Should I leave or stay

we have been dating for 5 months he told me he want us to have a child, but i suspected that his cheating so ive been scooping his phone & i found messages that his been sending o ther girls. i asked him he denied, so now i dnt know what to do

dear i have the same problem.. but because i loved him.. im trying to understand and be better than his girls... if he cahnged then dump himm... have new boyfriend better than him.. which i cannot to to myself.. -- stupid girl---

Dated for 5 months and he wants a child? If you hadn't checked his phone, would you have given him a child? He is probably asking the same to the rest of these girls.

Why the heck are you even thinking about having children? Isn't your relationship in enough trouble without making things worse? My advice is simple: forget children, why pass on your suffering to your children? They dont deserve that. Nest, you have one of two choices - either trust he is telling the truth and love him; or dump him if you think he is lying. Without trust you can NOT have love - its that simple.