Girl at work

Hi, I have been working at my current employer for a yearnow and twice a week I work with this girl. I work in a small shop so we spend quite a bit of time together. I have always found her attractive, but now I am wanting to be more than friends. She split up with her b/f just before I started working there, and she told me about this in my first month. She has started recently telling me about her family and any problems she has. I know she has told her sister that we get on really well, which we do. While we are working she watches me and smiles when I look at her. Recently she has started playfully pushing me over. She also thinks she is fat, which she isn't, because her family tell her she is (because her twin sister tinner than her). She told me the other day about a guy who she does not fancy hitting on her. I am unsure on what to do. I feel like I need to act on my feelings because it is driving me crazy, but I don't want it to come between our friendship and make work awkward.

Sounds to me like she likes you. She is giving signs with a little flirt here and there, she's saying she's fat because she is fishing for a compliment from you or hoping you will say SOMETHING to give her a hint that you may like her in that way, and she was also sure to tell you about the break up. There are tactful ways of telling her how you feel without jeopardizing your friendship, you just have to figure out a way. Tomorrow is VALENTINES DAY you know...what a perfect day to try! Best of luck!

Look Bluemoon, let's have a coffee and sit down with a sweetie. I will take you under my wings and play the devils advocate, lets say she doesn't fancy you and maybe you are reading to much in between the lines and ready for the sheets when she may be a big flirt and read 'The Rules' and is a master seducer who knows how to squeeze balls without delivering the goods but keeps men or boys hanging and paying for dinner and the house bills like rent ie, a gold digger. Then, my fair child at games that women play you need to be a player. A player is a player who cannot be player - a master. Therefore learn to a master at the game of chase and conqueur. Checkmate.