Is it me?

Me and my boyfriend have been together officially for a few months. Hes mid 40s I'm mid 30s. We dont live together yet and dont get time to ourselves. I'm constantly being pied. My self esteem is taking a battering. Help!

I just answered in the other post, but let me know if you want to chat (maybe in the chatroom) to get some more info and give you a better advise.