Silence

Ive know this guy for the past 3 yrs and we always knew that we wanted to be together. this yr march we finally made the decision to be together and things got serious from the onset and he even proposed. He introduced me to his family and evryone around his circle and told them his intentions about me. I however asked him that we take things a bit slow and see how things go until the end of the yr and he even suggested we go for pre-marital councelling which I agreed to. My family knows about him and my son is crazy about him. But the begining of July he withdrew completely from the relationship and doesn''t take nor return my calls or messages. He ignores me completely and woudn''t tell me whats happening. I decided to give him his space to work out whatever issues that are bothering him. But do I still wait and hope he''ll come back and things will go back to normal or do I just move on and forget about him? what will actually cause a guy to suddenly do this when nothing was wrong with the relationship and we were perfectly happy? please advice

Hey Kea, Hm, I agree it's a strange sudden move on his part. The relationship started out pretty fast -- getting proposed and meeting his parents -- wow! I really don't know what has been going on with him, there may be many reasons -- but if I really loved him, I would just wait for him to come back and see what happened from there. If you're desperate, ask one of his family members or drop by his house to see what's going on. There's not much I can really say about this situation, but I do hope he turns around sometime soon!