My lover insulted me

I am a widow who fell for a man whom i thought was like my wonderful late husband. We went to a restaurant,while in the cue,this so called lover learn onto my shoulder from behind and said,"woof" then tapped my shoulder and said,," no i didnt meen it your lovely really" I am 46 he is 80 but he reminded me of my husband.I was so upset i told him off and cried.Should i apologise to him as i did tell him firmly not to insult me.