Stuck in the middle

Recently like 5 months ago and ex of mine from when I was 18 came back into my life. When we first reconnected I never in 1000 years thought anything would come of it but I noticed the more time I spent with him the harder I began to fall. He told me in January that he had fallen in love with me which was exciting news but there was 1 problem. I am married. My ex has recently moved 15 minutes from me to be with me and wants me to leave my husband and start over with him but I am scared that if I do this he might think I would do the same to him and I will be all alone. What do I do? I am not in a happy marriage and my ex makes me remember what exactly love is. I feel complete when I am with him. Please help me and dont judge me ... Thanks Guys !!!!

If you're not happy in your marriage then divorce. just make sure its truly what you want. And i'm sure the guy you're seeing wont think that. The only way he will break it up is if you eventually starts seeing another woman and likes her better. (kinda like what you're doing.) But if he had an issue with it he would let you know now, he wouldnt be telling you to break it off. Besides why drag your husband around in the dirt, set both of you free so you both can go your seperate ways.

At what moment did you think it was okay to hang out with your ex while you were still married? Do you think your ex will be withyou for the long hall (eventually marry you)? If so, have you thought about how your current actions will effect a potential relationship with the ex and vice versa? who say's the ex won't talk to his ex if you end up together? If someone is okay with when you start something bad it always ends bad.

If someone is okay with courting a married woman he could do it again behind your back. Have some morals!