Problem with his ex

I have been goin out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now when we first got toegther he had split up from his ex of 2 years only 4 months before. I find it hard to beleive he has got over her so quicky and i hate the fact that he might still think about her, i have asked him and he says he doesnt i saw a picture of her yesterday and she is exactly the same height as me same hair and maybe a little slimmer than me.I guess im jealous of what they had but cant stop thinking about his ex i dont want to break up beacause of it and not even sure why i feel like i do.Could anyone give me some sort of advice

think about it, he must like you alot more other wise he would still be with his ex. and dont worry if you look similar he just has a type of girl that he goes for. i likes you not his ex. if you carry on like this he'll get pissed off with it and break up with you so snap out of it (p.s sorry if that seems harsh)xx

thank you yeah i guess you are right it isnt harsh its true.i need to realise what i have got.

I understand how you feel. I have a problem as my fella, has one ex wife, a string of girlfriends before that, then after the ex-wife,2 serious girlfriends who were tall, dark with long dark hair and slim etc and beautiful, who he loved. ALthough he says he goes for blondes, all his women have been brunette, including me. I am exactly like the 2 girls, except i am not tall, and not dead skinny like them. He still has their photos in a cupboard secretly hidden away.He says compliments about them, but never about me hardly. I find this insulting. I think he replaced the first girlfriend with a copy of her, and then went on to me, another likeness to her, on some level. I feel I am the next in a long list. And I wouldnt mind but he is 50 and i am 30. He is lucky to have me, but he seems to think I am lucky to have him. I feel i am constantly competing on some level with the previous women. I would feel alot happier if I didnt know he had these pics of them. He doesnt even keep my valentines cards or anything. It feels like he still wants or loves them,or at least the first one. He says he loves me, and we have been together for 4 years, but i feel like a shadow of his ex. if you see what i mean. I feel like hes going to dump me when I get too old for him, which is basically any time soon. Anyway, as for yourself, my advice would be see how it goes really, and listen to your instinct. He will stay with you if he truly loves you, and will want to spend as much time as possible with you. Or you could give him an ultimatum, and make him choose once and for all between you and her. Good luck hun. angel

Guess you are right and im sorry to hear that about your boyfriend thing is he is with you not them he must love.sometimes ex's are much better looking but hey thats how it is im affraid.Talk to him about how you feel he may not even realise how he is making you feel. Good luck huuni Helen