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I feel emotionally detached from my current relationship due to my past relationship of 5 years. It ended badly with harsh words being said on both sides. She was talking to someone else and then left me. What to do if im still hurt by it?

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The first thing people are usually going to tell you is that things take time - to just focus on yourself and being alone for a while. Eventually, in time, you'll meet someone who is a better match for you, but the key is living your life. I know it's not quite that simple. The funny thing is, some people will be easier to get over than others. A relationship that lasted for a while like yours' is always rough to get over initially. But I've found that when you're in a relationship that's run its full course, it's actually easier to move on from with the passage of time. When things end abruptly or never get the chance to materialize I think that can be more challenging. You're kind of left with this unfinished business or unanswered questions, and you'll keep wondering why things didn't work. I think if you're detached from your current relationship you should re-evaluate things. Do you like your current partner? Are you ready to be with someone else? I don't think there's a set amount of time to be single before dating someone else, but you probably know better than anyone if you're ready.

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