Love hurts

Please help! I was dumped by EMAIL and the reasons that my ex used to dump me made no sense and keep ringing in my ears and getting me down. Let me tell you a bit about us, we'd been seeing each other for a little while before he asked me out. He was kinda fighting his feelings because he didn't really want to do a long distance relationship, think he likes convenience. That is why it took my aback slightly when he asked me out telling me how much he liked me. Everything was really good until 3 weeks later he dumped me by email saying "I don't feel the way I should", I don't think I'll ever feel that way about you" and "think ur taking the girlfriend boyfriend thing too seriously". This hurt and shocked me because none of it makes sense and was really out of the blue. Funnily enough he was the one making a big deal, at every oppoertunity, that we were now a couple. I think I wouldn't find it so hard if we'd had a bad relationship but it was reasonably new. Also wouldn't feel as bad if it wasn't him doing all the chasing...I was playing it very cool just going with the flow. I also found out just days after he dumped me he's back with an ex, his childhood sweetheart. They broke up 8 years beforehand but had been speaking again more recently. People who know the situation think he dumped me for her but didn't want to mention her in the email so he could still be the "good guy". I wish the whole thing hadn't had such a bad reflection on me as a person, makes me feel very unloveable...oh should mention he is the first guy I ever let get close to me hence the reason I'm finding it so hard.

Yes Love does SUCK! Guys SUCK! And i'm sorry you had to go threw this. I know how it feels and time does heal i know that means nothing now but it will. And also, did you ever reply back to him after that email? Or was that it? And do you think his girlfriend (the one he got back together with) made him write that email or something? Or maybe she was there or she did it.. Some guys try looking like the one whos 'layed back' and he could of been making you out to be the 'clingy one whos taking things way to seriously' ya kno ? other then that you really didn't put to much info so its hard to come back with advice when we (the readers) dont understand the situation. Keep ya head up and if he tries messaging you DO NOT ANSWER (even though you probably will.. most girls do..)