Should we break up?

ok im with a guy i love deeply...we were together before but he left me for someone else...we recently got back together and he is living with me..and wen i say recently i mean in the last few weeks..but we dont have sex all that often. the last time we had sex was about 5 days ago and he dint come. the last time he did come (with me anyway) was a week and a half ago. forgive me if i'm wrong but that is not normal is it? shouldnt we be totally engrossed in one another for another while at least yet?? i have spoken to him about this but he is under the impression that nothing is wrong. all i get are excuses "im not well" "im too tired" and other lame reasons. im about ready to cut my losses and break up with him. unless some wise person out there can help me????? oh and by the way it was his decision to leave the other woman to come back to me. i did not force his hand in any way so i know he wants to be with me. but im not sure he "fancies" me that much. im left feeling that all we have is a closer than is normal friendship instead of a relationship. i sometimes wonder if im too ugly or just plain not good enough for him. its really putting a strain on me. any suggestions??

I dont mean to sound rude but i think he got dumped by this other women and thought he'd just have you back. i say get rid of him n get a new guy. xxx

Hi MANDIE in my experience people who went out before and split up and got back together again never work out...it sounds like he still madly inlove with the other woman i mean his with you now becasue he got no where to go and he need somebody to cry on... If i were you talk to him and be honest to each other if you really want to stay together..

yeah/yeah

Hi, Angel here, I know exactly how you feel. My man only has it off with me once a week, if im lucky. We are very in love. hes very faithful and isnt cheating on me.Sometimes we dont even do it once a week, sometimes he goes for two weeks without it. It could be his age, or me constantly tellin ghim hes crap at it, cos he doesnt touch me properly during it. he is also 20 years my senior, which is 50. I personally think my man is a lazy arse. In your case, I think your man must think hes got his cake and is eating it. The reason he may not be at it with you may be hes still at it with her. The ex. I would be suspicious personally. And i could never forgive my man ever if he cheated on me, orslept with someone else on a break from each other. Id dump him. Hoever, i understand that you love him, and that would be hard to do. So my advice to you is, you seem to be getting it enough to me. And the more you trust him and build up his confidence in the bedroom, the more likely he is to orgasm. I personally find oral sex always works for a man.