Dread seeing our neighbour

Myself and husband have been living in a rented house for 22 months and we live next to a woman who lives alone. my husband and me were once arguing and she knocked on the wall. we can hear her sometimes in her house but other times she is really quiet and then I feel like we should be like that, not that we make much noise but its not away to live. we have never met her nor do I know what she looks like thou I did see the back of her head in her garden. she was once driving pass us and I looked the other way and I wanted to tell my husband to as well but our kids were in the car and they might of wondered why I would say that. they don't live at home with us but don't know she knocked on the wall. My husband said he did not look at her but I wouldn't be surprised he didn't just to see what she looks like. he as looked at other women when he as been with me but he denies he does. I know there are pretty women out there and he will look like I do with men but my husband looks longer then he should which is disrespectful to me. I was even wondering if this woman could be a ex of his but this would be one in a million chance if it did happen. Im worried when my husband goes out and he might see her and I just know he will look even thou she knocked on our wall and he tells me he wont and is not interested in her. also he is married to me so if he looks at her she would be thinking what kind of a man he is do that to me. I look after myself and try to make the most of what ive got. This woman also too in a parcel for us and we cannot believe she did even thou we have nothing to do with her. we forgot to leave a note on the door to say leave any parcels in the back garden and we were away when the parcel was left with her. we have never bothered to collect it nor as she tried to deliver it to us or leave it on our doorstep. we assume she hasn't even took it to the post office so they can deliver it to us so that makes her a thief. why would she take it in for us and its been 4 months so she must know we want nothing to do with her so what kind of a person is she to keep it on us.

Hi, I think to stop all this overthinking you need to go knock on her door, introduce yourself and collect your parcel (if it’s still there) or find out where it is, if you really want it. You don’t have to be friends with your neighbours, just be civil and maybe say hi if you see them. That’s it. It sounds like she could be shy or likes her own company, both is fine.