Boyfriend sex chatting online

Hi I have been with my bf 3 yrs. He has not worked since he was 21 he now 40. I work to keep roof over his head. He was arrested for sex chatting with a 14 yr old he thought was 21. He was chatting while I was at work. I feel betrayed this man has become selfish in bed doesn't touch or try and please me sexually.Ots one way street. I had one night stand with a guy who came onto me.He mafe me feel desirable.I know it was wrong. I am no saint should I be upset that bf is chatting sexually to girls 20 yrs youmger than me

Hi susiedqq thanks for your response. He said girls profile said she was 21.I dont accept the peadophile title. There are lots of issues in the relationship.Everyone says I should leave.He is a leech.