What should I do?

cought my boyfreind on a chatroom, setting up a meeting with another woman, who he did not know. she asked about his girl freind (me), and he told her that i would not no about the meeting. he also gave her his cell phone number want her to have phone sex as well. when he knew that i found out it all, he says that he was messing about, but did not deny anything. he says he loves me and cant live without me, which makes me feel terrible. we have children as well, they dont know what has happened as they worship their dad, and would hate him for this. please help.

Well he may just be messing around. i think you only have to worry if he starts making up stupid excuses n stayin out late, or receiving strange telephone calls ect.If it really bothers you ask him not to go in chatrooms anymore.

hi sugar when you said you have two children together thats just not rigth is it? If some one says he loves you and all that bullshit he wouldnt mess you around plus when he set up to meet this another woman and gaved his number thats when I call It CHEATING!!!!ask him again if he really want to be with you or just for the sake of the children?

hi, thankyou for your reply, he says he does want to be with me for me, and that he is a fool and all the rest of the crap that you get. he did not realise that it was me that he was talkng to, it was just sheer fluke, and i gave loads of key words that it was me but he still did not twig, he was wanting to be with this other person there and then. he got one hell of a shock when i let on it was me and he was busted, it dosent help as our daughter is being bullyed and i am in the middle of sorting it out. thankfully we do have our own places.lots of thinking time, thanku for your post, i will keep you updated, from a pissed off u.k mumx

your boyfriend is stupid for doin this but the point is do you think he is ohnestly really sorry and are you absoloutly POSITIVE that he wont do it again and that he loves and cares for you if so and you feel the same way you should try to make and build back up your relationship but if you dont at all feel like that then there is no way you should give him another chance ofcourse your children dont need that in their lives but think what it would do to them if you were upset and uncomfortable around their dad they would soon catch on that there is some tension as the song says: listen to your heart