years. Then she started actually bringing her last boyfriend to my house like he was "just a friend". My hackles had been up for a long time but I finally decided to no longer ignore what I was picking up on. Last November I asked her if there was anything she needed to tell...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryI Think She Is Using Me To Make My Frined( Her Ex) Jealous (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 17 2018 at 21:25 by 500169 RESPONDENTS: Physics Enthusiast LAST POST: Jun 18 2018 at 08:06

So after my friend (Male 22) left her girl ( Female 19) for another one she suddenly started to text me (Male 20) and ask me if i knew that he was cheating on her. Ofcourse i wouldn't lie to her and told her what i knew. We started to text all days after that. After some months her friend tried to make me kiss her at a party( where she stole my phone and snapped her cleavage to her ex) after that i always got a feeling that she uses me just to make him jealous and i wouldn't want my friend to hate me ( now he does). So after that she started sending me some half nude photos and she made me ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents Split Up (Posts: 338)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal LAST POST: Jun 17 2018 at 21:38

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryStruggling After A Surise Break-up (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Jun 16 2018 at 10:31 by BettyBee RESPONDENTS: Physics Enthusiast / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 17 2018 at 21:01

My boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me a almost 6 weeks ago and I'm really struggling. We had plans for the future and I thought we were finally going to be able to get some alone time and actually live like a real couple. We both live with our parents at 29 (me) and 24 (him) so I was feeling suffocated. He said he hasn't been happy in a long time and he's tried to be blunt with me in the past, but from where I'm standing these conversations have not happened. He doesn't want a baby anytime soon, even though he was the one always saying "should we start trying now", and so on and so fo...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum categorySuffering Relationship With Alcoholic Partner (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jun 2 2018 at 23:36 by Kat123 RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / 8Twenty8 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 17 2018 at 12:47

I want to leave my relationship, even though I love my partner dearly. He is a sweet, kind, soul, no abuse when hes drinking. Just that the drinking is excessive, and dominates any normality I hoped to have in this relationship. Plus his health and business is suffering from the excess. I need some way to do it without killing him. I can't carry on with this lifestyle, he neglects me for his booze, no companionship conversation when hes drinking. Hes just not himself, and I don't like him this way. EVERY DAY!...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy Can't I Find Happiness In My Life Despite So Many Efforts? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 31 2018 at 20:08 by parent728 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear / Tulowitz LAST POST: Jun 16 2018 at 14:38

Been widowed for several years. During this time I have dated a few men. Of the men I’ve dated one in particular was in a serious relationship. He wanted to marry me but I broke up with him a few times because I found him to be untruthful regarding his finances and he was irresponsible when it came to his money as well. I reconciled with him on a few occasions only to find that he couldn’t really change to the point that I had peace of mind. However I still love him and I know that he feels the same because although I try to block his number and his email and any other way for him to reach...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryUncertainty Over New Relationship (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jun 8 2018 at 07:14 by Altreal RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Skinnygirl2 / celebritydiscodave / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 16 2018 at 13:15

I recently started spending time with a single mom from work. It hasn't been going on for very long, only about 2 weeks, but I'm already feeling confused about whether or not we're actually dating. We've already had some great times together and her kids are adorable. Part of the issue is that she seems uncertain whether her and her ex are completely done. Aside from that, her household is kind of crazy and busy with lots of family members under one roof. I can't tell how I fit into things yet. Maybe I keep taking things too fast. I realize that her family comes first and that she ne...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryUnhappy Housemate (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 31 2018 at 20:33 by Amister RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Jun 16 2018 at 05:04

Hello, 2 months ago my ex boyfriend broke up with me after not long moving in together. I wanted to stay where we lived but needed to get a housemate to help cover the rent. I ended up renting the room out to a girl, around my age, who seemed nice enough. On the day she came to view the house, she came along with her parents, who asked me lots of questions about myself, to the point it felt like i was in an interview! After they toured the house they told me, they would take the room. She moved in pretty quick and on the day there was a strange moment when her mum told me, she and her...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I Being Too Paranoid? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 11 2018 at 16:56 by Escape RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 15 2018 at 22:58

Never had a first date like this... Met someone online a few weeks ago. We spoke and texted almost every day. Since we live 2 hours apart, we met somewhere in between last weekend. We made a full day of it (from lunch through dinner and going to a winery in between). As soon as I met him, he hugged me and started holding my hand. A short time later, he kissed me on occasion. He kept on saying he was happy to meet me and wanted to see me again soon. Then he said some things which I think is strange: He is a dentist and asked me if I whiten my teeth ; when I replied I only used whitenin...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I Leave Now And Cut My Losses? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jun 5 2018 at 15:22 by soconfused12345 RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / Altreal / celebritydiscodave LAST POST: Jun 10 2018 at 13:38

I have been dating the same guy for over two years. He is a wonderful man and says he loves me. Since we live very far apart at least 75 miles in each direction, I had brought up the issue of living together over the winter. He seemed receptive to living together. A few months ago I started to ready my house for sale with his knowledge and he did not say anything. It finally occurred to me that he did not want to live with me at this time. I approached him about the subject and his response was that he was going to wait until the lease ends on his medical practice which is going to happen in 2...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryI Think I Saw This Girl I Used To Knew / Liked Back In College? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 7 2018 at 04:33 by danny1998 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jun 8 2018 at 06:29

so the other day when i was driving around town with my friends so i was waiting for the red light to turn green & the other cars from the other street were driving by & i saw this red car driving by & i saw someone looking at me while driving by & idk i think it was this girl who i knew in school& i had a crush on her & i havent seen her ever since i finish college but idk i might be imaging things lol....