Just need to get this out

Let me first off say I just want to get this off my chest. I have been married for 14 years but the past 5 years my marriage has been more of a roommate situation(we sleep in separate rooms and have no physical contact with each other)..so for the past year I have been seeing someone else who treats me with love and respect, but also during that time mine and my husband's very close friend's bf has been flirting with me and wanting to hang out just me and him, and yes we did end up getting together.