I’m not crazy, he is

Married 20 years. My husband has cheated before and we separated for a few months in the first years of our marriage. We worked it out. A few months ago my husband met a woman, a few years younger than me, who is blind and in poor health. They started talking on the phone behind my back. I found out by accident. Within 2 weeks of finding out he asked to separate and is sleeping in the office. Talking to this girl for 16-18 hours a day. He says they are only friends. Says he’s never slept with her. He spends the night at her house once a week. He’ll leave at 7pm and come home at 5:30am before the kids get up. He says he separated because we don’t have enough sex, i don’t clean enough (he’s the stay at home parent. I work and go to school full time). I made him feel like Cinderfella. I think he’s cheating and he says I don’t want him to have friends or a life.

HI- Time to seek legal advice. Why are you putting up with this nonsense? What office is he sleeping in? How old are your children? I would think the stay-at-home parent would be responsible for house cleaning; since you're working and going to FULL TIME! You may want to get some counseling as well to see if there is a chance in saving your marriage-(if that's what you want). Time to open new checking/savings account in your own name- protect yourself.