Sex is always on his terms

Any advice would be great right now! Bare with as I have never posted on a forum before. I have been with my Boyfreind just over 7years and love him very much but I find it very upsetting that we only ever have sex when he wants it! Which is usally an saturday morning thing and I can set my clock by it. There is not much forplay its just a few kisses and then he's good to go. The thing is while some people might think at lease your getting it (which by the way im not every week) Iam finding that I am starting to get up early to avoid the situation! dont get me wrong I want to make love with him I jsut dont want to set my clock by it, I have tried talking to him about it but as far as he can see he's happy with the way things are so there is nothing wrong (or at least thats how he puts it across) I have also tried to spice things up and put nice underwaer on for him of an evening come downstairs and taken my dressing gown off and preety much been laughed at (he says he's laughing at the situation and not me) but has always said Im not in the mood when ive done this, leaving me feeling very low unloved and really rather stupid I have spoken to him about this but its always the same nothing changes. I'm at a loss really I know after 7 years things arent going to be as hot and steamy as the were in the start but im only 34 and feel I've been put out to passture!

I realise this sounds really immature but try hiding your phone, going to the shop 3 times a day or for random walks...it's completely innocent obviously but sometimes men need testing cause they are so hard to understand and they are all liars so no point in just asking...if he starts getting funny and asking questions at least you know he cares...if not i'd seriously consider the fact that you may only still be together due to routine as sad and crushing as it is it happens SO much!! You should never put up with being turned down by your own man especially when it's obvious you have ade the effort just for that reason! if you want to chat my email is [e-mail address removed]...p.s. yes 88 means i'm only 24 but I was with my husband for 8 years until he died and am now in the best relationship ever with a perfect man (who gives it to me at least 5 times a week still after one and a half years lol) x

It is really a touchy subject for anyone to feel rejected in anyway by their partner.This world is forever changing,it sometime seems no one really cares about each other like they should.My heart goes out to you wish that you were not treated like this.